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So you just met this hot guy who just moved in across the street, he obviously likes you and has even asked you on a date this Friday. You really like this one, and so does your mom who would take anyone in provided he isn’t Tommy your ex. Even your dad who seldom displays any interest in your dating life seems to really like this accidental crush of yours. At the moment, everything is going great, except you really want to keep this one, this time.
A lot of things can turn a man off, especially in times when you are trying “desperately” to get him to like you. While turn offs are based mostly on the personal preferences of the man involved, there are some inaccurate generalizations by the female population which the majority of men abhor. Some of which I will discuss in detail as you move forward:
Now, this is number one for a reason, and I assure you there is not an atom of bias in placing this irritating habit in the top spot. While you might be able to get into a relationship with a habit like this, in the majority of cases, you end up alone after the elastic limit of your m
an has been reached. In all my years, as a human being, I have never met two men who put up with a nagging woman till the very end. Regardless of how tolerant he is, at some point, he’s going to try to avoid you, and it’s a downward spiral from then on. This doesn’t mean no one likes you if you are a chronic nagger, but to keep your man, you need to make efforts to show that you are not all about the nagging life. I can assure you, he knows you are making an effort, he just might not say it.
Playing candy crush on your mobile while talking:
This turns off not only a man, it turns off friends, acquaintances, Doctors, you name it. Perhaps you may think, he doesn’t notice you playing or chatting away on your cell phone while he’s trying to have a decent conversation with you. What you do not realize is that a larger percentage of human communication is nonverbal, and as such he notices the very moment your mind wanders off his boring gist about his mother’s incredible culinary skills. Perhaps that explains why he never called you after that first date. Whenever you are in a meeting, formal or informal put your phone on silent and keep it away, jeez!!! you humans are confused creatures I tell you confused.
Being a thot
Shocking right? well no, if all you can bring to the table is a vagina, then how are you better than the 3.7 billion women in the world? Ok, let’s say you have some mad acrobatic capabilities in bed and maybe you’re a goddess in the dominant role? Imagine the number 3.7 billion in contention, all having been born with similar capabilities. You need to bring something else to the table, you need to bring your smartness, you need to be intellectually sound, learn to play an instrument, sing a song, perform a surgery, join the army, ride a horse. Just don’t bring only a vagina to the table lest the fate of the man who put all his eggs in one basket befalls you.
The truth is that most men can smell a lie a mile away especially as most of them are incredible liars themselves, so quit trying to be who you are not. Stop trying to put up a facade just to impress a man. it shows a serious lack of self-worth and can be irritating, especially to the gentle, classical music listening, abs popping, muscle bobbling, handsome looking, 6 figures having a guy you may have been seeing in your dreams since the 6th grade. A caveat, however, is that being yourself and doing dumb stuff are divided by a very thin line. Being yourself doesn’t directly translating to screwing all the boys in your office because “yourself likes the D”. Being yourself means taking corrections and presenting a better you than yesterday.
5. Defending him physically
Now this one is confusing even for guys, but it sure holds true. Ever tried beating up your brother’s bully, especially your elder brother? Well, he didn’t display any signs of happiness, did he? Here’s why. Men are groomed to be providers and protectors, if you are protecting him from stuff he’s supposed to be protecting you from (mostly physical aggression), he’s going to feel bad, I guarantee it. It’s a weird wiring in the head of men, but it holds true. So even if you have a black belt in jujitsu, contain yourself until a time when it is absolutely necessary to kick ass, sensei says ***bows**
A Guest post reflecting on her friend’s relationship after she has been coached by me:
Should You Give Your All In A Relationship?
Hello ladies! I have an ongoing story that I would like to share with you.
A very good friend of mine has been in a relationship for the past 3 years. I know all of her ex’s and why her relationships didn’t work out before. She is now in a what she calls a „happy and healthy relationship“. Sadly in many cases, girls get blinded by love in their relationships. And don’t even notice how they start acting like doormats. They don’t notice how they put their partner first and neglect themselves.
So, back to the story… I see her regularly and for past three years have seen how she is throwing away all of her dreams and values. She is almost finished with University and is not thinking about where she is gonna work afterward, because she is- quote „going to depend on my boyfriend because he knows what best for me“. …Ladies you and only YOU know whats best for you. Because you know yourself best! Don’t let your man wrap you around his little finger and make you the puppet that he wants you to be. She always wanted to get married and then have children. This was very important to her. Now she just wants to have children and sees marriage as just a piece of paper. Sadly all of these views are not her views but her boyfriend’s views. She has lost or better say thrown away her opinion and values. Probably not even knowingly. She is so manipulated that she does not even see her mistakes. Love makes us blind!
Story to be continued…
But for now ladies, please do not forget your goals, your life values and important people in your life. Stay true to yourself! Be who you want to be! Reach your goals and ambitions! Your love should be supportive of this and not try to change who you are or how you see the world. If you don’t respect yourself your partner won’t either, and such relationships are sadly bound to doom.
What is the most attractive characteristic for men in women? What attracts men most? What gets men interested? And finally, what can I do to get his respect?
Well, ladies, all their questions have one thing in common, they all depend on you and the way you act toward your man.
Let me explain:
During the first steps of the relationship when the girl is still getting to know the guy, she talks to him about her ambitions, her goals. She tells him her opinion on different topics, just like she would do with anyone else.
After a while, the girl really starts liking the guy and she basically stops being herself. She starts treating him as if he is the most important person in her life and does not speak her mind as much as she used to. She starts agreeing with him more than usual and is pretty much is not being herself. Since she likes the guy so much she ends up being scared that he might leave her. She tries to be perfect for him and basically agrees with him on everything he is saying. She thinks that this might bring them together, sadly this is doing the complete opposite.
The fact is girls, guys will like you more for speaking your mind even if they don’t agree with you. They will respect you more if you aren’t afraid to say what you think or to tell him your opinion. And through this, you will grow more in your relationship.
Just imagine that the person you were dating would always agree with you, order the same food as you, never have a different opinion. Don’t you think that would just be boring, well you are right it would!
Now that we have mentioned Dating and food, let’s take a look at this scenario.
Let’s say you have been dating a guy for a while now. You really like him and have a date at a restaurant. He picks up the menu and decides on what he wants to eat. When you are asked what you would like to eat you simply reply with „I’ll take whatever you are taking“.
This is one of the simplest scenarios yet extremely important. By making simple decisions like picking out what you would like to eat, or by picking out a movie that you would like to watch at the cinema, you show the guy that you have your own opinion and know what you want.
You are basically being yourself, and are not making any adjustments simply because you like the guy.
This ladies has to be done from the start of the relationship and never changed! From going to a restaurant to going on vacation, just be yourself and voice your opinion, your man will love you for that.
For more detailed information on Dating and Relationship Advice for women please check out my YouTube channel. I will be posting on my Blog every week for Dating and Relationship Advice for women. Keep your eyes open for it! Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy (I will only give you the advice that is good for you) and email your question to Greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055 Skype: Greta Bereisaite
The chase is undoubtedly one of the best parts of a relationship. Unfortunately, in many cases when you and your man begin to settle down into a more serious relationship that feeling of being chased can begin to fade or in some cases disappear altogether. That’s no fun for anyone and I’m here to help stop this from happening.So many women come to me asking how they get their boyfriend to chase them and in most cases, I have to tell them the same thing, let him. It may seem odd at first but letting your man run free and trusting him to do the things he wants to do is the first step in getting him to regain his lust.
At the early stages of the relationship, men will be much more inclined to let you know everything about their lives. Questions about where he’s going or who he’s with are common and won’t be met with any resistance. Once things start developing and those conversations become a regular occurrence it’s only natural that he’ll start to pull away and want to keep some things private. This is a crucial point that can make or break in a happy relationship.
Once you start feeling that resistance, it’s time to let him spread his wings and have his privacy.
I’m not saying to deliberately ignore your boyfriend or treat him differently in any way, just give him the freedom that you know he wants. Enjoy your time apart and you’ll be able to enjoy your time together so much more. When the questions stop coming and he feels comfortable he’ll be the one questioning you and you can enjoy that feeling of being chased again. It should never be the job of one person in the relationship to pull and the other to push.
Being in a relationship is all about having fun and enjoying yourself whilst trusting your partner and enabling them to enjoy their lives even more with you by their side.
So take a break from being the hunter and enjoy being the hunted.
For more detailed information on Dating and Relationship Advice for women please check out my YouTube channel. I will be posting on my Blog every week for Dating and Relationship Advice for women. Keep your eyes open for it! Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy (I will only give you the advice that is good for you) and email your question to Greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055
What Do You Do When Your Man Is Unkind Or Rude To You?
Ladies – in this post I will give you a few tips on how to get a man to respect you
Men want a woman who respects and values herself(a Woman of High Value) and not a girl who he can walk all over(Doormat). When a woman shows she can control her emotions, it shows a man that she does not have time to deal with being disrespected by him.
So, when you are in a situation where he has said something that upset you, it is best to acknowledge it and let it go. Examples of what you could say to acknowledge the situation would be: “I did not appreciate that”, “Excuse me?” or “That crossed a line”.
Keep what you say short and change the subject after you said it. When you make it apparent that you don’t tolerate being disrespected yet you don’t nag about it(as you kept it short and direct) he will gain more respect for you and start thinking of ways not to lose you.
In a situationthat is more serious, it is best to come up with an excuse and leave. Even though you didn’t say anything out loud to him, you showed him with your actions. That if he won’t respect you, you won’t stick around. Men respond to actions better than words.
Therefore if he wants to spend time with you he better be kind.
The key in here is do not go crazy by crying being upset or nagging. Make sure to control your emotions, and show him with your actions how to respect you by simply leaving the situation. Because you are a Woman Of High Value and have better things to do than spend time with someone who is disrespecting you.
Please watch my video for more detailed explanation x
How to Get A Man To Respect You? Why Is He Being Mean To Me? - YouTube
I will be posting on my Blog every week for Dating and Relationship Advice for women. Keep your eyes open for it!Also, the first Advice/Consultation with me is completely free, so don’t be shy (I will only give you the advice that is good for you) and email your question to Greta@ladiesrelationshipcoach.com or WhatsApp me +447702196055