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Meeting men during the different phases of your life can vary from being incredible easy to rather difficult. However, at most phases of your life, you are looking for quality over quantity which can certainly be a very daunting task.
But, let me show you how to do it for folks 21-75.
Step 1
In my humble opinion I think the first step is defining what a QUALITY guy looks like for you. I would accomplish this by making a list of every possibly quality you want in a man. Next, I would shrink the list to your top 5 qualities. Now, moving forward you will only pursue men that have your top 5. After a first date, you will look at your list and if the guy has your 5, you will agree to a 2nd date, if he doesn't have your 5, then he won't' qualify for a 2nd date. Easy peezy right!?
Step 2
Now that you have a quality man defined, it is time to figure out how you want to meet this guy. As far as I can tell there is almost an unlimited way to meet men. Some examples: Grocery shopping, ice skating, workout classes, online dating, through friends, religious organizations, meetup groups, Brazilian jui jitsui, running groups, travel groups, and the list goes on for some time. Which one of these methods excites you?
If the list is daunting and you don't know what to do, let me put you into 1 of 2 categories.
Category
1 - Introverted or Just Prefer to Meet Men In the Comfort of Your Home
2 - Extroverted and Prefer to Meet Guys In Person
If you are category 1. I would highly suggest rocking online dating. If you are going to do online dating, I would suggest doing it my way. My was is the most efficient and successful strategy in the country. If this is interesting to you, buckle up, because I am going to rock your world with this.
If you don't want to do online dating, no big deal. Shoot down to my ideas for category 2 folks.
But, if you want to do online dating, HERE WE GO!
Okay, first off. If you are going to do anything, you should do it in the most efficient manner possible. Time is wildly valuable and if you are inefficient than you are wasting your valuable time. That is why I researched and eventually built the most efficient system possible.
Now, to be efficient you need to have a competitive advantage. A competitive advantage will come by doing something that most people are not doing. The activity I am speaking about is mass messaging from a traditional online dating site. For example, if you create a match account and start messaging men.
Most women either DO NOT message men or message a few a month. These metrics are way too low. In order to have a competitive advantage, you need to message at least 50 men in a week.
You are probably thinking, "Mike, how is this efficient? I am going to find 50 guys I am interested by spending a ton of time and then I am going to have think of a great message to send to them. This is crazy time consuming."
You would be 100% right if you did it that way. My suggestion is to copy and paste a message to the first 50 guys that look decent.
Then, when the guys reply to your message research their profiles, photos, messages, and determine which guys makes sense for you.
Why does this work?
What I have found is that when you send 50 messages, on average 12 men will be interested in you. From that 12, I want you to select 1 to go on a date with that week.
Now imagine, if you had 12 guys that wanted to date you every single week and your job was to simply pick 1. Don't you think that 1 date each week would be pretty good?
Oh baby, yes, it will be a great date! Using this system my clients only need to meet 6-8 guys to find someone they like.
Pretty awesome right?
We call that 50-12-1. In my opinion it is the only way to do online dating. It gives you more options and allows you to pick out quality men quickly.
Now, sometimes 50 doesn't produce 12. In that case send 100, 150, or even 200. If you can't get 12 from 200 then either your pictures, profile, or location you live is really hurting you. You may want to look into fixing one or all of those.
Alright, let's move on. Online dating is not for everyone.
So Category 2 folks that want to meet men in person, let's have some fun and get you out there.
How fun is this going to be?
First, pick something you enjoy doing OR better yet picking some activity you want to learn and that you are not good at yet.
Now you are probably thinking, "why something I am not good at?"
Great question my friend! When you are doing the activity and struggling you can turn to the nice guy next to you and ask him for help. While he helps you, perhaps you start to build a connection, or at the very least you can give him appreciation for his help and make him feel needed by you. (Men gravitate towards women that make them feel needed)
Okay, nice work. So there you have it. You got 2 massive categories on how you can meet men. Feel free to pick the category you enjoy most or if you are a switch hitter, start meeting men in both categories.
Alright beautiful lady, you got all the tools to make it happen. Go out there and get it done!
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As a man, I can speak to this topic on a personal level! Get ready! It’s story time!
My fiancé and I were heading to my cousin Ross’ wedding when we decided to stop to get something to eat. My fiancé suggested that we get some Greek food and we found an awesome sounding Greek restaurant online. Everything was going great until I got a little lost. I began feeling really overwhelmed when she tried to help me figure out which way to go. Then, when she then tried to have a conversation about something else, I totally lost it! STOP! I can only do one thing at a time! I was trying to figure out how to get to the restaurant. Stressed out, I raised my voice at her. I felt awful for losing my cool and hurting her feelings.
Many men have this limitation. We can only do one thing at a time. This is difficult for women to understand because they have ten times more receptors between the left and right hemispheres of their brains. This makes them far superior in the multitasking department.
There are some things that women can do to help men with these limitations. You can do your best to understand and accept that he needs to do on one thing at a time. Allow him to focus on completing the task at hand. Step back and give him some time to get things done. Once he finishes whatever he is working on, you can move onto something else. This will help him to feel accepted and at ease, he won’t feel overwhelmed or frustrated, and he will feel great once he completes the task. Men love solving problems and getting things done. If he can devote all of his focus to one thing at a time, he can get a lot more done than if he tried to do a lot of things at once and became overwhelmed.
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EZ Dating Coach | Make Dating Simple by Your Ez Dating Coach, Mike Goldstei.. - 1w ago
Has this ever happened to you? Your relationship seems to be going great and then BAM… your boyfriend disappears. You were probably left feeling hurt and confused and maybe even angry. You also might have blamed yourself. I am here to tell you that you are not to blame and you can and will get past these negative feelings.
This is the most important lesson that I can teach you: No one can make you feel anything. Yes, someone’s words or actions can bring on negative feelings but you have the power to turn it all around. Every day, you have to wake up and to decide how you feel. You have to tell yourself that yes, that person hurt you but if they are capable of doing that to you, you don’t want them in your life anyway. You have to move forward with positivity and invite positive people into your life.
I know all too well that this is easier said than done. The secret is that you have to fake it until you make it! How do you do that? When someone asks you how you’re doing, tell them that you are fantastic, amazing, or phenomenal! Even if I am feeling down or in a bad mood, if I use one of these happy adjectives and put on a happy face, I start feeling better. I bet you will, too! Give it a shot! It’s amazing what a positive outlook can do!
For the record, there are tons of reasons why a man might disappear and most of these reasons have nothing to do with their partner. Maybe he is not ready for a commitment… Maybe things just don’t feel right… Maybe he is panicking and can’t handle confrontation… Maybe he doesn’t think he’s good enough for you…Whatever his reasoning might be, if he chooses to vanish without coming to you and telling you what’s going on, he is not the one for you. He did not end the relationship in the right way but that relationship was meant to come to an end so you can find someone who would never disappear on you.
Keep in mind that there is a big difference between a man needing space and a man completely up and vanishing. Space is actually really healthy and helpful for men. When they are under stress, they need that time to decompress and clear their mind. If you see your man seeking out time alone, be supportive and let him know that you are there for him if he wants some company later.
When something brings you down, you can lift yourself up, even if you’re just pretending to be ok at first. Remember that there is always a reason why people do the things that they do. If he disappeared, that’s on him. Now, you are free to find someone who will stay by your side no matter what. Do your best to stay positive and it will get easier and easier.
The fake it until you make it method doesn’t work for everyone all the time. If you are feeling depressed, please know that you are not alone. I encourage you to reach out to loved ones and seek help from a professional.
Wondering if you would be a good fit for coaching with me? Book A complimentary 15 minute strategy session with me HERE and find out. Let's get you a high quality man that will be yours forever.
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EZ Dating Coach | Make Dating Simple by Your Ez Dating Coach, Mike Goldstei.. - 1M ago
Sometimes, communication between men and women can be tricky. There are a lot of common issues with texting in particular! My fiancé and I experienced this first hand when we first started dating. I prefer to use texting solely for logistics and she misunderstood my short texts as not caring about her. I know that a lot of other people struggle with these issues so I was super pumped to talk about texting with my favorite match maker, Rachel Russo. Her insights on texting are really eye opening! She gave some awesome tips to help combat common texting problems between men and women:
First, Rachel teaches us that men process and use less words on a daily basis than women do. If you text a man a long paragraph, it can overwhelm him. How can you make sure that you don't send a text that is just too much? You can shorten and edit your text messages to use as little words as possible. Texting men is all about quality vs. quantity! Your man might not want to have full conversations via text. He most likely prefers texts that are short and to the point.
Next, Rachel talked about the different type of energies that men and women possess. Women with more of a feminine energy like it when the man pursues and chases them and they like following his lead. In these cases, the man should be the one to text the women first. Women with more of a masculine energy are probably very proactive and don't care who texts who first. These types of women should go ahead and text him first! Men with a feminine energy like it when the women texts them first and men with a masculine energy who like the chase might be turned off if a woman texts him too much. So, ask yourself what type of energy you and your man have and go from there.
Rachel went on to tell us about the biggest mistakes that a women can make when texting men, specifically alpha males. In addition to texting a lengthy message, initiating more contact or more dates can also be a bit of a turnoff. You have to let him come to you and pursue you. Also, texting him all the time and sending a lot of photos and videos can make you look overeager. If your man is an alpha male, let him take the lead and keep your messages short and sweet.
Next, we discussed the topic of texting photos to a man. If a man asks you for photos and you aren't comfortable sending them but you are interested in him, write him something playful and light-hearted. If you are open to sending pictures in the future, let him know that so he doesn't feel rejected. Tell him that it has nothing to do with him and you might be open to doing that sometime in the future. If you aren't into, again, let him know that it has nothing to do with him but it just isn't your thing. Keep it playful but be true to yourself. You be the judge. If his photo requests are sending up a red flag for you, listen to your instincts and trust your gut. He might only be interested in a sexual relationship and if that isn't what you are looking for, it's probably best to move on.
Rachel had great insights on the best way to text an alpha male. Next, I wanted to know what the best way is to text a beta male is? Rachel said that women might need to take the lead with a beta male when it comes to texting. How can you do this? You can create a conversation that helps him to open up. You can do this by asking open-ended questions. Questions that warrant a simple yes or no answer might result in a short, choppy, and pretty much one-sided conversation. You have to prompt him to get responses from him. Follow up texts are also great! After you go on a date, text him the next day telling him what a wonderful time you had. If you make it obvious that you are interested in him and you would like to see him again, that will eliminate the fear of rejection and give him the courage to take the lead.
Rachel shared some interesting points on phone conversations. There are a lot of people out there, especially millennials, who don't like talking on the phone. If you enjoy talking on the phone and you want to see if your man likes it, simply ask him if he's a phone person when you are out together. Keep it light and don't let him feel cornered or pressured to talk on the phone. You can also suggest that you FaceTime or Skype with each other. Men are very visual creatures and he might be more open to that type of interaction. You can also call him and have short and fun conversations. This will show him that talking on the phone can be very nice. Lastly, you can let him know how much you enjoy talking to him and how even a short phone call to hear about his day and say good night would make you really happy. He is sure to be responsive to this because men love knowing that they made you happy.
Next, I asked Rachel about something that I'm terrible at: flirting via text messages! She told me that this is usually different for each couple. She suggested that you use what you know about your partner to flirt with them. What do they like? A little teasing and joking around can be fun and flirty, too. You can also try sending photos. Something cute or funny can go a long way, as well. Keep in mind that you only want to do this every now and then so it doesn't lose its charm.
Texting is quickly becoming people's go to form of communication. These awesome tips will help you to send your man texts that he loves.
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EZ Dating Coach | Make Dating Simple by Your Ez Dating Coach, Mike Goldstei.. - 1M ago
There are some qualities that men find irresistible in women. I broke down these qualities in 2 of my videos. You'll be surprised at just how easy it is to be irresistible!
In the first video, I share a personal story. My now girlfriend and I went to the beach for our second date. It was easy and affordable and we really enjoyed getting to know each other. After the date, she said something that made her truly IRRESISTIBLE! She told me that it was the best date that she had ever been on. I was blown away! This wonderful complement showed me that I could make her happy by planning something easy. Men want women who they can make happy easily. The fear that they won't be able to make a woman happy for the rest of her life is actually what holds a lot of men back from making a commitment.
How can you utilize this information to help make you irresistible? It's easy! Just show your man a lot of appreciation. Get excited about the things that you do together and let him know what a wonderful time you are having. He will love feeling appreciated and special and he will love that he made you happy.
In the next video, I shared 2 more qualities that men find irresistible. First, you need to make a man feel needed. Today, women are completely self-sufficient. This is wonderful and absolutely how it should be but it leaves men feeling a little unneeded. This explains why you see a lot of men dating women who don't have their act together. How can successful women make a man feel needed? It's simple! Ask him to help you with something. Even a tiny request can have a big impact.
Once he helps you with something, thank him and make him feel appreciated. Your praise and kind words will make him feel good, not just because they are a reward for a job well done, but also because it is another example of how easy it is to make you happy. Lay it on thick and be over the top with your appreciation! It will make his day and it will make you irresistible!
Next time your man takes you on a date, be sure to compliment the activity, what you are eating, or the location of the date. Next, make him feel needed and appreciated. Everyone wants to be around someone who makes them feel good. Do these things for your man and BOOM! You are irresistible!
Wondering if you would be a good fit for coaching with me? Book A complimentary 15 minute strategy session with me HERE and find out. Let's get you a high quality man that will be yours forever.
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After following Love Breakthrough Specialists, Johnny and Lara Fernandez, for years, I was ecstatic when I got the chance to sit down and talk with them. I learned a lot in our Q&A session and I am excited to pass the knowledge along to you! Here is a paraphrased summary of what I took from our insightful discussion:
Q) How can you can tell if your guy is the right guy for you?
A) There are several ways to tell if you're dating Mr. Right:
He doesn't disappear on you. He is present and interested in creating a meaningful relationship with a future. Keep in mind, disappearing is different from seeking alone time. We're talking about completely ghosting you, here!He does what he says he's going to do. When he makes plans and he says that he is going to do something, he always follows through.You values are in alignment. It is clear that you both want and cherish the same things. He treats people with respect. He isn't just kind to people that he can get something from, he is kind to everyone. You realize that he isn't perfect, just like you aren't perfect, but he is perfect for you. Everyone has quirks and everyone makes mistakes now and then. You accept each other and love each other unconditionally, no matter what.
Q) How can you tell the difference between a man disappearing and a man just needing some alone time?
A) There is a big difference between a man disappearing without a trace and a man needing time alone. Men need to have alone time to decompress and relax. This is especially important when they are stressed out or overwhelmed. Spending time in their man cave or out with friends will increase their testosterone. This is good for your man as well as your relationship.
Q) How can women can get a guy to commit?
A) The trick is not to "get him to commit". You shouldn't be forceful or manipulative in any way. You have to activate your man's masculinity by showing him that you are a prize in the relationship. Show him how wonderful it would be if you were in a committed relationship and then you can both move forward toward that goal. You always want to see progress in the relationship. You should both feel excited to be with each other and you should both feel loved and cherished by each other. You have to think about how you feel when you're together right now. Look to the future but don't get caught up in it so much that you can't appreciate the present.
Q) What is the sexiest quality that a woman can have?
A) There are many qualities that men find sexy. There are certain things in particular that really draw a man to a woman:
Confidence. Men love when a woman is confidant. You know that a man is right for you if he treats you like a prize, right... well, you have to treat yourself like you are a prize, too! When you treat yourself, you produce oxytocin, lifting your mood. Some oxytocin producing activates (OPAs) are going out with your girlfriends, eating a little organic dark chocolate, and being out in nature. You have to invest time, energy, and resources in yourself. This goes beyond treating yourself to manicures and shopping. Love yourself and learn about yourself. You need to become your own soulmate first then you can find your soulmate in the world.Compassion. There is nothing more magnetic than kindness. People want to be around people who make them feel good. This compassion needs to extend toward yourself. You have to be kind to yourself and never talk negatively about yourself or others.
Q) What is the fastest way to go from single to being in a committed relationship?
A) In other areas of life, such as fitness and business, we feel comfortable asking for help and guidance. You see that someone seems to have it all figured out and you reach out to them for advice. The same thing goes for relationships! Turn to people who are in happy relationships and ask their advice and find a dating coach who can help guide you.
I had a wonderful time talking with Johnny and Lara. It is so great to share knowledge and learn from others in this field. Now get out there and find Mr. Right!
Wondering if you would be a good fit for coaching with me? Book A complimentary 15 minute strategy session with me HERE and find out. Let's get you a high quality man that will be yours forever.
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EZ Dating Coach | Make Dating Simple by Your Ez Dating Coach, Mike Goldstei.. - 2M ago
We all want to make our partners happy and sometimes it can be challenging or overwhelming. Don't stress! You'll be surprised how easy it is! I have compiled a list of expert tips to help you be the best girlfriend ever! Check em out:
1) Don't nag. Compliment to effect change.
Nagging someone doesn't help them change. Nagging someone only irritates them, makes them feel bad about themselves, and often leads to conflicts. If there is something that your man is doing that you wish he would change, instead of nagging him, let him know how happy it would make you if he would stop doing it. Once he makes the change, thank him and show him how much you appreciate it. This will help him to change the negative behavior through positive reinforcement.
2) Let him complete tasks by himself.
This is particularly important if your man is feeling down. Your first instinct might be to take extra good care of him but encouraging him to get out and do something will actually be more beneficial to him. Men feel better when they complete tasks. When you motivate your man to get out there and get things done, he will feel so much better. He will also love knowing that you are in his corner, loving and supporting him and helping him to stay motivated.
3) Randomly wear something sexy.
Wearing something sexy is a great way to keep the spark alive. Find out what type of clothing your man finds sexy and surprise him by wearing it. This will keep things fun and exciting!
4) Accept him for who he is.
Everyone has their quirks. Accept your man for who he is and don't try to change him. Your unconditional love will make him feel truly happy and comfortable to be himself.
5) Work as a team.
You can incorporate teamwork into many aspects of your relationship and your lives together. It can be anything from doing your fair share of chores at home to helping each other get through stressful times. Sharing the weight of the load means that neither of you have to carry it alone. You know that you have your teammate there to help you. Sometimes, just knowing that is enough.
Keep these 5 tips in mind. They will make your man feel great and they will show him what a wonderful girlfriend you are. These tips will make you happy, too. Not just because you love making your man happy, but also because they will bring you closer together, help you avoid conflicts, and keep you both in a happy, healthy, and supportive relationship.
Wondering if you would be a good fit for coaching with me? Book A complimentary 15 minute strategy session with me HERE and find out. Let's get you a high quality man that will be yours forever.
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