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I went through the contact list in my phone just now, and there’s seriously at least 10 guys who regularly want to see me every 2-3 weeks.

I mean I’m guessing it’s more of a friendship thing, right, since that’s just not enough time or effort if you actually want to be dating someone. That’s like seeing them 1.5x per month.

Should I cut these guys off? I mean I guess I like them as friends but there’s no way I’d actually consider seriously dating a man that I only see 1.5x per month on average. (A serious relationship is my goal, by the way.)

I just don’t understand what the point is for these men to avidly want to continue to hang out, but not very often? It’s not like we are hooking up. I guess they see me as a friend? Where do I go from here & why does this happen so much?

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We have known each other forever but neither of us were ready and we knew it. We finally came back together when we were both ready. Sex was amazing. Then I got pregnant and was sick and tired all the time. He says he shut his emotions down because of that. It’s been a year and we have had sex 2 times. He doesn’t even get aroused by looking at me. A notification popped up for half naked girls on Instagram saying his request has been approved. He denies he requested and says it was hacked. I try so hard and nothing in return I’m afraid he’s emotionally cheating. I don’t know what to think!? Is this normal

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My cousin and I are pretty close, and lately me and this girl she happens to be friends with have been liking each other's Instagram posts. She is super cute, and I wanted to see if my cousin would want to see if the friend is interested in going out with me some time. What is your opinion on this, and what do you think would be the best way of going about this? I was thinking of asking her if her friend is seeing anybody, and if not then to ask her if she would could try and set us up if the friend is interested. Maybe even try and set my cousin up with one of my friends to entice her to go through with it lol

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Hey everybody, need a little help here since I am heavily depressed and been depressed for quite a while.

I met a girl online and have been interested in her for 7 months, the amount we had in common aswell as our differences really sparked my interest since its something I never expected. Shes gorgeous and we had many long skype calls (7 hours + for days and days), video calls, sexting,etc.

Things havnt worked out and I never got the chance to meet her.

Its really difficult for me to move on from the breakup. Without sounding superficial since I fell in love with her personality the most. The loss of not being able to meet her, and have a sexual relationship also the idea of myself not being able to find someone better is haunting me.

You see we really built an incredible sexual tension throughout the 6 months and were going to meet soon (the anxiety of meeting was not the reason of breakup, infact it was just a huge argument), I cant seem to let her go because I feel like I lost such a chance to have great sex with her.

Not only that but she was the splitting image of my dream girl, shes incredibly beautiful and I her personality made her so much more attractive

Any advice on how I can get over the fact that I wont be with her? Never have sex with her or might never find a girl as good as her since what she had is very rare? (im also 25 if it helps)

Any help is really appreciated since I am having alot of depression rn

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I live in sweden and have gone with the same girls in school for 10 years now and i havent got into any good relationships so im wondering where can i meet new girls and not come of as a creep when i come forward. Btw i live in sweden where talking to strangers at public places is like is the creepiest thing u can do

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Like if you’re not normally attracted to heavy women but got to know one and wound up in love with her no matter what she looked like?

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I just walked out of my dorm to go to the gym and I saw me ex leaving out of a new room. Turns out that the room they walked out of belongs to her new boyfriend. I heard them laughing and saw them kissing. I ended up sneezing and the guy turned around and saw me. He then put an arm around her and they quickly walked out fast. That guy is still annoyed at me because I told him to dump her because she cheated on me and abused me.

How do I stop feeling hurt about seeing her with another man? I don't miss the cheating but I do miss the times we had together. We used to play video games, go to concerts, travel and even got a cat together, which she has with her new bf.

TL;DR: how do I [21M] stop feeling depressed about seeing my ex girlfriend [21F] with her new boyfriend [23M]?

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I am 22f and he is 25m.

Well I feel like a dummy but I am a good person so this is why I am the way I am.. I am trying to stick my neck out and see if there is a good side to this guy I am talking to. I want him to like me and give me a chance but he is very focused on sex. I have known him for a while now, we have been talking off and on, also we live in two different countries. We have been skype buddies. He told me that he loves me (I don't think he really does, why would someone lie about this, I think it is a serious word not something to be thrown around lightly) and that he wants me so so bad, but his actions do not match his words. I have explained to him that yes, sex is very important to me as well, what can I say I love sex, but only in monogamous, LTR relationships. So yes him and I have discussed what we both like to receive and give in terms of pleasure and sex, but I want to have more normal convos with him but he is really bad at carrying a conversation, or he is just choosing not to. He is very eager to talk about sex but anything else? I'll type like a paragraph and he will give short responses, like two to three words, throw a "haha" in there, like c'mon man.

He says that he loves that I am so beautiful, gorgeous, hot (whatever), he thinks I am much more than just a good person (I've shared my altruistic experiences with him many times), he says I am an angel, too good to be true, he would love to meet me and take me on a nice date, but he brings up sex too much. He also wanted to know the number of people I have slept with, he knows I have used Tinder when I was younger. I'll be honest my number is more than 10, less than 20, I was a little wild lady when I was 19yrs old. (He has had his fair share of sex partners too! he is a big pervert!) But I have grown out of that phase very quickly and nowadays I seek only sex as a bond of trust/love with someone. I'm 100% celibate when I am single. I want to eventually get married and have a family, this is my main goal in life, and I have told him this as well. Every time I get mad and stern with him, he apologizes and gets all mopey, then I am sucked back in, then instead of improving his behavior he just switches to hypersexual again and asking me details about my tinder encounters from 3 or 4 years ago. Honestly I have repressed a lot of it for the sake of my mental health, repressing it helps me tons!! Him asking me this crap, asking me to dig up old memories that are just fragments of my former self, well it's really messing with my head. I was crying this morning because of it. I think if he actually loved me he wouldn't do this yeah? does he sound sadistic at all? My friend (who is in a very successful LTR with a slightly older gent) said if a guy is really interested in you he won't ask for your number of sex partners. They won't even want to know. Should I cut contact with this guy? I hate ghosting people, is there a nice way to go about it?

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He's said something similar 1.5 years ago when we first met on a group holiday and he didn't follow up then. So I think these are just some words he likes to say but after parting don't actually carry weight. So like, i wonder if i'd be pushing something lackluster down the road if i tried to initiate contact vs. waiting to see if he's actually motivated to do so myself. then again, it's pretty easy to talk myself out of trying.

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Hey, I have just finished high school and have 3 months of holidays before I go to uni/ college. I’d like to start hanging out with more people and start dating someone (I’ve never been in a relationship) I wouldn’t say I have an outgoing personality, I’m quite shy around new people but enjoy being around others. Over the past few years i haven’t hung out with girls but recently have had a crush on a girl in one of my classes, I haven’t talked to her much so she probably has no idea I like her. I’m thinking about trying out tinder, having checked it out briefly I saw that there’s a lot of students from a local uni. I’m just unsure what to do at this point. Any tips? Thanks.

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