I get asked all the time, how do I recognize the signs or symbols from spirit? What do they mean? What are they trying to tell me? These are all good questions and I am going to break this down as easily as I can so that you can understand this much better and most of all make it simplistic. Now when we are reading our clients, often we can try hard to interpret that sign or symbol that spirit is giving us because they are not meant for us to interpret but rather deliver the message directly as we received it and it may make more sense to the client and if not, sometimes later it will make more sense to them.
Understanding the Signs:
You are at work and you decide to take a smoke break outside. You are financially worried, and you feel that your job is currently bringing you down energetically. It’s affecting you at home because you often come home grumpy. So while outside you see a red robin pass you by quickly. Then you look at your watch and it’s 11:11. First of all, consider where you saw this sign or symbol. Think in terms of LOCATION. That is important, where were you when you saw that sign or symbol. Next, think of what you were feeling in that exact moment or what you have been feeling about that place you frequent. Are you starting to see the connection? Let me break it down further for you. The COLOR of the bird you saw was RED!!! Some of you may be saying, Yeah and so what? Well that is IMPORTANT!!! DUH!!!! Do you really think it was a coincidence you saw a RED bird? Of all the colors of the rainbow why was it red? Now, Red is the color of love, strong emotions, anger, passion, relationships, bonds, bloodline, etc. Now that we know what Red symbolizes, we can determine we were at work and we have issues at our job. The bird doesn’t stay for long and flies north of you. Pay attention to the direction that the bird flies in. If it stayed at the job, spirit could be telling you several things like you need to love your job more. Or that you may be exaggerating and people at work love you for who you are. If the bird flew away it was pulling your energy symbolically away from the place. As to say that you will find what you love to do AWAY from there. So if you had been praying and asking for a sign, there is you sign. The fact that the bird flew north, east, west, or south means that the job you are looking for is away from the place you currently work at. Does this all start to make more sense to you. The 11:11 means that your ascendant masters and angels are working with you to help you. It also was 11:11 because that is how spirit knew they would get your attention.
This is like a crossword puzzle and you must put the pieces together. Just because you are a clairvoyant or a clairaudient does not mean that spirit is going to be showing you visions or talking to you telepathically.
Now let’s say that you are home and had a breakup recently that you are recovering from. You still think about your ex. You want to truly hear from them and all you can do is think about the good times. There is a lot of good energy between you still even though you both agreed to breakup but deep down inside you now have regrets. You could be looking at a stuff animal he bought you at the carnival when you both went last year. In that split moment you get a text message and low an behold….it’s HIM!!!! What the What? Did you manifest this? Possibly, but more importantly you were intuitively tuning in and spirit gave you a symbol/sign (Something tangible) to look at in that split second which triggered good memories of love.
Nothing is coincidence and I will reiterate that. So regardless of where you are at, what you are doing…our spirit guides are always giving us signs but some of us are just oblivious to what we just saw, heard, felt, tasted, etc. Why did this happen precisely in the home and not at work, the store, or in your car? The reason this didn’t happen in those places is because a home is symbolic of Family, Unity, the HEART. Ever heard of that phrase that Home is where the heart is? Perhaps you both had lovely BBQ’s, parties, a wedding, at the home. This is your nest of love, the place where you both created happiness. Therefore it had to happen here. This was a sign of hope, because the fact he messaged you means that he was still thinking of you, just as much as you think of him.
The next time you see what you think of a sign. Think of what is going on in your life in that moment, your location, what you felt, what was the last thing you were thinking of. You won’t always be able to piece the signs together but if something stood out like a person, place, thing, remember it all has a meaning and purpose.
For those of you who are struggling with the loss of your unborn baby or have lost a baby whether it made it full term or died shortly after giving birth, or even losing a young child my heart goes out to you first and foremost. It is one of the most painful experiences someone can ever endure and there are so many fears and insecurities that cross mom and dad. Mothers usually grieve the loss and feel guilty or responsible or they could have done something to prevent this from occurring. The first thing I want to say is that we don't have control over anyone's passing. It all occurs as it should and even though it may seem unfair or cruel to us because we are human beings here on earth this is one of the hardest things to endure. There's a lot of questions as well such as if a woman has a miscarriage was their a soul in the baby and what happened to it. Yes there was a soul even if it was a few hours in your womb or months. A soul was assigned to this mom to be to be born. However, the soul of this child either chose to not be born because it was not the right time for the parents, or the child will be born at a later time to the same parents (soul recycling), the stay was temporary but had some impact on all the family sometimes causing partners to split up to be with other soul families or bring them closer together. The soul of a miscarriage may also had to go through this temporary visit for karmic reasons. The soul of the baby may be called back as well if it knows the parents will not be together long term. Meaning some people are not married when this happens. Some are married but have existing issues leading up to the birth. A soul may choose not to be born because the birth could result in complications leading up to the passing of the mother during childbirth and it's not her time to leave this physical world because she has a family already and other children who need her. You have to understand the possibilities of why souls stay for longer or shorter periods of time on earth all depends on the souls evolution. How many lessons it has learned. You also have to remember most souls, have been here many lifetimes so although this is a new body or new baby growing inside of you, the soul has no age only lifetimes. It's not governed by a number like we define ourselves here on earth. We use time here on earth. It time does not exist in the spirit world. All unborn babies/infants souls go straight to heaven. The souls of children who pass at a young age may decide to stay here as earthbound spirits to watch over the family. They may not realize their family has moved on but they always have their personal angel from the other side there with them. Sometimes they are allowed to stay with their parents or cross over but usually they don't stay in a period for a long time as they will cross over to reconnect with their family in heaven. If an earthbound child stays behind they may give you signs like move their toys, you may hear a child's cries, giggles, laughter, handprints or footprints, see their shadows, or other experiences. Unborn babies and young children do not feel any pain even if their passing was a result of traumatic event. These souls may come up in readings and these souls if they stayed on the other side to watch over their parents on earth they can grow in heaven. Sometimes in a reading a medium/psychic may see the miscarriage or know if occurred as they could see the child in spirit or a fetus if it was a baby. Sometimes they will see colors of the gender even if the parents didn't know what would have been the gender of the baby. So let's say you lost a pregnancy due to miscarriage the child was never born but they can continue to grow in the other side so if a reader tells you they see a little girl of 5 years it could be 5 years since the child's passing or it could have been 2 years but the child has grown in the spirit world or presented themselves to a psychic or medium in this manner to let you know they are fine and okay. Remember the soul has really no age or number yes it may be an old soul but it can show itself any the way you would connect to or understand. It's not rare for mothers or fathers to see the child or have an unborn baby appear as a toddler or slightly older version in their dreams. Some parents may recognize this soul to be their child, while others may not have a clue until a reader points this out. If you've experienced the loss of a child know that they are okay and with you. We all transform and will connect or reconnect with them at some point. Be strong and know you are loved.
I guess it was in my early 20’s that I was pushed into the real world of responsibilities and work and began my journey that I realized that empaths like myself and many of you out there are magnets to damaged people and dark energy. It wasn’t until I was in a chaotic call center with over 500 + employees did I realize the magnitude of the negativity that lingers in job places. Although we have tools to protect us when you are in such a large space for 8 hours a day or longer, it starts to take a lot of your energy.
I survived working in such a place for 8 years and during my time there I was constantly sick. I remember getting walking pneumonia the first month after starting in this place. I was surrounded by co-workers who did whatever they wanted. Gossip was every corner and bosses and employees crossed lines that were forbidden in the employee handbook. Perhaps you can say this applies to most places, you will always find some select group or click that thrives on negativity.
What I didn’t realize was why so many people came to me to talk about their problems or just stir up a random conversation. I always pushed myself away from this and tried to avoid being caught up in these drama infused places but in certain ways I learned a lot about myself. I was the one person who people would go to for answers about work too, finding solutions and ultimately sacrificing going to the bathroom and holding it in (TMI) to just finish a report, to finish projects that had deadlines.
In a call center you can move from one team to another, you can move up and so your supervisors and management is constantly changing as much as polices and metrics do. These places are full of low vibrations not only do you endure abuse from clients who are seeking credit on their phone bill or wanting the latest phone for free because now days, many have this sense of entitlement to everything on earth. I’m surprised we are not charged for breathing, better not jinx myself.
I moved up in the company and was a senior business analyst and had various people I reported to. I remember when the company was changing in management groups one person looked for any imperfection in my work ethic to get rid of me. I had insane deadlines given and tasks that made no sense. I was one of the hardest workers but the thing they did not like or appreciate was my ability to see past their bullshit. I faced criticism, while I did most of their work for them and they took the credit. Many bosses out there love to do that to their employees. I was positioned in a place near everyone so that they could come to me for help instead of going to the managers who were the ones actually paid to provide support but rather sat and gossiped and did many other things that they shouldn’t have. Many people would probably ask themselves why didn’t you look for another job being that I am a college graduate with a degree in business. The answer to that was that I did, but in the town, I live in, it’s not what you know but who you know. Many hire from within but for legal reasons must advertise their job postings but never plan on hiring anyone from the outside. Sometimes there are exceptions but that is rare.
The call center ended up closing down and they chose to move all jobs overseas because the pay is cheaper and they save money. Long story short, I learned that when you are an empath/sensitive you will always encounter negativity in the work place. It’s like a plague and sometimes unavoidable. I moved into retail and worked at a famous craft retailer and the same patterns occurred. I was laughed at for sweating profusely while doing things like pushing carts outside, stocking aisles and getting paid minimum wage. I saw my boss verbally castigate other employees and make fun of a handicap part time employee behind his back. I called my boss out and told him that was not right and did my best to help my handicap friend. He was a good soul. I had many customers come into the store daily and tell me when I was doing cashiering that I didn’t belong in this job, I was better than this. I was good at cashiering and I did understand where they were coming from but like many of you ask. Was I at where I was supposed to be? The answer is yes, I was already aware of my abilities and spirit told me this was part of my life lessons and lessons as an empath to be in different types of work and to use this knowledge.
Many people feel as if what they are currently doing is not perhaps where they should be and while this is true, nothing is a coincidence. We are all where we are supposed to be for a purpose. As empaths you will have many experiences in your work place that are negative, unethical, and even dramatic but do what is right always. That is one thing I always did, I always made the right choices and kept a smile on my face while doing my work. I found each place I worked, I loved my job and what I did but eventually had to move away from that to embark on my true path. Along the way I felt lost at times and wondered if I would ever truly be happy and I finally found that.
Our work environments can really change you as a person and make you hard on the inside and also dark. It’s up to you to take your light and wrap that around you in the place you work at, regardless of how horrid the conditions are and know that they are temporary, and you can find something else. I eventually did and I’m happier now than what I have ever been.
A jealous employee is going to show their jealousy and use it towards you because either they feel insecure of their own job, they want to move up at any means, they want to be as close as to the boss as they can be even if that means being the most hated person. Their goal is control and power. Once they have it, they go on a power trip. However, their own demise is that they will use their control in such a way that their true intentions will be unmasked. Don’t feed into their negativity but rather keep a paper trail of everything. Document in your own journal things that are occurring.
Watch out for the narcissistic employees who are full of gossip, always blaming their problems on others in the office and never take accountability for their mistakes. These are energy vampires and often love to dump all their problems at home and at the work place on an empath looking for energy to feed on. Empaths are like a buffet to them.
Slackers are the ones who are lazy and do nothing or do the bare minimum just to say they did something. They often allow the ones who apply themselves to do the hard work and pick up after them, especially if your work structure and chain of command is team work. Don’t worry these people usually get exposed and you should focus on your job.
I could go on, but I wrote this article with the premise of letting many who will read this, to know they are not alone. I have been there and have experienced many of the things listed here and things I will not mention because they are just too many. Wear amulets of protection, keep crystals in your pocket or desk if allowed, sage yourself after work, pray, meditate and keep distance from negative people and energies as much as you can.
If all else fails and you still are unhappy about your current job, start searching while you are still employed and keep looking. You will find something you like and that is right for you. One tip to go by that I learned after the experiences I had was to feel the vibe you get when you are interviewed. Not just by your boss but the workplace. Feel the energy and if it feels wrong, no matter how much pay you are going to receive, expect nothing but a negative experience and bad energy to follow. Often, we can avoid these types of jobs if we only listen to the energy and feel it and not be led by the pay rate or benefits. That is a huge trap for many.
Don’t live your life full of regrets or doing something that makes you feel dead inside but rather reach for your dreams and goals. The universe will help you along the way.
I chose to write this because while many still don’t believe in the POWER of witchcraft it is very real and is often used by men and women to hold onto someone who they want for themselves for whatever reasons. Sometimes they have feelings for this person, sometimes the other person is oblivious and has no signs, sometimes they are just there for the money and want to be with this person. Whatever the case is, doing a love spell or going to a witch to have one done is something that has become more common than you think. It’s like a dirty little secret that most won’t confess to but when you come across a psychic, trust me we may not say what you did but know what you did.
Many come to us with love issues and wonder why their relationship is horrible, why they separated, why the other person suddenly stopped loving them. The REAL question is why you felt you could manipulate someone without letting their free will guide them to you? I don’t care what you think after reading this article, you don’t have to agree with me one bit, but it’s WRONG! Plus, there is always CONSEQUENCES for the person who has done the spell which I will cover both. If you are a witch or just dabbling and you do a love spell to call love to you and attract Love this is not what I’m calling out in this article. That is okay because you are just asking the universe and elements to help you bring love or for you to find love. This is more for those who are consciously aware of their actions and taking it upon their hands to stay in a relationship by force or using force to obtain something that is not natural.
Here is a list of things people who want to do a love spell may take from their intended victim. This is just a minimal list but there may be more things that I haven’t listed.
Typically, they will obtain the following:
A personal item belonging to this person such as article of clothing, undergarment, object they useA hairbrush (they use the hair in the brush for their spell)A photograph of the personHandwriting from the person (this could be your signature, letter, anything with your handwriting)Jewelry or Accessories (Watch, earrings, necklace, bracelet, necktie, cuff links, handkerchief, etc.)Tooth brushToenail clippingsBody Fluids (Saliva, fecal matter, and the list goes on) including combining their own body fluids with yours! (TMI I know and fully apologize for this graphic content, but knowledge is power).
Next what they do with these items is to usually use a photograph or poppet in combination with these items. They will use a red string or cord (color of string doesn’t matter) to attach your personal item to the photo or poppet. The poppet represents you. Then they focus their intent and energy on you with a combination of a spell recited to force their victim to only be with them or love them. They use typically red candles because red is the color of love, but they can use different colors. They might have other things on their altar. If they are using a poppet or photograph they will hide this from you as they don’t want, you to see it! They will hide it in a closet, drawer, box, in the shed, garage, or like the older generations would do, have a hole in the ground where they place the objects. They must cover their tracks.
If someone is using a love spell on you, you would feel the following:
Hated or disliked this person initially but now find them fascinating and you can’t explain it but love them.You begin to have nightmares usually this person will be in your dreams, or you may see your loved ones in harm.You will begin to develop severe anxiety and panic attacks (Your body is picking up unnatural spiritual magic being used against you.)You become obsessive about them and think about them even when you don’t want to think about them. You just can’t seem to get them out of your mind.You might be in public and begin to see them in other people or see their face wherever you are.You start drawing away from your closest friends and family members (they might even notice you would always make time to spend with them, but you suddenly have drawn away from them)Arguments with loved ones usually about the person who has done a love spell on them will occur. If you have family members with spiritual abilities, they will feel this union is unnatural and even tell you that they feel that magic is being used against you. You will NOT agree and think it’s just their imagination. Trust me your family may know you better than you know yourself and know that you are not attracted to this type of person.Your relationship is more sexual in nature, but you don’t share any other interests that they do.The witch or person doing the spell may wrap a piece of your hair in their hair or carry it on them.
Other things to watch out for:
Witches who are doing spells on you may seem very friendly to you but every time that you come around them, they want to feed you or give you something to drink (Potions with their own body fluid, hair or just liquids they have hexed are added to the food or drinks. Be very aware and deny the food. Notice their reaction. Many will become offended or subtly change their attitude because they wanted you to take this, so they could essentially “poison and hex” you with continued magic.See they don’t just do this once, they must keep their magic going so they will continue to do this.They might see something new like a new or old piece of jewelry and say that they absolutely love it. You might feel compelled to give it to them, you might be asked by the witch if they can borrow it and that they will give it back to you! BAD IDEA! Don’t do it. Bewitchment can be put on the object and be given back to you.They might tell you that they forgot their jacket or sweater, can they borrow yours.They might ask for your hairbrush or something as simple as something you touched. (They know no limits).
If you suspect that you are a victim of someone’s love spell you can do the following:
Use a Saint Benedictine Medal and wear it always either as a pendant form or in your pocket, purse or wallet. This medal protects against harmful witchcraft, evil, etc. You can also use salt and take a bath with it in a tub. Like Scrubbing yourself (aura) clean from it. You can visit a reiki master to get a healing and remove any cords done. If you have any objects, clothing from this person who used to share space with you…. throw their things away. Get rid of everything even gifts given to you. They might have energy still attached to those objects. If they slept on your bed, wash all the linen and sage your mattress and put a bowl of salt under the bed on the floor. Salt is for purification. If you have a saint Benedictine medal put one in between the mattress and the box spring. Use selenite tumbled stone and put one on each corner of the bedroom to create a barrier of protection.Prayer is very helpful, and you can also wear amulets like the evil eye (Hamsa), crucifix, etc.
No magic is strong enough that it will last forever, this is what witches don’t realize.
As I’ve mentioned before there are consequences for both the person who has done the love spell or if they went to a witch there is consequences for them as well. The universe and Karma always hold you accountable for your dirty deeds. No amount of magic regardless of how powerful you believe you are can help you. When you play with magic you are using spirits, evil entities and more calling upon energy from mother earth to force something that is NOT written.
Here are some things you would experience:
Your victim which you cast a spell upon to love you, stops loving you and now hates you and wants nothing to do with you.
You notice your health is deteriorating (you took energy from sources to force something, now it’s time to pay up. You will notice the universe and spirit begin to take energy from YOU!) It’s an even exchange.Pets may begin to mysteriously get sick and die.Loved ones can develop illnesses (someone who you love deeply in your family, because it’s an exchange of love) this can lead to death in many cases. It depends on how long you have done this for and how many times you did it.You begin to develop nightmares (usually darker ones).You begin to be attacked in your home (seeing dark shadows, lights flickering, smelling a rotten smell, hearing growls.)You may begin to see bugs and maggots in your home. Infestation of some sort will occur. Mice or Rats may begin to appear.Objects and jewelry may begin to break.You could now be the one having panic attacks and feel scared or paranoid.Since the heart is the object of love, you might develop heart issues.Your own loved ones may turn against you and delete you from their lifeYour closest friend’s breakup with you and want nothing to do with you.
This list goes on and one. The key here is to know if you invoke magic to obtain the object of your affection and it’s not natural there is a price to pay. Spirits and the earth is not there to do your bidding but to co-exist. Other magic that is white magic and used to protect yourself, using herbs for healing, does not have consequences. Essentially you are giving back to earth in some form not taking from the earth. There is balance in white magic. A love spell may seem like white magic, but it isn’t. It’s love magic!
For many who haven’t yet awakened or are vibrating on the third dimension of consciousness it can be rather difficult to understand what a Spiritual Medium goes through. Many have a misconception and think that our connection to spirit is simple and that spirit gives us the answers and we share it with you. This is only part of what goes on. We often hear people say, “I wish I had your gift!” The reality is that being a Spiritual Medium has consequences as well. I’m writing this for many of you who have spiritually sensitive children, young mediums, and those of you where are beginning your journey as a medium. Yes, Mediums communicate with the dead. However, I will explain this better. We are like radios and have different channels through which spirit transfers their information to us, using signs, symbols, visions, words, smells, taste, touch, and feelings. As mediums we are like a light bulb and spirit sees this around us and they are attracted. It’s like when you have a porch light on at night. Insects or bugs are attracted to it. Same applies to us.
As we do our sessions we must properly prepare ourselves and open ourselves to spirit. We do that by relaxing our mind. A busy mind filled with worries, focused on what you are preparing for dinner, errands you need to run, and other things will make the connection with spirit weak. You must be relaxed and the key to that is meditation, prayer and grounding yourself before a reading. Remember we are spiritual beings but we are human and have human bodies which are affected by spirit. Meditation helps us establish a connection with our higher self and to push everything else that is extra out. Some listen to music, some sit in a quiet space, some will draw, some will work on breathing techniques, and the list goes on and on. Grounding is also important to protecting yourself and I will explain why. When we are sensitives and have medium abilities, we are prone to attack, being physically ill, and developing unhealthy attachments.
I’ve heard someone in a forum once say, well I’ve been doing this for years and I don’t need to meditate before I read, the trouble with that is that they are not going to be connected with their higher self and the universe so some of their insight might be confusing to them and their sitter (Person receiving the reading). We are not immune to spirit and the energy it requires. Grounding yourself can be done by meditation, it can be done holding a protective crystal, earthing (walking barefoot on the ground), or through prayer. When you do this, you are also needing to ensure you have a good connection with your guides. They will usually talk with you or give you insight. They aren’t necessarily giving us the answers but do help during our session with spirit.
Now after that is done and we start reading for a client, we are channeling info from your passed loved one and our guides to bring forth any other information necessary. As mental or physical mediums we are often feeling DEATH pass through us. Let me repeat that again, we are feeling DEATH and processing it through our body. How can our connection to spirit affect us? It takes our energy, we use our physical energy and allow spirit to work through us. They are on a different frequency than us and we can feel their DEATH! How they died. So, let’s say they passed from a suicide and hung themselves, we might feel severe head and neck pain in our body. If they passed from a heart attack, we would feel pressure in the chest, palpitations, or sharp pains. It’s not our physical symptoms but rather spirit using their energy to make us feel how they passed and from what they passed.
So, it’s that simple right? NO! Every session we do not only uses our energy but taxes our body. So, you might be asking if it’s dangerous why are you in this link of work. The side effects if you protect yourself and open yourself up properly are minimal but we still feel sick at times and prone to getting illnesses more than the average person who is not in tune with their abilities. When you are done with a session it is important you CLOSE properly. What does closing means, it means that when we channel spirits, we open a doorway or gateway to the other side. It is like a little light around us through which spirit can walk in at any given moment. Sometimes what comes through are negative energies as well. This is why we need to close ourselves. This is not to be misconstrued by thinking we can shut off our gift because it’s not. We will always have the gift and it will be there, but you want to shut the door that would allow yourself to pick up spirit anywhere you go.
Because spirit is always around their loved ones, homes, places you visit an etc. To close yourself you can visualize yourself in a bubble of white light, you can visualize a door shut in your third eye, you can say a protective prayer in your own words basically saying, “I now shut all doors to the other side for now, please respect my space.” You can also sage after a session with someone. This will help protect yourself from being susceptible to attachments or etc.
So, when we are in constant contact with spirit but not aware that they are around we can start to develop anxiety attacks, panic attacks. These are signs spirit is around you and tapping at you like if they were at a door knocking. They are trying to tell you that they are there. Many mediums will suppress their abilities and know that there is NO method to completely shut them out and in turn feel anxiety or panic attacks. Also, since we are channeling death, we are more prone to developing heart issues, weight issues, unexplained or chronic pain, and lose sleep. Basically, we can have many other illnesses and even Near-Death Experiences. Some physical mediums don’t live long lives because of this.
As I’ve said there are many ways to manage your abilities through working with stones, tai chi, yoga, meditation, prayer. For those of us who are sensitives and have abilities if you have issues like anger built in, past hurt you haven’t been able to deal with or something traumatic. This can make you more susceptible to spiritual attacks and illnesses. You need to deal with these emotions and protect yourself by following what I outlined above or develop your own list of routines to use. Every medium is different, and every medium will open and close a session however they feel. I am only sharing this as I have been using my opening and closing techniques for some time now, and they WORK! You will notice a change.
For those of you who are sitters, I think this article will give you a better perspective from what we do. If you have a child who you suspect has medium abilities or psychic abilities know that in most cases they are not imagining or suffer from a mental illness. If they tell you they hear spirit, they hear voices, they see things or if they draw this in their drawings, please know this is very REAL! Children often get misdiagnosed and put on medicines that continue to suppress them and hinder their God given abilities. Not every person with natural born abilities will necessary go into this line of work but can use their abilities as a guide to navigate this world. Some say it’s a blessing or curse but essentially you were either born with it or developed it as a latent ability for a purpose. To serve humanity.
If you are a medium who is interested in doing readings, remember to not burn yourself out.
Do only a certain amount of sessions a day. There is always tomorrow. These were wise words that were given to me when I embarked on this journey and didn’t realize until I experienced some minor issues later. You must treat your body as your temple and know without it, you can’t do your spiritual work to the best of your abilities. Set up boundaries at night and let Spirit know that you are going to sleep, this is your space and time and they can go to someone else who is open for business! You’re not being rude but making sure they know how you feel. YOU are in CONTROL! It’s your body and abilities they are using to communicate through. If you have children who have medium or spiritual abilities, give them a night light, give them a flashlight or something that makes them feel protected. Help them by giving them a prayer to say at night. It can be a prayer as simple as praying to GOD, Jesus, or even their Guardian angels and letting spirit know in their nightly prayers that they are not to disturb them and go to someone else who is open.
Educate them that they have nothing to be afraid of and to be empowered. They also would benefit from keeping a dream journal or any journal and release their thoughts and dreams in it. As parents of children with abilities, it might be beneficial for you to do the same, so you can properly release your emotions. It’s not easy, there’s no handbook or manual to prepare for this. Just be a support system and listen.
Many clients have asked me how do we know if we are going to stay earthbound when we transition into spirit. We have heard a lot about earthbound spirits not crossing over to the other side, but we sometimes never stop for a minute and contemplate what causes us to stay trapped here on earth as an Earthbound spirit. More importantly, what steps can you take to prevent from becoming earthbound? So, for those of you who may be reading this and think this sounds all like gibberish as you never have heard of the term Earthbound, I will explain.
An earthbound spirit is a human soul that was once living here on earth and has now died and instead of seeing the tunnel of light so many see, they have decided to stay here on earth because of unfinished business or other reasons I will go into detail with. This doesn’t mean that they did not see the light, many earthbound spirits in fact, have seen the light but fear it.
They fear judgment possibly for bad things they did here on earth and fear what they perceive to be purgatory or hell. They still remember their deeds and fear being held accountable but most of this punishment is self-inflicted and therefore they stay here on earth haunting people or wandering aimlessly in their familiar territories they used to live in.
As I’ve mentioned there are so many reasons they choose to stay earthbound but it’s not a permanent state. Eventually their angels and guides will forcibly remove them to the other side, so they can begin to heal and basically understand their decisions, choices, actions, and everything they have done here in the physical world.
Now what are the chances you will stay earthbound when you pass if that time should come? This is the tricky question but it’s quite simple! Here’s a list of questions to ask yourself.
Did I suffer any emotional, sexual, mental, physical trauma in my life and died without healing that?Do I have any grudges, anger, resentment, that I have not released?Do I have any secrets that I have never disclosed due to fear of being judged?Did I cause anyone else pain and never made amends or asked for forgiveness from this person?
Living here on earth is not easy and let’s face it, not many of us will deal with issues that have happened to us in the same manner. Some of us have been served a cup of tea full of strife, emotional pain and sometimes therapy, counseling, and spiritual healing doesn’t always do the trick. Depending on how deep our wounds are. So, if you are worried about being stuck here after dying you need to take steps while you are alive and not wait until the last minute to address all of this. I know this may sound to some like I’m coming from a place of fear but it’s quite the opposite. I would like to think I am providing you with an awareness that will have you thinking about your current choices, decisions, etc. There’s no right or wrong answers.
Every case is different but for this article I want to provide you with some ways to fix outstanding issues. Many people who are terminal and their families can attest that often, it’s too late to say I’m sorry or make amends with everyone who you hurt or who has hurt you before we pass.
The following is a list of things to do to ensure you have a clear soul that isn’t filled with unfulfilled things.
Make sure you forgive those who hurt you even if you never forget but forgive them.If you hurt someone and wanted to say sorry but this person has passed, moved away, or you have no clue where they are then write a letter to this person asking for forgiveness then burn it. This will send it to the universe and out of you.You want to get everything you have been holding onto like regrets out and address those.Continuously work on yourself and controlling your emotions.Ask for forgiveness to anyone you feel you need it from.Get rid of bad habits that only hinder your life or impact others here.Tie up loose ends and always have a back up plan, if you don’t finish something make sure someone else can carry it out for you.
If you can do these things before passing, you won’t feel as if you have things that are left unfinished. The chances of you crossing over to the spirit realm is higher. Your soul will have known that it did it’s best and learned from it’s mistakes. Take the time you have here and now to make positive changes. When all is said and done, the money in your bank account, the house you and your family fought about, the will that never got found, and the secrets hidden will not matter. What will matter is the good deeds you did here on earth, how many people you helped, what you contributed as a living person here on earth. Use your time wisely and never lose a precious second living your dreams. If you first don’t succeed at something do not stop, instead keep trying to get ahead.
Spirit often visits me at night when I sleep but sometimes I get premonitions of world events before they happen. What I have been experiencing the last couple of nights I have written down in a journal, but I wanted to share this with each of you as well. So, for the past couple of nights I will be asleep and wake up around 2am or 3am and just as I’m about to wake up I hear and feel the earth moving. I know this sounds totally insane to some of you maybe reading this. However, many of you have asked how I get the world predictions and sometimes its visions, sometimes I feel it or see it, sometimes I just know. What I have been feeling is the earth rumbling deep inside and I hear this BOOM! It sounds like a faraway echo that extends for miles.
So, I asked my spiritual guidance team and I got that we need to brace ourselves all around the world. There are going to be some intense catastrophic natural disasters occurring soon. What I felt, and saw is earthquakes increasing even more than they did last year. When I wrote my predictions for 2018 back in December I still felt they were coming but with mother nature you don’t always know when they are going to happen. However, I must say I had the sense of fear in me stirred up with what I felt. So, I get something within the earth Mother Nature herself the core of our planet is going to release much energy into the earth we live on. We are going to notice major earthquakes very soon and there might be tornados soon.
I feel like we are not too far away of witnessing what I felt. I felt as if the tectonic plates were shifting violently and I saw holes opening and streets cracking. I know some parts of the earth have not witnessed strong earthquakes in years, but I don’t feel this happening just here in the USA but in South America and parts of Europe/Middle East. I got that this is something that most of us have not yet seen. I do feel I’m unlocking new parts to my gifts that are now coming to the surface and while this blog is not to incite any kind of fear or panic, just have an emergency kit ready. Have enough food and supplies to last for two weeks or so. It’s always good to be prepared. I know some of you out there have been feeling this coming too. I believe it’s not just me but others out there like me…. some of you as well that would be feeling this. I have been feeling really in a lot of physical pain for the past few days as well. When I begin to feel world events this strong my body tends to feel it too. So, I got that some people might be trapped under rubble like this weight on them.
When earthquakes happen or other violent natural disasters it can cause things to explode like power lines, water lines, weak structures. Always have a back up plan for your family.
A lot of people have been hearing sirens or loud sounds all around the world and not sure what this would be. I am getting these are angels or guardians of the earth emitting a loud frequency also preluding to this occurring. There will be many people asking if this is punishment by the DIVINE. The answer is NO! However, there is too much negativity in the world and the earth is feeling it and absorbing it. It must send shock waves out into the world to release this and sort of bring humanity more together. Think about natural disasters and how some of you may have been in shelters or in places you normally wouldn’t go and around large groups of people. Typically, we live in our own little world, but the universe has ways to unite people, bring people together to heal itself. Friendships and bonds are formed.
Stay tuned to the weather and news. If any of you do come across any earthquakes in the next few days or weeks, please let me know. Blessings to all.
This may be the most interesting blog for many of you out there. This is a subject I don’t like bringing up because there are so many reasons but the main reason as a Spiritualist I have learned that we must respect religion, new age, and basically people of all walks of life and their decisions. However, when does one cross the line between their belief’s and hypocrisy? I must say I have been doing spiritual work for years now and I have come across many people from all walks of life in the spiritual community and Christian community. As many of you know I was born and raised Catholic and slowly that belief system contradicted everything that was in the bible or religious doctrine. My experiences were not documented in the doctrine, I noticed I felt lost with the concept of worshiping in a place of GOD. One day I thought to myself, why do people have to go to church to feel closer to GOD? I kept thinking doesn’t GOD know who we are and where we are. Why do we have to be in church to speak to GOD, can’t he hear me anywhere else? Then I slowly had supernatural occurrences that unfortunately the bible does not cover or go into details. In fact, I felt quite conflicted inside and often found that the bible left people with fear. It was written too in a language that doesn’t make sense in many ways. Religion taught me to question everything I was taught by the church. I slowly broke free from that thinking.
As I got into my 20’s and 30’s I found more that GOD is in each of us. There is a universal power and source but there is also the DIVINE Feminine and if GOD had created each of us in his image that would mean that GOD is also a woman or has a duality in spirituality. Why did GOD have to be a man instead of a woman? What was so special about a man that he created a woman? I mean a man cannot give birth like a female can. Then I saw numerous depictions from Artists and talented people from centuries ago. I studied art for 5 years and I am an artist myself as well. In all the religious pictures you would notice that Adam was created by GOD in his image but, yet no one has lived to see GOD. So how can we have been created in his image if he does not wish for us to be seen? Jesus was supposed to be endowed with all of these supernatural abilities like being able to see GOD who is a spirit, communicate with the DEAD (God who is spirit and also the devil and other spirits), Ability to heal the sick. I kept thinking GOD sounds a lot like a psychic medium and healer. In today’s world he would be considered a prophet, a spiritual medium. Then I read an article by a medium who in fact gave her own beliefs about GOD and doctrine.
On my spiritual path I have had some friends who are Christian and psychic mediums. I had a friend and I use the past tense because I had to break that friendship for various reasons. However, I was really supportive of this person and encourage them to do and follow their path. This person confided in me and was a married Christian. There was a lot going on in their marriage and relationship and the things told to me which I will NOT go into detail were very unchristian like. I still did not judge this person and kept an open mind. They created a forum and I supported them on their journey. Long story short one day while on the forum and helping them and giving some feedback on my own insight one of the members of this group who was Christian and also spiritual attacked me. It was a personal attack and we went back and forth and unfortunately, we had to agree to disagree.
My “friend” who was the creator of this Christian Psychic forum and I had a personal discussion but nothing on their part was done to correct the situation or stop it from escalating. I felt personally attacked because the forum was created in the thought that we were all adults, all mature and we could be open and respect one another without attacking. Mind you I would never attack someone, but I was personally attacked and the tone and words used were so full of negativity that I felt not comfortable. Other “Christians” chimed in and supported this person and basically, I had to end my friendship based on the lack of support and compassion from someone who practiced religion but was spiritual. As painful as it was, I had to break ties because through their religion it was used to attack me. The weeks that followed friends of this person sent me anonymous emails or messages that were just so negative and attacking me. I kept my distance, and this proved to me that religion can be used as the people who stand behind it want to use it. They can dissect bits and pieces and use it to justify their actions.
There are too many stories that we could be here all day but this is one of the reasons I do not believe you can be Christian and Spiritual at the same time. There is a dichotomy between both Christianity and Spiritualism. Why must religion be based on fear and control and why do they judge spiritualists? The values and principles of Christianity dictate that we should not judge one another but rather practice love. However, many who are Christians do not follow that at all. They condemn anything written or documented like being gay, being a witch, being a psychic, being a medium and the list goes on. However, how many of them are committing sins and hurting others with their religion? Wouldn’t the religious organization be considered a cult? Do I believe that every Christian is a hypocrite? Do I believe that every Christian is on a witch hunt? NO! I believe there are many devout Christians who love and are accepting of anyone.
Recently one example of this was a famous spiritual teacher, author, medium, and angel card reader Doreen Virtue. Many people looked up to this person and bought her courses through Hay House, became certified angel card readers, many bought her decks, her books and basically became followers of her. I just became aware and I know I’m behind on this but I had so many things happening in 2017 that I did not get the time to read this. However, I found out she recently turned to a Christian path and denounced witches, mediums, psychics, and anyone on a spiritual path or that uses divination in any form. She also told her followers to turn away from her decks, her ascended masters book and cards as she did not believe in those at all. It no longer resonated with her. This person has built a empire and fortune and what about her followers who paid for the angel card courses and were listed in a reputable directory?
Doesn’t she owe them an apology or is she exempt from this because she is now a Christian? How unfair is this to them? This is why I say Christianity hurts people and those who worked alongside her as peers. Where do they stand and those collaborations that she did with other peers? You could say I’m being biased or I’m being judgmental and full of ego. I do admit I have an ego and for the most part I try to keep it in check because I know I AM not perfect, I don’t have all the answers, and I don’t think I’m better than anyone else. So I went researching on YOUTUBE, and came across numerous videos from people who had an opinion just like I do about her actions. How her new-found path has created hurt within the spiritual community.
I do believe in Jesus, I believe in Mary, I believe in GOD (GREAT SPIRIT), I Believe in the GOD (Mother Earth), I believe in angels, ascended masters, but not because anyone told me to believe in them or because I read about them. I believe that they exist because I have received personal validations to confirm their existence. No the ascended masters are not Demons! People who have spiritual abilities or abilities of discernment are not possessed by demons. If GOD created man in his image, how can we not have spiritual abilities? Why are there other planets in the solar system? Why were there seers and prophets that have made predictions and able to see into the future and without any knowledge know what was going to happen and those events have been validated. Why does the bible not discuss reincarnation when other spiritual cultures discuss this in depth? There are so many documented cases of people recalling who they were and places and knowing even what they looked like and their previous name and having those all validated.
Therefore, the world is the way it is and why so many people in the spiritual community are still in the psychic closet. Why they feel they cannot come out and openly be who they were destined to be. Because they fear persecution, they feel as if their family has been socially conditioned and programmed with their beliefs that anything different is not acceptable. If you really think about it, we are not that far from our ancestors who were involved in the witch hunts of the 1600’s in the USA and across Europe. When people hear the word psychic or medium they immediately think of women and the fact is that the spiritual world has more women awakened than men. However, there are many men who are psychics and mediums but fear that they would be fired from their jobs or considered socially unstable or mental for believing in themselves and their abilities. I personally don’t care what anyone thinks of me. If anything, I pray that other men and women come to accept who they are and know they are not alone. Don’t be afraid to let your light shine and follow your calling.
Many contact me daily and ask me if I’m a Christian? I mean how does that make a difference? Why judge me if I’m a spiritualist and not Christian? Because they are again programmed to fear anything that is not within their own beliefs. I don’t feel in my opinion and many of you may agree but I don’t believe you can be Christian and step into the world of spiritualism without contradicting your path and principles of the teachings you have been taught. There will always be a line driven in the sand. This does not mean you cannot believe in GOD, believe in the word of GOD, or Jesus. It just means, you should not use your teachings to judge others who don’t agree with you and use those teachings to suit you when you feel its convenient.
If you are reading this and are afraid of being who you are, find the courage and strength to do what you feel resonates best in your soul. You are special, we are all children of the Universe and GOD. We are all spiritual beings living a human experience. You were not brought to earth to just live, work, and live in fear and die. You have a purpose and you can still pray, live and love. Many blessings
We all have seen a haunted movie or heard that spirits can inflict harm to the living if they are truly angry or upset. Is there any truth to this? You have to understand that just like there are good spirits, there are a lot of bad spirits. These were either dark souls who lived a very dark path while on earth and have chosen to not cross over into the light. These are earthbound spirits. Most earthbound spirits do not cross into the spiritual realm because they either feel scared that they will be judged on the other side when they cross into the light. The other reason is that they want revenge. If they were murdered or died in a tragic manner, they may also be staying behind because they want revenge on the person who is living and did this to them. Sometimes they stay behind after death because they have living loved ones who they feel need them or they need to get a message across to them before they get their peace. Now that I’ve explained the different types of earthbound spirits, I’m going to focus on the darker energies who can cause harm to the living and how they do this.
Now darker energies or negative spirits have various reasons why they want to cause harm to the living. They either want to send a clear message you are crossing their territory, you’ve done something to draw their attention, they were mental in life and in death still carry this quality, and in some cases you don’t have to do anything…they are just evil and get some kind of sick pleasure of torturing the human souls.
Now energies such as the ones I’m describing in this article can in fact cause different things to occur in your environment and not necessarily cause physical harm. Think of them trying to give you a message that they are present in your home. Most people who have been haunted or live in a haunted house can see the following things occur.
Lights flickerDoors Open and ShutThings are misplacedAnimals are afraid to go into a certain area or bark incessantly at odd hours of the day or nightAnimals are drawn to one area in particular and seem more aggressive but you can’t see what they seeDisembodied voices can be heardApparitionsWeird Stenches or smells (some are the scent of death…decay and rotten or putrid in smell)Scratching or Tapping on the wallsPhone calls but when you are on the line, the other line there is just static or noiseFeeling someone is watching you in your homeFeeling hair pulledFeeling someone is touching youFeeling someone laying next to you in bedFeeling uneasyFeeling headaches, nausea, dizzy, some other sickness that appears mysteriously
The list goes on and on.
Now there are some questions if darker energies can cause illnesses or medical conditions and in some cases death. The answer to this is YES. Some of these may be darker energies and some may be what we call demonic. Here is a list of actual things that can happen when they become more physical
You have dark nightmares, usually someone you love is dying, being killed, but they are still livingYou sometimes notice yourself or your family members in the home seem possessed or besides themselves.Sudden or unexplained arguments and outburst of angerScratches appear on your body and burn shortly after appearing or you wake up with them (Demonic attacks usually result in 3 scratches which look like a set of claws just scratched you. This is to mock the trinity. Again this will all depend on your spirituality and what religious background you had before becoming spiritual in nature….so your interpretation may vary).Waking up with strange bruisesFeeling sick in a certain room or place.Sudden and overwhelming anxiety attacks that seem to intensify in a certain room or only in your home.Waking up or feeling pressure on your chest while laying on your bedSleep paralysis
The thing with darker energies and the demonic is that the longer a human person is exposed to this energy and depending on how strong the entity is they can cause or bring about very bad health conditions like heart attacks, irregular heartbeats, strokes, and yes even some cancers. Some of you may be reading this and think this is ridiculous, however, hear me out. I will go on to explain this further.
You see when you have a dark entity, and, in some cases, some people have many in one area or place, they vibrate at very darker levels. You are a human and you are composed of energy and so is your soul. Being around a darker spirit’s energy can affect your aura and how your body would deal with this energy or interpret is by causing something physical to translate that energy or feelings. Therefore, many psychics, mediums, empaths often feel sick when they arrive to a place that is chalk full of nasty energy. The problem is that if you are unprotected or not sure how to rid and protect yourself of these energies you can become very ill. These energies and entities like to go through the body of the living or touch them. It’s like a spiritual assault to your body. The problem is that when they are more advanced or intelligent spirits they have learned how to cause physical harm and sickness than other souls who are newly dead or don’t know yet how to control their energy. Since they no longer have physical hands to scratch you, they use their energy to create these marks. Their energetic body can use the form of when they were living and just visualize their hands scratching you. Again this requires for them to be advanced and they often learn by frequent attempts on how to manipulate energy.
If you suspect your home is haunted or you have something darker you can do several things to protect yourself. If the entity was one human and is just stuck and darker in nature try a subtle approach and you can talk to them out loud and simply explain you are not here to cause them harm. This is now your space and they don’t belong here anymore. Then envision a door in front of you of white light and tell the spirit to go into the light. This will take some visualization or imagination. You can also gather a few selenite crystals and put them on the floor in the formation of a door or rectangle. This can be a circle too. Basically, you will want to create an opening and when you do this you can add some incense like frankincense or any other incense you prefer and ask them to step into the circle or doorway you have created and cross over. You may have to repeat this several times and it may have to be repeated because some spirits are going to be very reluctant. How will you know if they crossed over you ask? You will feel lighter, the atmosphere usually feel’s better, you will notice activity ceases. After crossing over you should sage your entire home and say something like “I only allow love and light to fill this space. Nothing negative can stay.” At least this is how I would do it but keep in mind there is no right or wrong way. You can say whatever you feel like as long as it is tailored to your taste and makes sense to you. It’s important to note that you should say a prayer calling upon warrior angels like Archangel Michael to protect you and help you with crossing over souls before opening a door for them to cross over.
If the entity is weak you can sprinkle salt all around property, some prefer to use sea salt, or Himalayan salt. This should be placed all over the home and entry ways. Salt is for purification and also for protection. You can also light a white candle and call upon your angels to help protect you and ask the spirits or entities to cross over.
In some cases, you might have to be more forceful in your approach, but I would highly not recommend this especially if this has been going on for quite some time. If you don’t feel comfortable doing any of the things mentioned above to rid yourself of these entities then you may need to call a paranormal team of experts, psychic or spiritual medium to help guide you on how to rid yourself of these darker energies. It’s important to note here that darker energies can’t stay in a place of love for long periods of time so a family that is really close, pisses them off if they are demonic or just darker energies. This is why many times they will prey among the weakest person in the family. This could be someone who has an addiction, who has something that they cannot control. Spirits can use this to spark arguments in the family, turn people who loved each other against themselves. They can target the strongest person too. Their main goal is to separate and conquer. Think about it, if everyone is fighting each other or arguing this creates a warm atmosphere of negativity. This is their domain and space. They love negativity and thrive on it. You take that away from their equation they have no ties to this physical world. Therefore, in things like possessions or the demonic, the demon will usually possess someone in the family or multiple people to wreak havoc and cause separations. It’s not uncommon for families who are victims of such hauntings or energy often result in couples separating, divorce, legal issues, and even suicide in some cases.
Demons are harder to get rid of and if you have something demonic in your space, many people think that if they move that the demon will stay at the house because it is being haunted. This is a myth and in fact, once a link has been made with a living person, that demon will follow that person wherever they go. Think of them as your shadow. Basically, where you go, they go. People who are possessed usually look run down, very angry or out of it, catatonic at times, speaking in foreign languages, have hatred against holy objects, religious statues, holy water, scapular medals, animals will seem very afraid of this person, they will have a stench (usually rotten or decayed), will isolate themselves, complain they constantly hear a voice that speaks to them and is very negative in nature usually ordering them to cause harm to others living in the home, darker thoughts, seems to have clairvoyance when they never had this before (This is not to be confused with someone who is spiritually awakened and has abilities because a possessed person will have not just clairvoyance but the other symptoms mentioned above as well), etc.
Saint Benedictine medal is an exorcism medal and protects against the demonic and dark magic. If you haven’t bought one it can also help against darker souls. Tread very carefully if you suspect demonic activity and know fear is their stomping ground. Take fear away and seek help through a demonologist or priest or pastor. These individuals will have more experience in dealing with these types of cases and can help you with the demonic. I will note that demonic cases are extremely rare, and some type of investigation must happen before a member of clergy will agree to assist in the case. Some tests such as psychological illnesses must be ruled out as well before an exorcism of the house or person is performed. Sometimes a priest can come and perform a house blessing, so the things outlined in this article do not describe every situation or experience.
There are different ways of handling situations, however, hopefully this article gives you a better understanding about what spirits can do.
If you are looking for spirits or perhaps just traveling you would be surprised to know that hotels are one of the #1 places that can be full of spirit activity. Why? It’s because so many travel yearly to thousands of locations and usually stay in a hotel. Some NEVER make it out alive. Therefore, some are left earthbound.
If someone died in the room due to natural causes or were murdered, chances are the hotel isn’t going to let you know that this occurred. After all they are in the business of making money. When a person has been murdered in a hotel room all things like carpet, furniture, mattresses are disposed off. This includes electronic devices like TV because blood can be spattered into the crevices and once turned on the heat can give off a smell of death.
However, there are things that cannot be disposed off ony covered up. So if you are in a hotel where there were gunshots look at the walls. Usually hotels are not going to call in construction crews to patch the holes in the wall and paint over it. So they will usually get the maintenance crew on it. If you are staying at a hotel look at all the walls and see if the paint is blotchy or one area seems patched up or uneven. If the ceiling also looks off this could be due to blood splattered or gunshots that made holes.
Another sign is an awful stench of death like rotten smell that does not go away. Often maintenance and cleaning crew only change our air vents occasionally or change the filter once or twice a year. If you are smelling something foul it could be that blood or other body fluids have seeped down into the air condition and emit an order.
If there is no food and flies around the room or around light fixtures this could be due to numerous things. However when bodies are left in the room and decomposing for days, flies will form and usually cling to the light fixtures.
If the room is partially renovated then chances something awful happened.
During Hurricane Harvey I had the pleasure of staying almost a month and a half in a hotel and while my room did not seem off. When I would lay down on my bed I would feel uncomfortable and could feel energy from the previous people who had laid down before me there in that spot. If you are an empath or sensitive you are going to feel odd if the energy is off. Be sure to carry some protective crystals and if you have a smoking room then take some sage. Use that to clear the energy around the bed and rooms of your hotel suite. I also noticed that the area near he corridor had some negative energy and some rooms on the bottom floor I could feel as I walked past some rooms that there had been domestic violence, arguments, and fights. Usually when you pass a room you will feel either sick, a knot in your stomach, or you can just feel the negative energy. One thing I would do was to sit in the pool area and see the cleaning staff. In some rooms after they came out of them, they were a different energy and mood wise. Some they didn’t take long in so I know their moods were not attributed to the room being dirty. Some of the rooms had been vacant but they still have to clean them or get them ready for huge events that will draw tourists to the town and hotel.
Pay attention to strange sounds or cold spots in your hotel room. You could also feel a presence in your room like someone watching you. If you notice temperature changes and there is no ventilation near that area or drafts, it could be spirit around you and occupying that space as well. If you suspect someone passed in your room, you can request another room but have a good reason. It will all depend on vacancies and whether they are willing to do that.