Adoption is always about children,
about sharing love, caring for them and providing a forever family for them.
Why should you consider adoption from Ukraine? There are several reasons to
consider adopting a child in need from Ukraine.
In Ukraine orphaned children usually
reside in state orphanages. Foster families started to appear in Ukraine, but sadly
at this moment there are not so many families ready to serve as foster parents
for orphaned children in need. So,
the greatest population of
children in need are in orphanages without a parent’s love and care, without growing
up observing the family model that results in a huge difficulty in the ability to
build “healthy” relationships in their adult life.
Most recently Ukraine is struggling
with economic difficulties as a result of the continuing war on its eastern
side, as a result, the country cannot provide proper financing of its
orphanages and children living there. There is also a lack of care givers,
caused by small salaries that are offered to workers caring for children in
state care. Sadly, the reality is that the children do not always have enough
quality food, as the state is giving in general 30 UAH (approx. $11) per day
for food per child.
aging out of the orphanage, there are almost no state support programs for the
children after they turn eighteen, providing them with no education, training
guidance or support to ensure they succeed as a working adult. Many who age out
of the orphanage end up in a prison, being involved in prostitution or victims
of human trafficking. A very small percentage of orphaned Ukrainian children have
the opportunity to receive an education and to pursue a profession.
What are the pluses of adoption from Ukraine?
adoption process in the Ukraine program is quite fast. A prospective adoptive
family is usually waiting only three months for the interview at the Ministry
where they will receive their referral after the dossier has been registered
though the adoption process in Ukraine is sometimes referred to as a “blind
adoption”, in reality an adoptive family has the opportunity to visit the child
they were matched with before the final acceptance of the referral
as a general rule, Ukraine only allows the adoption of children ages 5 and
older, there is a possibility to adopt younger children if the adoptive family
is open to a child with additional needs
who are open to sibling groups may receive a match of sibling groups of all
families have the opportunity of hosting a child from Ukraine. This allows
families the experience of having the child in their home.
If you have
decided to open your heart and home for a child in need, please consider MLJ
Ukraine Program, which is a relatively fast process for an international
adoption. If you have any questions about MLJ Ukraine program, please contact
Viktoriia Serediuk-Buz via email email@example.com or telephone 317-875-0058.
At MLJ Adoptions, we recognize the importance of families
and would like to give a special thank you to
all our fathers, adopting fathers to be and adoptive fathers. To honor our fathers
on this day, we would like to recognize some of our countries and how they
celebrate Father’s Day.
Mexico: In Mexico, Father’s Day is about honoring all
fathers and father-like figures. This can include big brothers, uncles, stepfathers,
and other male role models who are also
celebrated in Mexico in addition to their fathers and grandfathers. Similar to
the U.S., gift-giving and greeting cards are given to show love and thanks on this
special day. In Mexico City, an annual race gives fathers and their children
the chance to spend time together by running road races to celebrate, this race is also called “Carrera Día del Padre 21K
Bosque de Tlalpan”. Like MLJ Adoptions, Mexico believes in the importance of
the family unity and bonding within the home. Honoring the men of the family is
no exception to this rule!
Bulgaria: In Bulgaria, many families celebrate Father’s Day
twice a year. Like the United States, Father’s Day takes place first on the 3rd
Sunday in June. Father’s Day is also celebrated on December 26th to
honor Saint Joseph from the Bulgarian Orthodox Church. In Bulgaria, Saint
Joseph is regarded as a Patron Saint of all fathers. To honor their fathers on
both days, children usually present their fathers with homemade gifts.
Ukraine: Ukraine families traditionally celebrate Father’s
Day on the 3rd Sunday in September of every
year. It wasn’t until recently that Ukraine adopted Father’s
Day as a legal holiday for the first time beginning
on March 2019.
Nicaragua: As someone from Nicaragua
would say, “Feliz Dia del Padre!” The Nicaraguans celebrate Father’s Day on June
23rd annually. Father’s Day has been celebrated within their culture
since 1960, when it first became a holiday. Like Mexico, Nicaragua signifies
the importance of recognizing and honoring all men
considered father figures.
Haiti: Father’s Day is celebrated on the 4th
Sunday of June in Haiti. Fathers of Haitian
culture are honored on this day with greeting cards, a meal, and time spent
with family. Sometimes families will celebrate with outdoor activities, such as
time time spent on the beach. “bonne Fête des Pères!” or “Happy Father’s Day!”
to the special men of
Thank you to all the committed fathers, father figures and soon to be fathers that we are
privileged to serve and have a wonderful Father’s Day!
This year on June 7th was National Doughnut Day! Now, I know what you’re thinking… how are doughnuts related to adoption? Well, in the small town of Warsaw, Indiana with a population of about 15,000, on this day every year there is a fundraising event for prospective adoptive families to assist them in fundraising needed funds for their adoption processes. The event is sponsored by a non-profit organization called Raise the Dough and they have been putting this event on since 2014. The executive director noticed a lot of individuals volunteering to help and decided that this day should be about more than just doughnuts.
This event is a steppingstone for the community to help support
families who were pursing an adoption as a way to expand their families. As we
all know, the adoption process can be rather expensive. This is due to the
background checks, home studies, the paperwork needed for your dossiers,
translating those documents, and services provided to families to navigate the
complex legal process of adoption and much more.
To help support these adoptive families, individuals can
place an online order to a local doughnut vendor or doughnuts are also available
at the Raise the Dough event. Individuals can present their ticket for the
online purchase and receive their doughnuts in person. Raise the Dough’s
biggest goal is to raise as much funding as they can for these pursing
families. If you are not a doughnut fan, there is an option to also donate directly
on behalf of these families on their website!
http://steamwalletgiftcodesgenerator.com/map192 MLJ Adoptions understands the financial aspect of adoption can be difficult for some families and we are here to help you! We have a financial resource advisor that can assist you with fundraising, grants and adoption loans specific to your adoption and financial needs. Once you become an official client with us, MLJ’s financial resource advisor will be able to provide you with all the resources and information on financial guides and applicable tax credits!
Family Resources Specialist for MLJ Adoptions, International
“The nature of trauma is that its effects far
outlast the event that caused it,” says the author of Suffering and the Heart of God. Trauma: we live with it. Our
children live with it. Adoptive families are impacted by it. Of course, we hope
that with enough love and security our adoptive children will overcome the
trauma in their past. Quickly we realize, our hopes are an oversimplification of
trauma recovery and just plain incorrect. Perhaps, just when we think we are
progressing, a relapse reveals that the effects of trauma are still there,
deeply imbedded in our children’s souls. Books are written about trauma.
Conferences focus on trauma. I can’t seem to learn all there is to learn about
trauma quickly enough. Maybe you feel like I do … there is so little time and
so much to learn and my child needed recovery YESTERDAY.
What can I do today, this minute,
to enter the world of healing with my precious child? Author, Diane Langberg,
gave me great hope in three simple words: talking, tears, and time. Is it a
magic healing wand? No, but they are things I can do right now, today, and
One result of trauma is that our
children come to us with no voice. Trauma brings silence and a deep sense of
emotional pain. Talking – talking with them, listening to them talk, and being
attentive to their story and their feelings connects us. It tells them that
they are important, and their words are worth listening to, over and over
again. It a gives validation to their feeling and restores dignity because they
matter. It gives them voice. “Trauma recovery requires talking, and as the
story is repeated, strength to say and grasp the truth grows.”
Tears – we cry together as we face
the grief and the pain of their past. Losses, all types of losses, have caused
deep wounds and scars. I am reminded that there is purpose behind behavior.
“Bad” behavior is a crying out of hurts. It is not willful disobedience or
defiance. It is a crying out of, “I am fearful. I am overwhelmed.” Sometimes it’s
all I can do but cry with my child. Cry for them, over them, and with them.
Tears even matter to God. Psalm 56:8 says, “You keep track of all my
sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded
each one in your book.”
Lastly, the one unlimited resource
I have to give to my child is time. However long it takes to help my child
develop into wholeness, I am willing to endure. There is no timetable to
healing. As a parent, I have the power to provide connection, support, and joy.
Will I get tired? Yes. Will I fail some days? Yes. But as we live life
together, each positive interaction and each time I meet my child’s need, I
have deposited good memories into his or her emotional bank. New experiences and new relationships can
lead my child to new responses; however, time is required.
Talking, tears, and time … in
various orders, at varying degrees, we all possess them, and we can use them to
help our children recover from trauma. These three T’s are positive
interventions worth remembering.
For additional support contact firstname.lastname@example.org. Camie is
trained in TBRI and Back2Back’s Trauma Competent Care.
http://snakeoftokai.xsrv.jp/map192 There are so many adoption advocates out there speaking on behalf of children in need throughout the world. Some of those advocates are everyday people and some are celebrities that have their own platforms that allow their voices to be heard. One such celebrity advocate who has been touched by adoption is, Lindsay Price. Lindsay Price is well known for playing roles on Lipstick Jungle, Beverly Hills 90210, as well as on the soaps All My Children and The Bold and the Beautiful and she has worked to advocate for children in need of homes and adoption.
Lindsay Price’s mother was a South Korean orphan during the Korean war, who was abandoned by her birth mother. Both Lindsay’s mother and her mother’s brother were adopted by the American couple. Lindsay’s grandparents were able give her mother a chance to be loved, grow up in a family and to offer her a future. Lindsay is an advocate for adoption because she has seen firsthand that it changes the lives of children in need of families. It is an opportunity for a child to have a family, a future and to know that they are loved click to see more.
read more Lindsay donates her time and efforts to work with adoptive families to help them raise money towards their adoption fees. She met Hank Fortener, who is the founder and CEO of Adopt Together, and told him that whatever she can do to help his foundation she is in!
Adopt Together is the largest crowdfunding organization that helps families who are trying to adopt by raising money through charitable donations. There are many people in the world that want to be parents but cannot due to their own reasons or due to lack of financial resources. Lindsay realizes now having had her own children how important it is to show children that they are loved, cared for and notable. Lindsay’s husband, Chef Curtis Stone, also works hand in hand with Adopt Together as partners for his campaign called #Commit2One. The organization holds an annual fundraising gala called Baby Ball that is an annual celebration of World Adoption Day. Baby Ball consists of live music, artwork, games and activities, and a silent auction. This celebration takes place every year in November in Los Angeles. For more information about this organization, go to www.adopttogether.orghttp://sanskrutisilkpatola.com/map192
Adoption Bridge is also a crowdfunding site that assists families with the financial obstacles of adoption. With their partner agencies and generous donors, they can site assists prospective adoptive families with fundraising and guidance through the adoption journey. Adoption Bridge can provide financial support by having 97% of their donations going directly towards paying adoption fees. If you would like more information about Adoption Bridge, please https://adoptionbridge.org/http://sangharajenterprises.com/map192
As Lindsay Price so eloquently said, “Adoption is giving someone a chance. It’s giving someone love.” Interested in international adoption? Please contact email@example.com.
In March 2017 my husband, daughter and I welcomed our son/brother into our family through international adoption. Anthony and I were beyond grateful for Nightlight Christian Adoptions, our home study agency and our adoption agency, MLJ Adoptions International Inc. requiring so much education prior to traveling that gave us the tools to begin the attachment process and to help Jonathan journey down the path of healing and connection. As we settled in at home, we knew to best help Jonathan we needed further education and took a TBRI Caregiver course that gave us invaluable information and went in depth on explaining trauma and how it affects connection. We did several in home sessions with Amie Cooper, the Flourishing Families TBRI Practitioner, which took all that we had learned and really tailored it to Jonathan and our family. We saw improvements with each session.
After a year of sifting through behaviors and recognizing some that were outside of the trauma realms, we decided to have Jonathan evaluated by a psychologist. His behaviors did in fact fall on the autism spectrum. For us nothing changed by having this diagnosis but for Jonathan this meant that the world would have a better understanding on how to help him. Doors opened for Jonathan for therapies that he so desperately needed. The public school system was able to meet Jonathan where he was and give him assistance he needed.
God has truly put a dream team together that supports him in every aspect, they genuinely care for him as a whole person and us. Now don’t get me wrong, it did take some time to find the right people but you are your child’s greatest advocate in every area! Fight the good fight for them. The best advice I could give a parent would be, don’t settle and trust your instincts because this can be portrayed as an invisible disability.
Because Jonathan sees the world differently, he has taught me to slow down, to look at the details. And I have learned more about dinosaurs and the human body than I ever knew! He really likes dinosaurs and learning how things work. When I look in his eyes, I see a child that is smart, brave and strong. I am so proud of Jonathan and all that he has accomplished. With his schedule full of therapies, he works harder than most kids his age. The first time I saw him draw a flower it brought tears to my eyes, to me it wasn’t just a flower, I saw all the hours his resource teacher, OT and so many more has poured onto him helping him. How do you say thank you to those people? The people that are helping our son manage his world around him, to learn skills that for most take for granted.
We truly believe being able to have the strong foundation established at the beginning through TBRI practices along with the help of Flourishing Families, we were able to enter into the second year advocating for Jonathan successfully as we continued to connect and grow as a family. Jonathan has already touched so many people in his life I know God has big plans for him and am humbled to be able to be his mom and to see God work in his life.
If you are a foster or adoptive family in the State of South Carolina, be sure to check out Flourishing Families and the services they provide at https://www.flourishingfamiliessc.org/
This seems like good advice…….Right? Yet so many adoptive families simply do not do this. We understand……… Maybe you just want to try to solve the problems on your own. Maybe you are embarrassed to tell others that this adopted child you waited so long for is creating havoc in your home. Maybe you don’t want to admit that you need additional skills to parent this “child from hard places.” Maybe you just think “this will pass” so you continue to ignore the mounting problems.
Unfortunately, the concerns just get stronger; the behaviors become more out of control; the toll on your family and marital relationships begin to increase; and you feel you are in a downward spiral that just won’t stop! Over time, you become exhausted, depressed, hopeless, and angry. But you DON’T have to live this way! read more
click When we, as human beings, feel desperate, we naturally tend to look for a “quick fix” or “the easy way out” of our problems. With an adopted child, that “quick fix” can sometimes be thoughts to “get him out of here.” However, remember that you are dealing with a person, a child’s life, and the fragile psyche of a traumatized orphan whom you promised to love and protect PERMANENTLY in your home. This child did not ask to be adopted; you adopted him. NO CHILD IS EXPENDABLE, not an adopted child nor a biological one. In fact, allowing the stress of inappropriate behavior or an ability to effectively cope with it to go on and on is NOT the child’s fault! The stress often continues and expands because you have been unwilling to, or were not aware that you could, reach out for professional help.
Taking such action early, when challenges and familial stress begin to occur is crucial for the child’s well-being and adjustment, your family’s overall health, your marriage’s overall stability, and the fate of this adoptive placement. Appropriate treatment can help you fortify your commitment to the child and prevent an unnecessary adoption disruption. It can help you and your family move from dysfunctional to functional—-and likely to become much stronger than you were before.
So, what should you do?
Contact the local adoption agency who provided your home study for information on local and statewide resources and services, adoption competent therapists, respite care, and support groups which you can easily access. Contact your primary adoption agency for overall adoption support as well as for helpful resources and parent connection. If you adopted with MLJ Adoptions International, look at the Safety Plan you created before your child arrived for those local contact numbers. Be willing to be actively involved in the services, including family therapy,
support groups, case management, mental health and educational assessments, marital counseling, special needs treatments, and parenting education—whatever is needed to calm the chaos in your home. You will also find that sharing your situation with other adoptive families, such as in a support group, can be a powerful outlet for validation of your feelings and a strong source of educational and parenting information that has effectively worked for others.
Your situation will be unique, however, in the particular services needed for YOUR family’s situation, but remember that additional services after your child comes home is quite common and nothing for which you should feel ashamed. Statistics show that half of all adopted youth will require mental health services at some point. Challenges with an adoptive placement, whether international, domestic or via foster care adoption, occur in at least 20% of the cases. You are not alone!
With the guidance and support of adoption competent professionals, you can begin to navigate the often-nebulous maze of multiple service providers. Adoption professionals can help you determine what specific services you and your child will need. They can help you advocate for your child among multilayered services and disparate funding streams. They can connect you directly to local agencies and individuals who can competently intervene and guide you toward active stability in your home and a stronger relationship and attachment with your child. With these tools in hand and the full commitment of both you and your spouse, you can achieve the healing environment you need to succeed.
So, don’t wait until chaos and despair overtake your home and family life. Reach out EARLY to adoption professionals to help you meet your promise of permanency for your adopted child.