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It's Saturday morning. You're standing at the kitchen sink.
And you hear it mocking you.
Drip. Drip. Drip.
That pipe under the sink has been leaking for weeks. And the bucket just about needs emptying again.
Between the kids' activities, homework, your travel schedule and everything else going on in your life, you just haven't had time to fix the darn thing.
But today is going to be the day...
Your wife keeps telling you to just hire someone. But you insist you're going to fix it yourself. It's a leaky pipe. How hard could it be?
Four hours and one flooded kitchen later, you finally give up.
The water from the now exploded pipe got under the fridge, shorting out the cooling coil. And while you were under there, you somehow managed to break the garbage disposal by hitting it with your wrench.
That leaky pipe which looked oh-so-simple to fix is now going to cost you a lot more than you had originally planned...
Ask anyone who's been ordered to pay spousal support how they feel about having to write a check to their former spouse every week or month.
You’ll probably be met with a few choice words...
The fact is - most people want to just move on after a divorce, sever ties and go their separate ways.
Unfortunately, when there are alimony payments involved, it can feel for the payor as if this separation never truly happened, which can ultimately lead to frustration and bitterness on the part of the payer.
That’s why some divorcing spouses choose an alternative to the weekly “check in the mail” alimony approach.
Your marriage is ending and the same fears keep rushing through your head:
The house: “Will I have enough money to keep it?”
The bills: “How will I be able to pay them?”
Health insurance: “Will I be able to get coverage?”
Retirement: “Will there be any money left to save for the future?”
In divorce, all of these fears are normal and have something in common:
When it comes to money and divorce, there's one issue that's more emotional, controversial and challenging for spouses to resolve than any other.
Whether you call it alimony or divorce maintenance, coming to agreement on a matter that will require an ex-husband or wife to give money to the other ex-spouse to support their future lifestyle after the marriage is challenging, to say the least.
And the topic of alimony in Illinois is a complicated one.
You’re at the crossroads of a divorce and the same worries keep flooding your mind:
“Can I afford to keep the marital home?”
“Will I be able to pay my bills and meet my financial responsibilities?”
“How will I get health insurance coverage after my marriage ends?”
“Will I have enough financial resources to be able to save for my retirement?”
All of these fears are typical in divorce and have one thing in common:
When it comes to money and divorce, there's one topic that's more stressful, more emotional and more difficult for parties to resolve than any other.
Whether you call it alimony or spousal support, California couples needing to come to an agreement that will require one ex-spouse to pay money to the other ex-spouse to support their lifestyle is challenging, to say the least.
You may be wondering about divorce and its effect on children and asking yourself if you should get a divorce or stay married for the sake of your kids.
What parents who love their children wouldn't?
But does staying together for the kids do more harm than good throughout the years?
In order to settle the age-old debate on whether or not you and your spouse should end your unhappy marriage and divorce or stay for the kids, we asked a panel of experts to share their advice for parents.
For divorcing couples without kids, after the divorce is final, their relationship can come to an end.
Their property and debts have been divided, alimony has been settled and other than perhaps a monthly check sent from one spouse to another, interaction between the parties can be virtually non-existent.
But if you're divorcing with children, it's an entirely different story. Because for long after your divorce is final, you'll still need to interact on a regular basis with your ex-spouse. Not as husband and wife, but as co-parents to your kids.
So what can you do to ensure your children grow up happy, supported and well-adjusted after your divorce and for the rest of their lives?
Our panel of experts weighed in and shared some tips for divorcing with kids and co-parenting success.
You and your spouse worked hard throughout all the years of your marriage.
You bought a house, saved for retirement, maybe even treated yourself to a new car or truck.
But now that you’re divorcing, you have questions about what is equitable distribution, how to know what is marital property versus non-marital property, and just who gets what in a divorce - and how it's determined.
You want to make sure that all the money you worked so hard for doesn’t wind up getting wasted on legal fees.
And you don’t get the short end of the stick when it comes to the equitable division of marital property in your divorce.