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YOUTH - The humans who carry confidence in their sleeves.

MODERN YOUTH - The humans who carry confidence with the mixture of knowledge and intelligence under their sleeves.
There used to be a time when more than half of the young generation had a lot of confidence in themselves, but their bad luck was that they didn't know how to use that immense amount of confidence for their own good.
Now the times have changed, with the sense of realization and awareness coming into play.
That very young generation have modernized themselves in a way, which has the amalgamation of both the future and past i.e the Young and the Old generation.
These present-day people are not just energetic and enthusiastic about what they want to do, at the same time they are aware and calm about the precautions that need to be taken in doing the work they want to do.
Now comes the most important part!!!
On what basis I am speaking and writing this - there must be some data or proof because of which I am able to write this!!!
This is not!!!

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I am writing this, based on my personal experience!!
The experiences, which I have come across while meeting thousands of youths in the last 5 years!!!

I have noticed a change!!!
Change in attitude.
Change in behavior.
Change in human nature.

The change from "In a Race" kind of attitude to "In a meditation" kind of attitude.
The change from "Me first" to "You first" kind of attitude.
The change from "Why me" to "Why not me" kind of attitude.
The change has come!! But the change has not been able to show the results in front of the world!!
Why ???
Because, with change, the management needs to be changed and with that will come the change in action.
This youth wants the power with responsibilities - They don't mind taking responsibilities on their shoulders but with that, they should be given the same power to act by themselves and do justice to those responsibilities!!!

This is what needs to be changed by the management!!!
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You read it right.
How much do you love yourself?
Ever thought of asking this question to yourself!!
Maybe you didn't feel it necessary to ask such a cliche question.
I mean who does not love themselves. Everybody does. Right !!
Or maybe not!!
Okay, no problem!! We will find out.
We all have someone in our life, for whom we can go to any extent to make them happy. May it be the mother, father, daughter, son, friend, partner etc. It can be anyone.
But how far would you go, to make yourself happy???
Sounding selfish!!!
Selfish is not when you do something good for yourself, selfishness is when you stop doing something for someone else...!
You work an extra hour almost alternate day so that your boss or manager is happy!!
But when did you work an extra hour on your body, so that you can feel happy at the end of it!!
You plan trips to religious places every time so that your parents can enjoy!!!
But when did you last planned a trip to a place, where you actually feel like enjoying!!!
You always reach the office on time, so that your colleagues say good about you!!!
But when did the last time, you stopped by the roadside to sip a cup of tea under an awesome Mausam, just caring about yourself!!!!
Sleep an extra hour, if you feel like sleeping.
Gulp an extra glass of beer, if you feel like drinking.
Have an extra hour of lovemaking with your partner, if you feel like having.
Walk in the rain with the person you want to, ignoring what people around say about you.
What people say gross, may make you feel sad but what people say good may not make you feel that happy...!
So it is your duty to make yourself feel happy.
The list goes on!!!
Sometimes it is important to be with the flow because once the flow takes a curve, it becomes difficult for you to bring it back.
People around you are an important part of your life, work that you do is still more important part of your life, but never forget that -
Only you are your life.
Pamper it, love it, care for it.
Take out some time and -
Draw if you think of painting.
Sing out loud if you think of humming.
Dance freely if you think of moving your legs.
Sometimes it's not about learning and bringing everything to perfection.
Sometimes it is just about moving with the flow and make yourself groove to the music of what you are doing.
The day when you in the true sense start loving yourself and do everything that makes you happy more than anyone else, that particular day you will be ready to make the people around you happy.
Till then, what you can do is, just try to make people happy.
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Being You- This is the most difficult part of today's busy world.

We all are living a life, in which we portray a character of someone else almost the entire duration in which are mentally active. This means we are forcing ourselves to lead a life of someone who we are not.
Doing this may make us mentally strong, but it starts destroying us internally once and forever.
Day by Day and bit by bit, we lose our own perception and start forgetting who we are and what our actual motive is.

We always complain about the life we are living. 
But do we have any right to do so?
I mean who are we complaining to?
To ourselves?

If yes, then it's fine.
But if we are complaining the whole thing to somebody else and blaming someone else for the situation we are in and for the kind of lifestyle we are living, then we need to think all over again.
Because it is no one but we, who are responsible for our situation.
We chose to be someone else and adjusted to that.
So, now that we are almost living someone else's life, here is what we can do.
At the end of the day, try to recapitulate the moments throughout the day when you have been no one but YOU. 

Try and recapitulate the things and activities you were doing when you have been no one but YOU.
This small task will unfold answers to every question and will help you take some important decisions in your life, where you can get the chance of being yourself almost most of the time you are doing something.

Life is all about, investigating. Most of the people do that, but they investigate someone else's life instead of investigating themselves.

Investigate what you are doing and introspect if you want to do that.

Discover yourself,  a lot is hidden within you. Life will start seeming a small place and short span when start being YOU and do what you want to do.

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Love - The moment we hear this four-letter beautiful word, the world suddenly seems to be a far better place than it was a few moments ago...!
This is the beauty of love. The kind of feeling it provides and the way it encapsulates you with the bubbles of emotions and happiness, it cannot be explained in mere words ..!
But some people consider Love and Crush to be two different emotion and feeling. But it is not so.
Crush - As the name suggests is the compressed form of Love.
Crush can be also called the trailer or the trial period for Love. It is like the return and cancellation policy that company provides. You can use for 10-30 days and if you do not like, return the product.
Same is the case with Love and Crush. During your trial period, you can decide on whether it is suitable for you to confirm it to the status of Love or trying someone else....!
Like every product has a different return policy, every Crush has a different period of cancellation too, which is based on endurance to sustain pain. Because rejection hurts when rejected beyond a certain period of time.
Initially whatever you feel and the first sight feeling is Crush. Then when you come across the same person again, the feeling of Crush starts expanding itself to give it a nice bubbly shape and feel called Love.
So, more precisely Love can be called as an expanded form of Crush.
As we all know every substance do not expand, so the same is with our emotion and feelings. It does not expand for all. Sometimes it may even contract and minimize to the level zero.
Same happens with Crush when it comes across a person with whom the bond does not blossom the next they meet and it gets crushed to "Ex"...!
The beauty of Love is, it can be expanded to any level you yourself want. Just the care you have to take is that it is always handled with softness and delicacy.
It is as simple as that...!
Crush is the physical form of Love...!
Initially, you just fall for the physical beauty of the person, be it any part of the body. It is quite natural to happen because you cannot fall for the soul just by seeing a person. You gotta be a superhuman to do so.
While Love is the core of emotions...!

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                                                                                 Procrastination- It is not a habit, but an attitude...!

An attitude which when exceeds a certain limit becomes negative and deadly.
This kind of attitude when becomes an addiction, have the ability to kill your effectiveness and efficiency.
Ever thought why do we procrastinate things?
It can be either due to two of the below reasons-
  1. You are afraid of taking up the work.
  2. You think it is not that important to be done for the time being.

If you are among the ones who procrastinate things due to 1st reason, then it is absolutely very necessary to change the process of doing your activities. The work or activity which seems difficult today will not become less complex or easy the next day by some magic or so.
Neither your work will vanish one fine day like there is an expiry for the consumer durables. Works don't come with an expiry date, so there is no valid point in the world to procrastinate the work which has to be done anyway sooner or later. The hardest of the activities, when taken up at once would start seeming less difficult and easy. Once you start delaying your work, then you form a virtual story in your mind about the difficulty level of the work and then you find it even harder to complete it later.
Now if you belong to the group who procrastinate the work because of the 2nd reason, then you are maybe some superhuman who likes to do things which unless and until don't become difficult or comes at the stage you have to complete at any cost, you don't even bother to touch it.
This 2nd reason is highly dangerous as it plays with your mind. Something which seems easy today may become difficult tomorrow and lands you in a spot where even if it is not difficult it seems tough because of time constraints.
Have you been in a circumstance when you procrastinate work saying - "Today was a busy day, or I would have surely taken up that work"??
I have, many a time said the above lines.
But when the final or the cut off date arises, I complete the work with ease.
But never realized why does this happen until an incident happened at my workplace.
I was procrastinating a work giving reasons like "Tough day, no time, busy week" etc., but later I found out to be just Excuses.
I was procrastinating a work thinking it as a time taking activity for almost a month, but when the final date arrived I completed the entire work in a day, with all ease. That night I wasn't happy with myself, though I completed the work which was almost impossible to be completed in a single day. That feeling of satisfaction and happiness wasn't there and that made me think about procrastination very deeply.
That night I realized it has become my attitude and a not valid reason for delaying the work. If I want I can complete any work on any given day without delaying it for no reason.

So, from next time you think of procrastinating your work, ask yourself - "Is it a valid reason for procrastinating or is it just a lame excuse for delaying the work"?? I am 100% sure you will get an honest answer because when you ask something to yourself, it is your heart which speaks and hearts don't lie ... :)
A work done just because it has to be done doesn't give you satisfaction. So to earn the real fruit of any work, make sure you do the work because you wanted to do it.

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A day well spent is a day added to your short span of life.
A day wasted is a day reduced from your long span of life.

Choose wisely, before you kick start your day.

Our life consists of a bundle of few days which is distributed in the form of packets of 24 hours. We are not provided with this bundle of energy all at a time, it has to be earned from our ALMIGHTY. A single packet at a time at least. This packet of energy is ours, it is we who need to decide how to utilize this day and get ready for the next packet which might come our way.

So, here are a few thoughts I would like to share with all my readers on how to plan a day and make it count. I don't know if it is all right and if it is the best advice on can give to someone, but what I am sure is that it has helped me make my life easy and peaceful.

SO, here it starts-

  • PLAN - First thing first we should not forget to make a list of the High priority and Least priority activities which one needs to complete on a particular day irrespective of the fact that you are a salaried employee or an entrepreneur, a business tycoon or a shopkeeper running your shop, a student good at sports or a student wanting to score high marks in school. This is one step which we all should follow, no matter which stage of life we are in and no matter however busy we are. Just go for it.
A PLAN without IMPLEMENTATION is like eating a GULAB JAMUN with ICE CREAM. So, here comes the next step - 
  • IMPLEMENT - Now, all you have to do is take up the High priority activities on the table and finish it off in one go. Once you start implementing the task and activities, the road ahead seems easy and you get a clarity in mind on how to go about the next high priority activity. This small achievements in the course of the day give you the boost which we need to make our day productive. 
Now, that you have planned and implemented WASTED.
the most important activities in a particular day, most of the people believe their work to be all done and that spoils their whole day of work and it becomes a
It is alright to go about the activities which are on the top of the priority list but at the same time, you need to be flexible with your plan for adjusting some of the least priority activity, which might in the course of the day or due to some incidence achieves the tag of HIGH PRIORITY. When you are able to be aware of this, give a pat on your back as you have almost mastered the art of living your day.

We all love sweets on any particular day, but a day without any masala and spices is like eating a chat without adding "teekhi wali chatni".

So, here comes the most important step of the day - 
  • Bring your mind to the notice of all the tasks which you tried to postpone throughout the week or you kept telling yourself that it could be done afterwards. These are the activities and tasks which acts as a silent poison in your life and kill your productivity in the longer term and then you are left with no choice. So, what you have to do is, solve that tasks or complete the activity right at that point or it will come back to you again to haunt you not in your dreams but in your daytime
No matter if you are a school student or a college student or a salaried employee or an entrepreneur, it is all up to you how much and for how long you work on a particular day. It is you who need to decide what should be your working hours and at what time you should leave from office or at what time you should shut your books. 

At the end of the day, when leaving for home from work, if you are prepared to go before your actual working hours, then believe it, my friends - YOUR DAY HAS BEEN ONE GREAT DAY AND YOU SHOULD CHERISH THAT


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MINIMALISM- Is it a blessing or a curse???
                             Is it a magic you want to experience or a bad dream you want to keep away???

I don't know what is your take on the above two questions....!

No matter what you feel about MINIMALISM, just be here with this post for not more than 5 minutes and I bet it will change your thought process on how you look towards MINIMALISM.

There is no particular definition of MINIMALISM, but it can be put together into words as a path you chose to live with when you live without the material comfort.

Minimalism is a kind of lifestyle where you don't have a love for the luxurious items in your life.

In the last 5 months, I realized the importance of MINIMALISM. I was never the one who would have supported minimalism, especially if I am earning a handful of sufficient money. Being in the capital city, it never gave me the luxury of time to think, what impact could minimalism have on the life of people in this world.

But as I believe, something which you want will come to you at some time or the other. The same thing happened with me and I got the opportunity in the month of Jan 2018, to stay in a small town among the mountains. Though the very first day it didn't look to me as an opportunity and I thought it is a curse and bad dream which should be gone once I am awake. But life - life always have something more beautiful for you ready which you didn't even imagine with your eyes open.

As the days passed, I found it difficult to stay in a house alone without television, wifi, refrigerator, geyser, air conditioner, laptop, bed and other types of furniture. This moment I didn't have the realization that it is kind of lifestyle of many (happy) people in different parts of the world and people follow this by choice.

But soon my conception of curse and bad dream, turned into blessing and magic when I started enjoying the beauty of mountains, narrow green roads, sunrise and sunset right from my window, pleasant weather throughout the year, the comfort of sleeping right on the floor over a mattress, cooking fresh food for self, drinking water as it is without any increasing or decreasing of its natural temperature and many more.

Minimalism gives you freedom. It gives you the freedom to think and see a world from your own viewpoint and enjoy the luxury our mother nature could provide if used in the right way. It gave me the freedom of thought and time to look around the beauty of the place and the kind of luxuries I could get from the beautiful nature around me.

Now coming further down I never thought of a life without a burger, pizza, KFC, ice creams and other go to food items!!!!
A life without zomato, ola, uber, dominos, pizza hut etc.

This is the very reason I realized the luxury a lifestyle of MINIMALISM can provide even without any of the above luxury items which we consider the most important part of our life.
Minimalism - a MAGIC for a reason...! A magic of LUXURY IN MINIMALISM.

  • Be away from the wifi while not necessary.
  • Drink normal temperature water.
  • Eat food prepared at home.
  • Sleep in the kind of normal room temperature.
  • Walk around in the empty roads.
  • See the sunset and sunrise.
  • Read books instead of group chats.
  • And the list goes on.

Stopping all of this at once and for all is not what should be done or what you should aim at. All you need to do is develop a lifestyle where you don't need to depend on the material luxuries to live a happy and cheerful life.

The material luxuries should be your choice and not your weakness.

Its been five months I have been living the lifestyle of minimalism and trust me, I never experienced this kind of life in the capital city. In fact, now I am so much used to this lifestyle that I get goosebumps just at the thought of having to leave this lifestyle and place one fine day.

Try to find out some time to be with nature, as the source of MINIMALIST LIFESTYLE lies right in the core of nature.

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