You might not know that I spent many years in pain and even agony over men who I loved. It was more like an obsession looking back. It was clear that the man was not giving me the love I was looking for but I kept going back in hopes that this would magically change one day…
Not only that there was the fact that some of these men across the decade span I would be stuck in this pattern WERE actually seriously interested in me (at first). Meaning, therefore they COULD have been the right person. But I was absolutely doing particular things that were putting them off and changing their minds because of this FACT: I was not a safe place where a man could let go and open his heart… I have this awareness now but I was blind to it before.
If you don’t think there are things you can do to improve yourself as a partner in a relationship and/or bond with him on a deeper level you will be missing out on the opportunity to learn something that can change your “luck” in love, forever.
If you’re not in the relationship you want to be in I urge you to remain curious… This is not the group for you if you just think you “haven’t met the right person yet.” This is the group for you if you are ready to try something new to become the best partner you can be and to look within if you’re not where you want to be. If you’re ready to learn things that help to keep your man so inspired by you and your love, this is your place.
Remain open minded and you just might find that you learn something you’ve done in relationships is something that just does not work with men. Because it’s NOT YOU. It’s certain things that work and certain things which do not work. I know this because I was actively doing the ones that don’t work for so many years! (enter cringe! ) #truth
Just like business, tennis, painting, design, or running or anything for that matter there are tools and strategies that can take you to the next level in your ability to attract him and to keep the fire alive for the long term…. Relationships are no different. In fact learning how to communicate effectively and to understand what works with men is probably the most valuable skill you can learn in your life…
The quality of your relationship is a HUGE determinant of your happiness.
My relationship is nearly perfect right now but it wasn’t always that way…heck I couldn’t even keep a man around for most of my life. After five years of marriage we have worked to grow together and I can say that I’m the happiest I’ve ever been and we are like totally crazy in love.
It doesn’t hurt that we are on a sexy vacation in Anguilla right now and slow danced to live music last night when my beautiful husband and best friend whispered, “I love your soul…”.
I’m sharing this now because one of the modules I’m teaching called “The Secret Sauce” in my upcoming crash course is a about combination of behaviors I actively work to do within my relationship on a daily basis. It’s something I absolutely did while dating Josh AND it’s something he absolutely believes in as well. Even though KNOWS I utilize these concepts they still work like a charm!
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It’s hard for me to know from where I sit if you’re being insecure or if he is being aloof. However, that part does not matter as much as how you feel around this person. The question is do you break up with him if not feeling good about the relationship?
Your main issue here, which has remained an issue since it began, is the exclusivity.
If you’re a person who is anxious in a relationship, it would be better if you stay out of exclusivity until you know that a person is right for you.
Now you’ve invested a bunch of time on this guy and you don’t feel good inside the relationship.
At this point, if this was me, I’d be like, “Listen, I don’t feel cherished in this relationship sometimes and I want to feel cherished. Here is what I need in order to feel this way. Either it’s just not your style or perhaps you’re just not feeling all that enamored by me… either way, let’s just figure it out and see if we can move forward from here”.
Then get ready to find a man who makes you feel all the things you deserve to feel.
You need to be pretty picky about who you spend your time with and how you want to feel and less afraid to rock the boat.
A man wants to be inspired by his woman to be a better man. Tell this man what you need and be ready to walk away if he can’t fulfill it. If he can and wants to guess what he will step up and do it.
A man likes to feel afraid that if he does not perform than he won’t be able to keep this gem he has found. A man does not like to feel like a woman is tip-toeing around him because she is so afraid to lose him but yet he knows she isn’t fully happy.
Not good. This is how you slip into being less valued by your mate. The path you’re taking with him I’m afraid will end up starting to slip away. You can’t be in a healthy relationship and not express yourself.
Guess what maybe he isn’t’ feeling how he needs to then you need to WALK. Let him think about it and come back to you if he realizes he made a mistake. Don’t be afraid to make waves.
You’re standing up for yourself and your number one, which is YOU. That’s very attractive. You’re a catch! He needs to be giving you affection, attention, words of affirmation and the hole nine yards to hold on to you!
It’s just what a girl wants and what a girl needs. You’re not asking for a lot here! If he feels it’s too much you gotta #NEXT this one.
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How many times have you had to walk away from a relationship because it was breaking your heart? Or even though he’s been breaking your heart over-and-over again for years, you just don’t want to let him go. Can I avoid heartbreak by not saying goodbye to Mr Wrong?
It may be that all of your friends are sick of hearing about him. They wonder how a beautiful, successful, capable woman like you could be wasting so much time on the wrong man. Even to the point you feel embarrassed to talk about him to them.
What if I told you that he could accompany you on your path to finding the one, and that this could be an advantage?
Now Let’s Have Real Talk
A client who had been seeing a man for over 5 years (and wasting her time with him, as far as all her girlfriends were concerned) couldn’t shake him off as hard as she tried. Once she finally understood that it was ok to keep him around, she was so relieved. The pressure she felt when she tried to push him away was working against her and was helping make his hold on her heart even stronger.
We worked out a plan that altered a few of her mindsets including the way she thought about her current situation and how she could benefit from still having this man in her world.
In her mind she was running out of time and things were becoming urgent. If she wanted a family, it was time to take some sort of action. But she couldn’t seem to define how to do this on her own. This led her into my practice and changed her life.
As she worked with our tools and practiced them in the world, something incredible happened.
When she was with her current man she started to have deep, self-loving thoughts of wanting and deserving more. Their time together was still enjoyable. But now she lost those intense do-or-die feelings of attraction that had an unhealthy grip on her for so long.
She finally developed the confidence to know that with these tools. She also was able to create the kind of deep committed love she ached for inside. As her perspective opened up things began shifting in her world.
Now her hopes and beliefs strengthened as she followed her new inner “knowing” that she would definitely find her love. The incredible part is what happened next.
Within a year she was engaged and had a wedding date set with a man who had seemed to simply fall out of the sky. Her friends and family were shocked and pleased about the happy news. This is an example of the magic that occurs as a result of some minor shifts we will do It can happen that quickly!
So when you ask yourself can I avoid heartbreak by not saying goodbye to Mr Wrong? The answer is yes.
Two weeks ago a woman in my Facebook group got engaged from just from reading the posts! They actually helped her to learn how to choose the right kind of man. Think of what You will take away from the magic of the The Manfunnel Community?
I can’t wait to see you in there and get to know you!
We have all heard people say, “you know love happens when you least expect it”. This can happen because the love we want often comes from someone that we were not expecting it from. Women sometimes hang their hope on finding a particular type of man that they believe is right for them. This often leads to disappointment with the whole dating process. They find themselves dating different men at the same time. So, what’s the trick to keeping peace of mind when dating multiple men?
These women spend so much futile and wasted time “liking” the wrong men. In a nut-shell, when you place a laser-focus on one man and close your eyes and heart to anyone else, you may very well prevent yourself from meeting your ‘unexpected one!’
Personal experience has given me this valuable insight that I now share with you.
There was a time when I was seeing a man for whom I had strong feelings. I could have easily allowed myself to get sucked up into the pattern of focusing all of my attention on this one man; waiting around to see what might occur with him and only him. I knew, however, from my past experiences with men I really liked, that this ‘I only have eyes for you’ strategy was not the way to succeed in love.
I had made a plan that I was to meet my “one” within that year. I had done the math. I was sick of wasting my precious time and energy (sometimes months or years) on the wrong men. I pushed myself to continue exploring all of my options… Had I not kept my eyes and heart open, I would not have met the wonderful man I now call my husband!
Strategically, I kept things slow with all of the men in my world; this put me in the position to be able to CHOOSE who I wanted to be with. I was able to explore multiple opportunities until the exact right person came along.
When that person comes along, you may not even recognize that he’s right in front of you. Taking your time to watch who shows up for you in a meaningful, nurturing, and consistent way is vital on your path to finding your one.
Remember that a man and all of his perceived “good qualities” are COMPLETELY USELESS TO YOU UNLESS THAT MAN IS SHOWING UP FOR YOU IN WAYS THAT PROVE HE WANTS TO BE PART OF YOUR WORLD.
It is of key importance that you keep your options open until a man you desire, the man who is in it to make your life better, has shown up for you consistently over time, and has proven that he is INVESTED IN YOU.
I know that you are so crazy busy, and it feels impossible for you to see more than one man at a time. Or, when you “like” a man, it’s impossible for you to enjoy other dates? Perhaps you feel guilty seeing other men? Yes, I get it! I’ve been there before! But it’s time to start exploring and enjoying multiple options at the same time.
Here are some ways of dating multiple men while keeping your sanity and peace of mind!
Set clear boundaries on your time.
Just because a man wants to see you more than once a week, does not mean that you need to jump through hoops to see him. Even though you enjoy seeing him, it is your job to slow things down. When a man is excited about a woman, he can be like a blind pilot taking off into the mountains. He’ll fly higher and faster until he rams the relationship right into the side of a large, unforeseen mountain!
You have to control your time and your schedule, and you need to show him that your time is extremely valuable – to YOU. Your time should be earned by consistency from a man. You wouldn’t get into a plane with a blind pilot, would you? Allow him to drive the relationship but take it upon yourself to decide when things should take off and fly to newer heights. Only go there with a man who has proven he is worthy of your time.
When we jump in too soon and jump through hoops for a man, he does not see us as a high-value woman. A high-value woman cherishes herself so much that she keeps her own life intact. Her life does not suddenly change or open up because one seemingly interesting man has come along on her pathway. Pick one weekday and one weekend day for dates with a man you are interested in.
Getting ready for dates: hair, makeup, clothing, etc., take tremendous energy. It isn’t easy to have your nails constantly well-manicured, your hair done properly, and your multiple “winning” outfits ready for the wearing. Set up two time slots for dates per week. You will see two different men in the time slot. That’s 4 dates a week. That could be sixteen new possibilities per month. A recent client put this strategy into play after dating unsuccessfully for a decade. She was engaged within the year! This new strategy allowed my client to put more energy into herself and make more of a game out of dating. Dating became fun for her, and her positive vibrations were magnetic to men – certainly to the one who proposed!
Slow things down to get what you want faster.
It seems counter-intuitive, but you must slow it down to get the commitment you seek! Say NO to multiple dates with the same man in one week. This is moving too quickly. See how he reaches out and behaves in between dates. When you are seeing the same man two times or more in one week, it is impossible to stay objective and open to other opportunities.
No more laser focus!
How can you date multiple men when you only like one certain man? This is an everyday challenge for most daters! You are not alone. When, however, you are focused on one man, you are setting yourself up for real issues in your dating world. Lean back from “liking” a man until you know he is invested in you. Realize that people have all sorts of criteria. Who are you to assume that you’re one of his criteria? It’s not really your problem, anyhow. Simply stay focused on meeting interesting people and continue to explore the ones that show up for you consistently.
Use all of these dates to practice keeping the focus on yourself so that when the one comes along who piques your interest highly, you will have multiple prospects and will be well-versed on not keeping a laser focus.
Slow down on the physical contact.
This will keep your head screwed on straight and not overly focused on a certain somebody, simply because you had sex with him.
Follow these strategies and watch how much more fun dating can be! Allow men and their energies to flow toward you. Don’t bother with anyone who doesn’t “stick.” Simply let them go. Keep seeking out new options and energies. Keep moving forward until the right one comes along.
Keeping peace of mind when dating multiple men can happen.
I urge you to allow love to happen when you least expect it!
As you crack that door open again there is an uneasiness inside your stomach and it’s easy to default to negative thoughts and keep that eye out for the usual douche-bag things that can occur when we put ourselves out there. Why does it feel shitty now that you have cracked the door open again for possibly finding love?
It’s very easy to get caught up in what’s not going well while we put ourselves out there. Especially when the vulnerability of opening ourselves up again to the possibility of finding love feels very naked. Any little thing can make us want to slam that door shut again.
What’s causing your reactivity and disappointments across the entire dating process leaving you exhausted, frustrated, annoyed, ready to throw in the towel like every time you try?
It’s a simple answer. It’s your expectations of the process.
One of my recent Master Your Manfunnel Boot Camp grads posted something the other day that showed she has dropped the expectations in the dating process. She is at peace and enjoying the process. On a swipe app a cute guy she connected with said she was cute after she contacted him. It didn’t take two full exchanges before his text became extremely sexual.
She was not phased. She simply told him that was not what she wanted but what he had described was something that might sound good if she was in a relationship or at some point decided to take on lover! Her reply had no negative charge of emotion, disappointment, nor judgement. There was no anger. No resentment (at least not sensed from the conversation).
Wait till you hear what happens next.
When a woman can come across soft like this, magical things occur. She was going through the process. She didn’t get triggered. She didn’t get pissed. She just knew to expect these kinds of things as it comes with the territory when you’re putting yourself out there.
What she was doing was taking something away from each experience and conversation as part of the full process of finding her future husband Using each moment to reflect off of herself as a learning process. Then the magic happens. He completely opens up to her.
It turns out that this man is only using sex to lead the conversation because he does not feel he is worthy of love. He didn’t express it in this exact way but It’s obvious in the exchange after he shares his truth that this is the underlying reason. His previous comments were very racy and that’s not what she’s looking for at all online. But instead of ending this exchange in anger she felt she wanted to give him a hug. At the end of the day everyone just needs and wants love.
Try to take this into your heart as you go along your dating processes You will enjoy the process so much more if you can approach it all from a place of love and understanding and drop your expectations and judgements.
This might be hard to digest but the same shitty feeling you get when opening yourself up again is actually related to the receiving of the douche bag acts from the crappy men out there! Let me explain.
The less accustomed we are to the vulnerable act of opening ourselves up (this is due to many things for example, shame that we want love, embarrassment of the entire dating process are just two which come to mind) but an easier way of explaining it is that you have layers covering your heart and you aren’t aware of them or have any idea how to uncover them.
When we have layers on our heart which go unaddressed, it leads us to attract more than the usual level of bad experiences in our dating processes. That’s why it’s even harder for you than others out there in the dating stratosphere.
You’re unconsciously pulling undesirable experience toward you because when you give off the energy of being closed off or guarded you are way more of a SAFE option for a man who is unwilling or afraid to open up, himself.
The men are sensing your guardedness and therefore your pulling in the men who are also guarded. Love can’t occur when two hearts are covered in armor.
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She thought she was the ugly duckling and now she has too many men to choose from! Find out how she did it… This all about us women seeking men and a true story from ugly duckling to men chasing her. Her name is Jenna but this may be you.
You have an inner drive and natural desire to be partnered. Sometimes you push it down, or even stuff it down… but it always comes back. Why? Because we are wired to be together. You can spend five more years denying that fact OR you can start to uncover what it might be that makes love seem more difficult for you than everybody else…
One woman wasn’t sticking her head in the sand. She was super into personal development and had spent thousands to find out the answer to that exact question. “Why was love not working out for me?” After all, she was an attractive and successful whip smart entrepreneur. She was seeking experts to help her answer her question for the past handful of years. She had tried all kinds of programs to help her find love, including Matthew Hussey’s multi-thousand dollar retreat in Florida.
She still struggled with finding high quality men to date.
Until the day that all changed. She stumbled across relationship expert, Megan Weks and the concept of The Manfunnel. It was so empowering to think of a dating concept where women were taking control of their relationship futures. She loved the idea and signed up for the course to get all of Megan’s tools on how to navigate the dating world in this new and exciting way!
She was thrilled to report that, “This program was the game changer!”
“Instead of being desperately seeking my partner, I am now happily seeking my partner”
“I have the skills to attract high quality men over and over again… It’s like I have a magic wand!”
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Sometimes it’s hard to know what to look out for as signs that your relationship won’t last. But there are signs your relationship won’t last and the 2 things you need to start a great relationship.
One of the biggest signs that your relationship won’t last is if the two of you do not feel a natural comfort around each another. The reason why this will make it hard for your relationship to last is because while the two of you are attracted to each other and there is a spark, the relationship needs more than that to survive.
What it needs to survive is the ability to a get into the deeper emotional intimacy stage. In a nut-shell, what that means is that both of you need to feel comfortable enough with each other to be able to reveal things about yourselves which might feel scary to share. Showing up as “perfect” for one another will actually start do diminish the spark that you had in the first place.
You need to get to this deeper place for the spark to turn into a slow and steady flame. When we don’t have natural comfort around someone, it makes it entirely more difficult to open up and be ourselves, which is a key ingredient in creating a bond which lasts. The good news is that if you feel uneasy around him there are ways to create a more comfortable environment between the two of you.
Take a risk and reveal something which you may perceive is less than lovable about yourself. Remember, we are only human, and we are all flawed. It’s true that a guy will love you even more for your imperfections, when you can demonstrate that you’re comfortable with yourself, flaws and all! This will help him to feel that he does not have to be perfect around you and he can start to lighten up and be himself. This will help both of you to feel more at-ease and able to take the relationship to a higher plane.
One of the biggest questions you can ask yourself when dating someone new is, “Does this person qualify as ‘best friend’ material” ?
What you need for the relationship to last is someone who feels like a “best friend” who you also have mutual attraction. If you have those two things, you’re off to a great start!
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It’s that feeling of being knocked in the gut so hard that you can’t breath or speak. You’ve done something you know you should not have done. You checked up on your ex’s social media and saw the unthinkable. Another woman. You just found out he is dating someone new so what is your next move inside?
This feeling is pretty high up there amongst the top worst feelings ever. Like losing your job or getting some bad news from the doctor. Yes, it feels that awful. It’s normal to have the urge to crawl into a deep hole and never come out again. You could allow your mind to run wild and overflow with pity and self-loathing. You could go lie in bed and bawl for longer than you’d like to admit to anyone.
(Don’t stuff it down) – You feel hurt. You feel rejected. You feel less than. You feel awful. Grab that journal, pen and paper, or word processing document and let it all flow out. Allow every last thought that comes to your mind flow out of your mind and onto the paper. Don’t hold back anything because you will be the only person to read this journal entry. Write for thirty minutes to an hour until there are no more thoughts that come up over this situation. The act of journaling is extremely cathartic and can help you remove the thoughts that would have been swimming around for days inside of your head. Now it’s time to increase the quality of the thoughts.
(Reframing) – This relationship was over for a reason. Something about the relationship was broken on simply not right for you. The sooner you can accept this fact and continue to take action steps toward your own goals, the better you will be. Spending time moping over a person who has clearly moved on is going to hold you back from your own love destiny. Realize that your number one criteria is that the person wants you and sees you as their one and only. If this ex does not see you as such than he is simply not within your criteria anymore. This mindset suggests that you must get out there and find the person who does want you and only you. That person is out there. What steps can you take today to move closer to that unknown person?
(Reflect) – This is the time to get really clear on what you want in your next partner. Write down the fifteen qualities you want and the three top deal breakers. Then check in with yourself to make sure that you have a healthy outlook on finding love.
Take your relationship fitness temperature by asking yourself this series of questions:
1) Do I deserve a great partner whom I’m attracted to and whom I respect greatly
2) Will I truly be able to find love?
3) Am I enough to attract a great partner just as I am?
If you are not answering these questions with high level confidence, it’s a hint that some self-loving is in order. You must believe to achieve. You must know that you are worthy of love to attract and maintain a high-quality relationship with a high-quality partner.
Love thyself. You have everything inside of you right now to heal yourself and to attract and keep the right partner. It’s when we are fully in acceptance of ourselves that we are most attractive to a high quality partner who wants to admire and adore us back.
Make a list of any doubts that came up during the question exercise above and keep them in your journal. Make a list of what you think may be holding you back from love. What can you do today to improve any of your perceived shortcomings?
As soon you start to take action toward improving these items, you will feel better about the items. This helps you project higher quality energetic projections out into the world to attract higher quality people into your life. Lastly, wrap your arms around yourself in a deep embrace for six seconds. Close your eyes. Give yourself a loving hug of acceptance and tell yourself that you are worthy of love just as you are right now. Do this every day for at least thirty days.
By now you have the action steps to take to face the dreaded moment when the one you are hanging onto has moved on to someone new. This is a turning point in your healing process. It’s a hint that it’s your turn to take the steps to move on and go find the love that’s yours.
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