Raising Godly children with strong Christian Character. My goal is to help and encourage parents to be purposeful in raising their kids to love God, and have Godly character. You'll find encouragement for parenting, homeschooling, and winning your child's heart, We also offer Biblical based resources to help you.
Even though most Christian parents would agree that teaching the Bible to our children is one of the most important things we can do, we often fail to do it!
There are 5 common reasons WHY we neglect teaching the Bible to our children:
1. THERE’S NOT ENOUGH TIME.
The truth is that we make time to do the things we want to do. We only have one chance to raise our kids, and if we don’t have time to obey God’s command in Deuteronomy 6 to teach His Word to our children, we’re too busy.
Sometimes I think we don’t really believe it’s all that important. Actions show how you really feel about things, and what you value.
If you tell your kids constantly how important the Bible is, but don’t show it by your actions, they won’t value it either.
When was the last time that your children saw you reading the Bible, or that you shared something God showed you from His Word?
2.IT DOESN’T SEEM TO DO ANY GOOD.
Perhaps you get discouraged and think what you’re doing isn’t helping at all. Think again!
First, God’s Word won’t return unto Him void.
Second, recognize where those thoughts are coming from. The devil knows what God’s Word will do in your family’s life, and of course, will try to stop you.
We can’t let this lie cause us to neglect teaching the Bible to our children! Keep on, remembering the power of His Word.
3. THE KIDS ARE NOT INTERESTED IN MEMORIZING VERSES, OR READING GOD’S WORD.
This probably stems from one of two things.
First, their minds are too cluttered with other things. For example, too much TV or an excessive interest in sports, video games, music, etc.
Second, perhaps your attitude is influencing them. Are YOU showing excitement?
4. WE DON’T REALLY BELIEVE IT’S ALL THAT IMPORTANT.
Actions show how you really feel about things, and what you value.
If you tell your kids constantly how important the Bible is, but don’t show it by your actions, they won’t value it either. When was the last time that your children saw you reading the Bible, or that you shared something God showed you from His Word?
5.WE DON’T REALIZE THE BLESSING WE WILL RECEIVE AS WE MAKE THE BIBLE OUR TOP PRIORITY.
We have seen many blessings in our family and home, as we have tried to make God’s Word of top importance.
Let me share some of those blessings:
My kids are excited about the Bible!
They read one or more chapters a day, memorize passages, and we review them. They often do the memory work on their own, as they’re anxious to get the new passage learned. I don’t have to drive them with a whip to do any of these things.
The kids are more responsive to the Holy Spirit, as God’s Word keeps their hearts soft.
One night I was concerned about the attitude my daughter had shown through the day and into the evening. It was something I sensed, but wasn’t quite sure how to deal with. I prayed about it specifically as I took my shower. When I was done, she called me into her and she apologized for having a bad attitude! As she was praying, the Lord spoke to her about it and she responded.
God’s thoughts become part of their thoughts
One night at dinner, the word refuge was mentioned. Immediately my eight year old son quoted, “The Lord God also will be a refuge for the oppressed.” My ten year old said the next phrase, and my five year old the next verse. Wow! How exciting that God’s Word was right there in their thoughts.
Perhaps the biggest blessing in all this, is that I get excited and I learn God’s Word as I help the kids memorize & apply it, as I discipline them with Scripture, and teach with it.
As I daily work to teach the Bible to my kids, I get constant exposure to God’s thoughts. I’m not sure who God really meant to benefit the most from His command in Deuteronomy 6, but I’m sure He knew that parents needed this as much (perhaps more) as the kids!
It’s always exciting to obey God’s commands and then see how He blesses!
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In the post Are You Making These 5 Parenting Mistakes? I shared some mistakes that I have made in my parenting which are very common. This week God impressed some thoughts on my mind that relate to parenting mistakes that we make when we have a prodigal child.
I think there can be a wide range of behavior that describes a prodigal child. Some may be showing some beginning signs of rebellion, where others may be living in outright rebellion to what they have been taught from God’s Word.
I’ve been guilty of many mistakes at different times when one of my kids was at any stage that caused me to be concerned that they were going in the wrong direction, or heading towards becoming a prodigal.
Here are three mistakes when parenting a prodigal:
As parents who spend time investing in the training of their children, we long for God’s blessing on their lives. When we see them making choices that we know can bring unpleasant consequences, it is EASY to begin to worry.
If we aren’t careful, we can become consumed with that worry. God doesn’t want us to carry that burden, but rather give it to Him.
There have been MANY times over the last 34 years of raising our eight kids, that I would lay in bed FRETTING. Again, it may not have even been a BIG, major issue. However, I knew there was a heart problem that could lead to those major issues, and I had trouble letting go.
I had to intentionally picture handing the situation to God, and letting go. Often, I realized I was holding it AGAIN, and would repeat the process of saying “God, I know you are in control, and You have told us to cast our cares on You. I give You this burden, and ask You to carry it for me.”
Remember that fretting and worrying accomplishes NOTHING, other than stressing you and wasting precious energy!
2. Talking to others about it, rather than praying.
Recently I had a conversation with one of my kids that immediately caused me to be concerned about the way they were thinking, and where it would/could lead. I tried to communicate my concerns, but didn’t feel that I got too far with that. I walked away from the conversation wondering WHY so many our our “good Christian kids” are struggling so much with the issues they are.
My wondering then led me to think that I really wanted to talk to a certain person and get their perspective and opinion about it.
Immediately, God convicted me about the fact that I was so eager to run and seek the opinion and advice of someone, when I had not even brought it to HIM!! (By the way, I think it is WISE to seek advice and counsel about your kids if they are struggling, but be sure to seek God FIRST.)
How VERY often have I been guilty of that! It’s so easy to talk about the problem and your concern to everyone except the ONE who has ALL the answers we need, AND is able to work in the heart of our kids and bring conviction that WE can’t bring. If He can change the heart of a king, He can change the heart of our child.
3. Taking it personally, rather than realizing that it is a spiritual battle.
It is SO easy to get caught up in the conflicts we have with our young people that we begin to allow it to become a personal thing — us against them. We allow the conflict to damage the relationship, which is EXACTLY what the devil is hoping to do! One of his biggest tricks is to get us fighting against each other, when we are on the SAME side, and should be fighting TOGETHER against him, not each other!
Whenever you are having rebellion problems with any of your kids, immediately recognize it as spiritual warfare, and put on the armor of God. Seek HIS strength, power, and wisdom as you partner with God to love your child and not fight against him, but FOR him. The best thing you can do is seek to restore the relationship with your child and win their heart back.
Having a wayward child is a difficult thing to deal with, but God will give you the grace and strength you need. He invites you to come to Him for wisdom, and to cast your cares on Him. Don’t carry the burden alone, but take it to Him!
As I finished my 31st and final year of homeschooling, I was thinking back over the years, and the things my husband and I had learned as well as the the changes we had made. It’s a journey I would do all over again, but there are a few things I would change if I had it to do over. After 31 years of homeschooling – if I had it to do over again, what changes would I make?
Homeschooling- If I Had It To Do Over – 3 things that I would do differently:
1. I would take better care of myself.
As a young mom, I was able to get away with staying up late, getting up during the night with babies, and getting up early with the toddlers. I was tired, as all busy moms are, but I was able to do what I needed to each day. I didn’t exercise regularly, because I didn’t feel I had the time. There were always better or more important things to do. Eventually, it all began to catch up with me though.
I hit a spot where I started to struggle physically, and ended up with chronic fatigue, and stressed adrenals. I was burned out – physically, emotionally, and mentally. At that point I realized that I HAD to take time for self-renewal. I needed to adjust things so I could get the rest I needed.
This required making some changes in our activities, and I had to pretty much stop all outside activities. I also started to take a break now and then with some friends. It’s amazing what a little time away, laughing with some like-minded moms, will do for you! Laughter is a good medicine.
As I took those steps, it helped me improve mentally, and have clearer, more focused thinking, and well as more positive thoughts.
Fatigue will always lead to negative thoughts, such as: “I’m not doing a good job – my kids would be better off in school”, I’m such a bad Mom – I never have energy to play with the kids”, “I can’t handle this anymore”, etc. Everything seems worse when you are fatigued.
If I am burned outand can’t function, I will lose my ability to do what God has called me to do. I wish I hadn’t had to learn that the hard way!
2. I would stress much less about WHEN a child “got” it with reading, or math.
I would focus on making learning fun, and waiting till they were ready. For each child that readiness comes at different ages. They also learn in different ways. If I had known that when I first started teaching the kids, it would have saved me many hours of tears and frustration. (mine and the kids!)
I want my kids to enjoy learning, but if I keep pushing them when they aren’t ready and don’t get it, they will dislike learning. Also, if I use a curriculum that doesn’t work with their learning style, it will be much more frustrating for both of us.
Over time I realized that it doesn’t hurt to take a break from from the phonics, or new math concept if they just aren’t quite ready for it yet. It’s better to put it aside for a time, do some learning games that aren’t intense, and then try the subject again a few weeks later.
3. I would focus less on making sure the rules were being obeyed, and more on building the relationship that would make them WANT to obey those rules!
Rules are necessary, but as the saying goes, “Rules without relationship breed rebellion.”
It is easy to strive for compliance while forgetting the relationship that will bring that compliance.
Because of our strong desire to be good parents, in an attempt to be firm we were often too harsh. The relationship with our kids was damaged as a result of the harshness.
We learned that it worked much better when we appealed to our children on the basis of love, rather than intimidation.
A similar error was that we tried to protect them from wrong — wrong activities, wrong influences, wrong friendships — while failing to befriend them the way we should ourselves.
In order to develop a relationship that would bring compliance, we needed to spend time with them. We needed to be available when they wanted to talk, and we needed to show an interest in what was important to them.
We needed to accept them for who they were, and let them know we loved them. That in turn leads to winning their hearts, which brings the desire for them to please us.
We learned that it is better to work hard at keeping their hearts, than having to try to repair damage and win their heart back. (By the way, I believe that keeping our children’s hearts is the most important thing we can do as parents!)
There are many other things my husband and I have learned along the way, but these three stand out above the rest. I hope they will be a help to you on your homeschooling journey!
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As busy moms, finding time with God can be challenging. In our hearts we long to make time to spend reading His Word and praying, but often the reality is that parenting young children and taking care of our marriages and our homes, seems to pretty much fill up our day.
It’s easy to push our spiritual life to the bottom of the priority list when our daily t0-do’s seem out of control.
As a result, we are even more stressed because we are trying to do things in our own strength, and aren’t taking time to seek His wisdom in our daily priorities.
Most of us are busy, and when life is jam-packed in the season of parenthood,it’s hard to know how to fit in time with God. But we CAN do it, and we NEED to do it!
Spending time with God probably won’t look the same as it did before you had children, so it’s important to recognize that, and be realistic in your expectations.
Realistically, you probably won’t have 30 minutes of uninterrupted time to spend in the Word, and more than likely your “quiet time” won’t be real quiet!
But that’s okay! With a little creativity you can make it work in the midst of your busy family life.
Here is a busy mom’s guide to finding time with God in a variety of creative ways:
1. Listen to a Bible app while getting ready for the day.
This is great for those days that are busy, and you have to get ready and run out the door. You can also listen to your Bible app while driving so you start your day with God’s Word.
2. Pray while you are in the shower.
Shower time often was my ONLY alone time as a busy mom! Take advantage of that time and commit your day to God, while also seeking His strength, wisdom, and direction for the day.
Be sure to praise Him during this time–nothing starts your day off better than a few minutes of praising God!
3. Sing a Scripture song with the kids before eating breakfast.
This is a great way to help you and your kids memorize God’s Word easily, and keep it in your mind then throughout the day. It will help your kids and YOU to have a better attitude as the Scripture song goes as you go about your daily activities.
4. Have a family Bible time after breakfast.
This doesn’t have to be long or complicated. Depending on the ages of your kids, it can be a short Bible story that you read and then talk about, or you can read a few verses from Proverbs and how to apply it to daily life. Keep it short and help them learn something from it.
Don’t believe that your kids will be BORED by the Bible. If you are excited about reading it, and get excited about what God is teaching you, your kids will pick up on that excitement.
Pray together afterwards asking God to help you to apply what you have learned, bless your day, etc.
5. Memorize Scripture with your kids.
Memorizing Scripture is the BEST way to keep God’s Word in your heart and mind even on the busiest of days. Kids have sharp little memories and are capable of memorizing more than you might think. We had our kids memorize passages, and they did great.
We started with short passages like:
From there we moved on to some longer passages such as the Beatitudes, and I Corinthians 13.
The key to this is making it FUN with motions, lots of expression, pictures, etc.
(Scroll to the bottom to get our FREE ABC Bible Memory Verses Cards!)
6. Give your younger children a DVD with Bible stories to watch while you read your Bible and pray. Have the readers sit beside you and read their Bible (give them a plan) while you read yours.
This is teaching your kids that you value this time with God. They see that this is important to you — important enough that you make it part of your daily routine.
Another benefit is that it will help your kids to develop the habit of spending time with God daily.
7. Listen to good, uplifting music during the day.
Having hymns and Godly music playing does so much for your spirit, and will help you feel closer to God.
I also use a phone app called Abiding Radio. It has options for good Christian music, including kids songs. I usually choose the instrumental hymns, as it can be playing in the background, but isn’t too distracting.
8. Use Scripture for correction throughout the day.
Not only does this help you to focus on the child’s heart issue (rather than the wrong behavior), but it also gets God’s Word into your heart and mind.
If you happen to have been blessed with a difficult child, think how many times a day you will be able to get God’s Word in your mind daily!
Finding time with God is much harder once you become a mom, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t possible! Adjust your expectations, be creative, and then commit to it. Whether it’s reading the Bible to your kids, singing it, memorizing it, or listening to your Bible app, make finding time with God a daily priority!
Get started on Scripture memory with these FREE ABC BIBLE MEMORY VERSE CARDS!
As parents we want to do all we can to provide for our children and give them what they need, but often we fall into the trap of thinking that our kids needs lots of THINGS.
Your kids don’t even really need all the THINGS their friends may have, or all the newest game systems or toys that come out. Don’t get caught up in materialism, and giving your kids lots of STUFF. (more than they even need)
I’m not saying it’s wrong to get things for your kids.
As parents, we love to show our love to our children by giving gifts, or splurging on the newest popular item that has come out.
What IS wrong though, is thinking that if we provide all those things we are doing good, and our kids have what they need.
The truth is that some of the most important things our kids REALLY do need, can’t be bought.
Here are 10 things our kids REALLY need:
1. Our unconditional love
They need to know beyond a doubt that we will always love them, and nothing they can do will ever change that. Think of the security this gives our kids! That security will mean more to your kids than anything you can ever buy for them.
2. Our acceptance.
Do your kids feel that you accept them for who they are, or do they feel they need to change and measure up for you to accept them? It’s important that they feel accepted and loved for who they are.
When was the last time that you told that something you loved about them, or what they did that you thought was great? They need to hear those things from us, an be confident of our acceptance of them for who they are.
3. Our affirmation and our praise.
The best way to encourage positive behavior in our kids is by giving lots of sincere praise. Our kids need to know that we not only love them, but we also LIKE them.
Giving lots of affirmation confirms to them that they are special to you, and loved.
As parents, the words you use in your child’s life have the power either to bless or curse. Praying Biblical blessings for your children is an effective way to bring God’s blessings into their lives, and see His power work in their hearts.
Even though kids may complain about the rules, if you have a good relationship with them and have their heart, they will trust you and know those rules are for their good.
Kids feel more secure and loved, when there are rules and boundaries in their home. Rules aren’t the problem, but rules with no relationship creates a problem and pushes your kids away.
Remember, it’s rules without relationship that lead to rebellion.
5. Training and discipline.
It is a Scriptural command that we bring our kids up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. It is our job to train and discipline them with love, while pointing them to God’s Word and what He says is right and wrong.
Biblical parenting focuses on the heart, not the behavior, and that’s why we need to use God’s Word for training and correction.
6. A knowledge of God and His Word.
As Christian parents, the most important thing we can do is build faith in our kids. This comes as we teach them God’s Word regularly,and talk about it through out the day, relating it to all our activities and studies. This should be the foundation that all of our teaching and training rests on.
When I first became a mom, more than anything else, I wanted to be the best mom I could be. I talked to Godly moms who I looked up to, and looked for ways to be a great mom. We only one chance at this parenting thing, so I wanted to get it right!
Over the 36 years of parenting and raising our eight kids, I continued to try to learn and grow as a mom. I observed other moms that were doing a good job, and often asked for tips to help me.
Today I’d like to share five tips that helped me the most, and that will help you to be the great mom you want to be.
5 Parenting Tips For Being a Great Mom
1. Teaching and training them should begin right away.
A child’s character is formed primarily in his early years, so it’s critical that we start early to teach and train them in God’s Word.
“And that from childhood you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus.” II Timothy 3:15
I have discovered that the harder you work at teaching and training your kids when they are young, the easier the rest of your parenting years will be.
There will still be some challenges and struggles, but over all that early training will make things go more smoothly as your kids get older.
2. Teach obedience from the start.
As parents, God has put in the position of authority over our children. It is our job and responsibility to exercise that authority faithfully.
God commands children to be obedient, and when we don’t require obedience of them, we aren’t being good stewards of the children God has entrusted to our care.
One of the reasons we need to teach our kids to obey us is so they will please God and receive His blessing.
However, another reason we really focused on obedience with our kids, is that we wanted them to be obedient when God spoke to their hearts.
I found that on those days when one of my kids needed lots of training and correction, it was easy for me to get frustrated. It was exhausting, and at times it irritated me that I had to keep stopping what I was doing to deal with that child.
Then God spoke to my heart and reminded me that I needed to intentionally show that child more love. Sometimes just spending a little extra time with that child is all that was needed.
They needed to know that I loved them, and enjoyed being with them.
This doesn’t mean you should skip the training and correction, but rather that you should be sure you are disciplining in love, and are conveying that love clearly.
Discipline always needs to be given in a spirit of love.
The best way to keep that spirit of love as you train and correct, is to remember that the goal of that training is not tochange behavior, but to change the heart. When you keep that focus, it will help you teach in love.
4. Focus on their character.
Today we have a generation of young people who have poor character. Employers find it very hard to find young people to work for them and be dependable and honest.
We have a character crisis in our society and as Christian parents, we need to catch a vision for raising a generation of young people with good, strong Christian character!
It’s not the job of the church or the Christian school. It’s up to US!
As their parents, we are the best ones to teach them character, because we love them more than anyone else will, and we know them better.
We can make a difference in society by raising our kids to love God and grow to be like Him. However, that won’t just happen.
We have to make character training a priority, and have a plan for how we will help them develop and grow in their character.
5. Seek to win and keep the hearts of your children.
There is a spiritual battle waging for your child’s heart, and as a parent you can’t be complacent about it. If we don’t win their heart, somebody else will.
The reason this is so important is because the one who has their heart is the one who will influence them. As moms we want to have that place of influence,, so we can shape their values, and point them to God.
To help youm here is a free printable with 20 ways to win your child’s heart.
One of our top goals as we teach and train our kids is to bring them to maturity, but how can we tell if we are reaching that goal? What are some signs of maturity in your kids that you can look for?
One of the most important commands that God gives to parents is found in Ephesians 6:4 where we are told to “bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” The Greek word for “bring them up” means to rear to maturity.
So very clearly, God is telling us that this needs to be a priority of intentional Biblical parenting.
Keep in mind that all of our kids mature at different ages and stages, so don’t get discouraged if you don’t see signs of maturity as soon as you’d like to in some of your kids! They may be mature in some areas, but still growing in others. That’s okay. The key is to keep teaching and training them.
That’s why God gave us our kids for at least 18 years — so we could continue to raise them to maturity.
I was thinking about the maturity I had noticed in one of my kids recently, and started thinking about the areas they had grown in, and what signs there are for maturity.
There are many, but these are the ones that stand out to me, as important things to work on while raising our kids. Basically, it comes down to training them in character!
SIX SIGNS OF MATURITY IN YOUR CHILDREN1. Appreciation and respect for parents
Our kids have always been respectful to us for the most part, because that’s how they were raised to be. However, appreciation wasn’t always there!
I noticed that as they got older and had to assume more responsibilities on their own, they started being appreciative. At that point they realized how much time and energy we had poured into their lives through teaching, training, giving support, etc.
You know your kids have matured to this level when they no long have the “entitlement mentality,” but rather are grateful for what you give them, or do for them.
Kids often don’t realize the importance of being wise with money until they begin paying for things with their own money. Suddenly they start to think before they spend, because its THEIR money now. They realize that they need to budget their money, and spend it carefully.
It’s wise to help your kids learn how to use money at a fairly young age, by letting them save for something and see how long it takes to earn the money for it. Showing them your family budget and bills for the month also gives them an awareness of the importance of being wise stewards when it comes to finances.
This is probably one of the biggest keys, because without self-control they are going to struggle in other areas of maturity. When they have self-control they are able to discipline themselves to do what is right and best, regardless of whether they feel like it or not, and even when they don’t want to. Self-control enables them to do the right thing, rather than living by their emotions.
When kids are young, they tend to leave toys all over the floor, bikes in the driveway, and clothes scattered throughout the house. Part of maturity involves learning to be responsible and careful with things; putting toys or tools away when they’re done with them, putting clothes where they belong, and so on.
Again, as they get older and start paying for some of their own things, often they suddenly become very careful with those items, and the teaching they have been given takes root.
We taught our kids to have initiative from the time they were young, and they did to a certain extent — some more than others. As they matured though, there was a huge difference in this area.
I would notice that they would see a need in the house, and take care of it. (Yes, even my BOYS! )
I remember more than one of them cleaning up the kitchen for me while I was out running some errands. Other times they would vacuum or pick up when things were messy, and I was busy with convention season.
They learned that if they saw a need, they should take care of it without being asked.
For me one of the biggest challenges of being a wife, mother, and teacher in our home school, is not allowing myself to get TOO busy. Finding BALANCE, keeping focused on the priorities, and keeping them at the top of my daily list requires constant effort. It’s so easy to miss the signs that you’re too busy with things that don’t matter or are even GOOD things, while letting them replace the most important things.
How do you know when you have allowed too much busyness? There are always tell-tale signs!
7 Signs That You’re Too Busy
1. Neglecting time with God.
Jeremiah 2:32 Yet my people have forgotten me days without number.
Spending time with God is the foundation that everything we do needs to rest upon. When we let this time get crowded out by busyness, we begin trying to do things in our own strength and quickly become overwhelmed.
The busier you are, the more important it is to spend time seeking God and His wisdom.
2. Neglecting your priorities.
When you find that your priorities are often being pushed aside for other activities, it’s time to re-evaluate.
Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: Psalm 127:1a
As Christian parents, we desire to build our families on the word of God. We understand the value of Scripture and applying it to our lives. The command in Proverbs 22:6 affirms the heart of our parenting “Train up a child in the way he should go”.
There IS a way our children should go and God expects us to show it to them!
But how do we actually build that strong family foundation on the word of God?
Training is more than simply enforcing a certain form of behavior. Training is guiding and directing the heart toward righteousness.
While our words as parents can affect the behavior of our children, many times, it seems our words are powerless to affect the hearts of our children. Our words don’t get past the surface issue to penetrate to the heart.
We need God’s Word to reach the hearts of our children, as His Word is so much more powerful than OUR words. It is such a simple truth, but so incredibly important as we seek to train our children!
We know this, yet when faced with a behavior or attitude problem with our kids, instead of pulling out the powerful piercing sword that God has given us, we resort to our own powerless words.
But what if we didn’t?
What would happen if you knew where to turn to in God’s word to find what you need in those moments?
What if you had easy access to thousands of verses organized by topic to meet you where you are at?
How would your parenting change if, at your fingertips, you could have Scriptures laid out for you showing character contrasts?
And most importantly how much more intentional could you become in building a solid foundation with God’s word at the center of your family?
Building By The Book – A Practical Resource for Building Your Family on the Word of God
This is a wonderful tool to use when training and correcting your children with God’s Word, rather than simply using your own words.
Take a look at the Table of Contents and the sneak peek below to get an idea of just how valuable this resource will be to your family as you strive to build on the Word of God!
Download this practical resource and print it to have in hand when you need it most (Print 2-sided for best results and viewing).
There are thousands of verses organized by topic that you can refer to, Scriptures showing character contrasts, Family Devotions Log as well as bite-sized reading plans for young readers or for simple Family Devotions!
As Moses tells us in Deuteronomy 6:6-7 “And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.”
Let’s not lose sight of God’s desire for us in parenting our children to have a strong foundation in Him.
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Often by the time summer break comes, we are tired and just want to sit back and relax ALL summer. However, rather than just letting those months fly by aimlessly, why not plan on making summer count?
As enticing as a summer with no plans or structure may sound to your tired mind and body, I have found from personal experience that a summer of no routine and no goals was NOT a good idea!
Kids quickly got bored, bad attitudes became the norm, and the house was often filled with complaining and bickering.
Not my idea of a good way to spend our summer!
Simple tips for making summer count:1. Have a routine to your days.
Kids function much better when they have a daily routine to guide their days. They won’t mind the fact that jobs or reading are part of the routine, if they know it ahead of time.
For my kids theproblem began when I would just spring things on them when they had already made their own plans for how they were going to spend their day.
In the summer, I think it’s great to give them lots of free time that they can spend how they choose, but it should still be within the confines of a routine.
2. When planning the routine, make sure to include your priorities.
For us this meant that kids who were able to read the Bible on their own, had a quiet time each morning right after breakfast, for about 15 minutes.
Then we would gather together for a Bible-based character lesson that included memorizing Scripture. Little ones were included, but could play with quiet toys while listening. (They take in way more than you think they are, as they play while listening in.)
Make sure you remember to schedule time for your own personal priorities, as well. Be sure to include time with God, exercise, reading motivational books, etc.
3. Schedule time for reading.
Depending on the ages of your kids, this can be family read aloud time, or kids can have a set time to read quietly. Scheduling two separate reading times is great, so you can do both!
Did you know that 2 months of reading skills are lost over the summer if your kids aren’t reading? Kids need 2-3 hours a week during summer vacation to prevent learning loss.
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Don’t let them fall into that summer slide, and lose skills. Keep them reading and learning.
4. Schedule in time for chores.
Find a chore system that works for your family, and have a set time when everyone is working on their jobs. This way work can be done together, which is always more enjoyable.
It also allows for training time of younger ones by Mom, or an older sibling working with them. (Be sure to grab our free age-appropriate chore chart pack at the end of this post!)