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Give yourself grace. As a mom, I’ve heard this advice more than a few times. In fact, I just gave this guidance to a new mom of two struggling to get dinner on the table with her newborn and toddler in the mix. I told her this phase is about survival and “giving yourself grace” right now is important. Of course, just like all advice, it’s much easier said than done.

The Intention is There

The intention is there. When you feel like your day is unraveling or you’ve been hard on yourself for whatever reason, “giving yourself grace” is about giving yourself that kindness you often deserve. Sounds awesome. The type of thing you’d want your best friend to do for herself because you don’t want to see her breakdown. So why is giving yourself grace so damn hard?

Unfortunately, when a tired, exhausted, sick, hormonal, pregnant, anxious, lonely, depressed, or overwhelmed mom is given this sound piece of advice, all they hear is “let things go” which some of us just can’t do. It’s not in our mom DNA. It’s against our personality, our natural instincts, or our routines that keep us sane.

Moms push themselves. We go without for the sake of our children. We attribute our children’s overall happiness, success, and well-being to ourselves. If they’re doing great, we must be doing something right; We give ourselves a quick pat on the back. If they aren’t doing well, we are relentlessly hard on ourselves. We assume we have no clue what we’re doing and must suck at this whole “mom thing”.

Can we do everything right? No. Are we perfect? No. But we want to be. This is the opportune time to give ourselves grace. Yet, most of the time we choose not to.

We look for what we can do to keep things in our control. We try to make balanced meals. We pride ourselves on a clean home. We plan activities and create schedules for our families. But, when we are going through a tough time, the things that are typically within our control, seem to unravel. Even though this is when we need to be kind to ourselves, or “let things go”, we can’t… or we have to work really really hard to.

When I was teaching, I lived by a certain standard. I prided myself off of a clean classroom environment that usually ran efficiently and effectively. It was organized. I wanted it to be my happy place since I spent more hours there than I did at my own home. I also had a rule for myself: always leave the classroom spotless before closing up for the day. Loose papers were filed, floors were picked up, whiteboard erased, tables and chairs bleached. Why? Because I believed each day was a fresh start for both my students and myself.

Why Giving Yourself Grace is So Damn Hard

Now that I am a stay at home mom, my house is my work environment, and I hold myself to the same standards and beliefs. Then, all of a sudden, I added another child into the mix, and the goals I set for my everyday life became much more difficult to achieve. With that, my happiness and comfortability began to deteriorate. This is when I started to hear “give yourself grace”, “don’t be so hard on yourself”, “dishes can wait”. All these things are so true! I needed to hear them, but I can’t be expected to change who I am or what I’ve always done within a matter of days.

I get that when we’re in survival mode, you do what you need to in order to make it through the day. But, for those of us that strive for perfection, who equate our happiness to our homes, who want to be the best- “giving yourself grace” may be more stressful than just getting it done. At what point am I happier if I just push myself?

Can Dishes Really Wait?

Can dishes really wait? Is it more stressful to not have the pan you need for dinner or a clean sippy cup ready for your son, than it is to take the time, you don’t exactly have, to clean them?

Is a heaping pile of laundry you chose to give yourself some grace over becoming more of a nuisance when those comfy pajama pants you love to wear are dirty or your child has no matching socks?

Can we really afford take out every night or should I zap frozen meals for the next three months while my newborn baby won’t sleep? Is accepting the mom guilt over my toddler not getting a balanced diet easier than just prepping meals when I should be catching up on sleep instead?

Is plopping my kid in front of the TV only to become an irritable child zombie easier than pushing myself to leave the house with my two kids on a day I should be getting over a cold?

To be honest, I’m not sure of the answer to my questions. Seeing dishes pile up, laundry not being folded, food not being cooked, and children not being engaged makes me feel irritable, stressed, and inadequate. That’s why giving yourself grace is so damn hard. And, as a mom, it’s near impossible.

The Dos and Donts of Giving Yourself Grace

From here on out, rather than give this arbitrary advice I’m going to say things like:

  • Please don’t be that hard on yourself
  • You’re doing the best you can right now, and that’s what matters
  • Let’s prioritize
  • Let me help you
  • What would you say to your best friend if she was going through this
  • Let me help you

If you are currently in this situation, try some of these things:

  • Set small goals to achieve this week by cooking 2-3 meals or leaving the house only on Tuesdays or Thursdays
  • Clean up toys only before bed instead of throughout the day
  • Ask for help from loved ones and/or friends
  • Choose one task over the other
  • Decide what your non-negotiables are when it comes to housework
  • Brainstorm ways to make it easier on yourself

What does giving yourself grace mean to you? Comment below.

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As moms, it seems we’re always sharing special moments with our friends and families. When I do, I like to share mine in a big way, with Basic Invite. Basic Invite is an online stationery company, offering a unique selection of prints for every occasion. From baby showers to birth announcements to HS graduation invitations, you can take advantage of truly customizable templates while enjoying easy ordering, purchasing, and sending services.

Here’s why I love Basic Invite:

Super Customizable Templates

Modern moms know exactly what they want, so having control of your card down to the smallest detail is important when making lifelong memories.

The biggest reason Basic Invite totally rocks is how adaptable each design is. After choosing your template, you can mix and match each element of the card using over 180 different colors that capture your specific style. This feature is so unlike other companies I’ve used in the past, many of which I’ve found very limiting for this very reason.  

So, if you’re searching for a HS graduation invitations template, you have the freedom to choose a design you like and match your child’s school’s colors, rather than scouring the internet trying to find the perfect one.

There are tons of HS graduation invitations to customize to fit your personal style!

You can further tailor your invites to include gold, silver, and rose gold foil for that extra sparkle!

Time Saving Elements

Moms are busy. We all know that. That’s why I find Basic Invite so appealing when I go to design cards for family and friends.

One major time saving element are their envelopes. Not only do they offer various color choices, but each envelope is peel and seal for quick and secure closure. If you must know, I have personally licked 100+ envelopes from other online stationery companies in the past. What a waste of time and taste buds!

Basic Invite’s address capturing service and free recipient address printing makes sending out cards easy for the busy mom.

Another efficient service offered by Basic Invite is address capturing. I love this modern feature! The service allows you to request addresses by simply sharing a link on your Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram page. Each address is saved and stored on your account for later use.

Basic Invite also offers recipient address printing at no extra cost! How much time would you have saved on holiday cards last year if you didn’t have to print and peel every address label? I know I would’ve saved a ton.

Try Before You Buy

Basic Invite is also one of the few online stationery companies that allows you to try out your purchase before you buy. How? They will send you a printed sample of the actual invitation you created so you can see how it will print and ensure quality prior to placing a final order. I wish more companies did this!

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Basic Invite is a Must for Moms

With so much to celebrate in mom world, the memories you create are important. Basic Invite allows you to create lasting moments that you can customize to fit your particular style. Basic Invite also makes the ease of purchasing and sending invitations simple for today’s mom.  From showers to birthdays to HS graduation invitations, Basic Invite has got it going on!

Right now, enjoy 15% off your order with this coupon code: 15FF51

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How important is a great sound machine for baby or toddler? Very. In fact, if you care about baby sleep, this tool is the tool you’ll need for a super effective naptime and bedtime routine. After much research, and two children later, I finally found one I absolutely love: The Hatch Baby Rest.

This post contains affiliate links which means if you make a purchase using one of these links, I make a small commission. All opinions are my own.

Before you find out why the Hatch Baby Rest is the best sound machine for baby and toddler, let’s discuss why you need this valuable piece of equipment.

When your baby is first born, they experience numerous changes. One of those major changes is how quiet life outside the womb. Your belly is like a 24/7 party for them- super loud and rowdy. So, a sound machine helps to ease baby into this big transition. In turn, the sounds will become a major calming force, specifically when it comes time to sleep.

Added to a great sleep routine for naptimes and bedtimes, a sound machine can also trigger your child’s brain to know the difference between rest and wake. When you want your kids to go to bed, this will be very helpful for their sleep and your peace of mind.

As the days progress, a sound machine will provide an optimal sleeping environment for your baby or toddler, as it will drown out other noises that could potentially wake them. Really, any noise can do the trick: a loud sibling, neighbors with barking dogs, road noise, the sound of a toilet flushing…Nothing worse than having a baby or toddler wake-up prematurely due to unexpected or unwanted noise.

For other tricks to get a newborn to sleep, see my tips and tricks here.

Now that we’ve covered why a sound machine is necessary for a baby and toddler, let’s talk about why the Hatch Baby rest is so incredibly awesome and why moms everywhere should be adding one to their child’s room.

Hatch Baby Rest App

Probably one of the coolest and most unique features of the Hatch Baby Rest is that everything can be controlled from an app on your phone. It’s the best. You can adjust the sound, light, control more than one sound machine, and create different timed settings depending on your need with the click of a button.

via Hatch Baby

If you have loud children or loud neighbors, this app feature rocks. I love that I can control the volume from anywhere in the house without having to disrupt my child’s sleep environment.

Sounds and Lighting Options

Another feature that makes the Hatch Baby Rest the perfect sound machine for baby and toddler is the variety of sounds and lighting choices available. The color options for the nightlight are endless, as you can even create a custom color to fit your child’s needs.

via Hatch Baby

As for sounds, they vary from rain, white noise, wind, etc. My toddler prefers the “dryer sound” while my baby likes the sound of the crashing waves.

Easy Touch Start

To start your Hatch Baby Rest, all you have to do is preset the light and sound on your app and tap the top of the machine when you want to turn it on and off. So simple and streamline. My two-year-old helps with naptimes and bedtimes by starting and stopping our sound machine for baby brother.

Endless Settings

The Hatch Baby Rest includes numerous settings, as well. You can dim the light depending on your needs, set timers, let it run until you manually turn it off, and set different programs. These options are perfect if you have a toddler or are planning to use the sound machine until your baby becomes a toddler (further explained in the next section).

Grows with You from Baby to Toddler

As our children grow, many parents have issues with their toddler getting up out of their bed or calling for them throughout the night and/or early in the morning. For some parents this arrangement works, for others, a 4:30 wake-up call is not ideal.

via Hatch Baby

Many parents opt to purchase an “okay to wake” alarm clock for their child. So, in addition to a nightlight and sound machine, now, there is another gadget to add to your collection.

The Hatch Baby Rest is unique because, with the programmable settings, you can create your own “okay to wake” clock, saving you from a future purchase. This option makes the Hatch Baby Rest the perfect sound machine for baby and toddler.

Modern Design

As a modern mom, we want our purchases to be functional and visually appealing. I love the sleek design of the Hatch Baby Rest, which will look Instagram ready no matter where it’s located in your child’s room.

via Hatch Baby

For an extra cost, you can even purchase decorative sleeves for your Hatch Baby Rest! There are tons to choose from. See them here.

The Perfect Sound Machine for Baby and Toddler

With so many sound machines on the market, it’s hard to find one that will fit the needs of you and your family. The Hatch Baby Rest answers it all from easy controls to various sound and light settings to flexible programming for babies and toddler, this sound machine makes the perfect addition to any nursery or child’s room.

Looking for more product suggestions to help with baby sleep, check out these must-have items designed to get you and your child more rest.

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Recently I read an article stating that grandparents who babysit their grandkids may live longer. Of course, the article got me thinking about my parents and parents-in-law and how much they’ve done for us since having our first child back in 2016. The problem is, extra years of life doesn’t seem to come close to what we actually owe them. As parents, how do we even go about paying them back for it all? To them, time spent with our children is more than enough, but to us it’s just the beginning.

I started to think about how many times grandparents have come to our rescue.

How many times have I asked them for help with raising our children?

How many times have they picked me up off the floor when I felt like falling down?

How many times my kids have asked for them instead of me?

How many times I’ve thought about how necessary grandparents are and how lucky we are to have them in our lives?

Growing up, my grandfather babysat my sister and I every Monday. We also spent many weekends with him and my grandma at their house in San Pedro, California. Some of the best memories I have as a child are with him.

Of course, many of those memories include ordering whatever we wanted at the McDonalds drive thru, eating candy completely unsupervised, playing Nintendo for hours on end, and trips to Toys R Us on some idle day of the week. I guess you could say we were a little bit spoiled, but it’s funny that my husband has the same memories with his grandparents and great grandparents too.

Sadly, my grandfather has since passed on, but now my children now get to make memories with their grandparents, like I did once before. As things are shaping up, they will have many of the same recollections as my husband and I have as a child.

We currently reside in Tucson, Arizona. At first, we knew no one, and being a stay at home mom with a newborn can be very isolating. Despite our distance, our parents have been a consistent strength to us and became our support by making the trip to visit us on a regular basis.

Currently, my mother-in-law drives 2 hours, here and back to spend time with our sons once a week. My mother, and now recently retired father, come out about every 6 weeks to stay to play with our boys. Besides the time spent with our children, I also get a much-needed break each time the grandparents come to town.

Not only are my kids insanely fortunate, but we are too. Seriously, I’d be dead on the floor without them and here’s why:

They Are Superheroes

I want to go back to what I said earlier about grandparents coming to our rescue, because it’s true. As a mom, I’m sure you have felt run down from time to time. Maybe you had no one to fall back on and maybe you did. For me, my parents and parents in law have been there to help and support me when I needed them the most.

Terrible pregnancies, sick kids, sleepless nights, a much-needed day away- I have woken up to cooked meals, washed dishes, folded laundry, and fed and clothed children. How they do it all? I’ll never know… maybe it’s because they’re real life superheroes? Who knows, but I am so thankful known the less.

They Buy Our Kids Ridiculous Gifts

As parents, we have to be careful how we raise our children, especially with what we buy them. No one wants to raise a spoiled brat and that’s why we have grandparents. Grandparents are totally allowed to spoil the crap out of our children by buying them pretty much anything they want. 

Honestly, half the toys in this house were bought by grandparents. I can personally attest to this as my Barbie collection was bought by my grandfather because “Barbie needed all her friends.”.

Grandparent spoiling is much different that parent spoiling, and we’re alright with that.  

They Actually Want to Put Your Kids to Bed

As a stay at home mom, sometimes it feels like groundhogs day around here and bedtime is always chaotic. Between nighttime, naptime and two kids, I feel like I’m putting children to sleep all day long. The great thing about grandparents, they actually want to put the kids to bed, and we love them for it.

Even though our children sucker them into one more story and two more songs, they adore that time with them, and we get a few extra minutes to be child free.

They Give Our Kids Loads of Sugar

As parents, we are responsible for providing a well-balanced diet to our children. Although lame, it’s what we need to do to help nourish their growing bodies. Of course, since grandparents are now “off the clock” for doing any parenting, they are allowed to give our kids sugar, and I’m pretty sure it’s more than they’ll ever admit to. When our son started saying things like “Gramma cupcake. Grandma cookie.” We knew something was going on. It took some getting used to, but of course I think back to my grandpa filling us up on all the sugary cereal I wasn’t allowed to eat at home, and know it’s going to be okay.

They Are the Best Babysitters

Yes, with all the toys, candy and delayed bedtime routines, who wouldn’t want grandparents for babysitters? And as parents we love it because who else would we trust more in the world to watch our most prized possession than the people closest to us in our lives? Extended vacations, movie nights, day dates… the amount of babysitting hours grandparents rack up over the years would eventually buy them a new car if they were getting paid.

How Many Times Can We Say Thank You?

If years added onto their lives is what we can give to grandparents, then that’s what we will do. Give our children toys, feed them sugar, let them bamboozle you into a later nap.

We as parents need to let it happen.

These are the memories our grandparents want to share with our kids and these are the recollections our kids will have of their grandparents when they become adults. This is how our kids will learn how to become grandparents themselves one day, and how I plan on treating my own grandchildren, should I become lucky enough to do so.

How many times can we say thank you to our parents for doing all they do to show our kids the unconditional love they deserve?

How are grandparents important to your life? Share and comment below!

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Thinking about what you need as a mom of two? Luckily you don’t have to reinvent the wheel, but being a mom of more than one is a huge transition. No matter what stage you’re in currently- pregnant, newborn, or seasoned-there are some valuable products you’ll want to consider to make this next chapter as easy as possible.

Just like you, I was pregnant with my second and comforted by the fact I pretty much had everything I needed for a baby. Of course, I also wasn’t new to this whole motherhood thing, which helped ease my nerves a bit about becoming a new mom of two.

Then, baby arrived.

Afterward, life at home with my boys got a lot more…..interesting. As I continue survive the day to day as a mom of two, there are a few necessities I would highly suggest, and honestly couldn’t live without.

Baby Jogger City Select Double Stroller

Choosing the best stroller for two kids is tough. Many moms love the Baby Jogger 2016 City Select Double Stroller. This stroller is not only durable but comes with tons of options and attachments depending on what best fits your family.

All the options are perfect for a newborn baby and toddler in tow, while also being able to grow and change with your family depending on child preferences and where you’re going!

BOB Revolution PRO Duallie Stroller

It may seem like you have a ton of strollers as a mom of two, but some strollers fit different needs. If you love to run or hit the trails, do yourself a favor and get a stroller that will make you enjoy it like the BOB Revolution Pro Duallie Jogging Stroller!

Although the price tag on this stroller is pretty high, it’s totally worth it. The wheels help you glide up and down hills, tread through rocks, and easily push over 70+ pounds between a toddler, baby, and car seat.

Stroller Hooks

Two kids sometimes means your hands are full and you’ll be toting around double the amount of stuff. Make sure you have stroller hooks for every stroller to help you carry bags, backpacks, and everything in between.

For more suggestions on the best stroller accessories, click here!

Hatch Baby Rest Sound Machine

As a second time mom, I’m sure you already know a ton about baby sleep and the importance of a good white noise machine. Well, with two kids potentially waking each other up on a daily basis, you’ll want the best sound machine out there.

The Hatch Baby Rest is must-have for any mom of two. Although sleek, modern, and practical, the best feature is an app you can use to control everything from your phone.

You can adjust the sound and light, save preferences depending on the time of day, and even create an “okay to wake” setting for your older child all from the touch of a button.

Looking to brush-up on your newborn sleep tips and tricks? Get a refresher here.

Infant Optics Camera

A mom of two definitely needs a great visual monitor for their kids. Many love the Infant Optics Video Baby Monitor because you can connect both cameras to one monitor, which switches back and forth between both rooms.

If you already have the monitor, then all you will need to buy is the camera. Don’t forget some extra batteries while you’re at it!

Ring Video Doorbell

When you’re a mom of two, a knock on the door is never convenient. Typically I don’t even answer the door if I’m not expecting someone but even when I am, I feel like they tend to show up while I’m either feeding my baby, changing a diaper, or putting at least one child to bed.

The Ring Video Doorbell allows you to cut out the fear of a doorbell waking someone, see who is at your door, and communicate with a visitor to tell them you’ll be down in a moment.

Echo

Another technology-related mom product, The Echo Alexa can become your daily assistant and make things a bit easier for you. Have her play music for the kids, tell them stories, convert measurements, and even tell you what the weather is like outside so you can clothe each child properly without having to test the temperature yourself.

Of course you’ll want an Amazon Prime subscription so that you can even quickly reorder things you need through the Echo.

Baby Carrier

Since you aren’t a first-time mom, you probably already have a good baby carrier, but if not, now is the time to get one! Babywearing is necessary when you have two kids roaming around. It will free your hands up to do whatever you need to do around the house or even help put baby to sleep if you need a bit of a break.

The most popular baby carriers are the Lillebaby and the Ergobaby 360, especially since both are a soft, structured carrier and do not require an infant insert. See my review of the Ergobaby Omni 360, here.

Changing Pad Liners

If you will have two kids in diapers, don’t forget you’ll need extra Changing Pad Liners. Some forget about insane newborn baby poop issues, and you can save yourself from doing extra loads of laundry with these on hand.

If you did have these with your first, they are awesome! They protect your cute changing pad covers, they’re waterproof, and easy to swipe out when they get dirty.

Haakaa Breast Pump

If you plan on breastfeeding, you may have heard about the magical Haakaa Breast Pump! If not, it’s basically a “letdown” catcher that you suction to one breast while feeding baby from the other side. Moms can easily build a supply in those early weeks with baby without having to pump.

This option is so important as being a mom of two doesn’t leave you much time to pump that milk.

Medicine

What’s worse than a sick kid? Two sick kids. What’s worse than two sick kids? Dragging two sick kids to the store for medicine, especially if one is a baby and the other is a crazy toddler. Stock up now and have everything you need on hand.

If your oldest is in school, expect that baby may get sick more often then what you were used to dealing with before.

Zarbees is the most popular medicine for babies and toddlers because of their all natural properties. Check out their natural rub to help fight baby and toddler congestion.

Hair Products

Hair products? Yes, girl. Just because you’re a mom of two doesn’t mean you need to look like a hot mess every day. Since you may not have a lot of time to get ready, you’ll want to invest in a good dry shampoo and some hot tools! I love ORIBE Gold Lust Dry Shampoo. It’s a little pricey but a little goes a long way.

I also love my Conair Curling Wand and HAI Ceramic Hair Straightener. It seriously takes me less than ten minutes to get my hair looking date ready, whether I want it curly or straight.  

Amazon Prime/Subscribe and Save

If you don’t have Amazon Prime or do and don’t participate in Subscribe and Save, you are missing out on major deals. Double the children, double the amount of diapers, wipes, soap, laundry detergeant, etc. Start ordering some of those items monthly, save 15-20% off, and have it delivered to your door.

Read more about how you can save on baby/toddler gear here.

Self-Care

When I asked my followers about their favorite mom of two products, many made jokes about “wine”, baths, alone time, etc. Although funny, it made me realize how important self-care is for a mom of two! With a lot less time to yourself, you will want to get some goodies that will be perfect for those moments you do get to breathe.

If you love a bath, get some fun bath bombs or masks. If you love to workout, get some wireless earbuds or new running shoes. If you love to read, stock up on some great books that aren’t parenting related.

Whatever it is that brings you happiness, let yourself enjoy it a little more by adding something special to it!

Be Mom of Two Ready with These 12 Products

No matter where you are in your momming journey, these 12 products will step of your mom game for sure.

What other products would you recommend for a mom of two? Share yours below!

Already towards the end of your pregnancy and thinking about all the feels when it comes to your firstborn? You will totally connect with my open letter to my firstborn child. Read it, here.

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If you’re a parent, you’ve probably seen or heard of a kid’s program called Little Baby Bum. Known to us novices as LBB, the series depicts animals and children dancing and singing to various nursery rhymes.

Personally, I feel like I know this show inside and out, as it doubled as a babysitter for my toddler during my 16+ weeks of morning sickness with my second child. Laying lifeless on the couch, you begin to notice things in a very sinister way. After hours of watching, I began to think, WTF is the deal with Little Baby Bum?

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It wasn’t until model and TV show host, Chrissy Teigen, posted a picture of her child watching LBB on Instagram that I realized how far the reach of this show had become. Even the rich and famous were being subjected to the continuous singing and dancing. Diving into the comment section, I found that many of her followers had the same issues with the show I did!

After much thought, here are my questions and flat out grievances for the insanity and kid craze known as Little Baby Bum:

1. Why Are There 80 Million Versions of Wheels on the Bus?

Probably the biggest questions on all viewers minds… why are there 15 different renditions of Wheels on the Bus in LBB land? WHY? I curse the day the Vehicles episode of Little Baby Bum was ever created on Netflix. Thirty minutes of a song on repeat is not only tortuous, it’s immoral and honestly killed my childhood love of this fun nursery tune.

via Gfycat 2. What Makes Super Pig So Super?

Why do they call Super Pig, ‘Super’? Is it because he has the most awesome dance moves ever? Seriously, have you watched that pig shake it? I really hope my son learns a thing or two from Super Pig so he can sport it on the dance floor!

3. Where’s the Diversity?

With over 18 billion views on YouTube and 15 million followers, I would love to see more races and ethnicities represented on Little Baby Bum. It’s important that the children watching can see themselves in their favorite songs and characters, while also seeing other children that look different than themselves. Give us more inclusion, LBB!

4. What Kind of Name is Jacus?

In Little Baby Bum there are some main characters, two of which are human. Out of these two humans, one is named Jacus. So incredibly random, don’t you think? Between teaching and traveling, I’ve heard many names in my lifetime, but Jacus is definitely not one of them. I’ve done some research and found that Jacus is a Polish name. Interesting, but for a child’s show it’s an odd choice to say the least, and one that I laugh at as my child learns words and one of his first is Jacus.

via Gfycat 5. Those Hot Cross Buns Look Bomb

I rarely want to reach out and grab animated food on TV, but those Hot Cross Buns on LBB look so good! No, I’m not high, but that chef on LBB really knows what they’re doing. Okay, so this is not necessarily a grievance, but maybe you’ve noticed it too? Please say yes, so I don’t feel so weird for admitting this.

6. Are You British or American?

Does anyone else detect an accent? Sometimes I hear American accents and sometimes I hear British accents. So LBB, what are you? Definitely not Madonna or Lindsey Lohan, so make up your mind or is this your definition of being diverse?

7. Super Pig Drives a Porsche

Super Pig is obviously a favorite of the show’s writers because not only is he super and has great dance moves, he drives a Porsche! What does Super Pig do for a living? He must be doing really well for himself.

8. Is Mia a Little Girl?

You would think the characters on Little Baby Bum are kids, but some things have me questioning if Mia is a little girl or not. Her hair and clothing seem kidlike, but there is one song where Mia jumps in and out of cars to drive them all around the countryside. Kids shouldn’t be driving around, especially in such treacherous terrain, so we’re made to assume she is at least old enough to drive? Mia, we want must know more. Are you a child who is severely breaking the rules, or a teenager with a driver’s license?

via Gfycat 9. Big or Small Confusion

Is anyone else as bothered by the Big and Small song? The song disproves itself constantly and is quite confusing for the mind of a 2-year-old to understand since the comparisons are all relative. For example, first they say the boy is big and the ball is small. Yes, compared to the ball, the boy is big, but within a few moments, people (including the boy) are called small compared to the size of the world. Well, what is it? Are people/boys big or small? Of course, as adults we understand each comparison is its own entity, but to a small child, it’s confusing. If the song was renamed “Comparisons” I would gladly accept it and move on!

10. Daddy Finger, We’re Over You

It’s been determined all over social media that parents hate Daddy Finger. It’s weird and insanely catchy. Human or Panda, we don’t want to hear it anymore LBB!

11. What Sound Does an Elephant Make?

It’s hard to reproduce the sound an elephant makes and Little Baby Bum upholds this statement by claiming elephants say pawoo. I’m not going to make my own elephant noise, but pawoo would not be the direction I’d go. LBB, NO ONE SAYS PAWOO!

12. What’s Wrong With The Animated Bunnies?

In one LBB song the animated bunnies look insane. I call them meth bunnies. Their eyes are wild and crazy and they hop around like they have endless energy. If you’ve never noticed this too, I’d be surprised. Let’s use the same graphic skill level used to make the hot cross buns on these poor bunnies.

LBB, You’re Actually Alright

Joking aside, Little Baby Bum is not all bad. The show has gotten my son and me through some rough times. Whether it be at home, in the car or on an airplane, my son loves LBB and has even learned a few things along the way. Some of the first words he said and first dance moves I witnessed were because of Little Baby Bum, which says a lot.

So, thanks LBB for all the good times and bad. I owe you one.

What else do you think is funny about Little Baby Bum? Comment and share!

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Recently, I enrolled my son in preschool a few days a week. This was a big step for a stay at home mom like me, but not completely foreign either. See, I’ve had several first days of school because before I decided to stay at home, I was a middle school history teacher.

If you’re a teacher mom like me, you’re totally rocking this whole parenting thing. Why? Because teaching and momming are one and the same.

Both interesting, and both downright exhausting, but two little boys later and almost a decade of classroom experience, teaching prepared me to become a mom in the most strange and unexpected of ways.

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1. Intensive Bladder Training

Teachers are known for having bladder issues. Why? Because they can hold their pee for an insane amount of time. It’s like a right of passage to race to a restroom between passing period.

The good news about teacher-bladder training is that it totally prepared me to be a mom… Sometimes, it’s hard to find an opportune time to pee. We’re so wrapped up in what’s going on with our kids, or we straight up can’t figure out the logistics of urinating in a public restroom with two kids, so we just don’t!

2. Dealing with Total Grossness

Teachers deal with some pretty nasty stuff on a daily basis. Body odor, farts, lice, pink eye, a little vomit on the shoe, all in a day’s work, right?

Well, a teacher’s day isn’t much different from life with a child. Parenting is all about getting urinated on (totally sterile by the way), terrible poop stenches, and smelly odors coming from under the bed. Good thing teachers are equipped to deal with the total grossness, thus increasing our level of tolerance as a mom.

No joke, when vomit in the hair doesn’t constitute a shower for yourself, you know you’ve reached another level of mom.

3. Head Start in School Choice

When other moms find out I’m a teacher, they love to question me about my opinion on good schools- and they should! They want what’s best for their children and it’s always a good idea to talk to people who know a thing or two about education.

As teachers we have a head start in deciding what schools best fit our children because we know what qualities make a school great!

4. The Patience of a Zombie

Some days, teaching presents some big challenges and teachers need lots of patience. Like an insane amount of patience… so much patience, you actually make yourself numb some days just to survive. Almost zombie-like, right?

As a stay at home mom, my kids really test my patience. The patience that took years and years of teaching to achieve. I used to see 165 kids go through my door on a daily basis, but my one toddler puts them all to shame. Luckily, I have tools in my toolbelt to cope. My husband, on the other hand, isn’t as fortunate.

5. Teacher Mom Immune Systems Are the Best EVER

You know what they say: ‘Moms don’t get a sick day’ but teachers don’t either! After working with kids for 9 years, I’ve been sick a lot. The first few years were brutal, but after the initial shock to my immune system, it’s hard to catch a bug! In fact, it may take Ebola to actually get me a day in bed.

Regardless, teachers can nurse their children back to health without the worry and fear of catching it themselves.

6. Early Mornings Are Easy… er… Easier

Why do children like to wake up at the crack of dawn when all you want to do as an adult is sleep-in? I have no clue, but as a teacher mom, you’re used to early mornings because schools like to start at the crack of dawn too! Lucky you.

You can sleep when you’re dead, mom.

7. You Got That Stare Down on Point

As a teacher, I’m sure you’ve mastered the stare down. No need to say anything because your eyes say it all.

Now, as a mom, I get to use my skillful and creepy stare on my son and he has years of teaching middle school to thank for that scary glare.

8. Read Alouds Are Da Bomb

Teachers have such a specific way they read because they have to make quadratic equations seem captivating at 7 in the morning. We pause at the right points, display inflection where needed, change voice for characters, all while walking around the classroom and monitoring student behavior. It’s an art.

All this practice really comes in handy during story time with your kids. So. Many. Stories. Pete the Cat never sounded so good when performed by a teacher mom.

9. You Know it Takes a Village

If you teach in a bubble, it’s very hard to grow. Educators know that that’s why we seek help and strategies from other teachers. We read research, buy books, and attend seminars. We do this because teachers love to learn and grow along with their students.

Just the same, being a mom also takes a village. We have family, friends, Facebook groups, books, and Google searches galore in order to help us raise our children because it’s impossible to do alone.

10. Organization Is Key

Organizing is fun for teachers. We gravel at colored containers, fun borders, bold fonts, and any other way to make our classroom run more efficiently while always looking its best. So, when the opportunity to organize our children’s toy collection arises, teacher moms are more than ready for the challenge.

The yellow bin for cars, the clear bin for magnets, the blue ones for puzzles… I feel so alive!

11. Arts and Crafts Time is Easy Because We Are Hoarders

Teachers would save a single staple if they could. We keep everything because we never know when we will get a new one or when we will run out. I’m serious, one time, my school ran out of paper for copies. PAPER!

Luckily, we save everything because just about anything can become a craft for our creative kids at home. I can whip up an activity in less than five minutes with a collection of random crap I find in my desk drawers. It may look like a recycling project gone wrong, but my son doesn’t know the difference and there’s no rubric necessary.

12. Rainy Days Are Still the Worst

Every teacher hates a rainy day at school. Find one that doesn’t, and I’ll give you a dollar. The kids are crazy because they’re stuck indoors, the commute to and from work suck, and school pick-ups and drop-offs are a disaster. Using a sick day almost seems like a better option.

Being stuck indoors with your kids all day is not much better. In fact, it’s my personal hell, but dealing with it as a teacher allows your creative side to really shine or your classroom patience to be put to good use.  Either way, rainy days aren’t what they used to be before kids came along.

13. You Have a Sense of Humor About Things Because Otherwise You’ll Cry

Some days as a teacher you want to cry but all you can do is laugh; like describing your day to someone would just be a string of nonsense. If you can’t laugh about it, you will break and being a mom is kind of like that. There are some days you feel like giving up, but giving up is not an option. So, you laugh. You laugh because you have to. You laugh because this too shall pass and in your heart you know you’ll survive because teacher moms are badass.

Hey, Teacher Mom, You Got This

The experience that goes along with running a classroom each and every day provides you with the most unexpected opportunities to learn how to become a mom. The skillset, the attitude, and, of course, the bladder control makes for the perfect pre-parent practice.

What other unexpected ways did teaching prepare YOU to become a mom? Comment below because, you know, it takes a village.

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To My Firstborn Child,

I haven’t said these thoughts out loud because every time I try, my raging pregnancy hormones make my throat swell and my eyes tear up.  But, how do I tell you, you won’t be the only one anymore?

For two years, you have been my little baby. My firstborn child. We spend every day together- playing, reading, shopping, dancing- whatever we feel like. Our special breakfasts and lunches together are my favorite!

You get all my attention, love, and affection because you are my world.

We ride around during the day. Running our errands, going to playdates, setting out on new adventures. You are my buddy.

I take videos and pictures of you to send to family because you are the cutest thing I’ve ever seen. My phone is filled with your sweet smile, laugh, silly mealtime messes, and anything else we find interesting to share.

We’ve been on road trips, day trips, and vacations together for 24 months, as our little family of three.

At night we have our family routine. Dinner, bath, PJs, a book from mom, a book from Dad, good night songs and a kiss on the cheek. You love getting ready with us as you run along and shriek with excitement. Every night you get all my attention, love, and affection.

But any day now, things are going to change.

You’re getting a brother. Another living, breathing, soul I’ll nurture and love every day too.

The days of just you and I will have a new addition. Another member of our very exclusive clique. Another buddy.

He will ride in the car with us and try new things. He’ll tag along at the grocery store, the movies, the pool, and the park. He will be embarking on so many firsts, just like we did.

Our family trips will turn into reservations for four instead of three.

I’m overwhelmed thinking of how I can quite possibly share my attention, love, and affection. How will my heart survive it?

And how will you survive it?

Will you be the same, free-spirited and funny kid that I know you to be, or will you be sad that mommy and daddy may have to share their goodnights?

I’m sure you will be, but I think you will miss it.

It’s okay.

I know I’ll miss this time too, but you and I know you’ll always be my firstborn child.

Lately, I’ve been engaging in some weird mom behavior. I’ve been studying you. I’m so proud of how smart you are. How creative and kind you can be. How full of life you are. How curious you are about the world around you. I watch you eat, squeeze your little legs, let you take a 45-minute bath if you want to and run through the sprinklers even though it means we will be running late. I’ve been smelling your little head as we read our books before bed. I’ve been watching you play outside and secretly filming you talking to your teddy bears and playing make-believe.

I want to take it all in while I still can while there’s still time.

These past two years have changed me in ways I never thought were possible. I love being your teacher, cook, chauffeur, friend, nurse, psychologist, and best of all, mommy, but I know it’s not over for either of us. Not in the slightest.

You will continue to teach me.

I will be able to watch you and your brother grow together. I will watch you transform into my little baby to a big brother. I know I’ll need your help just as much as you’ll need mine, and we’ll do it together.

I can already visualize the laughs, the energy, the tears, and the fights.

Yes, it will be different, but you will have a built-in best friend that aren’t just your mommy and daddy. You’ll connect with each other on a level not everyone has the opportunity to understand.

In a way, I’m being replaced.

You won’t need all of my attention, love, and affection because you’ll have his too!

As we move forward in these next few days, remember that even though we will both probably miss this, better times are upon us. We will grow and change. We will experience more firsts, giggles, dance parties, meals, outings, tears, and stress, and we will do it together.

We are a team.

You, my firstborn child, made me a mom and that’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. That will never change. Our memories are all ours with many more to come.

So please don’t worry and I promise to try not to worry either.

“You are my sunshine, my only sunshine” and you will always have my attention, love, and affection.

Forever Yours,

Your Mom

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Toddlers are fun, aren’t they? Each week, they give us moms something new to worry about. My most recent obsession is my son’s newly developed hatred for all things vegetables. Upon research, this problem seems to be very common, as many other moms are also seeking out ways to get kids to eat vegetables.

Alas, after much trial and error, I’ve had some success when it comes to the battle of the greens!

That’s right, frustrated mom vs. stubborn toddler, round one goes to me because I found easy ways to incorporate more vegetables into my son’s diet– and he doesn’t even know it!

My son has always been a pretty decent eater. In fact, he was kind of a freak of nature and really loved things like broccoli, carrots, and different types of lettuce. I thought it would be smooth sailing until he started to gradually refuse items that didn’t include blueberries or bananas.

Soon, I realized he had pretty much zero vegetables in his diet, which became concerning.

Like many parents, I want to raise my child with good eating habits, but sometimes it’s not our choice! I tried tons of things like cheese covered vegetables, vegetable omelets, eggplant parmesan, vegetable fries, etc. but it was like he had some detection that sounded an alarm whenever a veggie was near.

I knew I was going to need to get creative because I was smarter than a two-year-old…. right? Thus started my search for how I could get my picky child to eat more vegetables, without him knowing!

After experiencing some success and knowing many of my mom friends were in the same situation as me, I decided to share some ways to get kids to eat vegetables with my readers too.

What’s even better, I teamed up with registered dietitian, Mary N. Felando, MS, RDN, to find ways to get the key nutrients your child needs from vegetables, without having to feed them actual vegetables!

I want to also add that I’m pregnant and tired, so these ideas are brought to you by lazy, exhausted mom who did NOT want to blend, whisk, or clean-up afterward. Judge me, but after so many failed recipes, I just can’t anymore!

1. Zoodles & Other Spiralized Veggies

Spiralized vegetables are trendy and fun. If you haven’t tried it yet with your child, you should.

They are a low carb, healthy way for you to enjoy your favorite pasta dishes without the noodles, but also serve as one of the ways to get kids to eat vegetables.

We love zoodles, which is zucchini spiralized in the shape of a noodle.

I know moms who have experienced success with just throwing some zoodles in tomato sauce, pesto, or butter and parmesan, but your child may make you work a little harder for it.

If that’s the case, try mixing regular spaghetti noodles with a small number of zoodles and cover them in your child’s favorite sauce. Show them how fun slurping up pasta can be and before they know it they can’t tell the difference between the texture of spaghetti noodles to a zoodle.

Depending on what’s best for you, you can buy zoodles already prepared at your grocery store or spiralize them yourself. I use a spiralizer to save money and have great success with the Paderno World Cuisine Vegetable Spiralizer seen below.

Zoodles cook down quite a bit, so keep that in mind during purchasing and preparation.

2. Carrots in Sloppy Joes

Talk about your hidden veggie, this idea is sure to keep the color, taste, and texture undiscernible from the vegetable police. It’s also SUPER easy to achieve.

All you need to do is grate carrots and saute them a little before adding the meat, sauce, and seasoning to your regular sloppy joe recipe.

Since sloppy joes are already sweet, the carrots mix-in well. My sophisticated palate couldn’t even tell the difference, and, the best part, my kid couldn’t either!

The grating can take some time, so plan ahead.

3. Breakfast Cookies

Photo credit to Ciara Attwell at My Fussy Eater

Did someone say cookies? These are not your traditional cookie, but your child won’t be able to tell the difference. Upon my Pinterest search for “hidden vegetable recipes” I came across this fabulous one from My Fussy Eater! It’s the perfect recipe because it does not require any odd ingredients and there is no blending or whisking necessary. I also love that there is no added sugar to these cookies unless you choose to include the chocolate chips.

This recipe includes grated carrots as the hidden vegetable, along with fresh apples, applesauce, and vanilla extract to give it that desired sweetness for your child. If you didn’t want to use chocolate chips, for your breakfast cookies, raisins would make a great substitute.

Warning, these are dangerous for adults as well, so make sure you save enough for your child!

4. Birdseye Vegetable Pasta

Birdseye is a frozen food brand that involves you and your microwave- my favorite kind of quick lunch or dinner for my child. They have tons of options for vegetable and pasta dishes, but they also make vegetable pasta! Using zucchini and lentils, Birdseye creates meals with penne and rotini shaped pasta and cover them with cheese or marinara sauces.

You could add your child’s favorite protein to sweeten the deal like chicken, hot dogs, or tofu!

One bag provides three days’ worth of lunches for us, so it’s the gift that keeps on giving.

5. Amy’s Microwave Meals

I love the Amy’s brand. If you’ve never tried it, you should definitely try. Amy’s is frozen meals done right. They’re seriously delicious. I also love them because they are non-GMO and organic! In your frozen food aisle, check out the options Amy’s offers and buy a couple to test them out. If your child doesn’t like it, you can just eat it instead, so no one really loses.

Recently, my son has responded to the spinach ricotta ravioli. Yes, my son actually ate spinach! I thought my son would be totally turned off by the color, but he wasn’t, so this could be worth a try!

Similar to the Birdseye Vegetable Pasta, Amy’s frozen meals can be used for multiple meals throughout the week and repurposed in different ways if desired.

6. Sweet Potato Fries & Tots

Most kids love sweet potatoes, making it one of the obvious ways to get kids to eat vegetables. What’s more, Mary N. Felando, MS, RDN, suggests that sweet potatoes are known as “the top nutrition superstar” when compared to most other fruits and vegetables.

We love throwing some sweet potato fries or tots in the oven as a side dish for the evening. My son loves these sweet potato tots from the Alexia Organic brand.

If you were feeling really creative and chef-like, you could easily bake your own sweet potato fries to make it even healthier.

7. Fruits

So let’s say nothing is working. I’m sorry mama. It’s really frustrating and hopefully will change over time. Don’t give up, but some people may not be able to find ways to get kids to eat vegetables just yet!

If this is you, Mary suggests choosing specific fruits to feed your child. “Don’t forget that vegetables aren’t the only place where you can find fiber, vitamins, and minerals,” she explains, “Moms can look toward some of the more nutrition packed fruits like kiwis, cantaloupe, mango, and watermelon.”

According to this nutrition expert, one kiwi supplies a day’s worth of vitamin C and 1 medium melon (about 5” in diameter) contains large amounts of Vitamin C and Vitamin A.

This information was comforting to me as a parent because I knew I had some sort of a fallback option as we tried and tested different “hidden veggie” recipes.

Ways to Get Kids to Eat Vegetables in a Nutshell

Overall, finding ways to get kids to eat vegetables can be tricky. If your child is anything like mine, they’re a pretty tough customer. Don’t give up the fight though. Each meal may be the battle, but you will win the war! Use this list of the 6 ways to include more vegetables in your child’s diet. You can also rest a bit easier knowing that certain fruits can still provide much of the vitamins certain vegetables do. I wish you luck on your journey. Please let us know if you have found any other exciting ways to get kids to eat vegetables, so we can share them with other moms!

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With summer on the horizon, it’s time to start gearing up for water play with your child! Whether you’re going to the beach, the pool, the local splash pad or just having some fun in your own backyard, it’s important to be ready with all the necessities to make it an enjoyable experience for everyone.

For some moms, water play is how to survive during summer. Living in Arizona has its perks, but man is it hot. With temperatures getting up to 118 degrees, finding opportunities to incorporate water play into our everyday activities is a must.

So it’s no wonder why we started our son in swim classes as early as 3 months old. Looking for ways to cool down and pass the time during the day, pool time was the perfect option. But, as a new mom, I remember feeling pretty overwhelmed when it came time to figure out what my son needed to be comfortable with his surroundings. There was a lot of trial and error, which means I spent money a lot of things that I probably didn’t need. Also, it took time to figure out what items made water play easier on me too.

Now that my son is a toddler, water play has been amplified and includes a lot more toys and fun to keep him occupied. I also love that I still use a majority of the items I bought for him several months ago—making the money I spent worthwhile.

Below is a list of my most recommended baby and toddler water play products that parents everywhere should have ready for summer!

Reusable Swim Diaper

Reusable swim diapers are a popular option for babies and toddlers to use while playing in the water. They can be used over and over again (hence the name) and hold up better for long durations in water. After purchasing a couple different brands, I found the reusable swim diapers from Beau & Belle are the absolute best.

Made for children 8-36 lbs., Beau & Bell diapers are unique because they are covered in easy to use snap buttons that can be open and closed in order to adjust to your child’s growth and adapt with their bodies for months to come. That way, you don’t have to keep spending money on a new pair of swim diapers each time your child grows out of them, which will be often if you start water play at a young age!  The diapers are also reasonably priced for the quality you receive, and there are so many cute prints available.

Disposable Swim Diapers

If reusable diapers don’t seem like your thing or you want to double up for insurance purposes (I worried about an extra explosive diaper during swim lessons!), there are disposable options as well. We use Huggies Little Swimmers and have found them pretty useful. If you have a smaller baby, it may be hard to find some that fit, and thus, the reusable swim diaper I mentioned above may be your best option for water play. Also, reusable diapers may hold up better for a full day of beach and pool fun.

Babyganics Sunscreen


Looking for a safe sunscreen for your baby? Mom’s love Babyganics anything, and that goes for their mineral-based sunscreen. Perfect for water play or just a walk around the block. I use the spray form, but it’s not designed like regular sunscreen spray. I spray the sunscreen into my hand and smear it all over him. A little goes a long way. You can definitely feel the thickness on your own hands, but it works really well.

Check for deals on Amazon through their Subscribe & Save program or Target through the Cartwheel app.  To learn more about these programs, check out our post on how you can save on baby products.

UPF Protective Hat


If your child is going to be out in the sun, it’s important to protect their head and face as best as you can. Not only would it provide them with discomfort, exposure to harmful sun rays can have devastating effects later. One easy way to protect your child is this i play. Baby Flap Sun Protection Swim Hat. I love how the hat provides coverage to the sides of a child’s face. This hat can also be easily adjusted around a child’s cranium and tied secure under their chin. Warning, not all children will enjoy wearing hats. Ours fought it for awhile, but, as a toddler, has learned to accept the hat as part of his outdoor attire. The battle is worth the 50+ UPF protection this sun hat provides during water play.

UPF Protective Shirt/Rashguard


Similar to the hat, you want to have as much of your child’s body covered as possible when they spend long hours in the sun. This UPF Sun Protective Shirt from City Threads provides 50+ UPF, making coverage easy. With tons of colors and sizes to choose from, they also make your child look even cuter while splashing in the water. They are a pretty tight fit, so I would suggest one size larger so your child can grow into it.

Swim Floatie with UPF Protective Cover


Another option for UPF protective gear and a way to make water play easy for mom is to get a flotation device for your little one. We love the Baby Spring Float Sun Canopy! Its top has a UPF protective shield to keep baby and toddler safe from the sun’s rays and it’s easy to piece together before the pool. Your baby needs to be able to sit up unassisted before using this.

Baby Beach Pool


Beach trips are fun when you are baby free, but with a baby, it can complicate things. My husband and I used to lounge on the sand for hours and take a dip when needed, but life is not the same with a baby. We still want to enjoy the beach but needed to find a way to keep it enjoyable (and cool) for our son at the same time. To make it nice and comfortable for our son when he was younger we purchased the Monobeach Portable Baby Pool Tent. It’s basically a little tent with a space to add water to make a little mini beach for your child. It’s the perfect way to keep baby entertained while you soak up the sun! FYI We do find it was a little tricky to get back into the carrying case once you’ve taken it out.

Plastic Pool

Plastic pools are good for baby and even better for your toddler. Easy to fill-up, dump out, and can keep your children occupied for a bit while keeping everyone cool. Add some fun toys and get splashing. I use measuring cups as cheap toys for my son, and he loves them!

Why do I suggest a plastic pool over a cool blow-up one? Well, although the blow-up ones look really cool, they can easily get destroyed, especially if you have a large dog. The plastic ones are also cheaper, so if anything happens to it, it won’t be such a big deal.

This product is something you’ll need to get at your local grocery store, hardware store, or Target, as Amazon typically ships inflatable ones.

Mesh Beach/Pool Bag


Heading to the pool or the beach? Then, a giant bag is necessary! On our first couple trips to the pool, I found I was carrying a bag, towels, spare clothes, snacks, sunscreen, diapers, wipes, oh yeah, and my child! It’s a lot of stuff. That’s why I found one giant bag that could hold everything… except my baby (obviously!). I love all the compartments the Victus Mesh Tote Bag has to offer and also love the fact that it has perforated holes so a sand just falls out rather than getting trapped inside. Easy to shake everything off after a day at the beach.

Hooded Towel


Looking for a towel that’s perfect for your baby? Hooded Towels are a great option because they are practical and so so cute! After our first time at the pool, I realized that getting out of the water was the tough part for my son. He was cold (even though it was 80 degrees out!). Having this towel handy made it easy to quickly wrap him up and warm him up. Not a lot of fabric to mess with and easy to keep his head nice and toasty. Did I mention these towels are really cute?

Collapsible Wagon


Beach days are a lot of work even without a child. Lots of stuff to trek through the hot sand. Now imagine that with a baby or toddler! Double the stuff, and about triple the work. A wagon is the perfect thing to make it easy on parents wishing for water play down at the ocean.

Try this collapsible wagon with large wheels to withstand sand from Timber Ridge. I love that it’s easy to store when it’s not water play season, but can still be used for trips to the park, camping, or any other outings with your child that require lots of items.

Beach Tent/Umbrella


Recently, my husband and I went on a babymoon together and left our son at home. We rented an umbrella and some chairs to lounge beachside. After the day was done, we decided we never wanted to go to the beach again without an umbrella. Unfortunately, they can be a lot of work but would be worth it if you plan on spending a long period of time at the beach with your child. I like this beach tent as a potential option. It’s lightweight with windows on the sides to see out. I also love that it’s 50+ UPF protection from the sun’s rays. This would make a great option if you have a baby or toddler that may need to nap on the beach, but you don’t want to go all the way home to make it happen.

Another option is your standard beach umbrella. I haven’t used one with my son yet, so I cannot speak to a particular one that I like. There are several to choose from on Amazon. Keep in mind, you will need to make sure that umbrella is properly anchored into the sand, so it doesn’t fly away. This anchor seems to be popular and highly rated. Let me know if you have any other suggestions on this front.

Ready for Water Play With These 12 Products

With warm weather months ahead, it’s important to be prepared for water play with your little one. Whether it’s a trip to the pool, beach, or in your own backyard the various products to keep your baby and toddler safe and entertained are numerous. Use this list to help you get ready for some fun in the sun.

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