The stress of work and raising twins became overwhelming to Herman and April and their relationship suffered. After their marriage ended in divorce, it was then they began to fall in love again.
The Divorce That Saved a Marriage - YouTube
If your marriage is ‘on the rocks’ and you’re worried that your spouse is thinking about asking for a divorce, then the video below is for you. I’ll explain a few signs to look for that indicate your spouse is thinking about divorce, and I’ll tell you how to stop it and how to begin repairing your marriage.
Arguing Over Anything & Everything.
An increase in the frequency and intensity of arguments with your partner are a clear indication that all is not well with your marriage. Now, don’t panic here just because you and your spouse are fighting a few times a week… every married couple will disagree and have conflicts from time to time, and it’s actually a healthy thing to argue now and then as long as they lead to resolutions or don’t leave lingering hard feelings. When those arguments become daily occurrences and tend to arise over almost anything, then that’s when things get a bit more dicey.
2. No Longer Willing To Resolve Conflict or Find Solutions.
If your partner seems to no longer care about the outcome of a fight, or if they seem to feel as though trying to find a solution to your problems is pointless or hopeless, then that can be a clear indication of deeper troubles. When this kind of despair sets in, your partner may withdraw further and feel as though there will never be a way for the two of you to live together in peace. That’s obviously not a good thing, and it’s something that you need to work on if this has become a problem in your marriage.
3. Lack of Emotional Connection and Withdrawal of Affection.
If your husband has become distant and stopped showing affection towards you, that can also be a strong indication that they’re mentally checking out of the marriage. Often associated with this is an overall lack of emotional connection and a lack of willingness to discuss or show feelings and emotions.
In my experience, this is one of the most obvious signs that a marriage is headed in the wrong direction. Usually, though, it’s more a symptom than a root problem, and resolving the core issues of your marriage can usually help re-build the emotional connection and lead your spouse to begin showing affection again.
There is always a spiritual fight just before your breakthrough Written By: Kevin L A Ewing ==================================================
Frustration and anti-progress will always be the “norm” and the order of the day when a breakthrough, turn-around or miracle in on the horizon. In fact, if there are no severe challenges before what you’ve labeled as a miracle, break-through or turn around in your life, then I strongly advise that you revisit and carefully analyze what you’ve labeled as a miracle, turn-around or breakthrough.
Unfortunately, when a person is on fire for God or a person is about to have God change something in their lives for the better, that person will face some serious spiritual opposition and frustration. One of the main attacks that individual will experience will be the overwhelming and frequent experiences of things that they fear. For example, if that individual is claustrophobic (fear of enclosed places), then their fear will be amplified and more frequent than usual. It will be the same if they have a fear of heights, insects, etc.
Such a person would become bombarded with relentless thoughts of their fears (which are the evil suggestion from the spirit of fear) that will result in the individual experiencing severe anxiety and panic attacks. Public speaking and the usual everyday things that they would typically have no issues with performing will suddenly become a task all because they are unaware that they are under a spiritual attack.
The next phase of this attack if it is not recognized and challenged by prayer and fasting, the victim becomes lazy and disabled by procrastination. As a result, the victim will categorize their experience as, feeling overworked, unusually tired, or they just need a break from it all. Again, the reality is this person is under severe spiritual attack, and a part of that attack is to cause the victim to always see it from a physical perspective. Again, if even at this stage the victim does not recognize that their root problem is spiritual, then the attack will be upgraded.
The victims then begin to experience unusual but consistent bouts with depression. It usually starts by the victim feeling down and gloomy for no apparent reason. The victim will slowly begin to look at life from a negative perspective, experiencing relentlessly thoughts about deceased loved ones and uncannily missing those deceased loved ones.
The victim will also suffer overwhelming thoughts of death, and the afterlife and how they wish they’re deceased loved one was alive, such as their Mother, Father, etc. especially when they buck up on life’s challenges.
The next stage, again if the attack is not recognized and counter-attack from a spiritual perspective, the victim will begin a phase of crying for no apparent reason and slowly begin to lose hope in the things and people that once brought them joy. At this stage, spiritual intervention is a must because the next level of which at this point has migrated into severe depression will then progress into a cycle of demanding suicidal thoughts.
While this may be an old spiritual tactic of the devil, unfortunately, it has become a very successful one for him in overcoming and subduing Christians that lack spiritual understanding. In my many years of observing this cycle of perpetual evil that’s being orchestrated and hurled by legions of evil spirits at Christians, it is always the Believer whose more caught up in the physical things of their faith such as being blessed with a car, house, a wife/husband miracle money, etc. As a result of their deep embedded approach and view of things from a physical perspective, they are literally sideswiped and overwhelmed when this spiritual attack comes upon them.
However, those that are spiritually minded, for the most part, will almost always recognize and survey their attack from a spiritual perspective and engage in prayer and fasting to overcome this vicious spiritual attack. The bottom line is this; your success or failure during this SPIRITUAL process will solely be dependent on the spiritual education of the victim. In other words, the enemy will take full advantage of the victim’s lack of spiritual knowledge in an effort to destroy their victim.
If you are experiencing this vicious cycle of spiritual oppression, know for sure that something good is pending for you and the attack is clear evidence of that as well as to prevent it from happening. The purpose of this article is to reveal to you that the origin of this evil attack is spiritual and therefore your counter attack must be spiritual and the most effective way of doing that is through prayer and fasting!
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“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28
What is Your Purpose? Christian Motivational Video - YouTube
5 scriptures about God’s Purpose for us.
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28
Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails. P Proverbs 19:21
For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him. Colossians 1:16
But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. 1 Peter 2:9
Your dreams are revealing that blessing are on the way =========================================
by Kevin LA Ewing
Due to the influx of emails that I have been receiving concerning dreams of things, places and people of the past, such as dreaming of your former school, your childhood home, a previous job, old apartment, etc.
Such dreams are indicators that the spirits of setback and delay have been released against you in the realm of the spirit. However, the flip side to such dreams is even more interesting in that when you experience such dream, it is a clear understanding and a heads up that a breakthrough, miracle, positive change, etc. is pending.
If you are experiencing such dreams, you must begin waging war via prayer against the spirits of delay and setback that’s working overtime to interrupt what God has set aside just for you. I have counsel with many folks who were frustrated with their Christian walk in that every time something was about to come through for them everything would just fall apart. I, in turn, would ask them, “Have you been experiencing dreams where you saw yourself in your former primary or high school uniforms or attending your former schools including college, what about dreams where you always find yourself at your parents home or grandparents home even though you don’t live there anymore.” Some of the more evident signs are being together with your ex-husband/wife or even former relationship.
Well, 9 out of 10 times the answer would be yes! You see my friend, anything or anyone in a dream that is taking you back to areas of life that you’ve either already accomplished, or you’re done with, symbolizes spiritual delay and setback, attempting to hijack the victim’s spiritual blessings that are pending release in an attempt to prevent physical manifestation.
Scripture reminds us that there is a time and season for every purpose under the sun, Eccl. 3:1. Your spiritual blessings that have been assigned to your life before the foundation of the world according to Ephesians 1:3-4 and are released according to the law of Eccl 3:1. Satan, in his attempt to make sure you never connect with those appointed times, again, releases his spirits of delay and setback to hinder your progress and elevation.
This will explain why carbon copies always show up in your life to delay you from connecting with God’s original for your life. This is typical behavior just when things are on the verge of turning for you. Carbon copies (the wrong people, places, and things) are intended to delay you from what was designed to advance you…..Glory to God I am feeling this one tonight!!!!!!
Please, whoever you are maybe reading this post tonight, this is not an accident or by chance that God has inspired you to read this post. I strongly advise you to take a critical review of your dreams in search of the signs I have mentioned above and began to wage war on these stealth spirits that secretly invade our lives via our ignorance of their signs and intent.
I will repeat it; scripture did not say the people of God are destroyed because of fornication, adultery, lying, cheating or whatever else we categorize as sin. Instead, it plainly said that it was as a result of a LACK OF KNOWLEDGE!
Begin fighting now, and I mean right now in prayer targeting the spirit of delay and setback with the word of God. Speak, Proverbs 6:30-31, Joel 2:25, Psalm 115:14 and many other scriptures and at the same time asking God to reroute you to your divine time, seasons and appointments all to collide with your appointed physical manifested spiritual blessings.
It is always good to see couples reconcile their marriage after separation.
Today, many marriages are falling apart and couples deciding to separate. In the US statistics on separation and divorce, it shows that almost 87% of separated couples proceed to obtain a divorce. The remaining 13% reunite after separation.
They are many variables to why couples separate but the key thing is to find ways in which couples can build and sustain a healthy, loving marriage.
It is also important to know your self-worth and not let your identity be in your partner.
I would like to share this testimony with you. As the couple shows how they were able to reconcile their marriage after separation.
When marriage to Jeff wasn’t perfect, Deb turned to affairs to find acceptance. Then an affair became public, and Jeff and Deb’s marriage hung in the balance.
Couple Rebuilds Marriage with Freedom from the Past - YouTube
Do hope you have found enlightenment from Jeff and Deb that can help you with reconciling your marriage.
Be blessed with all spiritual blessing in Christ Jesus