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How do positive life quotes influence Women to act as “doormats” towards men?

The outside world has quite a big impact on our behaviour. It even influences us to either act as “doormats“ or as high-value women towards men.

A while ago a friend of mine showed me a quote on social media which some of you might have already seen.
This quote stayed in my head for quite some time and really did drive me nuts!

The problem with it was that it was displayed in a very simple and in a „live in the moment“ type of way, which is quite an attractive way of thinking but almost downright wrong in the dating scene.

Now let’s imagine, your boyfriend has been mean or unkind to you in one way or the other and on top of that instead of saying sorry he has disappeared on you for a few days. He is giving you the „silent treatment“ hoping that you will come running after him even though he was the one who has done you wrong. You, on the other hand, are finding it really hard without hearing from him and feeling quite insecure about the whole situation.

You then go to social media and read the „amazing“ „Why complicate life“ Quote

and think to yourself – why don’t I just text him? Life is to short!
Therefore, you decide to text him to meet up or tell him that you miss him even though he has been mean to you and is giving you the cold shoulder…

Now the outcome of that is you are labelling yourself as a doormat and not as a high valued woman.(influenced by a positive life quote)

So ladies think before you speak and think twice before you act. Be careful and don’t let the media influence your love life the wrong way!

For more detailed information on Dating and Relationship Advice for women please check out my YouTube channel. I will be posting on my Blog every week for Dating and Relationship Advice for women. Keep your eyes open for it! Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy (I will only give you the advice that is good for you) and email your question to Greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055 Skype: Greta Bereisaite

xoxo
Greta

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The chase is undoubtedly one of the best parts of a relationship.  Unfortunately, in many cases when you and your man begin to settle down into a more serious relationship that feeling of being chased can begin to fade or in some cases disappear altogether.  That’s no fun for anyone and I’m here to help stop this from happening.So many women come to me asking how they get their boyfriend to chase them and in most cases, I have to tell them the same thing, let him.  It may seem odd at first but letting your man run free and trusting him to do the things he wants to do is the first step in getting him to regain his lust. 

At the early stages of the relationship, men will be much more inclined to let you know everything about their lives.  Questions about where he’s going or who he’s with are common and won’t be met with any resistance.  Once things start developing and those conversations become a regular occurrence it’s only natural that he’ll start to pull away and want to keep some things private.  This is a crucial point that can make or break in a happy relationship.

Once you start feeling that resistance, it’s time to let him spread his wings and have his privacy. 

 I’m not saying to deliberately ignore your boyfriend or treat him differently in any way, just give him the freedom that you know he wants.  Enjoy your time apart and you’ll be able to enjoy your time together so much more. When the questions stop coming and he feels comfortable he’ll be the one questioning you and you can enjoy that feeling of being chased again.  It should never be the job of one person in the relationship to pull and the other to push.

Being in a relationship is all about having fun and enjoying yourself whilst trusting your partner and enabling them to enjoy their lives even more with you by their side.

So take a break from being the hunter and enjoy being the hunted.

For more detailed information on Dating and Relationship Advice for women please check out my YouTube channel. I will be posting on my Blog every week for Dating and Relationship Advice for women. Keep your eyes open for it! Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy (I will only give you the advice that is good for you) and email your question to Greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055

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The Answer – Why Men Pull Away
So many women ask me “why do men pull away?” and want to know “how to get guys to like you?”. In so many scenarios I end up telling them that he very well may have already liked you and although he was pulling away, it didn’t need to be the end.

So, don’t panic and pour yourself another glass of wine. I’m here to give you some potential reasons as to why he might be pulling away and why you shouldn’t be freaking out about it.

Here are my three reasons why men pull away: 
Stress 
More often than not it (actually) isn’t your fault. Men can be under immense amounts of stress and although insane to us, they’ll keep that stress to themselves. In these cases, they may pull away from you but don’t worry, it isn’t because they don’t like you and is more so because they don’t like their current situation.
Too much time together 
The old saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder” is a saying for a reason. Sometimes men need time away from you to realise just how much they like you. If you’ve spent a lot of time together and suddenly it feels like he’s trying to pull away, let him. After they’ve done his own thing for a while they more often than not come back and are even more invested in the relationship.
Playing games 
In the early stages of a relationship, it’s hard to know how your partner will react to certain scenarios.

Men like to put women to the test and see what they’ll do if they stop answering calls, replying to texts and cancelling on dates. In this scenario, the best thing to do is play along and keep your cool. If you play your cards right you very well may end up with the upper hand. At the end of the day, you shouldn’t be worrying about why men pull away and just need to be happy with your situation and who you are as a person. Let men do their thing if need be to play their games and most importantly, don’t stress!

I will be posting on my Blog every week for Dating and Relationship Advice for women. Keep your eyes open for it!Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy (I will only give you the advice that is good for you) and email your question to Greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055

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What Do You Do When Your Man Is Unkind Or Rude To You?

Ladies – in this post I will give you a few tips on how to get a man to respect you ❤

Men want a woman who respects and values herself(a Woman of High Value) and not a girl who he can walk all over(Doormat). When a woman shows she can control her emotions, it shows a man that she does not have time to deal with being disrespected by him.

So, when you are in a situation where he has said something that upset you, it is best to acknowledge it and let it go. Examples of what you could say to acknowledge the situation would be: “I did not appreciate that”, “Excuse me?” or “That crossed a line”.

Keep what you say short and change the subject after you said it.  When you make it apparent that you don’t tolerate being disrespected yet you don’t nag about it(as you kept it short and direct) he will gain more respect for you and start thinking of ways not to lose you.

In a situation that is more serious, it is best to come up with an excuse and leave. Even though you didn’t say anything out loud to him, you showed him with your actions. That if he won’t respect you, you won’t stick around. Men respond to actions better than words.

Therefore if he wants to spend time with you he better be kind.

The key in here is do not go crazy by crying being upset or nagging. Make sure to control your emotions, and show him with your actions how to respect you by simply leaving the situation. Because you are a Woman Of High Value and have better things to do than spend time with someone who is disrespecting you.

Please watch my video for more detailed explanation x

How to Get A Man To Respect You? Why Is He Being Mean To Me? - YouTube

I will be posting on my Blog every week for Dating and Relationship Advice for women. Keep your eyes open for it!Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy (I will only give you the advice that is good for you) and email your question to Greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055

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At some point in every relationship, a switch flips. Casual dating transitions into serious dating and you begin thinking about the future. You look for signs from the dating gods and ask your friends for advice. But deep down you know that only you can determine the most nerve-wracking question of them all: Is he THE ONE?

It’s a completely normal question to ask yourself and, instead of working on gut instinct, there are plenty of things you can consider before making the ultimate commitment.

In order to assist you in figuring it out, I have compiled a list of the four features to examine to know if he’s the one…

1. Attraction

One of the most important things in a relationship is mutual attraction, but not in the way you might think.

When first setting out on your dating journey, it is vital to be physically attracted to a man. But that kind of attraction fades, or at the very least, develops and changes with time.

Attraction is better measured by the things that are more skin deep.

Men are much more than their appearances and they will only get you so far if you’re looking to build a meaningful life with someone.

Remember, marriage is (hopefully) a lifelong commitment.

That means that the right one will need to be able to meet your physical, mental, and spiritual needs.

2. Personality

It’s no secret that there are complementary personalities in addition to those that clash.

Often times couples have opposite personalities and it just works.

Equally common are relationships that seem good on paper or on dating websites, but which are mismatched in real life.

But even people deep enough into a relationship to consider marriage might be blind to a potentially poor mix.

If you find that you balance your partner’s positives and shortcomings, then you’re probably on the path to success.

If, however, your personalities just don’t click, it’s foolish to think that marriage will help matters.

3. Family

The trope of the mean (or evil) in-laws is so common that some believe that it’s inevitable.

This is a mistake, however.

Not only should you know your boyfriend’s parents well, you should also get along with them.

Getting along with your partner’s parents is almost as important as your relationship with him.

Although men don’t have the same relationship with their mother that you likely have, they still value and crave their approval.

Additionally, the ways in which your partner interacts with his family may be indicative of how he will interact with the one you create together.

4. Finances

Finally, there’s money.

It’s not everything, but in relationships, it can seem like it. Especially in times of stress.

In fact, money is the main stressor cited by people in failing marriages.

But I’m not advocating you only marry someone who is rich or has means.

What I am telling you is to ensure that you are on the same page about how money should be spent and how it will be shared once you’ve tied the knot.

It’s also important to keep an eye on how he spends money now.

Is he reckless or does he save? Does he understand the consequences of his spending or does he seem to indulge every time he wants something for himself?

These can be signs of financial issues to come.

Marriage is one of the biggest commitments you will make in your life.

Often times, if you believe that he’s the one, he probably is.

If, however, you have your doubts, it’s better to consider them now rather than some time in the future when it’s too late.

About the Author Pauline Plott is a London-based blogger who became a dating guru after learning the psychology behind modern romance and signing up for every dating website in pursuit of relationship bliss. She shares her reviews and opinions on DatingSpot.co.uk.

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 Ladies often say: I don’t want a guy who plays games! I won’t date any man who is playing games!

So here we go – WHY MEN LOVE PLAYING MIND GAMES?

As most of us know men and women are different. There is a reason I’m saying most of us know. Because I can’t even count how many times I had women telling me that there are no psychological differences between the sexes. So I will say it again WE ARE VERY DIFFERENT.

Not just what we look like. Our brains are wired differently as well not to mention the hormones etc…personally I believe that the reason for it is. We are designed in this world to compliment each other. And if not why are we not all the same gender then?

Anyway…

So why do men love playing mind games?

I blame it on the testosterone. Yup, a hormone. Think about the typical bloke types. What do they like? Sport? Football perhaps? Feeling on the edge of their seat, chasing, pursuing. Going for their goals and ambitions. Am I not convincing? Watch how a typical guy is watching the football match. He is up and down off his seat. Some don’t down. When the team wins they celebrate for days and even talk about some matches for years. When their team loses …Oh, gosh some men cry!

What is football? Surprise surprise it’s a GAME!

Now let’s look at the women. What do we enjoy? We enjoy caring, nurturing, feeling safe, sharing stories, talking about our feelings and emotions( for hours and hours and hours, the longer the better right?). Why is that? Because we have more of a hormone oestrogen in our body and we are just simply designed like that.

Now, where does the problem happen? The problem happens when we give men that we like what we enjoy. Without realising that it is not what he needs to adore you.

When you give a man too much caring, nurturing. When you talk about your feelings and emotions this is not what keeps him interested. In fact, that is what puts him off!

So what do we do now? How to give him what he enjoys? Simple. Give him what he loves- The Game and get what you love-The Safety in return.

How?

Become a Woman of High Value or in other words a Challenge. Let him chase you, let him pursue you. Don’t always be available. Control your emotions. Love yourself and put your goals first.

Sounds too hard? This is Love what we are talking about right? It should be easy…

Well, how many happy couples and marriages do you know? If love was so easy everyone would be happily married with 0 divorce rates right?

Love is not easy, yet it is possible and definitely worth the effort.

For more detailed information on Dating & Relationship Advice for Women. Please check out my YouTube Channel

I will be posting on my Blog every week full of Dating & Relationship Advice for Women. Keep your Eye’s open for it!

Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy ( I will only give you the advice which is good for you) and email me your question to greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055

Looking forward to hearing from you ladies! Lots of love xoxo

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 Female Empowerment in Dating & Relationships Night to Remember

Greta Bereisaite

@The Barge. London

19/08/2017

What Is a Woman of High-Value?

What Does He Mean When He Calls You ‘Crazy’?

What Does He Mean When He Calls You Crazy - My Event - YouTube

For more detailed information on Dating & Relationship Advice for Women. Please check out my YouTube Channel

I will be posting on my Blog every week full of Dating & Relationship Advice for Women. Keep your Eye’s open for it!

Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy ( I will only give you the advice which is good for you) and email me your question to greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055

Looking forward to hearing from you ladies! Lots of love xoxo

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Should I Trust My Man & Should I Show Him That I Trust Him?

So the fastest answer is YES!

Show him that you trust him by not checking in on him. By not controlling him, by not checking his phone, his social media. By letting him be and leaving all of that detective stuff out.

Why?

First, it is really unhealthy for you to act all ‘paranoid’ and check every move that he makes. It makes you look insecure, it is time-consuming, energy consuming and if you don’t trust him…Then why are you with him in a first place? I’m sure you have better things to do when running after him and checking his every step.

Second, when you show your man that you trust him it makes you look very confident and secure as a High-Value Woman. And at the same time, it makes him feel good. It makes him feel happy and worthy. As when a guy has his girls trust he is much less likely to cheat. Because he wants to do the honourable thing. But if you don’t trust him and if you show him that you don’t trust him. He will be like Oh…ok then…I might as well just cheat. I mean she does not trust me anyway so what is the point of being good?

For more detailed information on Dating & Relationship Advice for Women. Please check out my YouTube Channel

I will be posting on my Blog every week full of Dating & Relationship Advice for Women. Keep your Eye’s open for it!

Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy ( I will only give you the advice which is good for you) and email me your question to greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055

Looking forward to hearing from you ladies! Lots of love xoxo

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 Female Empowerment in Dating & Relationships Night to Remember

Greta Bereisaite

@The Barge. London

19/08/2017

What Is a Woman of High-Value?

What Does He Mean When He Calls You ‘Crazy’?

Why Men Love Playing Games?

What Does He Mean When He Calls You Crazy - My Event - YouTube

For more detailed information on Dating & Relationship Advice for Women. Please check out my YouTube Channel

I will be posting on my Blog every week full of Dating & Relationship Advice for Women. Keep your Eye’s open for it!

Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy ( I will only give you the advice which is good for you) and email me your question to greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055

Looking forward to hearing from you ladies! Lots of love xoxo

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