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There are 7 key qualities that all doctors should have and these are, compassion, a strong work ethic, professionalism, knowledge, confidence, humility, and passion – according to the American University of Antigua. However, it seems as though they’ve missed attractive off the list as these doctors are out of this world…

It’s actually not fair how attractive these doctors are, although I would happily go through my entire health history with this lot.

1.) He cures disease with his smile

Why do none of my doctors look like this?! I didn’t know people could even look this good in real life. I feel like he would cure all of my life problems with a smile.

2.) That puppy is living her best life

Okay, not only is he God-like attractive but he also loves and cures dogs. This is my perfect man and I want to marry him. No, that’s so creepy AT ALL.

3.) “When I was a child, my favorite super hero was a doctor: my father. Now, I’m proud to wear the same costume.”

Could a man actually get more perfect?! His father is his superhero and he has followed in his footsteps. Saving lives AND stealing hearts.

4.) He wonders why patients keep fainting in his office

This doctor is clearly confused as to why patients keep spontaneously fainting in front of him. Maybe he should stop looking so DAMN attractive then!

5.) I suddenly NEED to go to the hospital…

I have no idea how this doctor finds the time to go to the gym on top of his busy career but he clearly does, look at those arms!

6.) I think I’m hallucinating

Surely, this cannot be real. Doctors like this are just actors or models right?! I really need me a doctor that looks like this.

7.) “We sacrifice our best years in hopes to serve others.”

Well, he definitely looks like he is in his best years, wow! It is true though, doctors work relentlessly to help others and it truly is admirable.

8.) My Christmas wish is this doctor!

Those eyes are literally the most beautiful eyes in the world. Shout out to doctors working 365 days a year, even on Christmas!

9.) I can suddenly no longer breathe

Thankfully, this doctor seems to have an abundance of stethoscopes so the breathing problems he is causing, he can quickly examine people for.

10.) I suddenly can’t walk and need carrying

This doctor clearly has to carry a lot of patients around. I REALLY wouldn’t complain if he had to carry me into the hospital.

11.) Get me an Italian doctor!

This Italian doctor is just pure beauty. I would trust him to look after me after he makes my heart skip a million beats…

12.) In the position to save lives

Not only is this one beautiful doctor, but he has worked so hard to get where he is, as every other doctor has. They save lives on a daily basis and that’s incredibly special.

13.) No, he isn’t a model, he is actually a doctor

Is this picture very posed? Yes. Does that matter? No, he is beautiful. I would wait in line for an appointment with him for HOURS.

14.) Diagnosed with love

This doctor definitely must make all of his patient’s swoon. I would be so nervous around him, he could never get an accurate heart rate reading.

15.) Perfection DOES exist

I think I would visit this doctor’s office AT LEAST once a week. Yes, he might start to hate me but that’s fine, it’s still a strong feeling!

16.) Googles: how to start dating a doctor

I know that I would act like a complete idiot around my doctor if he looked like this. So, I’m kind of glad he doesn’t, I’ve probably saved myself years of embarrassment.

17.) Is he real?

I think this doctor is just a projection, he’s not actually real. No, he is just far more attractive than ANYONE I know.

18.) “The look you give your patients when they say they don’t take any meds at home.”

This beautifully sassy doctor doesn’t believe you and there’s no point lying because he will give you this look and you will immediately break and tell the truth.

19.) It’s not happy unless he’s my Valentines

I will not be satisfied until this doctor becomes my Valentines. He is the perfect man, kind, clever and saves lives. On top of that, he looks like this so…

I don’t know about you but suddenly I desperately need to visit the doctor but I might be disappointed if mine doesn’t look like these guys!

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Foreplay is the best way to set up for steamy, hot sex. Most couples rush through this vital exploration period and hop right into penetration. While an orgasm is wonderful and the goal of your sexual experience, you shouldn’t neglect the satisfying aspects of foreplay. Here are eight ways to get the most out of foreplay.

While You’re Out

Foreplay does not have to be limited to just your bedroom time. Try getting things going before you even step through the door. A dark movie theater is a perfect place to make out and get things going. You can even have a heavy foreplay session in the parking lot. You may find yourself exploring new territory for sex. If you are able to contain yourself, you’ll have a passionate night once you finally do arrive home.

Talk Dirty

The power of word is often taken for granted. While you and your partner are groping each other, try throwing in some sexy language to get you both heated. Tell them what you’re feeling. Such as how hard he’s getting you, how you can’t wait to ride him, or how attractive you find him. This will spur on your foreplay and get you both ready for the next move.

Text Messages

If you’re a bit shy, you may not feel comfortable vocalizing your sexual desires. Fortunately, in this modern age text messages can relieve some of the pressure. Instead of speaking your fantasies to your partner you can easily send them a text about what you want to do. This method is great for teasing him at work or while you’re away. Throw in a few tempting selfies to really whet his appetite. Then when he’s home, you’re ready to play out all the things you promised.

Remember Your Youth

Do you recall being a randy teenager who wasn’t quite sure if you were ready to actually attempt sex? If you do, then perhaps you remember those make out sessions that lasted for hours. Little did you know, you were really utilizing the benefits of foreplay. Try to relive these days and expand upon your kissing sessions. Remember all the things you did during these times to explore your partner without actually having sex. By the end of your session, you’ll find yourself such as horny as you were back then.

Teasing

Foreplay can be appreciated through the use of teasing. Even kissing can be used as a tactful way to tease your partner. Try going for his lips, then backing away slightly. Place your mouth along his jawline, nibble his ears, whatever you can to make it last. Use your hands to touch all the places that turn him on, without actually touching his bulge. If you do this just right, he’ll be begging you to take him.

Break the Routine

It’s easy to get comfortable with doing what you normally do. Maybe you’re a bit vanilla and you enjoy pleasing your partner in the dark. Or maybe you always enjoy the lights on. Either way, it’s time to break out of your normal habits. Try switching up your typical routine for something new. This will keep things fresh when you’re with your partner. If you’re a wild cat in bed, try being sensual with your partner. Be gentle and tempt his body with soft strokes during foreplay. Alternatively, if you’re a romantic lover, try being a bit more aggressive. Pull his hair a bit or run your nails down his back. The new excitement is sure to make your foreplay more interesting and likely lead to a new sexual experience.

Be Playful

Playing with your partner is often overlooked when it comes to sex. Most view this time as a serious moment that should revolve around quenching your partner’s lust. However, being silly with your lover can be just as gratifying as being erotic. The next time you are ready to get things going with your lover, try starting a tickle fight. This unexpected act will have you both laughing and rolling around. You may even initiate a wrestling session. As your laughter progresses, you can throw in some kisses or touches that let’s them know your needs.

Massage

The everyday events life throws at us can be very stressful. The next time you and your partner are alone, try offering them a massage. This is a great technique for foreplay and it will relieve some of their tension. Start with his shoulders, back, and legs. Once you’ve worked out all the kinks, try exploring further on his body. This includes his inner thighs, buttocks, chest, and other areas that will likely excite him. Dab kisses on all the places your hands touch. Lick at his body while your hands caress him. This sensual experience will get you both ready for what comes next.

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Your nudes are never truly secure

The massive 2014 leak of celebrity iCloud photos, obnoxiously referred to as The Fappening, was a ruthless reminder that your nudes can never be too secure. But keeping them confidential can be daunting without a decent understanding of digital storage.

Don’t worry, though: We’re here to help you keep your nudes between you and whichever lucky soul you decide to bless them with.

Now, first off, if you’re sharing them with anyone, it’s good to bear in mind some of the advice we got from sexuality educator Al Vernacchio:

“When I talk with my students about safer sexting, I say that safer sexting is about minimizing the chance that you can be identified as the person in the pic or video if it’s shared. So, they should be mindful of any tattoos, scars or body marks that can identify them — make sure they’re not in the photo or video. They should also be mindful of what’s in the background: If everyone knows what their bedroom, bathroom, etc. looks like, don’t make that the background.”

Simple! But if it’s too late for that, the next step to ensuring that your nudes remain private is taking preventative measures. Start by finding out which cloud storage services are enabled on your devices and whether they automatically upload every photo you take. Once you access these cloud services, search through all of the photos saved in them, and delete anything that you might not want other people to see.

It’s also worth considering some of your old devices: You may have an Android now, but if you recently owned an iPhone, make sure to look into your old iCloud account, too.

Now that your forgotten nudes have been deleted from the cloud, remember to disable your cloud services whenever you take new ones. Alternatively, you can put your device on airplane mode whenever you take nudes — just make sure to delete them from that device before exiting airplane mode, or else your cloud service might automatically upload them when it turns back on.

However, securely storing nudes so you can access them later — for research purposes, of course — is a little more complicated. Encryption is always your friend. It’s a simple way to secure your nudes with a password — just make sure to use a strong password and only unlock the photos on a secure device (again, put your device on airplane mode before opening them).

While there are several encryption apps, using them might give the developers access to your nudes. You need to trust the developers.

Finally, it’s extremely important to understand that nudes you send to anyone are then subject to whatever cloud services they have on their devices. For instance, the nudes you send may very well end up sitting in the recipient’s iCloud until someone decides to poke around in there.

All of which means, no matter how careful you are with your naked selfies, the act of sending them at all is risky. Unfortunately, since hackers will never stop hunting for our provocative photos, we either need to figure out a better way to keep our personal information private, or we need to stop sending nudes altogether. Guess which will be the more popular option?

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We’ve been following the debates around Gilette’s new woke add. We’ve written in the past about Axe’s similar add. We were curious what the men of OC think about it, so we sat down for a Q&A on women’s rights with the men of #OC2019. Here we go.

Why do you stand up for women’s rights?

Playing sports I regularly bump into some pretty sexist attitudes that shouldn’t be acceptable. I’ve always been happy to identify myself as a feminist – this crazy idea that all people should be treated with respect. It’s pretty simple; feminism is fundamentally about equality. Despite recent progress, it’s still a man’s world out there and it’ll be a whole lot of work to get our society to change. But the way I see it, we don’t really have a choice.

Why is feminism important to you?

To me, feminism is believing that you should not be denied opportunities solely based on your gender. It is about the freedom to choose how to live your life rather than having those decisions made for you because you just happen to have a penis or you just happen to have a vagina. The key driver behind everything that you do should be what you want, rather than what society tells you that you ought to want.

Are there ways in which feminism can helps men too?

This goes back to breaking down stereotypes. Feminism is about getting rid of oppressive forces that hold women down and also make men adhere to restrictive norms and ideals. Many men live with the constant pressure to be “real men” all their lives – whatever real men means. Just think about all those times you’ve been told things like “men don’t cry”. Why should men always have to be the rock? There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be a stay at home dad who just happens to really enjoy gardening in his spare time. Feminism helps me be a better man.

Did you ever stand by someone catcall a woman and said nothing?

We’ve all been there, unfortunately. You’re just hanging out with the guys and a girl passes by and inevitably one of them will say something nasty. And, more often than not, we go along, even when we disagree. We tell ourselves that we will address this in the right place and the right time. And then it never is. We find ourselves excuses. Most men I know think that it’s terrible what women have to go through – from the wage gap, to denying a woman access to an abortion, but they still treat women as if they were sexual objects. We all have a mom, or a girlfriend, or a sister or a daughter that goes through this on a daily basis. I wish there was a way to have given all this girls support, at the time, to stand up for them.  If you hear a bunch of guys talking about a woman like she’s nothing more than a series of holes, step in and say something. Shame them. Remind them that women are human. Speak up.

How should men react when they hear about a harassment story?

Sexism is so deeply ingrained into the very fabric of our society. It’s always there, even if sometimes we can’t even see it. And when we can’t see or understand it, at least instead of automatically finding ourselves excuses and rejecting the other person’s experience, for once, let’s just listen to what they have to say. You’ve never lived life as a woman and you don’t know what it’s like to face sexism every single waking hour of your entire life. Only then we can move from identifying the problem to actively solving it.

Some men are afraid after #MeToo. What do you say to them?

At first, I got defensive myself. My mind was filled with counter arguments, deflecting anything that felt like blame. It’s an uncomfortable experience to be confronted with your own privilege – and also your ignorance of the oppression others, including trans women, may face. To them I say – think about what it’s like for women, who have endured harassment and lived with fear every day. Whatever discomfort and fear they might have is only a fraction of what women have to deal with. And instead of panicking, or overreacting, we could just listen. Men should not be afraid of feminism. We should embrace it.

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Why do you stand up for women’s rights?

Playing sports I regularly bump into some pretty sexist attitudes that shouldn’t be acceptable. I’ve always been happy to identify myself as a feminist – this crazy idea that all people should be treated with respect. It’s pretty simple; feminism is fundamentally about equality. Despite recent progress, it’s still a man’s world out there and it’ll be a whole lot of work to get our society to change. But the way I see it, we don’t really have a choice.

Why is feminism important to you?

To me, feminism is believing that you should not be denied opportunities solely based on your gender. It is about the freedom to choose how to live your life rather than having those decisions made for you because you just happen to have a penis or you just happen to have a vagina. The key driver behind everything that you do should be what you want, rather than what society tells you that you ought to want.

Are there ways in which feminism can helps men too?

This goes back to breaking down stereotypes. Feminism is about getting rid of oppressive forces that hold women down and also make men adhere to restrictive norms and ideals. Many men live with the constant pressure to be “real men” all their lives – whatever real men means. Just think about all those times you’ve been told things like “men don’t cry”. Why should men always have to be the rock? There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be a stay at home dad who just happens to really enjoy gardening in his spare time. Feminism helps me be a better man.

Did you ever stand by someone catcall a woman and said nothing?

We’ve all been there, unfortunately. You’re just hanging out with the guys and a girl passes by and inevitably one of them will say something nasty. And, more often than not, we go along, even when we disagree. We tell ourselves that we will address this in the right place and the right time. And then it never is. We find ourselves excuses. Most men I know think that it’s terrible what women have to go through – from the wage gap, to denying a woman access to an abortion, but they still treat women as if they were sexual objects. We all have a mom, or a girlfriend, or a sister or a daughter that goes through this on a daily basis. I wish there was a way to have given all this girls support, at the time, to stand up for them.  If you hear a bunch of guys talking about a woman like she’s nothing more than a series of holes, step in and say something. Shame them. Remind them that women are human. Speak up.

How should men react when they hear about a harassment story?

Sexism is so deeply ingrained into the very fabric of our society. It’s always there, even if sometimes we can’t even see it. And when we can’t see or understand it, at least instead of automatically finding ourselves excuses and rejecting the other person’s experience, for once, let’s just listen to what they have to say. You’ve never lived life as a woman and you don’t know what it’s like to face sexism every single waking hour of your entire life. Only then we can move from identifying the problem to actively solving it.

Some men are afraid after #MeToo. What do you say to them?

At first, I got defensive myself. My mind was filled with counter arguments, deflecting anything that felt like blame. It’s an uncomfortable experience to be confronted with your own privilege – and also your ignorance of the oppression others, including trans women, may face. To them I say – think about what it’s like for women, who have endured harassment and lived with fear every day. Whatever discomfort and fear they might have is only a fraction of what women have to deal with. And instead of panicking, or overreacting, we could just listen. Men should not be afraid of feminism. We should embrace it.

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OC Art Project by Lestat Monroe - 6M ago

Aries

You’re strong, confident and dominant and you just love being the center of attention, don’t you? Those long, long, sweaty hours at the gym paid off, and I don’t mean the occasional locker room hookup. You’re sexy and you know it, but don’t get too cocky, no matter how much your boys seem to love it.  

Taurus

No matter how successful you are, you will always need a secret quiet place of your own. You have a mystical side – you are naturally drawn towards mysteries and the unknown. You have a certain aura of holiness surrounding you, somehow like Justin Bieber’s pastor, but less lame. You appreciate what’s left to the imagination almost as much as what’s revealed. You tend to be quite generous, you enjoy giving, and there’s plenty of people who enjoy receiving from you.

Gemini

You appreciate emotional self-control. You’re a force to be reckoned with, whenever you set your mind on a prize. And sometimes, the prize might just let you win without much of a fight. Hell, yeah, he`ll down right beg for it. That’s unlike you, but you like being worshipped, no questions asked. Feeding others can give you great pleasure. Whether they’re hungry for food, or anything else, for that matter. Not everyone is as objective, cool, dispassionate and detached as you are and you take full advantage of that.  

Cancer

Your thinking becomes quite unclear when you are emotionally shaken – try not to make major decisions when you are upset. Let things calm down first. You might offer too harsh of a punishment. Truth be told, some enjoy that.

Leo

Your greek god, sculpted body attracts attention and it doesn’t bother you one bit. Your friendship is highly sought after, especially when it comes with added benefits. You remain loyal and true to those to whom you are attached. For you, love is mixed with sexuality, pride and respect.

Virgo

You are a very proud person. Strong, bold, courageous and self-possessed, you love to be the one to make the first step. Very freedom-oriented, you must always be able to do what you wish, no matter what. You become stubborn and recalcitrant when others try to force you into a mold. You are very stubborn about your right to live your life according to your own principles. You stand your ground and others find your manly confidence charming.

Libra

Your schedule’s always fully booked. You seem to get involved with many wide-ranging groups. As long as something appeals to your intellectual sensibilities, you’ll make that cause your own.

Scorpio  

It’s been a period of intense research and great discoveries for you, in areas that were considered dangerous or taboo. Say, for example, sexuality. But you’ve learned that the way forward is acceptance of all desires.  

Sagittarius

Your interests are wide-ranging and you are an avid student, with expertise in many different areas. You have a logical, detached, objective view of most things. If it doesn’t harm anyone, anything goes. You love to work things out in your mind. And even more trying them in bed, afterwards.  

Capricorn

You are not a follower, but you enjoy being with those who are like-minded, physically as well as intellectually. Good sex is even better with the right person and you know it.

Aquarius  

You seek out practical solutions to a changing society’s attitudes to customs, traditions and authority structures. Your logical and orderly manner of dealing with these matters will result in permanent and carefully planned, but sweeping, reforms.  

Pisces

You’re strong and have the ability to take on responsibilities and to carry out important duties. An achiever, you pride yourself on your ability to focus your attention totally on some worthy goal and then attain it. You stress the need to be selfless and giving, and you seem to have no difficulty finding people willing to take from you. Good boy.  

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Here’s a running list of all the dudes – prominent politicians, writers, musicians, filmmakers, and public figures – accused of sexual misconduct since Harvey Weinstein – one hundred and twenty two men. Clearly, we are far from ending this. But for once, we’re learning to believe women.

The women coming forward are undeniably courageous: young and old, rich and poor, famous and unknown. And overwhelmingly, they’re thin. But 67% of American women are plus size. So where are the fat women? Here’s an emotional story from a plus size woman.

“I was 15 years old, and a size 18, the first time a man told me he’d fantasized about raping me.

He told me that he longed to pin my hands behind my head, yearned to hear me tell him no. <<You’ll fight me off, but you’ll love every minute of it>>. I was shaken, confused, disoriented. As he spoke, every breath drained from my waiting lungs, siphoned by his certainty that I’d be grateful for his violence. <<You’ll love every minute of it>>. The life in my veins seeped from my body into the ground I wished would swallow me whole.

Over time, men’s fantasies became part of the fabric of my experience. In the years that followed, more and more men would disclose their desire to assault me. When I told one to stop, in my mid-twenties, he was taken aback. <<I thought you were liberated. You should be grateful>>.

The menacing ghost of gratitude followed me everywhere. I was queer, which meant I was expected to be sexually flexible, unfettered by boundaries and unlikely to say no, available to be posed in any scene or position needed for men’s gratification. And I was fat, which meant I should be grateful for what I got. Even if it was violent. Even if I didn’t consent.”

It took me years to disclose my own experiences. Because, like any woman, I knew that stepping forward would mean standard denials, scrutiny, dismissals. Unlike other women, that resistance comes as a question: <<Who would want to rape you?>> As a fat woman, my body was seen as inherently undesirable. Any sexual attention fat women receive is treated as a windfall worthy of congratulations. Fat women are expected to be grateful for any expressions that could be mistaken for want, including assault and harassment.”

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We talk a lot about the expectations society has for girls and women, whether it’s how people think women should act, how they should look, what they should wear, and basically everything else. But it’s not just girls who face unrealistic and potentially harmful societal standards — it’s everyone. For young men, these standards can be just as harmful and stringent.

In a new ad, Axe shows exactly what impact these expectations have, and how they contribute to the toxic masculinity that hurts everyone. According to the ad, 72% of guys have been told how a real man should behave. That, Axe points out, leads guys to Google questions about what it is and isn’t ok for them to do. Some of these questions, which the ad scrolls through, showing really guys having these thoughts, include if it’s ok for guys to be skinny, to not like sports, to be a virgin, to wear pink , to hook up with other guys, to be depressed, to be scared, to be the little spoon, and much more. It ultimately asks if it’s ok for guys to be themselves.

The Good Men Project defines toxic masculinity as follows: toxic masculinity is a narrow and repressive description of manhood, designating manhood as defined by violence, sex, status and aggression. Toxic masculinity tells guys that they should be one certain way, which encompasses how they look, how they act, how they treat others, and more. Brown University points out the way men are socialized plays into rates of violence and sexual assault in society.

This is exactly what Axe’s ad is addressing. The bottom line is your gender identity doesn’t determine who you are, what you like, or what you wear — and vice versa. Telling boys they have to act a certain way to be men is harmful to everyone.

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So let’s talk about s*x. A s*x party is an excellent opportunity for s*xually active and s*xually curious adults to explore their kinks in a safe, fun, group environment.

Do you fantasize about group s*x? Do you dream of being watched while you masturbate? Do you like to spank or be spanked?

Whatever your kink(s) are you can explore them and more at a play party. These are relatively common fantasies you can completely explore at a s*x party. Before you head out to go play with the boys, there are a few things you need to know. Rest easy, We’re here to help.

DO YOUR HOMEWORK BEFORE THE S*X PARTY.

So you’re ready to jump right on into your first play party. That’s great! But let’s make sure you’re doing it the right way. It’s a good idea to do a little background surveillance about the party before attending.

Most play parties have rules or specific kinks, and you should know what they are ahead of time so you can follow them. You don’t want to end up at a spanking party if you’re not into that. If you’ve got a particular kink, make sure it’s welcomed at the event. If the host is someone you don’t know ask your friends’ or people that do know him, knowledge is power.

BE PREPARED

Play parties tend to have their own themes. If you want to participate fully, feel free to bring your own s*x toys and props, It’ll kick up your experience to a different level.

BRING A PLAY BUDDY TO MAKE YOUR FIRST TIME MORE COMFORTABLE.

Play parties are, by their very nature, a little naughty. That’s part of what makes them hot, so its natural to be a little nervous energy. This is a good thing.

If you’re not sure if the scene is for you, bring a buddy. Going in a group will immediately make you feel safer and more comfortable to explore all your dirty fantasies and kinks. Plus, you’ve got someone looking out for you and vice versa.

SAFETY IS KING AT A PLAY PARTY

Safety is king. Safety is king, and one last time Safety is king. If you’re going to a play party alone, make sure someone who isn’t at the party knows where you are. Have an exit strategy to use if you decide you can’t be at the party anymore. Most importantly, trust your instincts, if you are uncomfortable with anyone or anything, don’t do it and don’t be alone with them. Having a safe, comfortable environment is the key to making these parties work.

CONDOMS, BAREBACKING, AND CONNIE FRANCIS

There’s another thing to think about before heading off to your first play party, and that’s safer s*x. What is safer s*x for you? What kinds of things are off limits? Are you ok with barebacking, or do you always use condoms? No one can answer these questions except you. Knowing your boundaries and having a plan ahead of time to address them is one of those things that can make the difference in having a great time at your first play party or not. Bring condoms if you use them, bring lube if you have a preference, have a safe word, how about Connie Francis. Most importantly know your boundaries.

DO A WALK AROUND AFTER YOU ARRIVE.

Right after you get to the party, it’s really important to understand the lay of the land first. There will be a lot going on, don’t let it overwhelm you. Take your time. Circle the room. See what’s happening, what you might want to take part in, what you want to avoid, what you want to watch. This is also an excellent opportunity to get a sense of the party as a whole.

PICK YOUR PERCH AND LET PEOPLE APPROACH YOU.

It’s may be tempting to keep walking around aimlessly trying to get in on the action, but once you’re comfortable sit your butt down and let others come to you and they will. A lot of these guys have been here before, remember your new and untested, make that work to your advantage.

HAVE A GOOD TIME

Most importantly have a great time!

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He sees you when you’re sleeping, he knows when you’re awake – it’s officially full blown Christmas season, boys and girls and everyone else in between. Whether you enjoy the Christmas spirit or just the spirits, whether you’ve been naughty or nice, check out this list of special holiday kinks to try out in the bedroom!

BEARS

If you’re into big ‘ol bears, X-mas brings you the biggest and oldest of them all: Santa Claus. On the other hand, Santa doesn’t have to be large or old to roast your chestnuts—I mean gay porn has tons of hot 20-somethings prancing around in oversized (and usually unbuttoned and ill-fitted) Santa robes and beards. So grab some Santa garb off of Amazon and get to it!  

ELF TWINKS

Being Santa’s little helper can be a festive rendition of dominance and submission. If you’re new to the BDSM spectrum, I would suggest keeping it light at first (and make sure you have a safe word). Experienced kinksters can amp it up with holiday ribbon bondage and toy testing.  

GINGER PENIS COOKIES

If you have a ginger as your partner this one is a piece of cake. Baking as foreplay, who’d have thought? Penis cookies are a classic, and while you’re at it throw in some jingle balls. Are you extra raunchy? Well, I’m sure you can think of something hot to use as icing too…    

CHRISTMAS SEX WISH-LIST

This is an easy one for anyone. Think of a few new things you want to try (or haven’t gotten enough of lately) and start checking off the list throughout the month. It’s like your own sexual advent calendar, but instead chocolates you get pleasures of the flesh—how sinful of you! It’s also an easy one for singletons to enjoy while looking for some memorable holiday hook-ups.  

REINDEER RIDER

Are you into pup play? If you are, then why not be one of Santa’s favorite reindeers for the night and get sleighed. (I know, so many Christmas puns, but you did click on an article about Santa sex, so…) Pup play is really about releasing the Id—our inner hedonistic animal—but it’s also a sub-dom situation where the dom master has all the control and the sub pup relinquishes all of his own. In any case, reindeer play translates well with pup play and all of its erotic accessories.

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