As a psychic medium I am able to offer you a reading which entails information about your life path, love, relationships, and career. I can also connect you to your loved ones that have passed. My mission is to bring an abundance of healing and love from the Spiritual world over to my clients by providing empathy, love, understanding and evidence.
In simple words, a spiritual guide is an ethereal being who is with us to help us. They could be the Ascended Masters, Angels, or someone that has incarnated, lived many lives, and has transitioned. Spirit Guides can be someone from our past lives as well. It is my understanding that we have one specific Guide who is chosen well before we incarnate on this Earth, and stays with us our entire lifetime, and others that come in and evolve as needed at different times in our lives. Let’s learn how a spirit guide can help us.
They are with us 24/7, and offer us help and direction. A deep, clear connection with the Guides is essential to understand and comprehend their guidance. They communicate to us through our senses—seeing, feeling, hearing, smelling, tasting, and touching. We call them the clairs.
There are four primary ways our Spirit Guides connect with us—clairvoyance, clairaudience, clairsentience, and claircognizance.
Guides communicate to us visually when we are deeply engrossed in something. They will show us images as answers to our queries or as hints to those answers. Vivid dreams, mental pictures, mini movie-like images, and visions are all examples of clairvoyant guidance.
Have you ever noticed your ears tingling out of nowhere? It is not always tinnitus. Spirit Guides are buzzing in our ears the messages they want us to know. There are times when the communications appear as voices inside our head too. In simple words, our Guides help us by encouraging us to pay attention to specific sounds, words, or noise.
That “gut feeling” and goosebumps are two excellent examples of clairsentient messages we receive. Our body will tell us how it feels. If we are with a person with whom we are not comfortable, we will get that gut feeling indicating something is amiss. It is one of the ways our guides are warning us.
We just know that it is happening. We will not have any substantial pieces of evidence to support us. Yet, we know that whatever we are feeling and thinking is right, and there is a sense of peace and clarity associated with the feeling.
While clairvoyance, clairaudience, clairsentience, and claircognizance are the primary ways our Spirit Guides guide us, there are some other ways we can receive their help.
It is not a complicated process, but we need to devote some time for this one. All you need is a notebook and a pen. Prepare yourself for receiving the guidance by clearing and grounding yourself. Invite the Spirit Guide(s) and once you feel ready, ask the question. Now let the pen flow. Do not think or read whatever you are writing. After completing, express gratitude for the communication. Then you can read whatever you wrote as messages your guides have for you.
These are, perhaps, the most beautiful ways Spirit Guides show you the right path. There are many decks available these days. Choose the one that resonates with you and go for it. Work with them after clearing their energies and prepare them to help you connect with your guides for assistance.
Pendulums show you the direction. They often give you pinpoint answers when you are clouded. And, undeniably, they are one of the tools our Guides often choose to help us.
There are many more ways they show us signs:
Other signs related to our questions [coins/money in case of financial abundance]
Receiving impromptu messages
A news item suddenly popping up from nowhere
Spirit Guides can offer guidance on all aspects of our lives—life purpose, health, relationships, finance, career, wellness, spirituality, etc.—but the way they communicate with us and help us is dependent on how you build your relationship with them.
All we have to do is to seek help and open our arms with the willingness to receive their support. Have you ever communicated with your Spirit Guides? If not, maybe today is the day to start?
I was recently asked about spiritual channeling and what it really means to “channel” and had to stop and think about it. Because, in my world, it’s just a natural thing, something I do daily—channeling is as much a part of me as taking my next breath. To be honest, I believe many of us channel without even realizing what it is. You get that “gut feeling” to switch lanes so the semi next to you doesn’t run you off the interstate, or you know that your child stationed in Hawaii needs a phone call, a little “mom” support. These are ways of channeling inner guidance by using your intuition and we all have the ability.
Outside of listening to our daily guidance, there are ways of channeling that are available to everyone, but ways not everyone will use or develop. These ways of channeling are usually associated with the terms medium, psychic, speaking in tongues, the laying of hands, etc. All of these variations are ways to channel using higher power, GOD, Source to download information. Please note, I said GOD. Spiritual channeling is a direct link to higher power and NOT that of lower vibration or “evil.” As talked about in 1 Corinthians 13:2, 2 Peter 1:21, Acts 28:8, and Genesis 48:14, GOD has bestowed these abilities upon us and we are all born with capability to use them.
The way I channel is through a direct link to Spirit. I always tell my clients that it is much easier to connect directly to Source than try to read auras and energy patterns. Because I have built this connection organically, I am sure there may be slight variations with each client, and maybe I unknowingly “tap” into their energy at times, but it isn’t intentional. Spirit connection is always my goal.
That brings us to the difference between a psychic and a psychic that is also a medium. A psychic is not channeling messages from your loved ones in Spirit, but rather connecting into your energy, like I mentioned above. Whereas, a medium is building that connection to your loved one(s). A great way to differentiate between the two is make sure your “channel” is giving you information about the loved one in Spirit that you want messages from. These can be personality quirks, such as “your father always used a toothpick” to what the spirit looked like in life, their age, name, important dates, how they died, and things of that nature. A psychic will get information ABOUT you, your kids, your significant other, but they will NOT get information about the person in spirit to a credible degree. A spiritual channel always provides evidence in all areas of life AND about those that have died so keep this in mind!
Because channeling is a part of each of us, I encourage you to grow your abilities! Meditation, yoga, folding laundry, walking, running—all of these are ways to connect to your “higher self” and download your life guidance. These abilities are life changing and empowering, so even just five minutes a day starts to build your bridge!
Coming from a Christian background and having my girls in Catholic school, conversations about the Bible come up frequently. We may not dissect Scripture on an analytical level, but fluid conversations about Heaven and Hell do arise, and naturally curiosity kicks in.
The Bible depicts Hell as the burning, fiery pit, the gnashing of teeth, and let us not forget the Fallen Angel with horns and a pitch fork. The underground place that will imprison your soul for all eternity if you misbehave or underserve humanity. But then there’s that parallel in the very same Scriptures about our LOVING GOD and how all is forgiven through his son, Jesus. So it’s no wonder there are questions! Quite honestly, many of us are a bit confused and conflicted by the two extremes, right?
Taking a breath…
So, the burning question (no pun intended) is well, what the hell, is there really a hell or not?? All of a sudden I hear the timer from Jeopardy in my head and the answer is… yes! There indeed is a hell and guess what? You are planted right in the midst of it. Bummer.
I’d like to give credit to grandiose stories organized religion’s attempt to keep the Gates of Hell from keeping us out of chaos, but that would be too darn easy. Think about this. From the time of birth we are taught that we must follow the Commandments and society’s guidelines of behaving or the punishments of Hell are unavoidable. This wasn’t put upon us to make our lives a living hell, but rather to set boundaries, to ensure the chaotic world would follow its strict rules with even stricter consequence if they didn’t conform. Because, it is a scary world out there (fear-based like many programmed beliefs), and with all of our individual selves and mindsets, the church and government MUST regulate us in some kind of way, right? The sad part is, this scary place of fear has brainwashed our belief system and many believe after all of our service on earth has ended, if we didn’t contribute most perfectly, and we were not the perfect being, we will encounter this blazing place of torture. So, we must wait for the big Judgement Day to determine if we will be subjected to yet another round of Hell after our long cycle of hell on earth has just ended.
I would like to open up a new conversation, being that earth is our classroom. We are here to learn, grow, and explore. GOD/Source did not send us here to pour out his wrath upon us; rather, we do this suffering to ourselves. We set up a series of lessons before we incarnate, and as we explore and grow, we often forget the lessons and actual plan. The lack of remembrance, mixed with earth being the planet of free will, can cause hiccups or turmoil, making us feel like we are being punished. Add is Karma and Dharma and Holy Hell, we have a big pot of craziness and fear thinking that someone, somewhere, must be out to get us! But fear not, this is as bad as it gets!
Now, I’m not saying that you can’t encounter a fiery pit with a devil-like being that may or may not have a nasty set of teeth when you “die,” but if this IS truly your reality in thought, you can only stay here for a limited moment in time. Your true self is love and light, and by universal law you will transmute back into that light. (An entirely different blog will discuss our creation of reality and how we can and DO create these scenes, but have control to alter them at any time. So, stay tuned for that one.)
Indeed, there is a hell right here on earth, but the FABULOUS NEWS is that WE are the devils, our own punishers, and GOD/Source is all loving and echoes to us what we desire and should focus on. We go through just one hell, and when we leave our physical body, places of brilliance, filled with love are awaiting each of us. When we reach these places, we decide if we will come back to earth, our classroom, and continue to grow and evolve. But everything is our choice.
Manifesting. Most likely you have heard of manifesting or co-creating, right? You may have actually read the books and tried the process but find you still have not successfully “manifested” the winning power-ball numbers (darn it!), the perfect soulmate, or the new career that is going to make you the happiest person alive. In frustration or even a matter of fact tone, you toss the books aside and think this must not be meant for you. Let me share with you that it IS for you and everyone else that wants to have control of their happiness and future. I’ll clue you in on how to manifest SUCCESSFULLY!
Your intentions create your reality and like attracts like. So, if you sit around and throw yourself under the bus for every mistake you make and have that “poor me” attitude, you will probably be familiar with some heavy energy, lots of small things that go wrong daily, and big problems that occur more often than others. On the flip-side, if you have a positive outlook and attitude, take things as they come, find the good in mostly everything “bad” that happens, you are familiar with a lighter energy and you are probably manifesting positive outcomes at a steady pace. Don’t panic! If you haven’t been the model of “Mr. or Ms. Positivity”, it isn’t too late!
Recognizing your low-level thoughts affect you is the first step toward changing. Start being honest about your internal judgments and all of a sudden really fabulous things start happening.Clean up your thoughts by being aware and replacing the negative with a positive. It may feel goofy at first but as you get used to catching yourself and throwing the positive in the mix, you will see major changes, fast!
Now that you are feeling positive, you need to be CLEAR, BELIEVE, and FEEL what you are trying to create. Oftentimes we think we want something and it turns out, we don’t! Be focused and sure about what you truly want and make sure you believe it can be a reality. If you do not believe you can have it, you wont! Know that it is doable and attainable, even if that means starting with smaller goals to build up your confidence while learning the manifesting process. The most important of all of the above is feeling. In order to pull that desire out of your energy system into the universal reality, you have to FEEL the emotion that goes with your desire.In order to manifest and bring all of those thoughts and goals into fruition, the energy vibration has to align with your root chakra energy. If these two energy patterns are different, daydreaming and fantasizing will remain just that, non-reality. If you can arrange for your energetic thoughts to match your first chakra’s energy as well as a few other key factors, big things start happening! Let me be honest and say I don’t expect you to hit the power-ball, however, you can shift your career, love life, health and anything else you want to shape and change, putting you in control of your future. Doing a quick meditation to align your energy centers and ask that your intentions match your chakra energy is a wonderful start to get your manifestation process going. To do this imagine one of the happiest times you have had, where you are beyond elated, and place that feeling and emotion with this new idea/concept you are manifesting. Ta Da!!! You have now manifested. See YouTube for quick 5-7 minute meditations that will help in your new routine.
Let me explain what being an empath looks like and then we will combine and discuss what an empath looks like with addiction. An empath is described as “Being affected by other people’s energies, and having an innate ability to intuitively feel and perceive others. Your life is unconsciously influenced by others’ desires, wishes, thoughts, and moods. Being an empath is much more than being highly sensitive and it’s not just limited to emotions.” Insane, right!?! Imagine how many of us walk around like this day to day with no idea that it isn’t US that is depressed, sad, suicidal, but our coworker, child, spouse and we channel it into our energy system looking for antidepressants, drugs, alcohol or any other fix to ease our emotions. MANY of us live exactly like this and the very scary fact is… we are completely unaware!
Because of the overwhelming emotions we look for ways to numb, to cope. This is where addiction rolls into the picture and turns a misunderstood process into a disaster. Because we are not aware that we have collected everyone else’s energy into our already overloaded systems, we meltdown and look for a way to become comfortable. Think about this. Even those coming from the most comfortable homes in America have emotional baggage- it just happens because that’s what life is in moments- a collection of hurt, loss, anxiety and the list goes on. So let’s take those that have all of these amplified by the extreme, add everyone else’s energy to theirs because after all, they are EMPATHIC, and throw them into the world to see how the “deal.” This is where the addict comes into motion. They have no tools for coping and although many of us empaths figure it out, keeping our addictions of eating, smoking, drinking, to a maintainable balance, an addict cannot. They need to be numb because it is overwhelming- they literally feel like they are crawling out of themselves trying to cope. Those of us blessed with an addict in our lives go insane wondering why they cannot get themselves together, why WE are not worth them changing, getting a hold of their addiction. We love them so much, yet we are powerless and watch the tailspin losing parts of who we are with them.
The process does not have to look this way, I promise! We too, are most likely empaths and we are coping, handling things. Even if we don’t understand the full aspect of how we work it out- we do. Because of our own innate ability to feel others’ pain and emotion, loving an addict makes the process harder and each day that we lose a little more of ourselves with them, we ask “why, how”, and scream at the LORD to make it stop. These steps will help release the expectation of how your addict should handle things, what their process should look like.
You have to let them go! An addict will tell you anything to make you believe it is you and not THEM. They will lie to your face, cry, scream and make you believe it is all YOU. Stop all contact with them until they hit rock-bottom and ask for help. This isn’t help with money, a place to stay or anything to enable them. This is “take me to rehab” help. Understand this will be the hardest process of the entire story. Walking away from someone you love more than anything in life is devastating. Life altering. You will worry if they are dead or alive and yes, there will be many sleepless nights but I promise, it will get easier day by day.
Don’t expect a recovery! I know what you’re thinking- “what in the hell, Jess! Seriously?” YES! You have to release all expectations of what your addict will do because it is NOT your story, your life. Being a supportive roll means being there when and IF they hit rock-bottom and not a minute before. Every time you give them what they want, the process and time frame for recovery starts all over again. Stop where you stand! I am not saying give up, I am saying pray for their highest healing and pray for your strength and sanity. Do not try to play their game by manipulating them, controlling them, and cornering them. They win every time; they know their addiction better than you! You have to release all expectation but I do know there is always room for change and some addicts WILL find their way to recovery and healing. Never give up, but step away.
Believe in yourself! Loving an addict is ugly. As I stated above, you do lose parts of yourself with the process and it is devastating. How can someone that loves you sit and lie to you, eye to eye? How can they sneak, lie, and manipulate you into their world and all of a sudden you believe you’re the crazy one? This happens easily because you are an EMPATH, as well. You have to stand strong in your beliefs and know you are doing things the way they need to be done. Your addict does LOVE you and you will feel this, making you second guess everything. Until they are done with the addiction, and I mean completely surrendered, they love their addiction more. As long as they make excuses to keep using, you are not the priority. There may be a point where you have to walk away for good because the addict will never see the truth. They wont want to give up their addiction, no matter how much they love you.
Be STRONG!When your addict is finally ready to surrender and begin the road to recovery they will break and all of the hurtful things they have done will finally surface and it will be hard for them to handle. All of the lies will come out, the hurt they have caused will be raw emotion, and they will be broken. This will bring shame, grief, heartache and you will need strength and patience. They are finally being vulnerable and looking for recovery- support them where they are and give them a safe space.
Most importantly know that if YOU are an addict there is hope and life does not have to be this way. Rehabilitation, therapy, love, and a will for a better life can help you change everything. I was blessed to have a client Monday that has been clean from the needle and meth for six years. She was a junkie and had used since the age of thirteen. She lost her family, friends, and life for years and had no hope. One incident changed all of that for her and her 40 something year old boyfriend who was also a needle user. Though they are not togehter, they are both SOBER and have tools as empaths to handle their emotions and addictions. Never give up!!!
Suicide is never an easy thing to discuss and there are many, many opinions and beliefs based on the individual’s religious/spiritual views and societies heavy hand on the subject. I’d like to talk about suicide from a spiritual perspective, from Spirit’s perspective. All mediums have their own set of ideas on suicide and spiritual connection and I have heard many that I agree with and many that make me shake my head and give a violent eye roll. I have channeled many Spirit passing by their own hand and none of them have ever stated they were in “limbo” or stuck. I remember when my little brother passed, he took his own life on my dad’s back porch and my pops found him early that morning when he went out to make sure my brother was up for work. That day shook my world, my dad’s world- he honestly has never been the same since. Back when this took place I was very Christian and it just tore my heart out of my chest to think my brother was being tortured or stuck because of his choice to leave this journey early. He was only a baby in my eyes, just short of being 19, and who is anyone to say a child full of depression should suffer and be stuck in some “bad” place? I had many sleepless nights and one anxiety attack after another pondering if this was true. Soon after his passing and deep into my uncertainties, I started receiving signs from JJ one after the other. The phone would ring but no one was there; he would send me a song I had never heard by the Nixons called “Sister” over and over and my lights would flicker and turn on and off almost on demand. (SIDE-NOTE! Remember at this point in time I was not channeling and had no idea I was a Medium!)
I built a relationship with my brother based on evidence. Anything he could give to show me he was still alive I would take and thank him. His energy and presence grew and grew each time I validated his effort. During this time I realized he wasn’t stuck or in pain or not available- he was still JJ- still available and communicating with me like a crazy guy! As a matter-of-fact my youngest daughter who is now 13 would receive validations from JJ more than I would! They had a deal where he would turn the street post light on and off for her on demand and once my girlfriend who was working in England called and asked why my brother was telling her “Monkey” or something like that. Monkey is Cendle’s nickname and my brother was giving her a message! How very cool, right?
My brother sent validation of his eternal being and I assure you if he was stuck this would not have been the case. I learned that those that cross themselves over do not get stuck and countless Spirits have confirmed this throughout my three years as a medium. Those that cross over before their lessons are learned do not escape the reality that they have to work very hard to get back on track and still very much have to deal and cope and grow through all of those emotions they bailed out on. Each Soul has their own way of doing this and their individual time frame that they will do this in. Send your loved ones prayers daily to help with this. Prayer is the most important thing we can give to those living and those in Spirit. Most importantly, don’t lose faith! Believe that those in Spirit are still very much present and in your life. Just because he or she no longer has their physical body does not mean they no longer live. Our Soul is like electricity and never, ever dissipates. It lives on eternally.
Love & Healing,
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