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Focus on the skills remaining is the lesson from Judy Cornish.

Can caregiving be less frustrating, less stressful?  Working with the skills our loved one retains we could achieve that goal. Judy Cornish, author of Dementia With Dignity talks to us about how to preserve skills in our loved ones.

For example, expecting our person use rational thought long after it’s gone is common. As a result, we cause stress and frustration. To clarify this, think how often you’ve explained what you need done only to have to explain it again. It’s absolutely frustrating! Instead, by focusing on intuitive thought processes we can create a situation to get what we need accomplished.

For example, a common struggle for caregivers is showering. Think about how many steps are involved in the process. How many times is the action paused while waiting for something to happen? Even short pauses in activity allow their mind to lose focus.  As a result, we get resistance to showering.

On the other hand, focusing on their intuitive thought we setup a situation for them to “just do” what we want. For example, a support group member found a no fuss way to get her Mom to shower. Her first step was to get everything ready and turn the water on. Meanwhile, as the water warmed up, she’d help her Mom to the bathroom for toileting. As a result  hearing the running shower, Mom would naturally get in as she did prior to her Alzheimer’s.

Automatic Thinking Scripts

When we find ourselves doing a task without consciously thinking about it we are using intuitive thought. Some people call this muscle memory. Others call it an automatic thinking script. I’ve brewed tea so often in my kitchen I don’t need to think about the steps involved. Repetition brings competency. As long as there are no alterations in this process, we function just fine.

It is not good for those of us with healthy brains to be on auto-pilot except when doing mundane things. However, it’s critically valuable to people experiencing dementia because they cannot rely on memory to know where to look for coffee filters or socks. They don’t have rational thought to tell them that underwear goes on before pants once memory fails.

Intuitive versus rational thinking is the conversation in this episode. You will learn a lot and certainly be interested in Judy’s books. You can find them on Amazon or at her website where you can also check out her blog.

If you need a refresher on what living with dementia is like make sure to check out these past episodes.

Living With Dementia Part 1

Living With Dementia Part 2

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Alive Inside is a program that brings music to those in the late stages of Alzheimer’s.

Alive Inside is a program that brings music to people living in the late stages of Alzheimer’s. Music reminds us that we are vibratory beings.  Music can bring out memories long thought forgotten because of Alzheimer’s. Hearing familiar tunes can reawaken the mind & allow someone to engage again.

When someone you love struggles with Alzheimer’s, dementia, Parkinson’s or another form of cognitive or physical impairment, it can be a tremendous challenge to communicate and find ways to help them rediscover the world.

A personalized playlist can help you bridge that gap and help to reconnect with one another. Creating a personalized playlist takes some detective work, but it’s fun, so dive right in!  Each individuals response is unique, and your loved ones ability to benefit from music will depend in a large part on the particulars of his or her cognitive impairment .  But, chances are good that she or he will find more pleasure in life once again. Additionally, you will regain a peaceful and relaxing way to renew your relationship.

Creating a personalized playlist can be easy if you’re able to ask your loved one about their favorite music. If that isn’t an option then you’ll have to become a detective. If you’re like me, you’d assume that the best way achieve this goal would be to pick songs from their particular era. That didn’t work AT ALL with Mom but after conducting some internal sleuthing, I did come up with a handful of songs she did connect with.

Steps for Creating A Personalized Playlist

Here’s how I started. First, I vividly remember some songs that I heard when visiting my maternal grandmother. It wasn’t a huge leap to guess that if Moms mom liked these songs, Mom might as well. This was especially easy to assume since I enjoy them and still recall the words. Once I found those on iTunes (Spotify works too) I used the recommendation function to search for other songs.

All the songs I remembered had a similar style so my final step was to go to the years she was in high school and listen for other songs in that same style. You can see the results here —> Short dancing clip.

More ways to enjoy time with your loved one

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Caregivers have to deal with many clueless people, including themselves.

Author Sandy Seville and I talk about being clueless in our caregiving roles & how to get a clue. Sandys’ family has seen a lot of Alzheimer’s so it wasn’t a surprise to her when it also afflicted her Mom.  Her Mom was a bartender and had worked in the same bar forever. Sandy begged her not to retire because she knew retirement was the beginning of the end for her aunt.  Being social is important for good brain health and for many people retirement shrinks their life.

Loners are losers is a phrase that Sandy uses to describe what generally happens to older people who don’t remain social. If you’re a loner it’s likely you’ll also lose cognitive health. Having a purpose in life is something we all need to keep our minds healthy.

This episode is mostly two caregivers sharing their journeys and struggles.However, in this conversation there are a lot of gems of information to be had. Sandy shared her wisdom just as she shared it in her book, with humor and acceptance.

The primary caregiver receives the least amount of cooperation from the person with dementia. The caregiving journey can be short or long.  Even a quick decline with Alzheimer’s can feel like a long journey. Being clueless about how to provide the kind of care you’d want is a big reason why.

Why This Book & Podcast?

Dear Clueless is a book for Alzheimer’s caregivers. You’ll need it (according to Sandy). Becoming a good caregiver requires us to read everything we can get our hands on. Talking to other caregivers, both those on the journey and those whose journey has ended. The only way to avoid being a clueless caregiver is to become an informed caregiver.

Listening to this conversation is highly recommended for all caregivers. There’s a lot of laughs, inspiration and most of all, hope. Hope that you will survive and some caregivers can even thrive.

Find Dear Clueless Here

Understanding What It’s Like to Live With Dementia

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Fading Memories by Jennifer Fink - 3w ago

Art Therapy is one avenue to try to give your loved one some enjoyment.

Participating in art therapy gives people of every age many benefits. They’re able to become more self-aware, improve their social skills, decrease anxiety and boost their self-esteem.  Utilizing art to can enable nonverbal and minimally verbal seniors to communicate.  Most importantly, art projects can create a sense of accomplishment and purpose. Art can provide the person with dementia — as well as caregivers — an opportunity for self-expression and enjoyment. To clarify, art is fun and easy therefore you should give it a try!

Planning an art activity for someone with middle- to late-stage Alzheimer’s, it is helpful to keep these tips in mind:

  • Keeping the project on an adult level. Avoid anything that might be demeaning or seem childlike.
  • Building conversation into the project. Provide encouragement, discuss what the person is creating or reminiscence.
  • Helping the person begin the activity. If the person is painting, you may need to start the brush movement. Mostly, projects should only require basic instruction and assistance.
  • Use safe materials; avoiding toxic substances and sharp tools.
  • Allowing plenty of time, keeping in mind that the person doesn’t have to finish the project in one sitting.
Project Ideas

Many people living with dementia have trouble getting started. In my Mom’s case her visual processing isn’t good and has a hard time determining inside and outside of lines. Additionally, she’s always afraid she’ll “do it wrong”. This is an avoidance statement so I had Erin give us some project suggestions for people in the later stages of the disease.

Tracing their hand, or tracing your hand and theirs touching is sweet. Adding lines, color or whatever you’d like can come next.  Leaf rubbings was another suggestion so I tried it with Mom. It was hard to see the leaves consequently I think the project was a bit difficult.  It might be easier now that we’re farther into the year. There weren’t a lot of leaves the day we went walking in the park. I’ll try again, however, I think Mom may be past creating art.  Keeping an “art journal” with pretty pieces of nature is a simple enough. It allows you to connect with nature & can house memories to look back on in the winter months. This is something I’m planning on doing with Mom since she’s not very comfortable actually creating art.

Building things out of boxes is a suggestion she had for men who aren’t into crafting. Keeping in mind that it’s the pleasure that’s important, don’t dismiss any art as too “girlie”. Letting each person decide for themselves is equally important.

In short, if you’re looking to help your person engage in joyful experiences, simple art projects might be just thing.

Erin Partridge & The Elder Care Alliance

Connecting Through Art Episode

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Maybe it’s lost language not forgetting you.

Has Mom forgotten I’m her daughter ?  Or, has she lost the language skills to define our relationship? Certainly, people with Alzheimer’s do tend to forget us. Even more interesting, I’ve never had an encounter where they are afraid of or indifferent to me.  This would seem to indicate that they haven’t truly forgotten me but that they can no longer communicate the same way.

Author & guest Elaine C. Pereira joined me on the podcast to talk about this theory. In preparation for our talk I asked my sister if Mom remembers her. Surprisingly, she does. In contrast I can’t remember the last time Mom used my name.

Theorizing on that disparity in Moms memory brought me to one conclusion. Because of my significant weight loss in the past 6 years, I do not think that I look like the person Mom remembers as Jennifer. In contrast my sister hasn’t changed all that much in the past decade (she’s younger). Certainly this lack of visual clue to our relationship could be a reason she thinks I’m her friend.

Pointing out that language is neurologically complicated, Elaine explained how caregivers can guide their loved one through conversations. Asking, “do you remember” is setting them up for failure. Dodging an answer is one of Moms coping skills. When the neurologist asked questions she did everything she could not to have to answer.

Achieving Positive Communication

Learning how to guide our loved one through their lack of language skills, learning how to lower our expectations is what Elaine teaches.  Getting positive communication hinges on how well we set them up to have a conversation. It’s something I’ve been working on with my Mom but it’s still a work in progress.

Learning to communicate on an intuitive level is also something I’ve been working on. Stay tuned for personal episodes on how that turns out.

What’s Going on in Their Mind?

I Will Never Forget on Amazon

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Caring for someone with memory loss requires thinking for two.

Thinking For Two

We’ve all heard the wives tale that a pregnant woman is eating for two.  Most people are probably unaware that people caring for someone with memory loss requires thinking for two.

After a visit with Mom, even a good one, I’m exhausted. Mentally, physically, I’m drained and it’s getting worse as she declines.

With most of my visits I try to take her out.  Giving her enjoyable moments is important even if she’s not going to remember them. She’ll remember that being with me is nice and that’s all I can ask these days.  It was on one on an outing  I realized I was thinking for her as well as myself.  

Mom is in the late stage of Alzheimer’s and she gets confused easily by shadows.  We see shadows as shadows but she sees them as something treacherous and tries to avoid them.  Because of this, walking anywhere takes triple the amount of planned time.

Thinking for her seems to help some. Noticing a spot that gives her hesitation I’ll explain “it’s just a shadows on the carpet”.  Pointing out something that she’ll find pretty, like a bird helps prevent her from watching her feet. I fear she’ll fall since she’s bent in half but telling her to stop has been pointless.  The overcast day we walked in the regional park made it clear that shadows are a safety concern for Mom. (Less shadows = less feet watching)

Thinking for Two Starts Intuitively

I believe that caregivers start thinking for their loved ones intuitively.  It’s likely one of the many reasons caregivers feel they’re also losing their minds.  Thinking for two is not how are brains are wired.  Parents of very young children do this but there is a huge difference.  

Babies cannot walk away, turn on the stove or any other manner of dangerous things. Toddlers do get into dicey situations, but adults still retain the feelings of being independent even when they are not.

Giving instructions to our parent or spouse generally doesn’t end well.  Just like verbally pushing a toddler to move faster, verbally pushing someone with Alzheimer’s is futile. It’s also generally counter-productive. The more we use words to attempt to get what we want, the more frustrated WE end up becoming.  

Unlike with the average toddler, a person living with Alzheimer’s gets worse over time. They can’t learn a particular path is an easy walk. Each walk on that path is new and each shadow a new obstacle to figure out.

Especially challenging for adult children caring for a parent is their lack of desire to please you. It’s not natural for them to want to please you. Constantly giving them instructions generally doesn’t yield the desired result.

Thinking for both of you then becomes a necessary default. As the caregiver we have to see the world through their eyes and anticipate what they may think or feel.  If they sense a situation is unsafe and we’re hurrying them along, it’s bound to get unnecessarily stressful.

Mental Exhaustion from Thinking for Two

It’s challenging, but being aware that you’re “thinking for two” allows you to take steps to lessen the mental exhaustion.  I mentally think through our outing before I take Mom out. Going to the same places makes this easier. Being aware of what challenges we might encounter gives us a chance to plan how we’ll handle them. There will always be surprises but by being prepared those surprises shouldn’t cause too many struggles.

Similar to dealing with a small child, keep in mind that some places are overly stimulating.  Spending as short a time as possible in them is ideal. I know that Mom has the potential for overwhelm when she tells me how big a place is to her. Or she complains about how loud a place is.

Go places during the “off” time. The supermarket just after work can be overwhelming for the average person. It’s better to handle that task earlier if possible. Better yet, take advantage of ordering online and picking up yourself. That’s actually something I should do to save me some time each week!

My “Solutions”

For me, my outings with Mom generally don’t have to be errands. I handle those before a visit so she & I can do something nice. We take drives to the hills, watch kids in the park. All enjoyable and easy outings that generally don’t require too much “thinking for two”.

If you’re caring for a spouse or a parent full time, there are things you can do to keep them calm.  Keep in mind that repetition can be a sign of insecurity.  They may be looking for something comfortable or familiar.  It’s hard to know when this is the case so watch for clues. Mom needs to have her purse with her so I make sure she has it.  I’d rather she clutch her purse than “worry” her fingers the entire drive.  Even when she forgets it in the car, I make sure to hand it to her. Otherwise, she may ask a dozen times if she has her purse.

One of my biggest challenges with Mom is her apathy when we go out. She can be quite engaging with other visitors, but with me, I get very little from her.  I’ve learned that being overwhelmed can cause apathy so I’m trying to ease into our outings. It takes longer to get going but if our visit is better I guess it’s worth the time.

More Useful Stuff

Another thing to keep in mind is this; as soon as you find a work-around to a particular issue, things will change. Understanding that you will always be wearing a detective hat might help you to feel more in control.  Talking to other caregivers, listening to supportive podcasts and reading books will also help.

Everyone’s journey with Alzheimer’s or dementia is different but sharing our journey may help the next person some. If you’re like me and have challenging situations that others haven’t, share them. One less mystery to solve will give that caregiver extra brain power to solve the next mystery.  Every caregiver needs as much brain power as they can muster.

For more helpful discussions, check out one of the 50+ podcast episodes. I talk to very informative guests who share what they learned on their journey as a caregiver!  You can find Fading Memories on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify as well as other podcast players.

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Fading Memories by Jennifer Fink - 1M ago

Boomer Benefits is a specialist in Medicare. Let them help you with all your Medicare questions.

Needing to have Medicare demystified wasn’t something I thought possible.  I am not eligible for Medicare for 13.5 years but needed to learn what I could to care for Mom.

After my Dad died Mom had doctor bills that weren’t being paid. With her high coverage health insurance plus Medicare I was confused. The good folks at Medicare won’t talk to me without adding another layer of paperwork and bureaucracy to Moms trust . It’s called a Representative Payee; another person and bank account just to deal with Moms medicare. I’ve been advised by folks who know, not to add this headache to our lives.

Eventually the 3 bills got paid and we’ve managed to ensure Moms health care needs are handled without the added person. Unfortunately, I’ve been assuming things would be fine and continue as is.  Thankfully, this has been the case so far, but after talking to Danielle from Boomer Benefits, I learned many things about Moms medicare that I can and need to pay attention to.

There are 4 types of Medicare which can get confusing. Your best option is to find a Medicare specialist like Boomer Benefits. You’ll save yourself a lot of time and trouble. If learning about all the options available is how you like to spend your time then go for it! Active learning is good for your brain. For those of us who want to avoid our brains exploding, check out this episode.

Medicare Demystified

Generally, the different parts of Medicare help cover specific services. Most beneficiaries choose to receive their Parts A and B benefits through Original Medicare. This is the traditional fee-for-service program offered directly through the federal government. It is sometimes called Traditional Medicare or Fee-for-Service (FFS) Medicare. Under Original Medicare, the government pays directly for the health care services you receive. You can see any doctor and hospital that takes Medicare (and most do) anywhere in the country.

You have two ways to get your Medicare benefit. Original Medicare (Part A and Part B) with a Medigap plan and Part D prescription drug plan.  Or Medicare Advantage with Part D. There are advantages and disadvantages to each option, but you need to think through your health needs before you choose.

Medicare Advantage plans tend to cost less overall, but often have significant restrictions on where and how you get care. On the plus side, most include Part D prescription drug coverage, so you get your Medicare benefits in one convenient plan.

Medicare with Medigap & a Part D plan may cost more in monthly premiums, but you can use them wherever Medicare is accepted. If you travel a lot, or you want the freedom to see any doctor or specialist you want, this path may be best for you.

Other Medicare Issues To Know

Danielle and I discussed many of the decisions that are easy to overlook when working with Medicare. Highlighting those here will help you keep track of what you need to handle and when.

Letting your Part D Plan Automatically Renew Every Year

If you’re 65 or older, you likely depend on Medicare to pay the bulk of your health care costs. It’s tempting to think your part is done when you sign up, but sadly, it’s not that simple. Enrolling is only the first step in managing your Medicare benefits. Make a mistake and you could pay for it for years.

Here’s our list of some of the most common (and expensive) Medicare mistakes you can make.

Missing your Medicare Sign-up Period

If you’re already receiving Social Security or Railroad Retirement benefits, you’re automatically enrolled in Medicare. If you’re not, however, it’s on you to enroll during your initial enrollment period to avoid unnecessary (and ongoing) premium penalties. This period includes your birthday month and the three months before and after.

However, not everyone takes Medicare when they turn 65. If you’re still working, you need to make sure you sign up when you leave your job. Don’t make the mistake of thinking you don’t need to enroll if you’ve got retiree health benefits after you quit.

If your employer has fewer than 20 employees, you’ll need to enroll in Medicare when you turn 65 even if you’re still on the job. That’s because Medicare is the primary payer for smaller companies; if you don’t enroll, your group plan may refuse to pay claims. Learn more about Medicare and Employer Coverage here.

Letting your Part D Plan Automatically Renew Every Year

Every year between October 15th and December 7th, you have the opportunity to review and/or switch Part D plans. Plan costs and coverages can change from year to year. If you aren’t paying attention, you could pay more than you should for your plan.

Take time during the annual open enrollment period to see what plans are available in your area. Compare the costs for medications you take regularly, as well as monthly premiums.

You can also switch Medicare Advantage plans during open enrollment. If you get your Part D with your Medicare Advantage plan, be sure to compare your plan options every year. Don’t let automatic renewal keep you in a plan that costs too much.

Assuming There’s Coverage for your Spouse

Medicare is not like employer group insurance—you can’t add your spouse and/or dependent children to your plan. If you’re working at 65 and your younger spouse is on your employer’s plan, you need to weigh the financial consequences of switching to Medicare.

Another point to remember concerning spouses—Medigap and Part D are individual plans. That is, you can’t add your spouse to your plan; he or she needs to buy a separate one. There’s also no spousal discount, so don’t feel that you both need to choose the same plan. Your spouse may have different health care needs, so you each need to choose the Medicare plan that works for you.

Picking the Wrong Medigap Plan

Original Medicare, Medicare Advantage, and Part D prescription drug plans are guaranteed issue. That means that anyone can enroll regardless of health condition, and premiums are the same for everyone in the plan.

Not so with Medigap. If you don’t enroll in a Medigap plan during your initial enrollment period or a special enrollment period, you have to pass medical underwriting. During underwriting, the insurance company can use your medical history to decide whether or not to sell you a policy. They can also set premiums based on your health status.

Some states do allow you to switch to certain Medigap plans once a year without medical underwriting. These plans tend to be less generous than the most popular plans, however. And that option isn’t available in every state.

If you think you’ll want Medigap coverage, save yourself a lot of money and aggravation and sign up as soon as you’re eligible.

Thinking You Don’t Need Part B if you have COBRA or Retiree Health Coverage.

In the vast majority of cases, Medicare is the primary payer once you turn 65. If you left your job but still get health insurance through COBRA or as part of a corporate retiree plan, that plan pays second.

In other words, if you have health expenses, your group plan only pays what’s left after Medicare pays. If you don’t have Medicare, the other plan won’t pay at all.

To make matters worse, if you forgot to sign up during your initial enrollment period, you’ll have to wait until the general enrollment period, January 1st to March 31st, to apply. Coverage begins July 1st, meaning you could be without health coverage for a long time. Learn more about enrollment periods here.

Ignoring your ANOC

Every fall, your Medicare plan will send you an annual notice of change (ANOC). It tells you what changes your plan is making for the following year that may affect your coverage. If you don’t read it, you may miss important information that could cost you big.

Watch for changes in coverage—will the plan still pay for services you need? Also look for changes in your provider network. If your current doctor leaves the plan, you’ll pay much more out-of-pocket if you continue to see him. Be sure to check pharmacy changes if you have a Part D plan.

Finally, look out for changes in costs like copayments, deductibles, and coinsurance amounts. Even small changes can add up to big bucks over the course of a year.

Check out Boomer Benefits as soon as you finish this episode. You won’t be sorry.

All You Need to Know About Long Term Care Insurance

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Caregiver Pathways is a program for people with early stage memory loss to engage in their community.

Caregiver Pathways is a non-profit foundation that aims to give people living with dementia more purpose in their lives.  Most importantly, it’s a community immersion program for people with early memory loss. During the early stages of dementia or Alzheimer’s people find their worlds shrinking rapidly. They stop working, driving, participating in hobbies they love, and they withdraw socially. It doesn’t take long for them to lose their sense of purpose.

Enter the Caregiver Pathways program which brings self-respect and fun back into their lives. This program takes small groups of people with early stage memory loss out to volunteer at local nonprofits or to attend social events. These outings provide physical, social and cognitive stimulation. Despite dementia, a person still has value, can still contribute to society, and still deserves respect. With each hour of volunteerism, they foster these feelings of self-worth, improve our community and dispel ageism stereotypes.

For example, some of the planned activities may include going to an animal shelter to help care for dogs and cats. Another might be traveling to a farm to help with harvesting food and caring for the animals. Each activity will be followed by a shared meal.

The idea and purpose behind the program is to help the caregivers give their loved one a much needed sense of purpose and social interaction. Both of these things are highly important to maintaining a healthy mind and are imperative for someone living with dementia. In addition, as their loved ones’ world shrinks so does the caregivers. It’s vitally important to maintain as many social outlets as possible to keep up good mental health.

It Takes a Village (Senior Day Program episode)

Friends Make You Smart

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In honor of our first anniversary we’re showing off our new caregiver superhero!

It’s our anniversary! One year ago I held my breath and released Fading Memories into the internet. It was my hope that I would reach other caregivers like myself. Wanting to provide great information, guests and inspiration was my goal but more has come from this endeavor.

First, podcasting is a lot more fun than I expected. I’ve “met” a lot of fantastic people even if most of them are only on the other side of a computer monitor.  When I started the podcast I didn’t realize how large the caregiver support community truly was. It’s exciting to be part of that community. Learning new ways to care for my Mom has been the biggest bonus to podcasting.

Getting ready to record my anniversary episode I re-listened to many of my own episodes. My very first one, Living With Alzheimer’s was a homerun. Talking to Pam Montana, a woman with younger onset Alzheimer’s was informative and inspirational. Not every episode has been as good as that first one, but all of them have had good information to share.

Interviewing Other Podcasters

Interviewing other podcasters has been fun and I’ve done that on 3 occasions. The first was Psychology in Seattle. Initially we were supposed to discuss how to talk to kids about Alzheimer’s. We ended up talking about my struggles and feelings. Fortunately, I did find someone to discuss how to talk to kids about Alzheimer’s. That would be the author of Weeds in Nana’s Garden, Kathryn Harrison. She was the Mom of very young children when her Mom developed the disease. Great book, great conversation.

My second podcaster interview came via a Twitter message. Cory, one of the co-hosts of the podcast Switch The Envelope was recommended to me by his partner. Cory had just recently lost his grandmother to Alzheimer’s. I talked to both Cory and his Mom about how their family tackled the problem of helping their Dad/Grandfather when caregiving became too much for him.  Calling that episode The Care Committee was an easy choice, because Cory’s family did create a committee to tackle everything that needed handling.

His episode was released in 2 parts, because we talked so long, the week before Thanksgiving. I wanted anyone who was going to have to have tough conversations with family to hear how his family managed. I think Cory’s family is a blueprint for every other family dealing with this disease.

Dogs In the News reached out to me to help spread awareness of the program Carmen’s Legacy. They train dogs to be canine caregivers. I’ve been a dog lover/owner all my life so I was excited to learn about these dogs. What I find interesting is you, my listeners, were more interested in long term care insurance than dogs. Do yourself a favor, check out Canine Caregivers, it’s a fun episode.

What’s Coming in Year Two?

I could write a novel on everything that I’ve learned and experienced this first year but I won’t. Just listen to the episode, I managed to make it less than an hour!!

Shortening up the episodes is still a goal, but some guests have so much fantastic information it’s hard. I’ll keep trying though.  The goal will still be to bring you the best guests I can find. Guests with great stories, information and inspiration.

What you can expect in the next month or so is already living up to that promise.  There’s a “lost” episode called Caregiver Pathways. It’s about a program that takes people in the early stages out in the community to do things that give them purpose. Great episode, not sure how it got lost.

Then there’s a fantastic conversation on wether your loved one has truly forgotten you or lost the language skills to communicate your relationship. It’s a fascinating theory, one that I think may be true for many of our loved ones. You’ll have to tune in to find out why I don’t think that’s the case for my Mom.

Since you loved the episode on long term care insurance you’ll really love the one on Medicare Demystified. I learned a lot talking to Brooke so I know it’s a good one.

How about Art Therapy for Older Adults? If you follow me on Instagram, you may have seen my attempt at a different creative approach with my Mom. That reminds me, make sure you’re following me on Instagram or Twitter, that’s where I post the most. I’m on Facebook too.

I’m excited to dive into my network to find new guests so stay tuned!

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