So there's this girl who I met two weeks ago. She's about to go back to school in another town by the weekend. We were texting and she said "our private jokes will be missed."
This kinda disappointed me as I was hoping for her to say she would miss me and would want to see me again. Should I tell her I like talking to her and will miss her and want to see her again ?
Or is it apparent that she does not fancy me in that way and does not like me that much. Which is why she deliberately said "our private jokes will be missed" as a way to keep it non-intimate and as a sign of disinterest.
TL;DR So my Ex and I didn't talk for a bit after the break up. Shortly after we began talking about 3 weeks ago she suggested a friend's with benefits relationship because she still wanted a sexual relationship. She took the words right out of my mouth. After 2 weeks I found out one of her prior Ex's and her started fucking around again. I didn't think much of it originally. She's not dating him so there's no commitment When I asked her the other day where were stood she said she didn't know. What should I do? How should bring it back up?
Edit: In case there was confusion on what I'm asking. I'm confused because she originally said FWB but after her other Ex entered the equation her stance changed to idk. I'm confused on what to do with this.
Last July I (21F) started seeing a guy let’s call Noah (21M). I met Noah whilst he was visiting my country and we went on a couple of amazing dates. I fell head over heels immediately. Once he left he didn’t make the effort to keep in touch. I on the other hand couldn’t stop thinking about him & found myself flying up to see him a few months down the line.
This is where it gets complicated, when i flew up to see Noah I spent the weekend at his but i felt off the whole time. He took me out with his friends and we acted like a couple the whole time without putting a label on it which made me feel used. I lashed out by being more quiet which led him to feeling used. He ended up ghosting me for about three months after a massive falling out as soon as i left because of this.He messaged me back around Christmas just apologizing and telling me he missed me & we ended up getting back in contact. I had already booked flights up for work in his country and we decided to see each other on the weekends where i was free. This happened quite a few times and during it we decided to stop sleeping together because i was developing feelings and he wasnt ready for a relationship.
I was there for the last time last weekend and we met for a date, we immediately went back on saying we wouldn’t have sex and did and he confessed to having feelings for me. We decided to take things slow and see where they go and had an amazing day. I left for home last Monday and I hadnt heard a word from him since, no texts no answering to calls nothing. He finally texted yesterday saying he would call later during the night & I waited for his call and he never did.
I dont know what to do anymore, he’s a very distant person and has always told me he struggles with communication through social media but I’m not sure if this is struggling or just having no interest. I feel like he knows he has the upper hand in the power dynamic and thinks he wont lose me so he’s doing the bare minimum. I just dont know what to do at this point, or if I should even bring it up with him again.
I (32M) work with this woman (38F) and I asked her out a few years back. I was pretty shy and had no game back then, and she turned me down. I've since improved a lot (confidence, body, game, etc), and there's been some tension between us for the last few months.
She's been pushing me to cook for her, but I wasn't interested in being "used" (I thought she wasn't into me), so I never took it seriously. Eventually I realized she may have been hitting on me, she suggested to go out for breakfast and I finally asked her. We went, had breakfast, and later that day, I asked her to my place; she quickly changed subject, which I took as an obvious "no". She also invented some BS about her kitchen being damaged, so she really didn't want to be alone with me.
I've been detached ever since given I don't want to waste my time on her. And she's been coming after me... she offered me to drive me to the supermarket (without me asking), brought me food to the office, etc. I thought I may have misinterpreted the situation last time, and one more time, she said I owed her to "cook for her" and breakfast. I told her let's go for both (breakfast and food at my place), and she immediately asked me out for breakfast the next morning.
Again, we went out for breakfast this morning. Things were going well until she said "oh, I saw our coworker Michelle walking by and asked her to join us", and that already pissed me off. Later, while standing up, I stood closer to her, and she pulled away... obvious body language. Finally, on our way back to the office:
ME: so, do you want me to cook XXX for you?
SHE: would you? sure!
ME: cool! I can't tomorrow (Friday), but I can have you over on Saturday.
SHE: oh wait... let's do it next week... we need to check our agendas... in either case, there this a wine-and-food here during this weekend...", trying to get me to take her there.
Ok, I'm feeling like a moron. I feel like she's just toying with me, and I'm getting a little tired of this game... Should I just go out with her one more time? She isn't exactly miss universe nor does she have tons of options, and I wasn't really interested in going out if it wasn't for the fact she's showing interest and actively telling me to take her out, but then she does this, twice now....
wtf is wrong with the situation??? My gut feeling tells me to ignore her and forget about her, which I'm sure she'll take as "see? he just wanted an easy chick!". Funny thing is, she keeps doing this, and then in private complaints to her best friend that "there's something wrong with her"... no kidding, what else am I supposed to do? Sign a prenup before going out lol?
Hi all, I need some advise as the subreddit goes. I (20M) recently met a girl (20F) on tinder a few weeks ago. I will avoid any names and just use a generic Me&She/Her.
We have met up a few times and gotten pretty busy at her place and we text constantly through the day. We joke with each other and generally have good conversation and a laugh. My problem is, I don’t think I feel anything for her. I feel as though I am still seeing her because I like the idea of having someone more than I actually, bluntly put, like her. I don’t know what to say to her as I feel like now she will get the idea I used her for sex and it is not the case at all. I don’t know what I’m asking for, maybe opinions from people who have felt the same and how they approached it, I guess, as well as how to approach and end this myself.
I know fully that I am still speaking to her more for the idea of having someone in general than having someone I feel for.
My friend set me up with her guy friend from work last week. I wasn’t expecting anything to come from it, but we REALLY hit it off right away, spent the whole night together and ended up sleeping together. The next day, he added me on instagram, snapchat, and texted me making some inside jokes we had already. It’s been a week since, and we have a date planned tonight (both busy w work) and have been texting ever since that night.
Over text this week, he’s called me baby, as well as made a couple future plans with me (a week or two from now), as well as invited me to watch his basketball game.
My suspicion is that it’s too good to be true.. Does this guy just want a relationship really badly? Are these all red flags that he’s moving fast? He did seem to be into my personality and we meshed really well, so I could be overthinking. My friend said he hasn’t been hooking up with anyone and his last serious girlfriend was a year ago.
Tried Craigslist didn't work got rejected many many times even specified I was looking for one night stands / FWBs and still got rejected when they saw my picture. Tried tinder got lots of matches but no one wanted to send me messages and the messages I got were subpar compared to some I see other women get on other subreddits. Things like "hi" or "hey" which made me feel REALLY bad.
For reference I am approximately 5'2. And weighed around 90 lbs when I was using tinder. I am around 107 lbs now. I am Caucasian / can pass for Latino.
I've seen uglier women get dates so I don't understand what is wrong with me. It can't be my personality if men rejected me over a couple of pictures. I don't even want to date anymore. At first I wanted to. But now I just want sex. I'm really horny and masturbation isn't helping anymore.
Actually one of the men from tinder came to my house and refused to have sex with me. Maybe I was too forward but who can blame me after not having sex for that long. He decided to storm off and leave my house before that the act while I was straddling him so he just carried me to the door with him while I still had my legs around him and off the ground.(Remember I am super skinny)
I feel really hopeless at this point. I don't know what to do. I even lost my virginity to a prostitute when I was 23. I don't have money for that right now.
And please don't tell me to use Reddit to find some one. Please don't send me messages. I ALREADY TRIED THAT WITH THE OTHER TWO SITES. AND THEY ALL REJECTED ME.
Anyways is there anything I can do that's left? Or is it time to commit suicide because I can't live like this anymore.
I've tried "working on myself". But at which point is enough enough? Im already at a healthy weight. I'm a short but normal height. Im scared if I wear too much makeup they will find out I don't really look like that without it after I take it off and leave me which leads me to my original question???
I have never even been on a date before. So I will never know if what I've learned is BS or not. But it will still affect me. To give an example:
A girl I am dating asks: "I want to wait before we are having sex. At least 5-6 dates..." My training kicks in: "Alpha fucks, beta bucks. She has no problem bending the rules for the right guy. Like a handsome man from tinder! But I must wait for scraps!"