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Life can be tough sometimes, but I find comfort in knowing that there are spirits protecting us as we live our lives. The most personal protective spirits that we have on our side come in the form of spirit guides and guardian angels. Even though they both play very important roles in our life, they’re two different things.
Angels are divine spirits and they have never taken any sort of physical body on Earth. As a result, they have the ability to vibrate at a much higher frequency and deliver messages to us from the divine. Spirit guides, on the other hand, are spiritual beings that at one point were a human being and had a physical and mortal human body. More often than not, spirit guides are ancestors from long-ago or a deceased loved one/family member. It is possible for some spirit guides to be from dimensions and galaxies unknown by humans at this time.
Life will have a lot of ups and downs for us and it’s the guardian angel’s responsibility to keep us safe until it is our time. When we feel like our life is at risk or we’re extremely stressed out, our guardian angel is there to protect and comfort us. In dangerous situations, our guardian angel steps in and interferes with the situation, manipulating it to our advantage.
Just a quick online search will yield an incredible number of near-death stories, experiences and mysterious happenings where things should have gone bad but miraculously didn’t, thanks to guardian angels at work.
I personally remember hand washing dishes as a teenager once and I was holding a knife, about to wash it with a sponge when my brother ran into the kitchen, bumped me and I lost my footing and slipped on some water underneath me. I didn’t let go of the knife because everything happened so fast and it was positioned in a way to go right into my chest but by some miracle, it stopped short and only pricked my skin a little bit.
I remember being so extremely shocked at how lucky I got. Now I know it was my guardian angel protecting me because it wasn’t my time yet.
Spirit guides, on the other hand, come into our life at different stages to teach us much-needed lessons and guide us throughout our lifetime. They provide guidance for us and help us discover what the right path is for us if we listen. They can either stay with us our whole life or they can come and go as needed, depending on what we need at the time.
Unlike guardian angels, spirit guides can’t step in and change our destiny. They can’t undermine our free will. After our spirit guide relays the best path for us to take, it’s up to us to listen and make it happen.
Guardian angels are assigned to us before we are even fully formed in the womb, while we are still little balls of energy. They stay with us for the rest of our life. They’re with us whether we know it or not and they only want what’s best for us.
Next time you’re feeling afraid, stressed, sad or just need help with something that’s troubling you, take some quiet time and ask your angel to help you.
It can be hard sometimes to receive their messages because they can be pretty subtle but be on the lookout for new opportunities that come up and weird coincidences you experience. Their messages can appear in the strangest of forms and in unimaginable places.
With your spirit guide, you’re going to have to put forth more effort in the relationship so that it can strengthen. Take the time to get to know your spirit guide and to figure out their method of communicating with you.
Maybe they come to you in dreams or they send messages in the energy world that can only be picked up by skilled psychic mediums. If you’ve tried but feel like you’re unable to communicate with your spirit guide, don’t hesitate to contact an online psychic for help. They function on a higher wave length than us and are able to receive and relay messages to us.
Once you have established a relationship with your spirit guide, you will be amazed by how much they can guide you and what important life lessons they’re trying to teach you.
Both spirit guides and guardian angels are in our life to help us, despite being two different entities. We need to keep an open-mind to things we cannot see and ask them to come to us. We should be receptive of their messages and think outside the box when we hear or see something that doesn’t make sense- that could be them trying to communicate with us. Read my article 5 Ways To Know Your Spirit Guide Is Trying To Reach You to know what other signs to look for.
Have you ever been baffled for days about something and then all of a sudden, a lightbulb goes off in your head that clears it all up? Or have you ever made a decision instinctively, without much thought, almost as if you had someone tell you that this decision was the right one for you? If you’ve experienced things like this before, a sort of “intuitive knowing”, it could be that your spirit guide or guides were pushing you in the right direction!
Your spirit guides can come to you at any point in your life and for any reason. They especially come to you when they can see that you’re having trouble with something and can use some guidance. They come to you in different forms, including gut feelings, coincidences, intuition, dreams, and more. This article talks about the five most common signs that your spirit guide is trying to talk to you.
1. You Keep Experiencing Synchronicity
Synchronicity is one of the most obvious ways that your spirit guide communicates with you. You may be wondering, what even is synchronicity? Synchronicity is the act of two different things falling perfectly into place as one, like puzzle pieces fitting together seamlessly.
Synchronicities are often two separate events that have nothing to do with each other but yet when they happen together, they complement each other perfectly.
For example, say you just walked out of a job interview and you were offered the job but you’re not sure if you should take it or not. You get in your car and start driving away when all of a sudden, a car cuts in front of you and you notice their bumper sticker that says “Just Do It!”
Another example would be that it’s Friday night and you’re feeling lonely, then out of the blue and after not having heard from them in years, an old college friend calls you and wants to meet up and catch up with you that night.
It’s important that you take notice of things like this because they can happen randomly. Your spirit guides are trying to help you when you need them the most and making sure you stay on the right track. Numbers are especially meaningful so pay extra attention to them, mainly numbers that keep repeating themselves to you.
A lot of mystics and psychics believe that seeing the numbers 11:11 is a sign that your spirit guides and guardian angels are watching over you.
2. You Feel Something “Pulling” At You While Meditating
I’ve spoken before about the benefits of spiritual meditation and if you’re one that practices, this one’s for you. More than likely, you quiet your mind and try to turn the world off while you’re meditating, right? Well, did you know that doing this is actually one of the most common ways to communicate with your spirit guide?
During spiritual meditation, your vibrational frequency is raised higher. A higher level of vibrational frequency takes you, both mentally and spiritually, to greater heights. These higher frequencies are also where spirit guides function and when you’re both on the same level, it’s the perfect condition for your spirit guide and you to come across each other.
Next time when you’re meditating, pay extra attention to what you’re feeling- if it feels like something’s “pulling” at you, it could be your spirit guide trying to reach you.
3. Your Dreams Are Extremely Unusual
Spirit guides love talking to you through your dreams. This is because when you’re dreaming, you’re already in a different, otherworldly dimension. This makes communication with you easier because you’re not in your normal black and white existence and mindset.
They also love contacting you in your dreams because the intensity, brightness and strangeness of dreams lets the guide use more creative ways to reach you with their messages. This is especially true when it comes to lucid dreaming!
They can show you images that they need you to see, such as you in the future, or someone you’re meant to meet at a later date in your life, through your dreams. Never dismiss your dreams because they really are important.
It’s a good idea to keep a dream journal within reach of your bed so you can write down everything you remember about them as soon as you wake up. Take some time every now and then to look through your dream journal- sometimes things make sense at a later date. More than likely, there’s something in your dreams that you can apply directly to your life and that’s meant to guide you.
4. Your Life Seems To Be One Challenge After Another
Do you often feel like no matter what, you just can’t seem to catch a break? It’s something that happens to everyone honestly, but if you look deeper, you’ll realize that there’s a message for you underneath all the craziness. If rain just keeps pouring and pouring down on you, that could be your spirit guides’ way of telling you that you need to go a different route.
It could also be a way of them telling you that it’s time you change your outlook on life. While it’s true that you get stronger with each challenge you overcome, it’s also true that challenges show you when it’s time to alter your path since the one you’re currently on is full of barriers and obstacles.
5. You Have Strong Intuition
Spirit guides have the ability to reach you in the form of the feeling we call intuition. Because of this, paying attention to your intuition is a good way to know if your spirit guide is close to you and trying to reach you.
For example, say you met someone and agreed to go on a date with them but for some reason that you can’t explain, things just don’t feel “right”. You have a weird gut feeling that makes you uneasy about the whole thing.
This feeling is the universe trying to let you know that either this isn’t the right person for you, or worse, that this person could be a danger to you. When things feel “off”, your intuition is trying to alert you of possible dangers or threats.
This works the other way around also. You may have overlooked something in your life that was positive and your spirit guide can bring it to your attention.
An example of this would be that you’ve been on the hunt for a new job for a while and nothing has really interested you. After weeks of not finding anything that you care to do, all of a sudden, the description of one of those jobs jumps out at you amongst all the others. You reread it and realize you missed some benefits of the job.
You are now drawn to that one over the others and you apply, interview and get hired. The job is way better than you imagined and you make some great friends there. Your spirit guide just wants to help you live your best life- make sure you keep senses sharp and on the lookout for their presence.
The universe is constantly talking to you, you just need to take time to silence your thoughts and plug into the higher vibrations of the universe and learn the methods your spirit guides use to give you messages. Always be aware of your surroundings and on the lookout for signs that your spirit guide could be using to show you the path and to keep you away from things that aren’t good for you.
Everyone has a spirit guide or guardian angel, to learn the difference between the two, read Spirit Guides And Guardian Angels Explained. If you feel like you’re unable to feel your spirit guide or receive their messages, you could use an online psychic medium to contact them for you. That will get your relationship started and you can communicate back and forth through the psychic.
It could just be that your functioning on a different vibrational frequency than your guide. Psychics have the ability to alter their vibrational frequencies as needed and this makes them the perfect way to reach your spirit guide.
Some of you may have found your passion in life when you were still a young child and it only grew and expanded from there as you became an adult. Some of you may have been obsessed with a passion as a child but grew out of it as you got older. However, a lot of you may have not stumbled onto your passion yet, and that’s very common.
The same goes for goals and careers. The ideal situation, in my opinion, is to have a career that involves your passion because that is truly satisfying. I love the old saying, “Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.”
If you’re among the many that are searching for your passion and a career you’ll love, know that’s it’s possible for you and that it’s never too late to discover it. Follow the steps below to get pointed in the right direction and to help you get started.
Examine What Really Matters To You
Start your journey by really looking deep within yourself to see what things are important to you. Examine your interests, your beliefs, and your values. Make a list of all the things that give you joy.
Think about ideas and beliefs that you hold on to no matter what changes are happening around you; things that nobody else can sway you from believing.
Maybe your friends give you a hard time for constantly redoing the look of your home or promoting products on social media but you haven’t stopped because you truly enjoy doing those things. Your passion and perfect career could be a home interior designer or an online marketing manager.
Next, think about all the things you do in your day to day life and then remove the things that you only do because you HAVE to, not because you choose to. Some of the things we do every day are responsibilities that others are counting on us to for, but others are things we choose to take time and do for ourselves because they make us happy.
Let’s look at this day as an example:
Give $10 to a homeless man on your way work
Help a coworker understand something they’re confused on after you finish your work duties
Stop by your elderly neighbors house who lives alone to check on her after work
Cook yourself a gourmet dinner
How many of those things did you do because you HAD to?
This isn’t always as easy as it sounds. If you have tried to look within yourself but are coming up short, it could be because your energies are blocked, your chakras are not aligned, or you’re holding yourself back for subconscious reasons.
An online psychic is a good place to turn to for help if that’s the case. They can give you personalized information about yourself by reading your energy, helping you align your chakras, using astrology and numerology, reading your tarot cards, etc. For a list of online psychics that have been reviewed and are trustworthy, click here.
Be Patient With Yourself
Another important part of discovering your passion is having patience with yourself. It can take a long time to uncover your life’s calling- weeks, months, and sometimes even years. In the meantime, the bills will keep coming and you still need to be responsible about working and staying on top of your finances.
It may seem like your friends or family had a career they are passionate about fall into their hands but that’s probably not the case. They probably took time for themselves and were patient in their journey.
If you aren’t patient with yourself, you’re more likely to give up and just stay in a job you don’t like. Don’t be in a rush to discover your passion because that’s a good way to miss out on opportunities and situations that could teach you a lot about yourself. Good things are always worth the wait.
Learn And Develop Skills
Sadly, just having passion and a sense of purpose isn’t enough to land your dream job. You’re also going to have to be skilled at what you would like to be doing. Maybe you’re already good at doing what makes you happy, but if not, you’re going to have to start learning.
Does your ideal career require a certification that you need to go to school for? Do you have a bachelor’s degree but require a master’s degree? Do you need to take online courses to get up to date on the lingo used in that field of work? Look into the requirements and make a plan to meet them.
Get Your Foot In The Door
Chances are, you’ll have to work on some things in order to meet the requirements for your life’s work. A great step to take while you work on those things is to get a “lower tier” job at one of the company’s that does what you’re passionate about. This not only pays the bills but also gives you first-hand experience in that career.
For example, if your life’s calling is to become a teacher but you need to finish school first, getting a job as a teacher’s aid is a great way to get familiar with the environment, learn how the school system works, get some work references for the future, or even be hired once you have a degree!
If you can’t change jobs, another great option is to volunteer on your personal time. Find companies related to your life’s passion and spend some time learning as much as possible about the job. Volunteering goes a long way towards your future by providing you with knowledge, experience, and fulfillment. It also gives you a chance to look into the work they do and decide if it’s what you had in mind.
After following these steps, you should have a pretty good idea of what you’re passionate about and what you would like to see yourself doing for a living that incorporates your passion. Commit to your future with your whole heart and don’t lose hope, even when it seems like nothing is happening as it should.
It’s normal to begin questioning yourself and wondering if you’re on the right path. Don’t give up though, instead, use it as a reminder to keep pushing forward. Success lies just past the fear and the doubt. Don’t be afraid to consult a psychic if the doubts get to be too much, they can give you an introspective look into what career would be perfect for you. Read Top 6 Questions To Ask A Psychic If You’re Thinking About Changing Careers for some pointers.
No matter what your life’s work is, once you’ve discovered it and done whatever it takes to make it happen, you’ll be much more satisfied and content with your days. You’ll no longer find yourself staring at the clock, hoping for it to speed up so you can leave work. Instead, you’ll be looking forward to your daily contributions and finding happiness in the present.
Relationships, like anything else that brings you joy, are a lot of work. It’s almost impossible to for a relationship to have zero problems. Even when you find your perfect soulmate, you’re probably still going to fight or argue and have to work to keep it going.
When confused about the future of their relationship and need advice, people usually go to family members, close friends, or therapists. However, more and more people are seeing the benefit of turning to a professional psychic for relationship help.
One of the most common reasons people consult psychics is love and relationships. A talented psychic is able to give you valuable insight from the higher energy and power, Spirit, and can help lead you towards making decisions, going through changes, and enhancing your relationships. A lot of times, people begin their readings confused and undecided, but feel enlightened and more in charge of their future by the end of the session.
Having said that, you should remember that nothing is ever set in stone and it is impossible to predict whether your relationship will flourish or wither away. A psychic may spot stormy skies in your future, but that doesn’t mean that you should end your relationship because it isn’t going to work out.
Instead, you should use the information the psychic gives you as a guide. This guide can help you see beyond what you normally see and answer questions about your relationship that you never considered before. Asking the right questions is key to a successful reading.
If you’re having relationship issues or doubts and want to talk to a psychic for insight, here are some questions you should ask them.
1- What Is My Heart Trying To Tell Me?
When you ask this question, the answer will teach you how to tap into what your heart needs and wants. Funny enough, when in a relationship, people stop listening to what their heart desires and pay more attention to what their mind says. Love isn’t always logical so this is one area where you need to let your heart be louder than your mind.
This is especially so when decisions have to be made in a relationship. If you find yourself thinking more with your head than with your heart, this is a good question to ask the psychic. Especially if you’re completely torn on what to do when you have a big relationship change ahead of you.
For example, say you’ve been with your partner for a year now and they want to get an apartment together because it would be cheaper rent for both of you. Your mind might tell you that it makes more financial sense and you could use the extra savings but your heart could be trying to tell you that it’s too early, or that they aren’t the right person for you. With the help of a psychic, you can learn how to stop following your mind so much and get back in tune with your heart.
2- Can I Trust My Partner?
This is a good question to ask if you have concerns that your partner might cheat on you, or if they’ve been unfaithful in the past. This question doesn’t just have to do with fidelity though. You can ask this about any topic where you have a feeling your partner might be hiding something from you or isn’t being honest with you.
A lot of times, people doubt their partner and accuse them of cheating because they themselves are insecure. You may have no real reason to believe anything is going on behind your back, but self-esteem and jealousy issues can make you imagine things that aren’t really happening. A psychic can help you figure out if you’re being affected by these feelings and your partner is actually trustworthy, or if you really do have reasons to doubt your partner.
3- What Can I Do To Reconnect With My Partner
Sometimes relationships feel like they’re drifting apart for no reason. This is a good question to ask if you feel like your partner is acting distant and you don’t know how to reconnect with them. A lot of times people blame their partner for the disinterest and don’t look at what they may be doing to cause the relationship to drift apart. It’s easier to look at what’s wrong and give up but it’s better to learn what you can do to change things for the better and be closer.
Maybe you don’t realize it, but what if there are things you’re doing that are causing your partner to distance themselves from you? Things such as, always being on your phone when you’re together, or never wanting to hang out with his friends when he asks you to. A psychic can help you see beyond what you’re seeing and guide you in the right direction.
This is also a good question to ask if your sex life feels like its lacking and could be better. Relationships and individuals always have a lot of room to improve, so keep an open mind when you hear the answers to this question. Don’t take it as a criticism, but rather look at it as a chance to improve on yourself and get closer to your partner.
4- What Negative Things Am I Holding Onto From Previous Relationships?
It also keeps you from being an open soul, ready to give it your all for this new person who wants to be with you. By holding onto these old emotions, you put a block on your new relationship without ever giving it a full chance. This isn’t fair to your partner; they shouldn’t be punished for what someone else did to you.
It also isn’t fair to you. You shouldn’t miss out on the joy this new relationship could bring you because of a bad past. If you want to free yourself from your previous lovers and dating history, ask the psychic this question. They can discover what you’re holding on to that isn’t beneficial to you and teach you how to let go of it.
5- What Are My Partners’ Feelings About Our Relationship?
Sometimes it’s hard to just outright ask your partner how they’re feeling about the relationship. You might be afraid that you’ll come off too strongly or that they’ll think you’re too clingy and want to call it quits. Asking a psychic this question should not be used as a substitute for sitting down with your partner and openly asking them to share their feelings about the relationship with you.
It is, however, a good question to ask before you do sit your partner down for an honest discussion. That way, you’ll have an idea of what your partner’s feelings are concerning the two of you ahead of time and be better prepared. A genuine psychic can pick up on your partners’ feelings and emotions about the relationship through you. They may ask you some basic information about them, such as their date of birth, to tap into their energy.
6- Were We Together In A Past Life?
Despite everything you think you know about your relationship, this is the one thing you can’t know (unless you’re gifted with psychic abilities) without asking a skilled psychic. You tend to follow similar patterns from one relationship to the next, even if those patterns were from a past life that you don’t remember.
You’d be amazed at how many people you know in your current life that were also there in your past life. Your partner is no exception. What drew you to them then could be the same thing that draws you to them now.
By asking the psychic this question, you’re able to learn about any recurring patterns in your current relationship that stem from your previous life together. Knowing what happened with the relationship in the previous life can keep history from repeating itself now. Your relationship is strengthened when problems from the past aren’t allowed to take place in the present.
7- Are Our Energies A Good Match For Living Together?
This is an important question to ask if you’re considering living together but aren’t sure if it’s a good idea or not. A lot of people hesitate to move in together because they’re afraid that the relationship will change for the worst soon after.
You hear horror stories of couples fighting and arguing about cleaning, how bills are divided, about not having enough free space, etc. By asking this question, you can learn whether your energies are compatible enough for living together and get advice on what you can do to make it as problem-free as possible.
It’s still a good idea to have an honest discussion with your partner about living together even if the psychic says that your energies are compatible. This will give you a chance to state your concerns and worries to your partner before making a decision as big as this one.
8- How Is This Relationship Adding Value To My Life?
A psychic reader is a good person to turn to if you’re not sure how your relationship is serving you. Not to sound selfish, but we’re usually in relationships because we need something positive out of them. Things such as unconditional love, understanding, personal growth, and even health benefits.
If you’re not sure what positive things you’re getting from yours because it all feels negative to you, a psychic can give you some helpful insight. You shouldn’t be with someone who only takes from you or causes you pain. Your true soulmate would never abuse or intimidate you, make fun of you, be ashamed of you or take advantage of you. They should never drain the life or your vitality from you. You’re better off being single than being in a painful relationship.
However, if your partner is a nice person and treats you right but you’re unsure if they’re the one for you, ask this question. You can learn the reason you’re with them and see how they’re making your life better. Sometimes it’s hard to see these positive things for yourself and you can end up taking your partner for granted.
Don’t be afraid to consult a psychic reader next time you have doubts, questions or fears about your relationship. Take everything they tell you with an open mind and be honest during your session, they’re not there to judge- trust me. Be sure to have an open discussion with your partner afterwards about everything you learned because communication is so important for a successful relationship.
Do you feel like it’s time for a remarkable change in your mental, emotional, and physical well-being? If so, it could be time you take a breather, look inside yourself, and gain some self-awareness.
This isn’t always easy because unplugging from the constant and hectic energy of the world and listening to what your body is trying to tell you takes a lot of extra effort.
Spiritual meditation is a great way to put in that extra effort. It allows you to revel in the magic that begins to unfold when you take time on yourself. Starting a spiritual meditation practice may seem too hard or intimidating but it’s actually very simple, and very worth it.
In this article, I will outline 5 steps to get you started on your journey.
First though, you may be wondering what spiritual meditation even is. Spiritual meditation is a life-changing practice. It’s an experience that makes you look deep inside your being and takes you to the depths of who you are as a person.
It shows you who YOU are. Your real self, stripped of all the thoughts you had about yourself up until then. You experience peace and joy during the process as well. You will notice your soul feel lit up by a feeling of love and light.
With a spiritual meditation practice, you’re able to realize the sacred truth. It also helps you free yourself of things that have already happened and even things that will happen to you in the future. Consulting a real psychic can help you align your energies to make your meditation practice more effective.
You’re able to be fully in the present and the present is where you want to be. The present is where you will find calm and comfort.
People who have already discovered the rewards of spiritual meditation are usually drawn to it by a natural and intuitive desire to see and think beyond the hectic world we live in.
Here are some of the most common benefits of spiritual meditation:
It enables you as a person and helps you reach your higher consciousness
It releases and balances your thoughts and emotions
It physically relaxes your nervous system and allows your body to de-stress.
So how is it done?
Find A Position That’s Comfortable
The very step before beginning is also one of the most important. You need to find a comfortable location and position. If you’re uncomfortable then you’re going to give up quickly and never reap the rewards.
You also need to make sure that the location is as calm and quiet as can be. Avoid city and mechanical noises as much as possible and try to surround yourself in nature if you can. If that isn’t an option then find a quiet spot and play relaxing sounds on a phone or computer.
The sound of birds chirping or waves crashing are especially soothing to the mind. You want to be careful about getting TOO comfortable though, as this is a good way to fall asleep. Choose a position that is comfortable, but not laying down or leaning against something where you can easily drift off to sleep in.
If you’re familiar with yoga, the Vairasana, Sukhasana and Padmasana yoga positions are a great choice. If those seem too complicated, you can sit on a chair that forces your back to be straight. You can even stand up and lean your back against a wall.
Find the position that works for you, then gently close your eyes.
Let Go And Just Let It Happen
What do you do when you know you have a task to accomplish? If you’re like a lot of people, you plan ahead, right? Perhaps you plan it out in your notebook or calendar, somewhere where you can see it.
You’re used to making a plan and carrying it out in a controlled manner. Well, when it comes to meditation, you’ll actually want to do the complete opposite. With meditation, you’ll actually have to just let go.
You need to be relaxed and just let the process happen on its own, in a natural manner. You need to allow the experience to take place without trying to force it one way or another
Don’t get too caught up in making sure it happens “correctly” or get yourself worked up about what the result should be. Just allow yourself to let go and be in the background while it takes its own course.
Hear Your Thoughts But Don’t Engage Them
The world we live in is run by technology and information. Your phone and computer are constantly giving you the latest news, either through social media, breaking news, or live updates.
Because of this, your mind is always “on” and buzzing with new information. Your brain is constantly reacting to all these things.
It’s safe to say that anytime you’re awake, your mind is lit up with all this information. For some, this continues even while they are trying to sleep.
Your brain trying to process the constant stream of thoughts can keep you from being able to fall asleep peacefully and quickly.
Whether on purpose or subconsciously, you’re constantly reacting to all these thoughts and they affect you more than you think. Your time of meditation is no exception.
You are sitting there, quietly and comfortably, trying to think about absolutely nothing but your thoughts still flood your mind. This is where your determination comes in.
The point of meditation isn’t to get to where you no longer have thoughts while meditating, the point is to learn how to deal with those thoughts. You can let the ideas bombard you as they do, but don’t react to them and don’t let them take over you.
Let the thoughts in as usual, but fight back against them by not reacting to them. When you don’t give them attention, then they have no choice but to float away and you can continue your spiritual meditation.
Be stronger than the thoughts that will try to take your attention away from yourself and onto them.
Repeat A Mantra Or A Praye
Avoiding and ignoring your thoughts isn’t easy. That’s why it’s helpful to choose a mantra or prayer to say in your head while you’re meditating. This doesn’t have to be a religious phrase, but it can be if you would like.
Wikipedia describes a mantra as “ A sacred utterance, a numinous sound, a syllable, word or phonemes, or group of words in Sanskrit believed by practitioners to have psychological and spiritual powers.”
Your mantra or prayer can be a phrase that means something positive and uplifting to you, your favorite affirmation, or even just a word that makes you feel good.
After you’ve chosen a mantra, unclench your body and try to relax. Breath in and breath out slowly and naturally. Notice your breath flowing in and out of your body.
Thoughts are sure to come into your mind but as I mentioned earlier, see them for what they are and let them pass, don’t focus on them. After every thought interruption, just let it pass and get right back to observing your breath and into your body.
Repeat your mantra or prayer every time you breath out. The mantra will help you refocus your attention away from your thoughts and onto your breathing. You may also find it beneficial to hold certain healing crystals while meditating to help ground you.
Zero in on your body, your awareness, and your presence in that space and time. Become aware of your surroundings. Notice how your body is feeling. Pay attention to your breath and your thoughts.
Make sure that you’re fully calm and at ease. Slowly open your eyes and remain seated in the same position for as long as you can. Feel the effects that meditating has on your body and mind.
When you have sat and meditated for as long as you can, reflect on the whole process. Think about how much calmer and even-tempered you feel.
Be proud of yourself for having given it your best shot and next time, strive for a longer period of meditation. With practice, you’ll notice how much easier it is to quiet your mind and enjoy the silence it is.
When you’re ready to get up, make sure you stand up very gently. Give your body a little stretch and continue with the rest of your day.
Aim for a spiritual meditation session of about 5 minutes daily when you’re first starting out. It may not sound like a lot but it’s amazing how long it is when you’re trying to relax and not think about anything! As you get better at quieting your thoughts, aim for longer and longer periods of time.
If you’re struggling with quieting your thoughts, it could be that your 6th chakra, also known as the third eye chakra, is being blocked or is misaligned.
Your third eye chakra is located in the brain, between your eyebrows, right above your nose. It’s the doorway that leads you towards spiritual enlightenment and allows you to see beyond the mind and beyond words. Contact a trustworthy, talented psychic to find out the reason yours could be misaligned and to help you balance it back.
People come and go into your life. Some of them are in your life without any choice from you, such as family and coworkers. Others however, are in your life because you wanted them in it, such as friends and romantic partners.
With so many people that you interact with throughout your life, it’s only logical that you’ll be hurt at some point or another by some (or even all) of them. It’s also fair to say that at some point in your time knowing them, you will hurt them also. Perhaps not on purpose or with intent, but it could happen.
For this reason, love and forgiveness are important feelings to have. These two things get us through the hard times and keep us connected to the ones we love even when things haven’t been perfect with them.
In your life, you’ll have a lot of relationships with people. Families, romantic relationships, and friendships create the most powerful bonds of all. These are usually the people you get closest to, the ones you love the most.
Love is such a strong emotion, and unfortunately anytime there are strong emotions involved, the chances of feelings getting hurt go up.
Every single relationship has its own natural rhythm, some are smooth and peaceful, and others are bumpy and rocky. Some are always going to be rough, and some just have their moments of difficulty in between moments of peacefulness.
Romantic relationships are especially prone to hurt feelings because when you love someone, it hurts so much when the relationship falls apart. Even if it was a mutual decision to separate, it can still hurt for a long time after.
If you’re struggling to make a relationship work, it never hurts to contact a reputable online love psychic so they can read your energy and give you advice on what you can do to improve your relationship. They can also tell you where it looks like your relationship is heading and whether you should fight for it or not.
But sometimes, no matter how hard you try, relationships just don’t work out. Perhaps the person you thought was your soulmate broke up with you for someone else. Maybe they cheated on you or kept lying to you. You can let these losses become full of anger and resentment, or you can learn to forgive and let it go. You can move on from the experience and be a stronger person for what you went through, or you can be forever bitter and angry and let it always affect your day-to-day life.
How To Recognize When It’s Time To Forgive?
When someone you love hurts you, it’s normal to feel pain and anger. But holding on to and living with these feelings isn’t healthy. Reliving the event in your head over and over and feeling resentment towards the person that caused you to hurt isn’t good for you.
You can’t possibly focus on the future if you’re too busy holding onto the past. It is so easy to get trapped in a cycle of anger and pain if you’re not careful. It makes it so much more difficult to live in and enjoy the present if you’re stuck in that trap. Being trapped also makes it harder to believe in a happier future.
Recognizing when you need to forgive someone is easy. A good sign would be if you find yourself unhappy and mad more often than you’re happy and relaxed.
Or if you’re always focusing so much of your energy towards the person who hurt you instead of towards your future.
You know you need to forgive that person when the pain of holding on to them is bigger than the pain of letting them go.
“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” Mahatma Gandhi
I know forgiveness isn’t always an easy thing to do. I also know though that it is possible to do. Possible and necessary for your well-being.
Here are 6 steps to get you started on your road to forgiveness so you can heal and move forward.
Acknowledge That You Need To Let Go For Your Own Good
Take some time to sit back and think about how your life is being affected by the person who hurt you in the past. What negative issues are you experiencing in your day to day life?
Does the person you feel resentment towards still play a role in your life? Do you still have to see them and interact with them? Have your other relationships been impacted by this pain you’re feeling?
Do you have a hard time sleeping? Eating? Do you find yourself angry, sad or just unhappy in general all the time?
Take a good, long look at your current life and be honest with yourself. Think about your feelings and any problems that are being caused because of them. If you come to realize that you do want to be a happier, then it is for sure time to unchain yourself from the past and be free.
Recognize The Role You Played In The Situation
In order to move on from the pain someone caused you, it’s important that you look at the situation and see if you played a hand in what went wrong. It’s easy to blame everything on the other person but sometimes we are also to blame for the bad things that happen.
You need to understand your responsibility, if any, in the drama that unfolded. Even though you were wronged by someone, ask yourself- did I do anything to cause any of this?
In the case of abuse, you are the victim there because that is NEVER ok. But, you should also look back and think if there were times you were offered help to leave and you chose not to take it? Did you think you could “fix” that person and make them better?
If so, acknowledging this now will help you be more aware of it in the future, should anything like that happen again. Perhaps you were absolutely blameless in the situation and there was nothing at all you could do and had no way out.
It’s always a good idea though to look back and see what, if anything, you could have done differently. This will help keep you from repeating the same mistakes.
Replace Anger And Resentment With Understanding And Compassion
I know it’s hard to feel compassion towards someone you’re angry with. I also know how difficult it is to forgive someone who you view as a bad or hateful person.
However, the world we live in is not always right and wrong or good and bad. It’s possible that the person who caused you pain isn’t necessarily a bad person. Everyone makes mistakes after all.
Unless they make it their mission to go around hurting everyone, more than likely, they are not a terrible person.
Maybe you were cheated on by your partner; instead of feeling anger towards them forever, try to feel empathy for them instead. There is obviously something in their life that keeps them from being an honest, loyal person.
Try to find it in you to feel empathy towards them. Spend some time trying to understand why they said what they said or did what they did to you. A lot of times, their actions are more a reflection of how they feel towards themselves, not towards you.
Put yourself in their shoes and picture what they might be feeling at this moment. You may not be able to understand them, but you will open up your empathic heart by at least trying.
Stop Living In The Past And Start Being In The Present Moment
When you hold onto pain, you’re basically reliving the event over and over and keeping the hurt and emotional wounds fresh. Focus on the future by letting go of the painful past.
There is no use in holding onto that hurt and pain. The past is the past and just like you can let go of a person, you can also let go of a painful moment in time.
I know a lot of times when people fight with their partners, it’s easy to bring up problems or failures from the past. Don’t do this!
Keep the disagreements current, the past is the past, don’t keep bringing up previous mistakes just because you’re mad at them right now.
Remember that the pain, stress and unhappiness you feel currently came from events that happened in the past and it’s just excess baggage you’re carrying around. You’re letting it weigh you down and it’s keeping you from living happily in the here and now.
Start Meditating To Clear Your Head
Instead of focusing so much time and energy on the past, refocus your attention to the current moment. Think about what kinds of things are going on in your life right now. Think about what joy can be found in these things.
One very powerful way to be in the present and find your everyday joy is to meditate on a regular basis.
Meditating helps you realign your focus to what is important in your life at this very moment. It helps keep the past behind you and your future in front of you. Stay intentional and consistent with meditation and you will be amazed at the positive changes you’ll experience.
To deepen your spiritual meditation, use crystals during your practice. Healing crystals are a powerful tool that anyone can benefit from. Read my article The 7 Most Common Healing Crystals And How To Use Them to learn about the different kinds of crystals and to help you decide which ones to use.
Meditating with crystals helps to raise your consciousness and awareness on a spiritual level. They deepen your intuition and bring insight and intention to your mind.
Let Your Forgiveness Be Known
Once you make the transition from mad and resentful to empathic and forgiving, you’ll notice that your anger has faded. You will have newfound peace simply by forgiving someone.
In order to fully maximize the benefits of forgiveness, it’s important that you let the person who hurt you know that you have forgiven them and no longer feel hate or resentment towards them.
You can do this by either talking to them in person, or you can just write them a letter laying out what they did to you, how it affected you, and how you have found it in your heart to forgive them.
If you’re unable to communicate with them, or it’s too dangerous to let them know, still write the letter. You can then have a personal moment where you (safely) burn the letter and free yourself from that person and the damage they did to you.
You may find after this that your heart is actually filled with compassion and understanding towards them. You may even find yourself hoping that they’re happy in their current life and wishing the best for them.
That’s you letting go. That’s you freeing yourself. That’s you being able to move on wholeheartedly from them and the past. That’s you healing.
There may be pain caused to you by someone important in your life at some point, and that’s ok. That’s on them. But what’s not ok is living with the pain for the rest of your life.
You can’t control or change other people and how they treat you. But what you CAN control are your feelings, thoughts and actions towards the situation. You can change your mindset.
You may not feel like you’re in charge of your feelings but trust me, you are. You’re stronger than you think you are.
Forgiving people won’t change what happened in the past, that isn’t the point of it. You also don’t have to forget about it and pretend it never happened.
The whole point of forgiving someone isn’t for THEM, it’s for YOURSELF. That way you can be the happiest version of yourself possible without anything weighing you down.
If you have followed these steps and still can’t seem to forgive or move on, it could be that your sacral chakra is being blocked or is misaligned. Your sacral chakra is located in your lower abdomen and is in charge of energy, compassion, emotional stability, grounded intuition, and a general passion for life. Contact a trustworthy, talented psychic to find out the reason yours could be misaligned and to help you get it back in balance.
You don’t have to be a New Ager or be into magic and mysticism in order to benefit from the healing properties of crystals. Using crystals to heal makes sense when you think about it, considering they have vibrational energy properties.
Because of this, crystals can pick up vibrations from our chakras and help flush out negative energy. They act as conduits for healing by allowing positive, healing energy to flow into the body as negative energy flows out. This can happen while you’re holding them, by being next to your body in jewelry form, or even by just displaying them in your home.
You can use crystals to tune into your wants and desires and to work through any personal issues you are experiencing. They can help you reach your goals by balancing your energy and getting you spiritually aligned. Just like you tune a radio to get the strongest and clearest radio signal, you can also tune into yourself. Consider this explanation from the founder of Place 8 Healing in California, Azalea Lee;
“Everything in the universe is a vibration, including you. Each one of your organs, chakras, mind, and thoughts are vibrations as well. As a whole, you are an intricate symphony of resonances, with some vibrations out of whack. Crystals have a specific and clear vibration. By openly engaging with these vibrations, crystals can act as a tuning fork to help recalibrate your vibrations to a more ‘in-tune’ place, helping you to be more balanced physically, emotionally, and spiritually.”
After being introduced to crystals and crystal healing during a psychic reading, I did some research and spoke to several different online psychics to learn more. It made sense to me and I have embraced the art ever since. At this point I now have a pretty extensive collection of crystals and I love every single one of them. At first I was just pulled in by the beauty of each of my crystals and that’s how I chose which ones to get.
After purchasing them, I learned everything I could about each one. I now associate each one with its unique energy.
For example, Rose Quartz symbolizes love and harmony and is used to help you open up your heart in order to give and receive love. When I look at or hold my Rose Quartz stone, it reminds me to check in with my spouse and with my own heart, and I feel a wave of love and gratitude wash over me. I also reach for it and hold it anytime I am feeling emotionally troubled.
There is nothing wrong with being skeptical, and you don’t have to learn all the metaphysical words and phrases in order to benefit from the power of crystals. It’s important to remember that at the end of the day, crystals are used to achieve balance and increase personal awareness.
This often includes looking at things differently than you normally would and being open-minded. If you are looking to begin your own journey with crystals and crystal healing, it is helpful to be as informed as possible. Below are 4 things to know before you get started.
Choose The First Crystal That Draws You In
Usually when you’re in the market to buy something, you are told to research products first, then choose the one that seems the best. With crystals, it is actually better to pick a stone that draws you in on its own and then research it’s uses and benefits afterwards. It doesn’t hurt to learn about the different properties of all the crystals ahead of time, because that can help point you in the direction of the variety that will benefit you, but it isn’t necessary.
As I learned from a psychic, when you pick first and research later, you might think that you are picking a certain crystal for the way it looks, but this isn’t the case. You are actually being pulled in to that particular stone intuitively for its spiritual benefits. You actually end up selecting the stone you need the most at that point in your life when you go with your gut first. You’re essentially letting the crystal choose you.
Choose Quality Over Quantity And Watch Out For Fakes
While it’s helpful to choose the crystal you’re most attracted to, you also need to make sure that you’re only buying quality stones. It’s very common for ‘metaphysical’ crystals to be artificially treated and heat-treated to look like a different stone.
For example, about 98% of the ‘citrine’ stones available are not actually citrine but amethyst treated to look like citrine. There was a chemical process patented back in 2006 that is used to color stones such as Angel Aura, Titanium Aura, Aqua Aura, etc. Some crystals that claim to have healing properties are even made in factories, such as Opalstone and Goldstone.
In order to truly heal with crystals, you have to research the different shops and make sure they are selling nothing but the real deal. Also, make sure they they are ethically sourced. You will have to pay more for your crystal collection up front, but it will be worth it. There’s nothing worse than spending your money on a healing crystal collection that have no healing properties.
Look at a healing crystal collection as a lifelong investment because true crystals are meant to last a lifetime. Choose quality over quantity with them, just as you would with a good pair of running shoes or your favorite jeans. It’s a good idea to start your collection by spending your money on one quality stone, research it, work with it and get to know everything you can about it, then move on to another. Build your collection of quality stones slowly, instead of buying several fakes at once.
Learn The Healing Properties And Benefits Of Each Of Your Crystals
Since each stone has its own unique set of benefits and its own energy, you should associate it and use it for things you want (or want to get rid of) in your own life. You are the only person who knows what you are looking to clear away from your life or heal in your life so that’s going to look different for everyone. Once you have chosen a crystal based on the magnetism you felt towards it, learn as much as you can about its benefits and energy and apply it to your personal situation.
“Working with crystals is very much like making food. Making scrambled eggs or turning eggs into a delicate lemon soufflé depends on intent and technique, much like a chef would understand his ingredients to maximize their deliciousness. The best way to care for crystals and reap their benefits is to learn about the individual crystals and develop technique with them through the experience of working with them. As with everything, how much you put in is how much you get out with crystals,” Lee says.
You can always learn more about individual crystals by consulting an online psychic. They are a great resource for a beginner to learn and start their journey. You can tell the psychic what you are struggling with the most and they can tell you what stones they suggest for that particular problem.
Be Sure You Place The Crystals In the Appropriate Place
Where you put certain crystals depends on what you’re using them for. For example, citrine is used for revealing goals and inspiring new beginnings. A work space or office would be the perfect area to place citrine because of its ability to manifest goals and progress forward. The bedroom would be a great place for it if you were trying to have a baby.
You can also get guidance from a psychic to figure out the perfect placement for your particular crystals based on your needs. Since each crystal variety has its own set of healing properties, it’s a good idea to become familiar with the most common ones. Especially if there is a certain area of your life you are looking to improve.
Crystals have been used for their amazing and energetic healing properties since ancient times. They can help us heal from repressed issues, bring us happiness, and help us live our healthiest lives. There are a number of different healing crystal varieties naturally found in the Earth. Each one has its own specific healing properties. Some are better used for protection and shielding, some for love and relationships, and some for luck and prosperity. I was first introduced to crystal healing during an online psychic reading and I have been using them since with great success. Below are the top 7 crystals that can help you live your best life.
Clear Quartz, also known as “The Master Healer”, has been used as a general stone for healing anything and everything. It is clear and translucent, and has the ability to heal emotional, physical and mental troubles. Because of its unique makeup, it’s able to resonate with our higher frequency chakras. It floods our bodies with divine white light and connects us to our higher consciousness, higher-self, and increases our ability to love purely. Clear Quartz is a great base crystal for everyone to have in their collection because of its various healing properties.
Citrine is one of the most esteemed crystals by healers. It is a golden, yellow color and is loved not only for its healing properties, but also for its beauty. Those who wish to have more abundance and prosperity in their lives are especially fond of it.
It also goes by the name of “The Merchant’s Stone” because of its ability to attract new opportunities and remove financial blockages from your life. It is highly respected for its weight loss and protection properties as well. Put it in your purse or carry a piece of it in your wallet for prosperity and abundance. For protecting your aura, place it at the four corners of your home. To help you with your weight loss goals, place it on your Solar Plexus Chakra, or Manipura, every day for about 20 minutes while visualizing your goals.
I love this stone so much that I have one set in every single room of my house! I also wear it on a necklace daily so that it is close to me and to protect my aura. It is considered one of the top protective crystals. It has the ability to shield against damaging electromagnetic fields by grounding you and created a shield against them.
Place Black Tourmaline next to any electronic devices for protection against EMF frequencies. It is also a great stone to place in your workplace for protection against negative vibrations and harmful intentions from others. If worn on your body, it will absorb negative energy and convert it to positive energy. If you find yourself having a hard time making your goals a reality, write down your goals and wishes on a piece of paper and set a Black Tourmaline crystal on top of it. The crystal will help remove any psychic blockages that are keeping your goals from coming true. It will replace the blockages with abundance and positive energy.
Amethyst, also referred to as “The All-Purpose Stone”, comes in several different shades and hues. It can be found in anything from a bright purple to a soft lilac shade. This crystal has the ability to resonate with our Crown Chakra and our Third Eye Chakra. The Third Eye Chakra opens the gateway to higher intuition and divine consciousness. Amethyst also delivers clarity to our minds when there is confusion, and relieves stress and anxiety from our bodies. A lot of healers use Amethyst to help treat mood swings and insomnia.
Rose Quartz is similar to Clear Quartz, but it is pink in color and is known for its calming and soothing properties. It symbolizes love and harmony, and opens your heart so that you can give and receive love freely. It is also used to help you move on from certain situations by allowing you to forgive yourself and others. Its energy emits peace, love and harmony.
This is one of the best crystals to use for healing your inner child, healing emotional traumas, and for relationship problems. Hold it or wear it on a piece of jewelry anytime you are feeling emotionally troubled. You will feel a calming wave of tranquility and peace wash over you. Place Rose Quartz anywhere you want to keep a peaceful atmosphere, such as your work desk and home.
Aventurine can come in several different colors, such as yellow, red, blue, green and more. This crystal is known for attracting true love and lasting relationships, as well as true friendships. Green Aventurine is known as the “Luck Stone” because it brings forward new opportunities and good luck. It is also able to raise your self-esteem and confidence, which in turn helps your personal growth. Aventurine also helps alleviate sleep disorders, allergies, helps regulate your blood pressure, and strengthens your immunity.
This crystal can be anything from a deep, reddish brown to a pale, light orange. This stone is known for manifesting motivation, confidence, and inspiration. It also has the ability to give you the determination you need to stay strong no matter what problems come your way. It is also known for being an energy booster that removes impure energies and spreads joy in its place. Carnelian represents the Sacral Chakra, Svadhisthana, so it can help harness creativity, sensuality, and help with addiction problems.
There are a countless number of crystals with healing properties that have been discovered. They come in different shades, hues, colors, shapes and sizes. When shopping for crystals, focus inward at all the different ones in front of you and choose the one/ones that you feel drawn to the most. Go with your gut feeling and use them in your healing journey to live your healthiest, happiest life! Read Crystal Healing For Beginners: 4 Things You Must Know to learn the basics and to get you started.
You may or may not already know this, but psychic readers rely on more than just intuition when they give you psychic guidance. They use several different tools to give you specific and personalized advice.
While some psychics speak with spirit guides, others, such as psychic mediums, communicate with the spirit of your loved ones who have passed away.
Despite their different methods, the results are very much the same: to help you see your future path more clearly.
It’s a good idea to know what the top 5 false beliefs about psychic readers are before your next psychic reading.
Psychics Can Read Your Mind
Psychics don’t read your mind– they read your energy. A genuine and talented psychic reader is able to sense your true feelings and see what’s going on in your energy field.
They’re able to pick up on the difficulties you’re having in making a decision, and can sense out why you’re feeling the way you’re feeling.
They are able to identify which choice is the clearest and most ideal path for you. However, they won’t be able to tell you what your favorite movie is or where you vacationed last week.
Your genuine, most profound feelings are stored in your heart and soul- not in your head. For this reason, a skilled psychic won’t care to “read your mind”. If a psychic does need “mental” type information from you for whatever reason, they will just outright ask you for it.
Another example would be a psychic medium needing to know the name of the deceased loved one you want to connect with. They need this so that they can contact the right spirit and connect with them.
This type of information is helpful in those cases so that they can give you the best reading.
Psychics Know Everything, All Of The Time
It’s important to remember that psychics are only human, and as such they get tired and make mistakes just like everyone else.
If you’ve ever tried to consult with your favorite online psychic at your normal time and they weren’t online, it could be because they were having an off day. Maybe they decided to take some time to recharge and reconnect with themselves.
Psychics can’t be “on” 24/7 because their gift requires a lot of work and energy. They need more time than you and me to renew and restore their minds.
It’s impossible for anyone to know EVERYTHING, and psychics are no exception. Each psychic is on his or her own journey, just like us. They are always learning and exploring and they are always looking to grow and evolve.
Even when psychics get guidance or advice from their spirit guide, they are only given information that’s important at that time.
Experienced psychics are a lot like water channels; they connect two separate bodies- you and information you weren’t aware of.
Psychics Are Right 100% Of The Time
Any information that comes from a crystal ball or a spirit guide must be accurate, right?? Well, not necessarily because this information is only a small glimpse into your life- it’s not the whole picture.
They only have the information that you need to know at this precise time in your life. The information you need right now so that you can make sure the next choice is the best choice.
Sometimes, you need to hear certain information, even if it’s bad, so that in the process of trying to overcome that obstacle, you actually evolve and expand as a person.
It’s called “psychic advice” and not “psychic law” for a reason. You have a lot of possibilities in your life and your future is not set in stone.
A psychic can’t live your life for you, and a good one will never pressure you to live a certain way or follow a specific path.
No matter how many psychics you consult with and give you the same advice, you are the only one responsible for your life and the choices you make.
You have free will, and what you decide to do with your psychics’ advice will change your outcome.
Intuition Is What Makes A Psychic
You don’t become a pastry chef if all you know how to bake is your grandma’s cinnamon rolls. The same applies to intuition and psychics.
Intuition is just one small part of being a professional psychic. It’s an important part, sure, but it’s still just a small part.
Most psychics receive years and years of training and attend various schools. They become skilled at all the different techniques, such as spiritual channeling, Tarot card reading, properly using a crystal ball, etc.
They also learn how to clear their field, balance their chakras, and ground their energy before they give readings.
Being a professional psychic is a full-time career and a lot of work. Their many years of training enhance their skills and make them better at what they do.
Focusing on their talent and perfecting their art is how they create and grow a satisfied client base.
Some psychics choose to specialize in career guidance, some in health concerns, others in love and relationships. Some are more generalized and can help with anything you are going through.
Simply having intuition doesn’t make them become skilled psychic readers.
Every Psychic Is A Spirit Medium
There’s a huge difference between psychics and psychic mediums, but a lot of people think they are the same thing.
Psychics are able to see the past, present and future. They can travel in different time dimensions while remaining in the here and now of the physical world.
Psychic mediums, however, are able to cross the boundaries of our world and communicate with the spirit world. They have the unique ability to travel through space.
These two things require totally different skills.
Before deciding on a psychic, make sure you know what it is you’re looking for. Not all psychics have the same abilities.
Does it feel like you spend too much of your time at work and your family life is suffering because of it? It can be challenging to find that perfect balance between work and personal life.
It’s especially difficult to do if you’re aiming to move up in your career or you’re trying to make a good impression with your supervisor.
Realizing that there is more to life than just working is crucial for your well-being. If you currently find yourself working long hours and not seeing much of your family, you need to find a way to make more time for them.
This is not only good for them, but for you as well. Read on for four tips that can help you find that work-life balance you and your family deserve.
Use Your Time Wisely
There are only 24 hours in a day and you can’t do anything to change that unfortunately. What you can do however, is learn how to use that time at work and with your family more efficiently.
You only have a certain amount of energy and you need to make sure you are dividing it equally between your job and your family. This is the only way you can create a work-life balance.
It makes sense that if you work yourself too hard at work, you won’t have the time or the energy to spend with your family when you see them. When you learn how to work in a more efficient manner, you can be more productive and accomplished in your 24-hour day.
Making daily, weekly, and monthly schedules and sticking to them is so helpful. Talk to an online psychic for help drawing up a personalized schedule and plan. This will help you in your search for a balanced family-work life.
Be Ok With Saying No
It’s impossible to please everyone all of the time, no matter how hard you try to. Those who have realized and accepted this fact are the ones who have the best balance between their work and their personal life.
They have learned to say no when asked to do something that can either hurt their career or take time away from their family.
For example, if one of your clients wants to meet at night, after work hours, but you know it will be cutting into your family time, it’s ok to say no and propose a time that does work for you.
You need to be able to set boundaries on the hours you’re able to work and the hours that are off limits.
Learn To Accept Help
It’s ok to be a normal parent- nobody expects you to be a supermom or a superdad. Spending time with your family, taking time for yourself, and handling your household all on top of working a 40+ hour work week is extremely difficult.
You shouldn’t expect yourself to handle it all on your own. It’s ok to rely on friends and family when needed.
Reach out to loved ones when you are feeling overwhelmed. Friends and family can relieve some of your tasks and make your life easier if you learn to accept their help. Don’t turn down someone who sees how much you are doing and wants to lend a helping hand.
Taking the expectations off of yourself to be a superparent and accepting help can go a long way to achieving that balance between your work and your personal life.
Take Time For Yourself
Because of how exhausting balancing your career and your family is, your health can really suffer if you don’t take care of it. You need to make it a priority to take time out for yourself. It’s important that you set aside at least one day a week to relax and indulge yourself.
This can mean anything from sleeping in an extra hour on your day off, hitting the spa with your girlfriends, or spending an evening reading your favorite books. Talk to any psychic reader and they will all tell you how powerful this can be for your mental health.
You may feel like you’re being selfish but trust me, both your career and your family benefit when you take time for yourself.
It is also a good idea to take a vacation at least once a year with your family. This gives you a break from the hustle and bustle of everyday life and its challenges. It also gives you much-needed time to recharge.
The balance between work and personal life can only be achieved when you actively look for ways to manage your time more efficiently. You only have one life and you can’t let things get in the way of quality family life and a successful career. It IS possible to have both- you’ll be much happier when you realize this and make it your reality.