This blog will be used as a forum for those who want to speak up and tell their story of being left behind. There are stories from children whose fathers come from all over the Gulf. My personal experience is with Kuwait/Qatar and I hope those who have a story to share will share it here.
In spite of everything that’s going on I do love Qatar as a country. It’s a clean, modern and beautiful place to visit and I recommend it to any and everyone. The people are all friendly and are willing to help you out with anything you need.
It has been said that DNA is only used in Qatar court to deny paternity? Does the Human Rights Organization know that?
Although I found the following article from 2015:
Up until now, it was left to a judge’s discretion as to whether to admit DNA evidence, former Qatari justice minister Najeeb al-Nuaimi told Doha News. However, if passed, the law would require judges to allow DNA evidence to be presented, he said.”
““DNA provides irrefutable evidence that is recognized around the whole world,” Mohamed Amin, a lawyer at the Al Shahwani and Al Muhannadi lawyers’ firm, told Doha News.”
“He added that he doubted it would have a great effect on the local legal system as DNA evidence is “usually used in murder, rape and other cases to prove paternity, which aren’t many in Doha,” he said.”
When I started this website it was not only for myself but for other women out there facing the same issue of Qatari students leaving their kids behind with no second thought. This website is an outlet for me to express my frustration with my ex and try to prevent other women from suffering this same fate. Again, if they don’t marry you and only talk then walk away as they are only out there to play and then go back home and more than likely have an arranged marriage.
I never would imagine my site would be used as evidence in the family court against me! After 13 years of being told to make a DNA case by the father of my ex here we are, his son refuses! I can’t even write what I want any more because I know people in Qatar are stalking my site for evidence which is one of the reasons I don’t post that much.
I will address this with the Human Rights Organization in Qatar because I don’t feel what they are doing is right. All I wanted was my daughter to have her rights as a Qatari and I’ve got a defense lawyer who tries to shut me up, have me banned from the court and silenced completely for stating the truth. A cyber crimes case against me as if I posted something awful, the truth is the truth! It could have been easy but you want to make it hard because you are afraid of the truth coming out and being judged?
You have no other children! She is your blood! How could a father deny his only child?
Since 2006, your father has told me to file a DNA case against you and that if she is your daughter then your family will accept her, the last time he told me that was in November 2017 and here we are in court and you refuse to go ahead with it. You told me yourself on November 20, 2018 to file the case as I sat beside you in your car, this is not for me or you, we are old and our lives are pretty much over.
This is for her future, we are not looking for money from you, in the last 19 years you did nothing for her so why would I expect it now? She deserves to have her family roots, you can’t deny her blood. She is a part of you and there’s no way on earth you can stop that. You said yourself that even when it is proved you are her father you don’t want nothing to do with her and the feeling is mutual, we don’t want anything to do with you.
I don’t understand why, after all of these years of telling me to go to court you now deny it all? I guess you thought it would never happen and now that it is here you are in shock that it’s taking place.
Allah is watching and knows what is best for everyone and will judge everyone according to their actions and intentions.
From the traditions quoted above it becomes clear that whenever the term ‘false words’ etc. occurs in Qur’an it implies ‘lying.’ Similar verses have been quoted in the chapter of music and songs. Hence some traditions state that ‘false words’ refers to music or songs. Actually the word ‘false’ stands for every evil, wrong and undesirable thing. Music, songs and lies head the list of these things.‘lying.’ Similar verses have been quoted in the chapter of music and songs. Hence some traditions state that ‘false words’ refers to music or songs. Actually the word ‘false’ stands for every evil, wrong and undesirable thing. Music, songs and lies head the list of these things.
Punishment of hell for the false witness
Hazrat Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) says,
“Whenever a person testifies falsely to usurp the property of a Muslim, Allah writes at that very moment a punishment of the blazing fire for this man.”1
Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq (a.s.) says,
“The false witness may not even have moved from his place but that the punishment of fire will have already become incumbent for him.”2
The Holy Prophet (S) says:
“False testimony before an oppressive ruler is not yet complete when a place in the fire (Hell) is already decided (for the false witness).”3
The Messenger of Allah (S) has also said,
“One who testifies falsely against someone will be hung by his tongue with the hypocrites in the lowest portion of Hell.
And if one usurps the property of his believing brother, Allah does not give an increase in his sustenance till he repents for it.”4
Hazrat Imam Muhammad al-Baqir (a.s.) narrates from the Holy Prophet (S) that he said,
“One who hides testimony before a just Islamic judge, or gives a false testimony to shed the blood of Muslims or intends to usurp a Muslim’s property by it, he shall be raised on the Day of the Judgment in such a condition that there will be darkness before his eyes and his face will be scratched. The people shall recognize him by these signs (that he had testified falsely).”5
The Holy Prophet (S) asked,
“Shall I inform you about the Greater of the Great sins?”
The companions said, “Why not, O! Prophet of Allah (S).” The Prophet (S) said,
“To make someone a partner of Allah, and disobedience to parents…” The Prophet (S) was resting his back against the wall. Now he sat up straight and continued in a more serious tone, “And beware! (Every) Falsehood!”
The narrators say that the Holy Prophet (S) has denounced falsehood so many times that we wished he had not done so.6
Since we have already explained that ‘falsehood’ includes every type of lying it also includes false testimony. The Holy Prophet (S) has also described ‘falsehood’ to be a Greater sin. False testimony is a manifold sin. Firstly because it is a lie which is a greater sin, secondly because it amounts to falsely accusing a Muslim which is also a greater sin and thirdly because it is instrumental in oppressing an innocent person which is still another greater sin. Also, through false testimony a person tries to acquire something which does not rightfully belong to him, thus making unlawful thing lawful, which is prohibited by Allah (S.w.T.). Lastly usurping somebody else’s property is also a greater sin. Thus we can say that many great sins constitute a single sin called, ‘false testimony’.