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Today I want to talk about how people get to know one another.

I gave you some of the background on this before… but since a (female) client of mine asked about it, I’m going to go into more detail about what a first conversation is like.

And I’ll also show you what it could be like and what it should be like, so she always comes home with you at the end of the night.

Let’s get started!

It All Starts With Avoiding Some Surprisingly Common Mistakes (That Even Experts Are Guilty Of Making)…

This is something I am fairly certain you are familiar with.

Hackneyed conversational methods are so ingrained that as I describe the common, but incorrect conversation structure, you will probably find yourself saying:

“What’s wrong with that? I do that all the time.”

You probably do, and even if you didn’t say it, (or think it, if you are not into talking to yourself)… you are almost certainly suffering from at least a few of these faulty conversational traditions.

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A quick caveat before I start.

I’ve used the words “Hackneyed,” “incorrect” and “faulty.” Please don’t take offense.

Although I may be talking like this is the worst thing to come out of a person’s mouth since Regan MacNeil projectile vomited on the priest Damien Karras in The Exorcist, the truth is that this is the way many people talk and many conversations go.

You are hardly a monster for making any of these mistakes. Just try to avoid them, OK?

Today I’ll be pulling back the curtain to show you the big mistakes guys make when talking to women, and at the end I’ll show you how to massively improve your results (and get laid) by doing things a little differently.

1) The “What do you do?” Delay

The first thing that is 100% standard in conversations–especially in urban areas–and which would be best to avoid for the first four conversations is work.

“But I love my job!”

Avoid it.

“But I’m proud of what I do!”

Keep it to yourself.

Here’s the thing. To start with, “What do you do?” is amateur hour.

It’s a question for people who do not know what to talk about.

In fact, in general when someone asks me what I do in a conversation before we’ve reached that point where it’s obvious they are intrigued or impressed and really want to know…

I translate it to mean, “I want to talk more, but I don’t know what to say.”

What do you do? Is considered safe ground, and that’s why it’s so unavoidable in a first conversation.

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So what’s wrong with it?

Aside from simply being the mark of an amateur and the hallmark of a dull conversation,
What do you do?” is a question, and the next thing I’ll tell you is to avoid them like the plague during the first four meetings.

“What do you do?” Brings up a topic which is technically interesting–since you do it all day, and well enough to be paid for it–it’s not actually interesting though, unless someone is already interested in you.

How can I prove this to you?

What movie or TV show is there inspired by what you do every day?

What show has–as its major plot–what you do each day?

In fact, the most common plots are romance–boy meets girl and the two after not liking each other start to like each other; and who dunnit, which basically boils down to murder.

Since so many plots (most of Alfred Hitchcock, for example, who is one of the most effective storytellers) revolve around murder… then perhaps a detective or a murderer has a job that is interesting enough that people want to hear about it.

Well, as any detective–and most murderers–will tell you… even a police procedural, which is what we call shows like CSI Blah Blah or Law & Blah Blah are showing you some bits and pieces of what really happens.

But in no way is that what they see or do day-to-day.

In addition to this–and here is MY reason for telling you to avoid the topic–no matter how pleased or excited you are about what you do each day, you are not an actor. So reciting lines is not easy for you.

I’ve noticed that when a person answers a question they answer often, or when they are talking about something that is common knowledge for them, the look on their face usually gives this away by being stiff or unexpressive.

They don’t emote, they don’t spark and they don’t engage.

It’s not fresh.

Save what you do for the fourth date or so.

I know this seems very difficult, but only because you think you have to answer a question that’s asked.

I’ll tell you something else you should have already learned reading my words–doing what a woman says when she says it is not especially attractive.

2) Avoid Questions In General

Now I’ve REALLY ruined things, huh?

I’ve taken away your favorite conversational hiding place.

It’s what talkative people do to unintentionally dominate the conversation, and what introverted people do to keep moving the spotlight back to the other person.

Unfortunately, as I told you several articles ago, Questions REQUIRE rapport.

In a first conversation, what if the other person doesn’t answer your question?

What if they resent it? How do you leave them a way out?

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In order to let a conversation flow organically, please avoid questions, despite everything you’ve heard or read telling you the opposite.

Now of course you’ll ask some, and that’s ok.

It’s just that avoiding them will improve your conversations 10-fold. You basically want to ask 10% the questions that come to mind.

3) No TV

I’ve said this before, so let four words suffice.

Do NOT discuss TV.

4) Run from Rapport

By rapport I mean–and we’ve discussed this before–finding something you have in common and STICKING TO IT.

I understand how this has become the go-to conversational plan, but it does not work. And it cannot work.

It may be effective for a very good conversationalist who has a very short time–i.e. a salesman in a half hour client meeting.

In this setting there isn’t enough time to overdo a bit of, “You went to Harvard? So did my brother. What about that Glee Club, huh? Anyhow, I’m here to talk to you about rugs.”

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5) Absolutely No Religion Or Politics

I think everyone has already heard that polarizing topics are not great unless you know a person really well (and even then….).

So it’s not the most common faux pas, but I mention it because it is such a major faux pas.

Two people cannot be expected to effectively promote OR defend something which is a belief backed by time and faith in a first meeting.

In addition, these are topics that cannot be discussed in a short time, and no topic should dominate a first or second conversation–especially not a galvanizing or polarizing one.

Now, I realize I’ve basically just listed off a bunch of things you can’t talk about… so what should you do?

I’ll show you:

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All the pros will tell you, and we’ve all known about this for a long time…

Even though conversation does matter, it’s not what gets a woman in bed the quickest.

In fact what is MUCH more important, and does the REAL heavy lifting… is not what you say, but what you do.

So here are 3 subtle things you can do to get her in bed even faster than your words will alone:

1) Make the “right” kind of eye contact.

Everyone knows women like a man who can hold eye contact…

… but many times even strong “masculine” eye contact can come off weird and inorganic… because of HOW most guys do it.

Most guys look at both of a woman’s eyes at the same time.

This can cause your eyes to shift left and right, which can make you seem nervous… so instead focus on only one eye.

To the woman (or anyone really) it will look like you’re looking at both eyes… but in a more focused and genuinely interested manner.

2) Next, watch your feet.

One of the biggest subconscious indicators of interest a person can give off is pointing their feet toward the person they’re talking to.

So when you point your feet toward a woman, yes it shows you’re interested in her… BUT it also makes her feel like the prize.

And that’s the wrong dynamic to have (if you want to turn things sexual with this woman eventually).

Instead, talk to her with your feet pointed away, almost like you’re about to leave at any second…

… and when she points her feet toward you (which she WILL do)… then you know it’s time to try this:

3) Touch her a little more.

This is the final and most important step in my opinion… because sex is a physical act after all.

And if you want a woman to notice you and see you as someone she’d be interested in sleeping with… then there has to be some touching.

Because if you don’t touch her at all, then those two tips above won’t mean a damn thing… and you’ll end up in the friendzone, I can promise you that.

But if you touch her too much you’re going to come off as a creep… and she might not want anything to do with you.

So don’t get friend-zoned and don’t freak her out…

Get her in bed instead:

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DJ Khaled recently mentioned that he refuses to perform oral sex on his wife.

His comment on a radio show went viral and the internet blew up. Thousands of tweets and comments flooded my feed from people of both genders coming to his wife’s defense.

The social community was up in arms about Khaled refusing to “go down” on his wife, even though he expected that she perform oral sex on him.

Whether Khaled is right or wrong for his statements, one thing is for sure:

Oral sex is a form of foreplay and foreplay helps women orgasm faster.

In this new age of “girl power” and women empowerment, it’s probably come up on your social media that men reach orgasm more often than women.

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A study by Indiana University found that 85% of men believe their female partner orgasmed, while in all actuality, only 64% of women had.

So basically, it is completely plausible that your woman is not reaching her sexual peak every time you are. In fact, it’s practically science that they’re not.

Now, why should you care?

Well, if you’re not completely satisfying your partner, there’s a good chance your relationship is going to be strained.

Also, knowing she’s enjoying the “experience” gives a testament to your performance and makes every man feel good.

Do not fear! A new survey found that certain positions ensure that you both reach climax.

Oh, and you will be pleased to find out these are not the wacky acrobatic positions where you have to have 10 years of gymnastics training.

You might be surprised to find out these positions are pretty much classics that you have been skipping right over.

Positions in disguise, if you will.

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A recent survey by Skyn Condoms revealed that most women say they prefer missionary position over any other.

Close contenders were also doggy style and girl-on-top.

For many of the women, they said it is less about how complex a move is, and more about how much physical stimulation is occurring.

Most of the women said they needed constant clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and these three positions offer the most (missionary, doggy and girl-on-top).

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These positions also offer you the opportunity to touch the women’s bodies and allow for kissing.

Whichever of these positions you choose next, remember that while sex is obviously physical, there is also a huge mental component you need to stay aware of.

Women want to know their man wants them. We want to know you think we’re sexy, and we want to know you are having the time of your life.

The more you are turned on, there is a good chance the more we are going to be turned on too.

But Don’t Forget About Foreplay…

We love to see you putting in the effort to make us feel good! Sometimes you have to spend some time giving before you can receive.

Please also remember that the whole show is not just in the main act. You have to lead up to sex.

For a lot of women, we need foreplay before sex in order to orgasm during sex.

Even if we are able to orgasm without foreplay, it helps us reach climax faster and sometimes with more force.

Do not be offended if your partner is not orgasming all the time.

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Change the dynamic. If you are a couple that likes to switch things up and be adventurous in your positions, but she is not orgasming, go back to the beginning.

Missionary gets a bad name as being the “boring” sex position, but in fact, it can be the most helpful.

Of course… it’s not the only way to give a woman a hot-as-hell orgasm.

There is a technique that’s a little more “adventurous” (and a little more fun in my opinion haha)… it’s not exactly a position, but it WILL give her an orgasm:

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So yeah, missionary is GREAT because it allows you to stimulate her clit (which most women need to get off)…

… but it’s not the only way to give a woman a mind-blowing orgasm.

And in fact, I’d argue it’s not even the best way…

… because missionary doesn’t allow you to hit aaaall of a woman’s pleasure centers *down there.*

(Like a woman’s A-Spot for example… unless your penis is curved a certain way, you can’t hit it in missionary… but if you CAN hit it she might squirt!)

But you know what will let you do that?

This “5-Finger Tantra” move.

It was created by a sex guru named Lawrence…

He wanted a way to give a woman intense whole-body orgasms, using only one hand…

… and so he designed this *super amazing* fingering move any guy can use to hit a woman’s A-Spot, G-Spot AND her clit… all at the same time…

And OMG, one time my boyfriend even used it on me and it made me squirt!!

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Hey, what’s up?

This is Ask Ruwando, and we have a question from Alan.

Alan asks:

Hey Ruwando, I have an issue: I watch too much porn and I can’t it up when I’m with a real woman! How do I get it so that I can have sex when it’s time to do it?”

Great question Alan. I think this is something that’s plaguing younger men… millennials if you will.

It’s just like a big issue, actually, and I don’t think it’s spoken about enough. So thank you for bringing it to light.

Let’s get started!

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What I want to say is porn addiction is real.

And even if you’re not addicted to porn, there are a lot of negative effects on the male brain.

When you watch porn, it kind of rewires your reward circuits, without going into too much detail about it.

I mean, you get pleasure from the dopamine, you’re seeing something.

But it doesn’t give you the oxytocin feeling, which is also related to sex.

So when a guy watches porn, he can only get off at rapid stimulation, like that dopamine hit of changing clips and stuff.

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And it’s really bad for your attention span.

A lot of guys have issues feeling their feelings too.

More specifically, feeling their feelings moment to moment as opposed to clicking, clicking, clicking, clicking.

Oh, new story line, MILFs, whatever… I mean, you know all the categories of porn…

But do you actually have Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction?

Ask yourself this question to find out:

Do You Have the Ability Within You to Stop Watching Porn?

So, first thing I’m going to say, which is obvious.

I mean you said, “I have an issue. I watch too much porn.”

Alan, stop watching porn. This might be easier said than done.

If you can’t just stop watching porn, even though you know you should, I would classify that as a porn addiction.

And if you have a porn addiction and you’re not getting hard, I would classify that as Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction.

There are a lot of great resources out there that can help with this, like the NoFap community.

But I want to address the erection side of that.

Because that’s what your actual question was.

So I’ve addressed this issue in more detail in other videos on what to do when you can’t get hard… so I’m not going to go into the details.

I recommend you check out those videos right here in Gotham Club.

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But Alan, just to address your question, I’m going to throw out 3 really important concepts to you.

1) Get Into Your Body

The first thing is getting in touch with your feelings on a physical level, also known as getting into your body.

Anything that you can do to generate physical awareness and somatic awareness will help.

Dancing helps. Martial arts help.

Some sort of meditative practice where you really have to pay attention helps. Tai chi is something that I actually equate to having good sex a lot.

I started doing Tai Chi about halfway through really studying sexuality. And they really complimented each other.

It might seem silly, looking at like the older Asian people in the park, doing these forms, like thinking about them being good in bed.

But I tell you, just the principle works.

Because if you’re not getting hard, I can almost guarantee that you’re cutting yourself off from feeling your sensations.

Which brings me to my second point…

2) Feel Your Feelings On an Emotional Level

The second piece is getting to feel your feelings on an emotional level.

And I’ve said this in a bunch of videos.

Shame prevents you from feeling. Resentment prevents you from feeling, and the solution to both of those two things is to learn how to open up and be vulnerable.

Brené Brown has some great stuff on how… you can’t selectively numb.

So if you’re numbing out your emotions–if you’re preventing yourself from being felt in a certain way–it can affect your body.

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And porn wraps us up a lot, and it reinforces a lot of our shame. Because you don’t watch porn with your friends.

You watch porn in your room, maybe when you’re feeling a little embarrassed.

I mean, when you were younger, you probably were trying to make sure that your parents didn’t find you.

And it just reinforced all this shame–shame conditioning you have associated with sexuality.

3) Talk About It (It Seems Counterintuitive But Really Works)

So the best thing is to start talking about it.

Like if you’re not getting it up, the woman (or women) you sleep with might notice, too.

You might as well bring it up, instead of trying to play it cool, and be like, “Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, whatever.”

Just be vulnerable and be like, “Listen, yeah. This has actually happened before, so it’s not your fault. This is something I’m trying to work through, and that’s what’s going on.”

The best person you can bring it up with is the person you’re in bed with.

If you’re in bed with a woman and you’re not getting hard and she wants to have sex, you might as well bring it up.

You gain nothing by playing it off. Right?

So just bring it up in a clear that way that doesn’t have to be needy.

It doesn’t have to be asking her for anything.

You’re just stating the facts. I mean, that’s actually the manliest thing to do.

Own the situation, like, “Listen, this has happened a couple of times. I’m working through it. I just want to bring it up, I mean, I think it might be from watching too much porn.”

You’re not going to come off as weird. Literally every man, who has grown up in the internet age has watched internet porn.

Right?

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It’s not unusual. In fact, it’s unusual if you haven’t watched porn.

So you just bring it up, and be like, “Yeah this is something I’m working through. And it’s not your fault, it’s just something that’s happening.”

And you’ll notice that the more you talk about it, the less big of a deal it becomes.

I mean, I went through a period, I’ve said this in other videos where I had erection issues for almost a whole year.

And I had this conversation over and over again with different women.

The first time, it was humiliating. The second time, it was less humiliating…

But after a couple of women, it just got in my head, like, okay no woman has taken offense to this. No woman has made me feel bad about this.

And it’s not that big a deal. And over time that shame went away, and I got to feel my body.

Of course, this is also a lot easier said than done.

So what I do want to tell you, is that even though I recommend following all 3 of these steps… there are ways you can “shortcut” this process, and get your boners back even sooner.

Here’s how:

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I won’t lie, watching porn is a hard habit to break…

Not only can it take awhile to wean yourself off… but depending on your anatomy, it can take a while to feel the benefits of quitting porn too.

The good news is, there are ways to speed up this process, and get stronger & longer-lasting boners… even if you still watch porn from time to time.

For example, eat these 5 plant-based foods.

Each of these foods is scientifically proven to boost bloodflow *down there*…

… they taste great in smoothies, soups or even salads…

… and in fact a bunch of my buddies eat these foods every day, and they all say pretty much the same thing:

They no longer have issues getting hard, and no longer lose hardness mid-sex either.

They last MUCH longer than they used to…

And their sex drives are back to teenager-level again.

No joke, one of my buddies told me he saw a cute blonde girl in a sundress walking down the street a couple weeks ago… and he got SO turned on, that when he got home…

… he made his girlfriend drop what she was doing… bent her over the couch… and took her doggy-style right there.

She absolutely loved it (hell yeah):

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February is National Condom Month.

Why spend an entire month celebrating… well, condoms?

After all, a lot of guys have mixed feelings about condoms.

Condoms can be uncomfortable…

They’re not easy to remember all of the time…

And we’ve all heard that condoms can cause sex to be less pleasurable…

BUT… condoms are also very important for safe sex, and preventing pregnancy and unwanted STDs.

So to celebrate National Condom Month, we decided to perform a little experiment.

We wanted to find out, once and for all, the absolute best condom that allows for the safest, yet most pleasurable sex possible.

So we had real guys rate 5 of the nation’s leading condom brands…. and we also tested the condoms to make sure they live up to their claims too.

Here’s what we found:


What Makes a “Good” Condom?

According to most websites and condom companies, a good condom should, above all else:

1) Prevent disease transmission…

2) Prevent pregnancy… and:

3) Maintain sensation.

These are all important factors for a man’s pleasure and peace of mind.

When you put a condom on, of course you want to know that it’s keeping you safe. Even if you know the women you sleep with are safe, it never hurts to add an extra measure of protection.

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And even if the women you’re sleeping with are on the pill, or say they can’t get pregnant… you never know.

A condom helps with that too.

The biggest complaint that most guys have about condoms though?

They can numb your d*ck.

Whether or not this is true or simply an old wive’s tale (and therefore completely a placebo effect) has been debated for decades… but regardless, a man’s pleasure is important.

And when you put on a condom, you should know that it’s not going to make your sexual experience any less than it could be.


National Condom Month: 5 Ways The Government Tests Condoms For Durability, Usability & Safety

The government currently conducts what are called “empty condom tests” on most major condom brands.

These are tests they perform on the condoms when there isn’t anything in the condom, and they include:

1) The Electrical Conductance Test.

It’s a good thing the government conducts this test on the condoms when they’re empty… because it involves passing electricity through a condom to test for holes.

Basically, a good condom will not conduct electricity. If it does, that means sperm (or a virus) can potentially get through it.

The next tests are all destructive–a tested condom cannot be sold or used.

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2) The Water Leak Test.

This test is pretty much what it sounds like:

You fill a condom with 10 ounces of water and see if it leaks.

Straightforward, right?

3) The Tensile Test (AKA Stretch Test).

Have you ever put on a condom and felt like maybe you were “stretching” it out too much?

Well, the government conducts a test to see if this kind of stretching affects the quality of the condom.

Often, this test involves slicing off a sliver of the condom and stretching it until it breaks–and then measuring how far it was able to stretch.

4) The Airburst Test.

This test was only recently adopted in the U.S., though is common in many European countries and Canada.

The condom is inflated with air until it bursts, and the amount of air the condom can handle is used as a metric for its strength.

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5) The Simulated Age Test.

Have you ever had a condom in your wallet for what felt like *maybe* too long?

You’re not alone… but it’s not something a lot of guys talk about.

At what point does a condom go from being “just a little old”… to “completely unusable”?

Is it as simple as throwing it out after it’s expired?

It’s not always easy to know the answer!

So companies perform what’s called the “Simulated Aging Test” to address this.

They put the condoms in an oven at 70-degrees Celsius (158 Fahrenheit) for up to 7 full days, and then they test the condoms with water leak and tensile tests.

Other tests some companies perform that I haven’t mentioned include a package integrity test, and a lubricant test.

Whichever test is used, here’s what’s important about the science behind it:

The companies must test several condoms from a batch and calculate the fraction that pass the tests.

That way, the condoms tested are a sample of the rest of the batch. And as a result, if 5 or more condoms per 1,000 fail the test, then that batch of condoms cannot be sold in the United States.

So that’s what you need to know about how the government tests its condoms.

Here’s what we did with this information:

We Conducted Our Own Condom Experiments And Here’s What We Found…

Which tests matter the most, and which tests can be easily performed at home?

We settled on these two:

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1) The water leak test… and:
2) A simulated aging test, followed by a water leak test.

We chose these two because above everything else, a condom should prevent things from leaking out and getting in (that’s where the water test comes in).

And the reality of the situation is, a lot of guys are walking around with condoms in their wallets that aren’t exactly “brand-new.”

So we wanted to perform a little aging test of our own, to find out exactly how much age affects an older condom’s performance.

We chose 5 condoms to test, based on availability, ratings, and popularity:

1) Trojan Ultra Ribbed

2) Durex Extra Sensitive Premium Lubricated

3) Lifestyles Skyn Original

4) Nuvo Ultra Thin

5) Okamoto 004

And we put each of these condoms through the water leak test, a simulated aging test and another water leak test (multiple condoms from each brand were used for both tests).

So what?

Well, I’ve got good news and bad news.

The good news?

Every condom, both in new and aged form, performed without a single leak.

(Note: For the aging simulation, we weren’t able to keep the condoms in a 70-degree Celsius oven for 7 days, so instead we submerged the condoms in a 70-degree Celsius controlled water bath for 12 hours.)

The bad news?

I don’t really have a ton of exciting information to tell you about this, other than yeah, these condoms lived up to their claims.

However, I do have some interesting observations to share, that may affect your future condom choices.

First of all, Trojan condoms are very resistant to stretching. For both the new and aged versions, I was not able to fit all 10 ounces of water in the condom without at least some spilling out.

This tells me that Trojan condoms might fit a bit snugly if you’re average or slightly above-average *down there*… and that also means you may notice you’re wearing it more as a result.

Another strange thing?

While none of the condoms leaked, the older Okamoto condom was suspiciously stretchy. I’m talking about a scary-looking water balloon that you fear may burst at any second.

But, of course, it didn’t burst (which is great).

One final and unexpected results of this experiment–I also now have a lot more respect for guys who use condoms on a regular basis.

Those things are tough to get out of the package!


How Real Men Rated 5 of the Nation’s Leading Condoms…

We also asked real men to use each of the 5 condoms we settled on, and rate them on a number of factors.

But before I get into the numbers… some important caveats:

First, the participants were not blinded to the brands of condoms they used. This means that they knew which condom they were using when they were using it, and this may have influenced how they rated the condoms.

Second, our sample size was small, so drawing significant conclusions from this data would be difficult (and potentially inaccurate).

But these are real guys, giving real responses, and there’s no denying that consumers’ opinions do have value.

So with all that aside, let’s get down to the nitty gritty!

We asked the participants to rate the condoms on a variety of factors, including sensation, ease of use, and even how good it tasted (if their partner performed oral sex while the condom was on).

For most of these factors, we had the participants rate the condoms on a scale of 1-10.

We averaged their ratings, and organized all of the data by condom brand.

And here’s what the numbers had to tell us about the 5 condoms we tested:

Trojan:

How easy was it to put on? 8.75 / 10
Can you tell which side is the outside? 100% Yes
How well did it fit? 8 / 10
How good did the lube feel? 6.25 / 10
How noticeable was the condom during sex? 6 / 10 (where 10 is “did not notice it at all”)
How much do you want to use this condom again? 5.25 / 10
Did it stay on? 100% Yes

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Durex:

How easy was it to put on? 5.5 / 10
Can you tell which side is the outside? 50% Yes
How well did it fit? 6.75 / 10
How good did the lube feel? 9 / 10
How noticeable was the condom during sex? 7 / 10 (where 10 is “did not notice it at all”)
How much do you want to use this condom again? 6 / 10
Did it stay on? 50% Yes

Nuvo:

How easy was it to put on? 8.5 / 10
Can you tell which side is the outside? 50% Yes
How well did it fit? 8.75 / 10
How good did the lube feel? 5.25 / 10
How noticeable was the condom during sex? 6.75 / 10 (where 10 is “did not notice it at all”)
How much do you want to use this condom again? 6.25 / 10
Did it stay on? 75% Yes

Okamoto:

How easy was it to put on? 7 / 10
Can you tell which side is the outside? 75% Yes
How well did it fit? 8.25 / 10
How good did the lube feel? 5.3 / 10
How noticeable was the condom during sex? 7.75 / 10 (where 10 is “did not notice it at all”)
How much do you want to use this condom again? 7.75 / 10
Did it stay on? 100% Yes

Skyn:

How easy was it to put on? 9.5 / 10
Can you tell which side is the outside? 100% Yes
How well did it fit? 8.75 / 10
How good did the lube feel? 7.25 / 10
How noticeable was the condom during sex? 7.75 / 10 (where 10 is “did not notice it at all”)
How much do you want to use this condom again? 8.25 / 10
Did it stay on? 100% Yes

And here are the winners for each condom by category:

Easiest condom to put on: Skyn

Best fit: Nuvo & Skyn tie

Most pleasurable lubrication: Durex

Least noticeable condom: Okamoto & Skyn tie

The condom consumers want to use again most: Skyn

The clear winner here?

Skyn.

But we all know condoms are not a “one-size fits all” matter.

The best thing you can do is to take these results as a jumping off point, and use them to conduct your own experiments at home.

Different strokes for different folks, right?

Case in point–even though Skyn was by far the winner in this batch of condoms, one participant took the time to write about how much he enjoyed his experience with Durex:

I really liked the Durex condom the best out of the five. I was blown away by the feel. To be honest, I have not used a condom in a while and forgot how much condoms take away from the pleasure of sex. The Durex condom made me actually enjoy sex with protection.”


So Which Condom Is Best For You?

If you want to feel like you’re not wearing a condom, then according to our numbers… your best bet is going to be Skyn or Okamoto.

If you’re a lube guy, go for Durex.

And if you just want something that you know isn’t going to give you any trouble when you try and put it on, then stick with Skyn.

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One of the most surprising findings of this entire study, for me personally, was how well the Trojan condom didn’t perform.

It’s not that the participants rated it badly per se… but it wasn’t an all-out winner for any category.

This just goes to show how powerful marketing and advertisements can be. At the end of the day, your own experience, knowledge, and data are going to be the best judge of what’s right for you.

It’s all in the name of using science to have better sex, right?

Which reminds me… there’s one thing I forgot to mention:

The Bedroom-Boosting Data I Haven’t Told You About…

This exclusive data has a lot of valuable info in it about condoms… but there’s ONE big question it doesn’t answer:

“How can regular guys use these findings to get more hookups and sex?”

Because the truth is, there are MUCH bigger studies…

With a LOT more data about what turns women on and gets them in bed… than what I just showed you right now.

For example:

It was recently discovered that there are 3 crucial things you must do, if you want to get some action on the first date.

And if you do all 3 of these things… then unless it’s her “time of the month,” there’s a pretty good chance you two are going to hookup…

So don’t forget to bring a condom ;-):

Click here to discover the three things that will skyrocket your success on a first date.

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The Ultimate Strategy To Get A Hot Woman To Come Home With You - YouTube

Get Her Back to Your Place & Sleep With Her That Same Night–Here’s How to Make It a Sure Thing…

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Hey, it’s Glenn Pierce and we’re back again for ask Glenn anything questions.

I’m really happy about all the guys that wrote in. There are so many wonderful questions, so let’s get right into it.

Alright, next up we got Pete.

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He writes in and says:

“How can I get a girl to come back to my place with me the first night I meet her? I have girls who seem interested but I don’t want to seem too forward and lose them. Any tips on how to specifically get them somewhere private to hook up?”

So let’s get started!

Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…

“Private”–let’s get rid of that word.

Private could be your bedroom, it could be your car, it could be the parking lot…

… it could be the bathroom, it could be a back alley, it could be f*cking in the back corner of a lounge.

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I mean, I’ve banged girls literally everywhere. Private doesn’t mean anything to me.

If you want to get girls home, you have to try to take them home.

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The easiest way to get a girl home is just say–if you’re out on a date after you know you have sexual attraction–just say,  “Come on, let’s get outta here.”

Grab her by her hand and lead.

Don’t ask, “Would you come home with me? Would you like to come home with me? Do you wanna come home with me?”

You tell her, “Come on, we’re getting out of here. Let’s go.”

What I would do is if I have a car, I’ll be like, “Come on, we’re gonna get outta here, I know a great place we can go hang out.”

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She’ll say, “Oh, where are we going?”

So I’ll say, “Don’t worry, it doesn’t get too crowded, it’s got great wine. Come on, we’re going, we’ll take my car.”

I get in my car and I go straight to my f*cking house, unapologetically.

By doing that, I’ve never had one girl refuse. I’ve never had one girl say, “I’m not going in your house. How dare you? You said we’re going to another bar.”

No, because I am leading and I also know that when I’m taking a girl out of a bar or away from a date, she’s 100% ready to hook up.

Why You Should Never Be Afraid of Being “Too Forward” With A Woman…

Another part of your question was, Pete, you said, “I have girls who seem interested, but I don’t want to seem too forward and lose them.”

That’s not what you really mean.

What you really mean is you’re too scared to make a move, that’s what you’re really saying.

It’s not that you don’t want to seem too forward, I don’t believe that.

I think you’re too scared to make the move or you’re too scared of trying to kiss them, of escalating.

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This whole thing where like you don’t want to seem forward… get over yourself.

Women don’t like men who aren’t forward. Women like strong, confident, aggressive, alpha men.

Do you think that they fear seeming too forward? Hell no, dude.

They take what they want when they want, and if you don’t want me, great, that other chick standing over at the end of the bar does, so make up your mind.

I want you to adopt that mentality. Your mentality is all wrong.

Try applying the things that I just said and I promise you, you’re going to see a drastic, drastic, difference in the way women treat you and in how you feel around women.

What If She Changes Her Mind When You Get Home?

I’ve gotten this question a lot, and I know many community members have experienced this…

… sometimes a woman will come home with you, but mid-makeout she’ll stop and say, “We’re not having sex tonight.”

And you know what I always say when this happens?

I say “good” and then go back to making out with her… because 99 times out of 100, that one sentence means we ARE having sex tonight.

How do I know this?

Well the actual words that come out of a woman’s mouth aren’t NEARLY as important as how she feels, and the feelings behind the words she’s saying…

So if a woman says you’re not getting laid tonight, then here’s what you do…

You’ve gotta change how she feels, you got to turn her on.

And in my experience the fastest way I’ve found to turn a woman on is by using your touch.

There’s one particular sequence of touches, that’s very innocent-seeming…

… yet can get her HIGHLY aroused, in a very short period of time…

… and if you use it like the video below shows you, then she’ll often be the one to initiate sex with you:

Click here to see the “innocent” sequence of touches that turns her on & gets her in bed.

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“What makes a woman say no before you even start?”

Most men might answer with the classics:

“Too short,” “too bald,” “fat,” “inexperienced,” or “weak”… though there is one response that is even more classic than all the rest:

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Money.

Or rather, lack thereof.

This one is timeless, and for a reason.

And so today we’re going to get to the bottom of why women are so attracted to money, and what you can do about the fact that you don’t have “enough” of it.

So without further ado let’s handle what is probably the biggest, baddest and realest excuse for why she doesn’t like you… and why she likes that other (short, fat, bald) guy.

Why Do Women REALLY Like Men With Money?

“This one’s real, David.” Most of my clients tell me…

I mean, it’s a fact. You either have it or you don’t, and you can’t pretend to have it if you don’t!

There’s no question–girls prefer a guy with money, all else being equal.

OK, OK!! You’re right.

Girls prefer a guy with money… all else being equal.

All else is NEVER equal, though, is it?

Women–having WAY more social experience than you (in general) know this even better than you do.

The truth is–and you can find out more if you listen when she speaks, rather than just nodding your head–what she likes about money is some feeling it gives her that is not actually from the money.

Here are some examples of the diverse, sometimes even contradictory feelings that money gives, so you can realize that they are not actually real… AND they can be produced without money.

1) Freedom

There is a feeling–and it’s not unrealistic–that with more money, you (and she by extension) would be free to think, do and say what you want.

This is different from the opportunity to have experiences–I’m talking about the freedom to do things that other people can do, but wouldn’t for fear of censure or punishment.

In fact, this freedom always exists. Money only does one or more of these things:

a) It makes people’s unconventional thoughts and unpopular actions public.

This is, of course, so that we can notice them and envy their fearless–free–ability to think and do.

b) It compensates for punishment and censure.

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A person feels, “I don’t care if people don’t like what I do or say, because (basically) I have more money than they.”

This circular logic is natural. The money does NOT provide freedom.

c) It magically (halo effect) makes marginal behavior and thoughts acceptable.

This is true in the sense that, “I (and other people) like this person, so these behaviors are less unlikeable than I thought.”

(It’s kind of like a phrase you may have heard me steal, “Change her mood, not her mind.”)

This last one comes closest to the feeling people have about the freedom that money brings.

2) Fun

Money can bring more fun–especially if that’s what you spend it on.

Fun obviously doesn’t require money, however.

Is there any way I can demonstrate that assertion? Well, children constantly demonstrate this truth.

While money can buy toys (and it’s certainly not the only way to get them), money cannot buy fun.

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Thus far, I have not encountered a child under one who prefers a purchased toy over the keys you use to get into your house, or under two who prefers any thing to your mobile phone.

Not to mention RIGHT now I’m on a ski vacation in Breckenridge and it’s super expensive.

But there’s no way I’m having more FUN than the 50 or so university students who got a package deal of probably half what was spent for me.

Fun is a lot of things besides cost, and while many fun things can be purchased, and many purchased things can be fun; money doesn’t mean fun and fun doesn’t mean money.

3) Safety

If you have money, most women think, they are safer.

You can pay for certain safety precautions–like gates and bars and exclusivity and alarm systems and bodyguards.

Of course, crime goes to where the money is… and danger is not merely a function of circumstance, financial or otherwise.

I needn’t list the murdered rich people, the plane crashed celebrities, the helicopter crashes and speedboat crashes and car crashes that claim their lives with similar (though more favorable odds) to everyone else.

The truth is, safety is a feeling.

And while money is often, in a woman’s mind, a shortcut to safety… the feeling doesn’t come from it, nor require it.

Pay attention to what she’s looking for, and you can make her feel safe.

4) Peace Of Mind

Basically, a lot of women–this is so true–feel like having money, or talking to a guy with money, means that they’ll have peace of mind.

“Whatever we do will be fun and safe” (see above)…

“I won’t have to worry about anything”…

“He’ll handle things”…

“My friends will envy me”…

“We’ll eat well”…

“And if things go really well, I’ll be comfortable for the rest of my life.”

Is it true?

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Do you think it’s people without money that are lining up for antidepressants and lining the pockets of the pharmaceutical industry?

I’m not arguing against medicine for improving people’s lives…

But please agree with me that anxiety, depression, insecurity and other states lacking peace of mind are not unheard of in those who have money.

In fact, while money may buy quality drugs–legal or illegal–drugs do NOT produce peace of mind, even when they mimic it.

In fact, you don’t need to fulfill any of these desires–freedom, fun, safety and peace of mind–in order to be attractive with or without money.

You need to do something else, and I’ll show you what that is below:

And Here’s How This Will Get You Laid a LOT More…

Like I mentioned above… men who have money might get some women more easily, but that doesn’t mean they’re getting laid.

Money doesn’t put in any of the work for you.

Cash isn’t going to lean in for the kiss… it won’t lead her to your bedroom… and it sure as hell isn’t going to get her naked and screaming your name in bed.

That’s why there are quite a few rich guys who really struggle with women. They think their money should do all the work… but it doesn’t.

You know what will get you laid though?

I’ll give you a hint… make her feel something different. Change her mood, not her mind.

I mention that saying a lot because when you can change a woman’s mood, it’s an incredible power to have…

It’s how guys like me (and a lot of my clients), who don’t have tons of money, get to sleep with really hot model-type girls… who otherwise wouldn’t even give us the time of day…

And it’s the secret to making a woman feel excited to be with you, to the point that she’s genuinely turned on… and eager to have sex with you.

(Even if you haven’t spent one SINGLE penny on her, and never intend to)

And here’s the kicker… you can easily change a woman’s mood, and sleep with her without saying much of anything to her at all:

Click here now to see how.

P.S. I’ve found THIS works especially well to get younger women in bed…

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How To Give Her More Orgasms Using Very Little Effort–And Keep Her Coming Back to You For More & More…

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If you’re a human being who has sex, or who talks about sex, or who reads about sex, or watches films about sex—you get my drift…

… then you probably already know that it’s darn hard to get women to orgasm.

Okay, I’m not talking about porn, where everyone is screaming and rolling around within seconds of penetration.

That’s all fun and games, but any real woman can tell you it’s rarely real life.

In real life, it’s tough for women to orgasm! They need your help and attention to get there.

Science backs this up.

According to a recent survey of 52,000 women and men, heterosexual women orgasm less often than heterosexual men, homosexual men, lesbian women and bi women.

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So basically, straight women get the short end of the stick–not literally, but you catch my drift.

In fact, stick size has little to do with whether or not a woman has an orgasm. Instead, it all has to do with the moves her partner uses.

The survey revealed that there are 3 specific moves that almost always give hot girls an orgasm.

In no particular order:

1) More Foreplay

Trust me…  if a woman has an orgasm during sex, she’s much more likely to come back for more.

So how can you make sure your partner has a happy ending?

First, I have one word for you:

Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.

Yes, that’s one word repeated three times—because it’s that important.

Foreplay isn’t only fun—especially for women—it’s necessary. Just ask physics.

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Foreplay gives a woman a chance to get wet.

If she’s not wet, and you’re trying to cram something in there, it’s going to hurt.

You might not mind it, but she will, and she’s very unlikely to have an orgasm that way.

Foreplay makes everything work better mechanically. But it also gets her closer to orgasm mentally.

For many women, having an orgasm requires a lot of concentration.

She can’t just go from 0 to 100 in five minutes. She’s not a sports car, even if she is as sexy as one.

Instead, she needs to be warmed up. How can you do this?

Maybe you’re worried your foreplay skills aren’t up to par.

Researchers show that one method of foreplay is almost guaranteed to help a woman have an orgasm:

2) “Deep” Kissing

Ready for it?

This trick is called “deep kissing.” And it’s exactly what it sounds like.

Pretend you’re 17 sneaking off in the back of your Ford and spend some time making out.

If you do, the payoffs for her, and therefore for you, are guaranteed to increase.

What else can you do?

Use your hands. Or your mouth.

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That’s right. Women who received some extra stimulation, either by their partner’s hand or mouth, are more likely to orgasm once you move on to the real deal.

Women in this study listed some other things that helped them achieve orgasm.

These included being satisfied with the relationship (if you had a great date beforehand, the sex is guaranteed to be better!)…

Teasing via call or email about sexy plans in advance…

And trying new positions.

Yet the women asked always came back to one thing:

3) Lasting Long Enough In Bed…

Something else very simple that helped women reach the big O every time?

Longer duration of sex.

That’s just what it sounds like–having sex for longer.

While you might be eager to race to the finish, if you do, you’ll leave your lady in the dust.

So pay attention to her while you’re having sex.

Not only will taking your mind off your own pleasure help you last longer, but you’ll also be able to tell what she’s really enjoying.

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If she seems really into a position, stay there for longer.

Staying in a position that’s working really well is usually how a woman can have an orgasm. If you just go blasting on to the next one, she might miss her chance!

In fact, that’s another thing women reported:

When their partner asked what they liked, and then did it, they were a lot more likely to climax.

Remember, it’s not a race, and you’re not a jackhammer doing construction on concrete.

But at the end of the day… there is ONE surefire way to make sure your woman is always satisfied between the sheets, no matter what…

And here’s what it is:

It Doesn’t Matter How Many Orgasms You Give Her, If You Can’t Do This…

So let’s say you use a combination of oral, and certain fingering skills to continuously get a woman off… that’s great!

But… we need a little more than that.

Women will ALWAYS desire the feeling of a penis inside them, especially if it’s from a man who has already made her come. *mmmm*

This is why sexual stamina is so important.

Even if you made her come 20 times, made her squirt, and gave her such intense orgasms that she fainted…

… the experience WILL be cheapened, if your manhood doesn’t perform to the best of its abilities…

Luckily science has discovered certain foods that can easily get you hard… keep you hard… and potentially even boost your sex drive.

These foods have been used in an ancient Vietnamese virility dish, that’s been around for THOUSANDS of years…

And in fact these foods work so well, that they were even a well-kept secret among male porn actors, to help get harder faster & perform like a stallion…

… DECADES before that little blue pill was invented:

You can see what these 5 foods are right here.

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Hey, what’s up? It’s another episode of Ask Ruwando, and I’m Ruwando here for Gotham Club.

And this question is from Tom:

“Do you have any tips for eating out girls to make them come harder or faster?”

Great question, Tom, and I think this is something many men are curious about.

So today, I want to show you the truth about how to truly satisfy a woman when you’re going down on her.

No bulls*it, no beating around the bush (no pun intended).

So let’s get started!

Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…

Thanks for the question, Tom.

First thing I’m going to say and I have to say this right off the bat, I need to reframe the question.

Because if you’re going at this, Tom, and I think a lot of guys do from a goal-oriented framework, you’re already setting yourself up to fail.

If you’re trying to get her to come faster–if you’re trying to get her to come at all, you’re going to put pressure on yourself.

That’s going to put you in your head, even if you know the perfect techniques… you’re probably gonna mess up.

You’re probably gonna miss the cues. You’re probably gonna be a little off.

And secondly, women are very intuitive.

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If you’re putting pressure on yourself to have some sort of outcome, she’s probably gonna pick that up.

And either she’s going to be annoyed, or she’s gonna feel pressure on herself and that’s not gonna be good.

If she’s feeling pressure on herself she’s almost certainly not gonna have an orgasm. And if she does it’s probably not gonna be a good orgasm.

Like if a woman’s putting pressure on you to do something to get hard in a certain way you’re probably gonna lose your erection. No one wants to feel pressure, especially in the bedroom.

So I’d say instead of trying to get her to have a certain kind of orgasm instead make your goal not a goal.

I mean it’s a bit counterintuitive, but make your goal to just have enjoyment and pleasure, moment to moment.

Because that is the best way to have her have big orgasms. You want to go moment to moment feeling the sensation.

So instead of eating her out to try to get her to orgasm, I’d say eat her out in a way that makes it feel as good as possible for both you and her in the moments.

And that comes down to a term I bring up in a lot of videos which is the resonant stroke.

What Do I Mean When I Say “Resonant Stroke”?

If you don’t know what that is, resonance you can think of like a wine glass.

Like when you run your finger on a wine glass at a certain frequency it causes the glass to resonate cause you’ve matched frequencies and it causes the glass to sing.

So in every moment of sex, there is a resonant speed, location and pressure that allows her body to sing.

You’re matching what she’s feeling and that’s what’s gonna allow the most sensation.

If you can keep doing this moment to moment, the sensation will get bigger and bigger and bigger… and that’s what leads to the orgasms.

I’m talking about the biggest possible orgasms you’ve ever witnessed–squirting and stuff like that.

So within that, I have 3 tricks to help you find that resonant stroke and give her as much pleasure as possible while you’re going down on her:

1) Pay Attention

The first thing is to pay attention.

A woman’s body will tell you exactly how it wants to be touched if you can pay close enough attention.

This goes for her lips when you’re kissing…  it goes for touching her shoulder. It goes for touching her hair, it goes for even your communication.

But it certainly goes for the vagina, the vulva.

Women’s genitals are very expressive, okay? If you can really pay attention it’ll give you the feedback.

How?

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Through moisture, through swelling, through her feedback, and through the sounds she makes.

So you wanna be able to pay attention to these cues because all the instructions you need are in her body, not from me telling you right?

So the thing I wanna tell you though is to pay attention.

Having a high attention span is the number one trait that makes a man good in bed.

I’d argue it’s also what makes you successful in life. Being able to pay attention to the cues in business, in relationships in whatever.

But certainly when it comes to a woman’s body.

2) Be Curious

The next principle is to be curious.

Once you’re paying attention you wanna look even deeper.

Don’t just, just pay attention to what her body is doing in the moment.

Be curious, like oh what happens if I lick this part of her labia?

What happens if I turn my mouth sideways and kiss?

What happens when I suck?

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Or what happens when I go lightly or hard (or whatever)?

Some of the best oral sex techniques that I have, I’m not even gonna share with you–because I came up with all of them from being curious and noticing like oh this worked with this woman.

Or she had this feedback.

And that’s the mindset you wanna have going into sex, because you’ll come up with your own best techniques.

And they’re not even gonna work with every woman, because every woman is different.

I mean, you don’t need me to tell you what a woman’s positive response is.

If she’s making positive moaning sounds, if she’s getting wet, if she’s saying yes more, more… you know what arousal looks like, I’m sure you do.

You don’t need me to tell you what it is. Pay attention and pick up those cues, ’cause that’s what’s gonna bring her to orgasm.

3) Eat For Your Pleasure

The last thing on finding the resonant stroke is to eat for your pleasure.

This is an obvious one right?

If you’re eating a meal, you’re eating it for your pleasure. Don’t worry about whether the steak you’re eating is enjoying it–you would never do that right, that’s ridiculous.

Of course you do wanna care about whether she’s having a good time. That’s why you’re asking the question.

But as I addressed in a video on how to get women to wanna give you oral sex more often… same thing on the flip side. Giving oral sex to a woman, eating her out, can be a very pleasurable experience for you.

You may have noticed when you suck a woman’s p*ssy and you’re really in it and you’re really connected you might get hard.

Why is that?

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Because you’re picking up on her sympathetic arousal, and that’s part of the fun of sex. There’s no longer any giver or receiver because you’re both enjoying every act.

If you can get yourself into this mindset you won’t even worry about whether or not she gets off or not ’cause you’ll be having such a good time.

And the beauty is when you’re in this connected state that’s when the highest sensation happens.

That’s when she’s most likely to orgasm–when you are eating her out for your own pleasure.

It’s like when a woman is really enthusiastic about sucking your c*ck. That’s when it feels the best right?

Speaking of which… here’s a fun trick you can use to get a woman practically “addicted” to your manhood:

Want Her to Get Addicted to Your Manhood?

Don’t get me wrong… some women WILL get addicted to some good tongue, I’ve seen it a bunch of times before.

But every girl is different…

Not every woman out there gets off from just good oral.

Some women don’t get off from oral AT ALL… which is why you need a variety of tricks in your utility belt (like this 5-Finger Tantra move for example).

That being said… there is one move in particular that has allowed me to give orgasms to almost every woman I’ve used it on… (except for maybe one or two girls back in my early days)…

And because few women have ever experienced this move, or are even aware of it…

… when you use it, it can cause these INTENSE whole body (and sometimes squirting) orgasms.

The best part is, you only need 5 fingers to do it… so you can use it when you’re going down on her and your tongue needs a break…

During sex if your c*ck needs a break…

And speaking from experience, if you use this move right she WILL come, and she WILL want to sleep with you again… point blank:

Click here to see how to use 5-Finger Tantra to give any woman explosive orgasms and get her addicted to your manhood.

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Discover The Personality Traits Women Love & That Get Hot Girls In Bed–And How to Use Them to Get Laid Tonight…

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Ever heard the phrase “Nice guys finish last?”

Well, whoever said that first obviously hadn’t read this exciting new study.

That’s right—a new study shows that your personality is super important when it comes to how often you get laid.

Yes, your personality matters just as much (if not more) than your looks!

In fact, when it comes to getting lucky, your personality might be even more important than your appearance.

You heard it straight from the mouth of science.

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If there’s something you don’t love about your appearance, forget about it.

You can land the lady of your dreams just by being a good guy. And now science has officially proven it.

A new study, conducted by researchers at Queensland University of Technology, has found that men who have the most sex all have 4 personality traits in common.

What, then, is this magical personality that can get it going on for the average-looking dude?

Here are the 4 magical traits that can get you laid a lot more often:

1) Agreeableness

What does that mean?

Basically, it means friendly and pleasant.

In a nutshell: nice.

No, you don’t need to roll into the club gnawing the bones of your enemies.

You don’t need to have a tough-guy attitude or a bunch of tattoos or a Harley.

I mean, if you have those things, more power to you! You’re probably great at rocking your vibe.

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But if you’re just a guy in, say, a sweater and the socks your mom gave you last Christmas, that’s totally okay, too.

In fact, she might just find you adorable. (The woman you’re trying to pick up on. Not your mom.)

When it comes to getting laid more often, science shows that nice guys finish first.

Play up your friendly, pleasant side. Even if you feel like the Grinch, it’s got to be down there somewhere.

Be a “Yes” man. And you’re sure to land a yes woman.

2) Emotional Stability

Chances are you like your dining room table the way women like their men: stable. Not wobbly. Not likely to fall over on top of you.

Emotionally, that is.

You get the picture. Women are more likely to sleep with men who seem emotionally stable.

That means men who seem to be in control of their emotions. Not scary-happy, not too sad. Definitely not too angry.

Just a regular, well-balanced guy.

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Sure, he might yell at the television when his favorite team is losing, but he would never yell at a woman, he’s nice to his mom, and he’s super sweet to his dog.

He doesn’t miss work a ton or fly into a rage over little things. He’s sad when bad things happen, but then he bounces back.

Sound like you? Great news! Just remember: science says this is even more important than your looks!

And if you aren’t feeling especially emotionally stable, there are lots of ways you can improve your mental health, from seeing a healthcare professional to spending time with friends and family.

3) Conscientiousness

What does this mean?

Conscientious people care about the world around them.

Maybe a conscientious guy takes care of the planet by recycling.

Maybe he volunteers or donates to charity.

He doesn’t drive like a jerk or get in fights for no reason. He is aware that his actions have consequences.

Basically, a conscientious guy is a responsible adult.

It makes sense that women would rather sleep with responsible, caring adults, instead of impulsive wild boys—right?

After all, sex is a risky, intimate activity. Show her you’re worth the risk by living a conscientious life.

4) Extraversion

An extroverted person is outgoing. He’s not shy. He’s easy to get along with. He’s funny. He’s the life of the party!

If that sounds like a tall order, don’t worry. Even if you’re a shy person, you can learn to act more extroverted.

How? It’s easy. If you have a hard time striking up a conversation with women, just let them do the talking.

How do you get women talking?

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Easy. Ask them questions.

That’s right—by asking questions, you can fake it ‘til you make it.

Mirror your partner’s facial expressions. When she smiles and laughs, you smile and laugh, too.

This way, even if you’re a shy person, you can come across as outgoing—which makes you more likely to score!  

What If You’re Not An Extrovert?

We get a lot of messages from our community members here at Gotham Club…

… and overwhelmingly, it seems like there’s ONE thing almost all guys everywhere are struggling with:

Turning things sexual with a girl.

Especially if you’re a little shy, or more on the introverted side…

… it’s not easy to talk like a smooth macho man, and seduce women like you see in the movies if that’s not really how you feel in the moment.

But you don’t have to worry… because you know what?

After speaking to several experts here at Gotham and doing A LOT of research… it turns out the most effective way to seduce a woman, and get her sooooo uncontrollably turned on that she wants to tear your clothes off… is through touch!

And it makes sense…

Personally, I’ve never gone home with a guy because he said some smooth line. (And come to think of it, neither have any of my hot girlfriends either)

But the few times when I HAVE felt an overwhelming urge to sleep with a man… I couldn’t put my finger on it, but my body felt super tingly & I was aching to get into bed… *mmmmmmm*

Turns out these men just happened to touch me in the right way, at the right times, and I was putty in their hands:

Click here to see why & how touch gets her in bed faster than words ever can.

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It’s happened to the best of us.

You meet a girl… she seems great…

Maybe you go on 1 or 2 dates… which turns into 6 or 7 dates…

But either she still treats you as mostly a “friend,” or she makes excuses not to hookup with you.

What gives??

This used to happen to me personally, and trust me, I know it’s frustrating as hell…

So today I’m gonna show you how to figure out:

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1) If she’s using you as a meal ticket…

2) And if she is using you, how to still sleep with her (yes, it can be done).

Plus I’ll also show you a great way to speed up the seduction process, so even if she isn’t using you, you’ll get laid way faster.

Hi, I’m Glenn Pearce, and as part of my new series, Ask Glenn, I’m answering your most difficult, burning questions related to sex and dating.

So let’s get started!

Catch The Full Video Transcript Below…

Hey, it’s Glenn Pearce, and we’re back again for Ask Glenn Anything Questions.

I’m really happy about all the guys who wrote in. There are so many wonderful questions, so let’s get right into it.

Okay, this next question is from Jeff in Phoenix. Jeff says:

“How do I tell the difference if a girl likes me versus if she’s just using me?”

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You know, Jeff. Do you need me to answer it?

You know if a girl is using you. Do you feel used?

Do you feel like she’s taking advantage of you?

Or do you feel like she’s disrespecting you?

Do you feel like she appreciates the attention, the love, the money, the dates, or the sex that you give her?

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If the answer is no, then she’s probably using you… but using you for what?

If she’s using you for sex, awesome. And if she’s using you for your money, f*ck her and go find another girl. 

I mean, really the best way I can answer this is to show you how I personally get hot girls in bed (even if they are using me).

Because it’s easier than you probably think, and here’s how:

Here’s How to Sleep With Her Either Way…

Women use men every now and then, just like men use women.

It’s human nature, it’s happened to me too, and I’ve learned not to take it personally…

Which is why anytime I find out a woman is using me… I use it as an opportunity to get laid.

Because when a woman uses you, it’s obviously because you have something she wants.

And if you can dangle the thing she wants in front of her… inches from her reach without giving it to her… then you’ve got a REALLY good shot at sleeping with her.

(For example, if she’s using you for free meals, then you could invite her out to a fancy dinner… but insist she comes over to your place first. Don’t even bother making reservations… )

Because this means you get the opportunity to seduce her…

… and while there are a few different ways you can pull this off…

In my personal experience, by FAR the fastest way to turn the tables on her… get her to stop looking at you as an open wallet, and start chasing you to the bedroom…

… is to follow this 3-Step “Physical Fast Track”:

Click here right now to see how to use the 3-Step Physical Fast Track to sleep with a girl who might be using you.

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