Do not rush to get into a new relationship. Take the time to figure out who you are. What do you want out of life now? Do you have goals?
You now have the time to do those things that you could not do before. Learn to ride a motorcycle or go travel or hang glide. The possibilities are endless.
Only when you have reached a space where you don’t need anyone else should you consider having a relationship with someone.
Do not forget the sacrifices that got you here. Do not give them up so easily.
To make the rules clear: right from the beginning!
One of the dumbest things I’ve ever heard was “spousal rape”. How is that even possible? It’s a wife’s duty to be sexually available to her husband any time he wants. That’s why he married her.
If your partner behaves like this woman, ABORT ABORT ABORT.