My name is Kristi Cathey and I’m glad you found your way to my blog. I am a mother of 3 beautiful angels. This blog was created in order to share my personal experiences in baby care and general health care for pregnant women.
For those parents-to-be who already know the gender of their baby, it can seem much easier to choose the right colour scheme. On the other side of things, the parents who are leaving the gender as a surprise, it can be a bit trickier to settle on that perfect colour palette. For those who don’t know, picking gender neutral shades usually work best.
It used to be that yellow was that gender neutral shade that all expectant parents would pick, but times have changed and yellow is no longer the only option. Soft shades of green, lilac, purple, blue, and even grey can work in any baby’s room. What you can do is leave the accessories until the baby is born and then use those as the pops of colour that fit their gender and personality if you want.
Let the Colour Scheme Flow Through the Furniture as Well
Nursery furniture has also come a long way in terms of modernisation. Where white furniture went through a huge moment within the last decade, now things have really opened up and you’ll find nursery furniture sets in a wide range of colours and finishes. One of the trendiest colours of the moment is a soft dove grey. Not only does it look modern, but it also works with both genders.
Some parents are choosing to let the furniture be the focal point in the room now too by choosing bright bold shades of blue, pink, yellow, or even a dark wood. If you pick a bold furniture colour, just be sure to balance it out with a soft neutral colour on the walls.
Remember the Colour Scheme Has to Make Sense for a Few Years
Another tip to remember is that you aren't just decorating a baby's room, you are in fact decorating a child's room. Unless you plan on redecorating yearly, it's wise to think of the long-term. Will that colour palette work as they get a bit older? Fresh colours like cool minty greens, coral and even navy can work as long-term colours that you can update through the accents in the room.
A Room Your Baby Will Love
Picking the colour scheme for your baby’s room and spending the time to think it through will give them a room they not only enjoy as a baby but as they grow.
As a mother, a pacifier is probably one of your greatest baby care products. It soothes babies nicely to sleep, reduces chances of SIDS knocking at your baby’s doorstep and generally keeps the baby calm as you do some stuff.
When it comes to pacifier or binky use, I used to hear a lot of stories of how it would be hard to wean the baby off it, and I guess most of you heard the stories too. But not much was said of how to get the baby to use the binky in the first place if she refused it.
The latter scenario always gets mothers worried since the pacifier has a way of making life a lot easier, mostly for those of us who breastfeed. To help you out, I have prepared this article on what to do if your baby will not take a pacifier. There are also some tips on how to make her take it if you feel it is such a big deal.
Who Else Wants To Know Why The Baby Won't Take The Pacifier?
Most babies tend to switch between breastfeeding and using a pacifier effortlessly. This statement is not a rule of thumbs as there are some exemptions. When it comes to parenting, I have learned that babies can be very different from one another (haven’t you?).
There are reasons why some babies spit out the lovely pacifier that you have just bought, at the first instant of putting it into her mouth. Because of the babies’ urge to suck, you would ordinarily think that your baby would welcome anything that can be sucked. This is why you would find it confusing for your baby to refuse to take a pacifier.
A breastfed baby (bottle fed babies should be just fine) are likely to spit out the pacifier because of:
Some babies find the synthetic feel of pacifiers strange in their mouth. And since they are human after all, their instincts tell them to spit them at the first instant.
No milk drips from the pacifiers. Breastfed babies always associate sucking with milk, so when there is something that feels like your nipples that doesn’t let out any milk, it becomes of no use to them.
He just doesn’t like it. When you have been letting your baby breastfeed until he falls asleep, he may find it hard to use the pacifier as a substitute.
What Do You Do If The Baby Will Not Take A Pacifier?
Teaching a baby to embrace a pacifier can be a very frustrating affair. Your desperation might go overboard, but it is good to calm down and not to give up. While you are at it, there is no harm in trying out the following.
1. Let Someone Else Try Giving the Pacifier
How simple can this be? Your baby might look newborn to you, but trust me, she is really smart. After all, she is mommy’s girl, right? She is smart enough to know it’s you from the smell in the room. And once she figures out it is her mommy, she expects nothing less than natural nipples and not synthetic ones.
Therefore, if you try giving her the pacifier and she refuses it, you can have your spouse do it instead, or someone else.
2. Patience Is Key
If your baby refuses the pacifier after several attempts, let them be. Shoving the binky down her throat will not get you the desired results. On the contrary, your desperation may make the baby upset, and that won’t end well.
The best strategy is to adopt the “wait and see” approach. Sometimes what the baby needs is just a little time. If you see your baby trying to put things into her mouth (not a good idea), then you can throw a pacifier into the mix.
3. Sweeten the Deal
Has your baby ever refused your nipples? I guess not. This attitude of not refusing milk from mommy is because your breasts have a certain taste/feel or smell that is irreplaceable. Even the latex, silicone or rubber pacifier nipple cannot replace that.
What you can do is add drops of the ever-delicious breast milk on to the binky before giving it to the baby. Chances of the pacifier coming out in seconds are therefore greatly reduced.
4. Make the Timing Right
Babies may refuse to take a pacifier when it is given to them at the wrong time. Like, let’s say when she is hungry, she will not take it at all. If you notice the normal hunger cues such as finger sucking, then don’t introduce the pacifier at that time.
First of all, start the process of teaching the baby pacifier use after 4 or 6 weeks when breastfeeding is well established. Then, try to give the baby the pacifier when she is almost going to sleep, and not during a breastfeeding session.
5. Try Different Pacifier Shapes
These pacifiers are made with different shapes for a reason, don’t you think? If you find that your baby will not take the first shape, try the next, and so on. You will likely find a shape that your baby will like straight away.
Of the shapes, the two most common ones are the normal round one and the other orthodontic shaped one. Try each shape for about two days straight, and if she still spits it out, try the other one.
6. Mind the Temperature of The Pacifier
If you keenly note the “things” your baby likes sucking, you will notice that they are not always cold. Your nipples and his fingers are normally at the body’s temperatures of about 37 degrees and do not qualify as being cold.
When you, therefore, give your cute little one a cold pacifier, she rejects it since she is not used to having such cold temperatures in her mouth. First warm the pacifier by letting tap water run over it, or warm it in mildly warm water. Ensure all the water is squeezed out before giving it to the baby.
7. Limit Non-Nutritive Sucking
If you are keen, you may notice that at some point when breastfeeding your baby, she sucks without swallowing any milk. This situation occurs when you hear no swallowing sounds, and that is what is meant by the term “No-Nutritive Sucking.”
She only sucks for the joy (fun) of it. This makes your breasts her natural pacifiers, and babies would fall asleep when they have had enough joy for the day. A simple solution would be to start breastfeeding and then switch to the pacifier after a while.
8. Tap the Pacifier a Bit
Here is one of the many stories I have heard, although I am yet actually to try it out. Some parents say that if your baby is refusing the pacifier, then you can try tapping it gently with your fingernail.
Another trick that seems to work is shaking the binky just gently while in the baby’s mouth. What these actions do is trigger the baby’s sucking instinct, leading to them embracing the pacifier idea.
The use of pacifiers has its pros outweighing the cons, but some babies do not readily accept it at the first attempt. This is where these tips come in handy.
When using the pacifier, always remember to start when breastfeeding has been well established. The baby, in turn, does not become nipple confused. On the other hand, remember to start weaning off the baby from using the pacifier early so that it doesn’t become a problem later in the baby’s life.
As your baby grows, his desire to play grows too. Satisfying his insatiable need for play, therefore, requires that you avail him a variety of toys. This is so that the little one is always kept occupied when you as the parents perform different chores around the house.
One of the kids’ all-time favorite toys is balls. From the time kids learn to hold objects in their tiny hands, a softball is one of the first toys they can never resist. With these toys, you can even sweeten the deal by finding those with sounds and music.
Besides having fun, balls form a good impetus for your child to develop his fine motor skills. Also, as your child achieves the crawling and rolling milestone, playing with balls encourages them to do so as they knock and fetch the balls. This helps them to master how to crawl and roll faster than other kids who don’t have softballs as their toys.
With these benefits, you should take adequate time to do thorough research before you settle on a specific one. Well, I know time is something you do not always have, so I have made life somehow easier for you by compiling this guide on buying softballs for babies. Included is also a review of some of the best softballs for babies in the market.
Softballs are some of the most affordable toys on the market that you can get for your baby. These are therefore a cheap way of providing your baby with the benefits that come with playtime. Additionally, softballs can be introduced early as soon as the kids can use their hands.
1. Bonding and Learning Cause and Effect
Babies gravitate towards objects that roll on the ground, more so when they start to sit. The continuous movements of balls are another great fascination to babies. When playing, your baby learns to control the movement of something else which is the softball, apart from their usual movements.
As the two of you roll the softballs back and forth, a social bond between baby and parent is created. This type of bond is critical as the baby learns to socialize with those around him. Such a bond also gives you two (three) quality time together.
Another benefit of rolling the ball is that it teaches the baby the basics of cause and effect. He learns that every action (knocking the ball) has a consequence (the ball rolls). Other ball abilities the baby will soon learn are rolling, bouncing, tossing, dropping and kicking.
2. Development of Essential Skills
Playing with softballs involves throwing, kicking, dribbling, rolling and catching of the balls. It is these activities that improve his timing, motor skills, and eye-hand coordination. These developmental progressions are important for your baby’s overall well-being.
It is these types of skills that come in handy as your toddler transitions from normal and independent play to competitive and collaborative play. As your kid develops, he will need to learn to share stuff, follow the rules, be social and negotiate. Playing with softballs lays the foundation for all these.
How to Choose the Right Soft Ball
Being able to choose the best toys for your baby is not as simple as most people think it is. There are so many factors..
A significant incident, especially a traumatizing one like an auto accident can scare anyone - especially a child. A child who gets involved in a car accident not only gets injured during the incident, but would also see their mom, dad, or anyone taking care of them gets hurt as well. They will see that even the strongest people they know are hurt, which can be demoralizing for someone at that age. Thus, since your child’s survival has been threatened, it can turn his/her world upside down. This is why your child needs more attention if he/she have been involved in a car accident than adults.
As a parent, you do your best to make sure that your child is safe no matter what. But what about when your child gets injured? It can hurt you more than it has hurt your child, and it can be more devastating when you don’t know how to deal with an emotionally traumatized child. While you can’t do anything that can prepare your little angel beforehand, you can still help your child cope with an auto accident injury.
How To Help A Child Cope With An Auto Accident Injury
Your Child’s Behaviors That You Should Watch Out For
A child who has been involved in a car accident may end up showing certain emotional signs that indicate that they’re having difficulty in dealing with it. He/she would also be more traumatized if he/she witnessed someone much older than him/her get severely injured or gets killed.
Children who are five years old or under at that age are innocent and pure. However, once he/she gets traumatized, that can be very damaging. These are the behavioral changes that you have to watch out for if your child is five years old and under:
Relapses on his/her behavior
Sucking on his/her thumb
Peeing on his/her bed
Being afraid of the dark
Have separation anxiety
Being clingy to you, your spouse, or child’s caregiver excessively
Children who are six to eleven years have more understanding than children younger. However, certain things can be difficult to understand even for an adult. This is why you should watch out for these behavioral changes for your six to eleven years old child:
Becoming suddenly disruptive
Extremely socially withdrawing from other people and even their friends
Having difficulties in paying attention
Having difficulties in sleeping and having nightmares
Sudden problems at school
Physical symptoms such as headaches or stomach aches without cause
Getting angry for no reason
Changes in his/her appetite
Children who are twelve years and up are often more independent than others. They tend to think that they can handle almost anything. However, you as a parent already know that this is not, this is why you should still pay attention to your teenager. You should watch out for these behavioral changes in your twelve to seventeen years old child:
Problems with his/her friends
A sudden decline in his/her studies
Increase in taking risk or doing risky behavior
Skipping school for no reason
Having suicidal thoughts and depression
Having difficulties falling asleep or waking up at random times of the night
Having unexplainable physical symptoms
Getting furious without a reason
Crying more than necessary
Changes in his/her diet
How To Help A Child Cope With An Auto Accident Injury
It can be challenging to know what to do to help a child cope with the trauma he/she feeling and physical he/she is dealing with. However, some steps can be helpful in helping your kid with this traumatic experience.
1. Name his/her fears with facts.
When your child is already ready to hear, slowly talk about the details of the incident and his/her injuries. Why? You may think that it would only scare him/her, which can be counterintuitive on your part as a parent as you want to protect them from feeling any amount of fear. But talking about incidents like these in a way that shows everything in the right light will help your child normalize the accident. It will also help him/her remover any overwhelming emotions. You should never indulge your child in dramatic languages because it’s healthier to stick to the facts.
2. Construct a plan to calm him/her down.
Most of the time, your kid would feel intense feelings of fear after the accident. He/she could be afraid to get back in your vehicle again. If this keeps happening, you can:
Get him/her reacquainted him/her by going on short trips to familiar places
Remind him/her of the destination and the memories you’ve had on your trips there
Frequently go to pleasant places such as ice cream shops or the beach to create pleasant memories of riding in a vehicle
Have comforting stuff such as a pillow or blanket within your vehicle
Doing these things may help your child look forward to the future and forget about the past.
3. When you’re talking to your child about the crash, emphasize the word accident.
If someone else has been injured or has died, especially if that someone is close to you and your family, your child may experience anger or guilt. Your child may even feel that he/she has something to with that and may be angry with himself/herself. He/she may also think that he/she could have prevented the injury or death and could end up blaming himself/herself.
When you see that your kid is going through this, make sure that he/she knows that it was an accident. He/she should know that nobody expected that to happen, and no one could ever prevent what happened. You should emphasize the word accident, and make him/her understand and never forget that.
4. You should help your child focus on the things that you should be thankful for.
A traumatizing event like an auto accident is never a good experience. This is when you should allow your child to talk about it. However, you should also remind him/her that there’s always a rainbow after the rain. You should help him/her focus on the positive that you and your family should be thankful for. You can thank that:
If nobody died, you and your family are still together, alive and well
If nobody got disabled, that all of you are still whole in a sense
You and your family can start a new leaf
Everyone gets back to their healthy lives again
Even with injuries, you’re still able to heal
5. You should re-establish a routine in your lives.
One of the best ways to forget about the accident is to get back to your regular routines. If your child has difficulties in coping with the accident and his/her injury, help him/her get back on his/her daily routine. Having a habit will help your kid in getting stability and be able to feel safe and loved again.
6. When communicating with your child, learn to listen and read between the lines.
You may feel that your child does not fully understand the situation and the effects of the trauma they’re going through. However, this may not be entirely true. You as a parent should prepare yourself to listen to your kid’s complaints and concerns regarding the accident. It can help your child to recover fast from his/her physical and emotional injuries if you take time to listen to him/her and hear out what he/she is trying to say.
7. Take time to learn and understand PTSD in children.
It’s vital as a parent for you to know that even a child can develop PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). Even if most children can recover from a traumatizing event, there’s still a tendency that your child won’t. If you think that your child is suffering flashbacks, anxiousness, and nightmares, he/she may be suffering from PTSD.
When your kid has PTSD, it’s essential that you tell him/her that he/she is not going insane and it’s perfectly reasonable. You should also be prepared that he/she may not recover with the aid of a professional. Don’t be afraid to ask for help as that might be what your child needs.
See A Doctor And A Lawyer
A doctor will be able to see if your child has any underlying injury and adequately diagnose. He/she would also be able to give the proper treatment to your child. This prevents any further emotional and physical damage.
A lawyer, like the ones here, will be able to help you recover compensation for you and your child’s damages regarding the physical and emotional injuries. Your lawyer will be able to help you take the necessary legal actions. You will be able to get justice for the pain and suffering that your child is going through and may be able to put the culprit behind bars.
Dianna Charles is a promising young law enthusiast that hopes to bring her youthful spirit in her field. She tries to add a refreshing modern take to topics on the legal world that people can learn from. Dianna enjoys her free time with friends and family, and loves to cook for them.
In most vehicle accidents, people are caught unaware. You and your family may have felt that you're powerless during the situation or have been unprepared for the incident.
You’ll feel emotional and physical pain, which naturally makes sense after getting involved in a horrifying event like a car accident. No one can quickly heal from it, and it can take weeks, months or even years before anyone can ever fully recover.
However, there are times that your family wants to seem healthy for you; put up an act and be brave. This is why you should be wary of your family after getting involved in a traumatizing event.
7 Essential Tips For Safe Driving With Your Kids In Car
When you and your family become part of a severe car accident, most of the time you’ll find out that it can be quite difficult getting over your feelings of stress. You may think that healing from your emotional problems will be easy; maybe a night of sleep would cure it or hanging with family and friends can help you forget.
However, this can be more damaging. This is why you should watch out for emotional signs in your family.
1. You should watch out if your spouse or children are upset, in denial, or shocked after the accident.
A lot of people experience being in shock after a vehicle crash. It can immediately manifest itself or could even take days or weeks to show up. The shock feels different for each person. However, the common symptoms that you can watch out for are:
Feeling of numbness
Being in constant emotional distress
Continuously feeling scared even if the accident is long over
Having extreme mood swings
You and your family may also experience shock even if none of you were driving the vehicle when the accident occurred. It can manifest to anyone; it can happen:
To a passenger
To a pedestrian who has walked by
Even to a person who has observed the accident from a nearby establishment or vehicle
2. You should watch out if your spouse or children are furious, gets irritated, or keeps getting agitated.
After the incident, you or anyone who was driving the vehicle can feel angry towards the other driver. It won’t matter even if the fault is yours or not. Also, the passengers in the car such as your kids could feel angry at the drivers that have been part of the accident. If this happens, it would then be easy to take out any fury that you or your family feels to anyone around you, mainly if your feelings of rage, irritation, and agitation are prolonged. These feelings are well-founded; however, you should look out for them before you or anyone in your family start acting on them.
This can be very difficult if you’re dealing with a teenager who has been part of a car accident. They usually tend not to want their parents’ support and may even be furious at everyone in their family. If this happens, you can let them talk to their friends for a while. However, you should never close your lines of communication and never forget to keep reminding them that you’re there for them.
3. You should watch out if your spouse or children are feeling self-condemnation, degradation, or blaming themselves.
Guilt, shame, and self-blame in your family can easily occur when someone has been seriously injured or has died in the accident. If you, your spouse, or your legal aged child has been driving the vehicle, you and they are highly susceptible to these feelings. Why? You and your family are susceptible because you may feel that you could have prevented the injury or death from happening.
If anyone in your family has been part of the crash or has witnessed it happen, they can also feel guilt, shame, and self- blame, especially if they think that they could have done something to:
Prevent the accident, injury, or death from occurring
Helped anyone injured
Called for aid sooner
You should remind yourself, your lifetime partner, and your children that these expectations are not realistic, and you shouldn’t be beating up yourself over them.
4. You should watch out if your spouse or children is feeling restless, troubled, and dread.
Getting involved in an accident that could have resulted in you or your family’s demise could make anyone rethink their lives. It would make anyone, even the bravest of the brave, to question their mortality. You and your family may be feeling this, especially for someone like you who is a parent and has a family to look after too. You and your spouse might be feeling worried what would happen to your kids if you both died. Your children would also be feeling anxious about the prospect of dying; what about their dreams, their aspirations, and their plans in life.
It may not immediately show, but you can check if someone in your family is worrying if they are:
Having trouble sleeping
Unable to relax even for a couple of minutes
Having difficulties in concentrating
Avoiding deep conversations
Feeling helpless even with the simplest of task
Feeling irritated for no reason
Feeling lifeless even when the best of times
Keeping themselves too busy
Usually in deep thoughts
What To Watch Out For Physically
After getting involved in a vehicle accident, a lot of people never realized that they had been physically injured. This may also happen to you and your family. You may not see any fracture or laceration in them, but they may be silently suffering some physical damages that could lead to something worse. Even if you and your family walked away without a scratch, you should still watch out for physical signs in your family.
1. You should watch out if your spouse or children keep getting headaches.
Headaches are common after getting involved in a car accident. The pain may not be as serious as other physical pain that you and your family feel, however, they shouldn’t be ignored.
A headache can be a sign of:
A blood clot in your brain
Injury to your neck
Damage to your head
A serious concussion
2. You should watch out if your spouse or children have pain or stiffness in their necks and shoulders.
There are a lot of times that people who get involved in a severe car accident don’t realize that they have experienced whiplash. You and your family may also be suffering from the same symptom. Whiplash is one of the oldest delayed symptoms a person can experience.
You should check your family if any of them are feeling pain or stiffness in the upper area of their body as it may be a sign of whiplash. You should do so especially on people who have been sitting near the rear of your vehicle.
If you think that you or your family suffered whiplash, you can get checked through:
3. You should watch out if your spouse or children are feeling pain in their backs.
You or your spouse may be ignoring your back pain and think of it was a result of working too hard. However, if you have been involved in an accident, it may be a result of an injury to back muscles, nerves or ligaments, or maybe something worse like damage to your vertebrae.
You should watch out if your spouse or children have pain or swelling in their abdominal area.
One of the most ignored injury after an accident is abdominal pain or swelling. You should watch out for signs such as:
You should take action immediately if anyone in your family feels one of these things as abdominal pain is usually a sign of internal bleeding, which can be life-threatening if not properly treated.
4. You should watch out if your spouse or children are feeling numb in any part of their body.
Numbness can be an indication of injury resulting from whiplash. If you, your lifetime partner, or your kids have loss of feeling in your limbs such as your hands and arms, make sure to get them checked immediately. This numbness may be a result of damage to your spinal column or the neck.
At The End Of The Day, As A Loving Parent and Spouse
It’s always the best option for you to get checked by medical experts after you and your family have been involved in a vehicle accident. If you, your spouse, or children feel any of these symptoms, or if you’ve observed that they may be silently suffering these, visit a doctor or psychologist immediately. The doctor and psychologist will be able to diagnose the problem and properly treat it.
If you’re looking to file a lawsuit against the person responsible for bringing this pain to your family, make sure to get in touch with a reliable lawyer immediately. The lawyer will help take legal actions that can help you get justice. Click here to find a lawyer that may help.
Vicki is a law writing enthusiast who's had over 25 years of experience in her field. She enjoys sharing her experiences with those who want to learn more about the legal world. In her spare time she spends quality time with her family and friends.
Travelling with children can be fun for most people. However, it can also be pretty much taxing. When driving with your kids, you want to do everything possible to ensure that they are safe. Although it is a requirement that all cars be equipped with safety belts, when you are driving with your kids, you still need to be extra careful.
As a driver, you must be aware that the road can be such a nasty place. Ensuring your children’s safety whenever they are travelling with you should, therefore, be a top priority.
Here are some important child safety driving tips you should adhere to whenever you drive with your kids in the car.
7 Essential Tips For Safe Driving With Your Kids In Car
The absence of the right type of car seats for your children can pose a great danger. When installing car seats for your children, you have to choose car seats that suit your children’s age and measurements.
Different countries have different directives on how baby car seats should be installed and used. You should, therefore, make sure that you adhere to all the regulations.
Buckle Up Your Kids
This is a very simple task. However, it is very easy to forget to buckle your kids. As a parent, you must never forget to buckle up your kids. This is because if your kids are not buckled up while you are driving with them, then all the boosters and car seats will come down to nothing.
Making sure that your kids use seat belts is one of the handiest tips that will help you drive safely with your kids.
Seat Your Kids at the Right Place
It is a rule that any child who is below the age of 12 years must always ride in the back seat. If your child is also under the weight and height of an average 12 years old, then she must also ride in the back seat.
This child safety driving advice for parents is an extremely important one and should never be ignored. Your children should ride in the back by all means.
All luggages in your car while you are driving with your kids should always be secured. Always ensure that there are no projectiles or heavy objects on the shelves that are found behind the rear seats.
Even light objects should never be stashed behind the kids’ seats. This is because in case you apply the car brakes abruptly, these objects can cause injuries to your kids as they can fall directly onto your kids.
You should also use cargo anchors to hold heavy objects in the boot securely. Avoid piling up things in the boot as they are likely to fly forward in case of an accident and cause further damages.
Be Attentive to Avoid Distractions
Believe it or not, distracted driving is the leading cause of accidents on our roads. The biggest cause of distraction to drivers is using their mobile phones while on the wheel. Whether you are driving with or without your kids, you should never use your phone while on the road. If you feel like you must make an important call, then it is advisable to pull over.
When driving and you have your kids in the car, any form of distraction will be far more dangerous than otherwise. In this century, smart phones have become dearer than life. This tip is, therefore, the most important tip of the century.
Visual distractions can also cause accidents. These include things like reading the newspaper while driving, fixing your makeup or changing the stations while driving.
Never Leave Your Children Alone in the Car
It is very dangerous to leave your kids alone in the car. This is because in case another car hits your vehicle, your kids will be helpless. Your kids can also suffer from the heatstroke in your car.
There have been instances where kids who have been left alone in closed cars have died from heat strokes. You should also avoid leaving your kids alone around anybody else’s car either. Your kids could come into contact with the exhaust or the hot bonnet and get hurt.
This is also a very important driving tip. Driving defensively means that you have to be aware of what the other drivers around you are doing. You should also expect the unexpected. You should always assume that other motorists might do something crazy. This will make you always prepared to avoid anything.
There you have it on driving safely with your kids on board. You should ensure that you take these tips regarding your children’s safety when driving and be ready to implement them. These tips will help to keep you and your kids safe whenever you are travelling together in your car.
Schema refers to the cognitive-based concept that helps a child in organizing and interpreting information. A schema can also refer to patterns of behavior that your child may demonstrate when they’re playing, learning and engaging the world.
If you encourage your child to explore and practice schemas, they will become knowledgeable about their surroundings and more academically inclined. This will also keep your kids fresh on the concepts that were presented in school.
To build and improve your child’s schema, constant support and an ongoing commitment to their learning and development is crucial. That’s why spring break is a great time to build their ways of learning and exploration.
By enrolling your child in a spring camp, you are helping them learn subtraction and addition terms,simple integrals, and other pieces of information that are important for their academic growth. The STEM Spring Camp by Premier Genie, a reputable learning center in Dubai, can be your best option.
Spring Camps and Other Ways to Build Your Child’s Schema
STEM Spring Camps and Building Your Child’s Schema
STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math) camps will engage your child in new experience this spring break. In these camps, kids will collaborate, create, explore and imagine while acquiring STEM skills that can help them not just in school but in life as well.
STEM spring camps are meant to be interactive and fun. Some of the focus subjects or areas these camps are:
English creative writing
Competitive test preparation
Some camps have group dynamics; thus, your child can make new friends. These camps will also help your child stay ahead in academics because your child will be prepared for the coming year.
Here are other learning programs included in these camps:
In a robotics camp, your child can learn how to build as well as program various robots with Lego bricks and high-quality software.Lego WeDo tutorial, for instance, can provide your kids the opportunity to bring their Lego creations to life. Every theme-based session will motivate imagination and creativity as they brainstorm, construct, and experiment with robots.
In an engineering camp, your child will turn into real engineers because this involves designing, evaluating and renovating machines and structures. Creations may be based on real-life structures from all around the world and can get even more amazing with your child’s imagination and creativity. Each project has a different theme to spark thoughts and turn skill-building and problem solving into a fun, enjoyable game.
In an aeromodelling camp, your child can get a glimpse into the world of airplanes, drones and space exploration technologies. Their practical skills can be improved as they build hands-on projects.
Learning the basics of aeromodelling can also help them understand the concepts behind engineering and science in a practical manner. Moreover, building project hands-on can help your child develop added skills like structural thinking and critical thinking. Their ability to work in a team, problem-solving skill and creativity can also be improved.
The best part about STEM spring camps is the teachers. They have a wealth of knowledge and experience in STEM-related learning. The best STEM camps have educators that have been trained to U.S. standards.
Other Ways to Build Your Child’s Schema
Your child’s experiences will have the ability to boost their academic growth. And this is the intent and purpose behind schemas – to shape the experiences of your child in a way that they’ll grow in their academic knowledge. Building your child’s schemas will only become successful if you approach activities as something fun and engaging.
Aside from sending them to a STEM spring camp where they can learn a lot of things and even turn their imaginations into reality, there are other ways to increase your child’s knowledge and experiences.
● Take the lessons outside the classroom.
For instance, when your child has a geometry class and does not appreciate this subject much. Consider taking them to an amusement park or to a building that is being constructed. These activities will help your child see geometry come to life.
● Use real-life activities as tools for learning.
You can take your child to a popular chef’s kitchen to learn about measurements. Not only will they meet someone famous but they can also watch in awe as different dishes are prepared.
● Encourage them to connect the dots.
You can also take them to the hospital to learn about the measurements related to the human body. For instance, they can learn how long their intestines are, how many miles of nerves are in their body, and how many pints of blood are in their body.
Learning is usually associated with worksheets and textbooks. But there is more to learning than this. This coming spring break, considerletting your child be creative. Enroll them in a STEM camp to let them experience exciting and engaging activities that will help build their schemas and strengthen their ways of learning.
Maloy Burman is the Chief Executive Officer and Managing Director ofPremier Genie FZ LLC. He is responsible for driving Premier Genie into a leadership position in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics) Education space in Asia, Middle East and Africa and building a solid brand value. Premier Genie is currently running 5 centers in Dubai and 5 centers in India with a goal to multiply that over the next 5 years.
It is always a rule of thumbs that if your child plays a lot, then this will greatly have an impact on her development in almost every aspect. Be it social, cognitive, emotional, language or psychological development in your child, the toys that your child plays with are crucial to their enactment in the child.
Your children’s toys are therefore not just items for having fun, the kids learn from playing with the toys too. At such a young age, children are just sponges, absorbing every bit of information they come across. These are then used to create synapses (connections between brain neurons), which then contributes to holistic child development.
Researchers and Scientists often characterize children as their fellow little researchers when playing with their toys. They test ideas, create and evaluate hypotheses and use these to solve apparent problems.
So, how do toys affect a child's development? In today’s article, that is the question that I will be answering in details. I hope it will be of great help in bringing up your dear kid
From the time when they are born, babies have a natural instinct of listening to music. Music has therefore been used to soothe babies and children, express our love to them, engage and interact with our little ones.
It then comes as no surprise that music has a big impact on how the children develop from a tender age. Music improves a child’s social skills, as well as accelerating brain development.
In a study done in 2016 by the University of California at its Brain and Creativity Institute, it was found out that music indeed accelerated brain development. Music does this by encouraging the baby to acquire reading and language dialect skills.
In addition to improved academic excellence, music has other effects on your child’s development. It makes the child ready to start going to school, develops language, motor and social skills too. Music has a way of making the body and mind work in unison, as they should.
In addition to providing tremendous joy to a child, dancing to music tunes allows children to self-express, strengthen their memory skills and establish motor skills.
2. Improved Hand-Eye Coordination
At infancy, newborns have short eyesight and do not know how to use their hands. Most of the time, newborns even startle themselves when their uncoordinated hand movements hit them by surprise. Her poor vision does mean that you have to place bright colored toys close to her eyes so that she can figure out how to play with them.
Luckily, the more she plays with different types of toys, the better her eyesight becomes. Once she can see things for what they are, she then learns to hold the toys and balls into her hands. After a short while, she starts to shift the toys from hand to hand.
During bath time, place colorful balls in the bathwater and let the baby try to catch them. Later put the balls into another bucket. By using their hands to hold the balls, then their eyes to trace the bucket in which you put the balls into, the baby develops hand-eye coordination.
For slightly older children, they can roll, kick and catch balls as ways of getting to improve the coordination of their various body parts.
3. Toys Help Stimulate a Child’s Senses
Playing with different toys stimulates different senses such as sight, touch, and hearing in your child. As you avail a variety of textured toys for your little one’s playtime while you stroke, cuddle and massage her, you are helping stimulate her senses of touch in a way.
Playing with rattles, or any toys that produce sound is a sure way of improving a baby’s hearing. Singing and talking to her contributes to this course too. With time, you will start to notice that your baby can associate you with your voice and tell if you are in the room or not.
For the eyesight, you need to hang a mobile filled with brightly colored and highly contrasting toys on the cot. As she concentrates on a particular object and follows it with her eyes from side to side, her eyesight becomes better.
It is these senses that help us as adults to figure out our surroundings. As adults, if we find something we don’t know well, we first take a look at it from afar then touch it to see if it produces any sound. It is therefore essential if your child learns it while still young.
4. Toys Can have an Impact on Children’s Career Choices in Future
The topic of toys and the impact they have on the career choices is a complex one. There are those who believe that there is no correlation between the two, while some argue that a relationship does exist.
Based on an article written by the an article written by the BBC, the different toys you give your children impacts different messages to the kids. It teaches both boys and girls on what is appropriate for them to do as well as having varying educational contents.
Always provide your child with a toy that makes her happy and not one that is gender or interest related. In this way, he/she will develop wholly and enjoy the benefits of play.
It is always a common practice among parents to give gender-specific toys to our children. In one way or another, the boys play with action, machinery and construction oriented toys. On the other hand, the girls play with dolls and toys that are feminine oriented.
Further on, research did also show that people (60%) who work as designers and architects or any other design-oriented job played with toys such as building blocks when they were young. Another 66% who played with puzzles work in math-related jobs.
However, this stereotyping of toy and gender leads to suppressed interests in our children. The girls are limited to cookery, tea sets, and pink princesses, while the boys limit themselves to construction and racing car toys.
5. Toys Promote Social Skills
Babies play with one another and their toys, albeit with little communication. This type of play is called “parallel play” and forms the basis of future interactions for preschoolers. As they start to interact at an older age, the kids put together their experiences into kid stories.
It may worry you, but they are developing a critical aspect of their social skills. So, do encourage playdates where your preschoolers bring home other friends for an interactive play. There might be occasional showing off of toys, but that is normal and part of the process.
In the process, the children learn to cooperate, negotiate and share their thoughts. When your kids are playing together, you will notice that they sometimes disagree on who should play with a given toy or who should not. Or the occasional struggles of who plays “mommy” or “daddy.”
The immense number of toys you have invested in for your child is not a waste of resources. These will contribute immensely to her overall development from a newborn to a teenager. You never know, the toys might also inspire your daughter’s future career choices.
Most importantly, avail a variety of these toys that come in different textures, colors, shapes, and play difficulty levels. This will help your child to be all rounded by knowing how to handle toys in all forms. So, how do toys affect a child’s development? There you have almost all the possible ways.
The warmth babies get when being held by the parents is the best feeling babies ever have, besides being fed of course. To the baby, holding her in your arms feels like being on a fluffy and cozy pillow that is always there as long as she wants it.
While holding her is a beautiful parental instinct, it mostly ends up introducing a new problem altogether: Getting the baby to sleep without being held.
An unending cycle starts to develop where you spend time putting the baby to sleep, but immediately you let go of her then her eyes flare up. And then you have to start the process all over again.
Teaching your baby to sleep on her own as early as possible without being held is, therefore, one of the earliest parenting jobs you need to master. When your baby won't sleep unless held, there are a couple of measures you can take to help your baby self-soothe and sleep. All these will be explored in this article.
Why Your Baby won't Sleep Unless Held: You Could Be the Reason
Holding your baby to sleep increases the odds than when you put her down to sleep on her own, she will most likely wake up. Alternatively, if you succeed in putting her to sleep, she will not put herself back to sleep in case she wakes up at night.
The bigger question that troubles mostly newer parents (even the more seasoned ones like me) is why this is always so?
Most of us moms tend to over care for our newborns during their first few months and rightly so. Who wouldn’t care for her baby anyway? It is, therefore, no surprise that we could be the reason why our kids just wouldn’t drift off without being held.
In most occasions, mothers breastfeed the babies until they fall asleep. This mostly occurs when the babies cry when feeling sleepy. Continuous breastfeeding before sleep time makes the baby develop a conditioned reflex such that she only sleeps when in your arms as you breastfeed her.
Fathers too are no exception. Most dads tend to rock their little ones in their arms and sing to them until they sleep. In this way, the baby always associates rocking with sleep without which it becomes impossible for her to sleep on her own.
Playing with your baby just before bedtime is also another contributor. It makes the baby dependent on being excited before sleeping. Your meager presence provides a calming experience which if eliminated makes the baby lonely and scared.
How to Make the Baby Sleep Without Being Held
Do not feel bad for making the baby used to falling asleep this way. You did nothing wrong surely, it’s only that the baby got used to it and now can’t sleep without being held. Just like any other baby issue you may have, there is always a way to get out of it.
It starts by balancing between carrying, cuddling and letting the baby grow up. Otherwise, the baby may carry this habit into toddlerhood, becoming more of a nuisance in the process. Before then, you can put in place these measures.
1. Try Swaddling
Tricking your baby into comfort is the first way of substituting the comfort that your arms provide. Swaddling is a sure way of providing a worthy alternative, more so for newborns. Swaddling mimics the cozy feeling that babies had in the womb.
Get a swaddling blanket and use it to wrap the baby, making sure to use the right swaddling technique. Once through, you can place her in the crib. She would then drift off just as if you were still holding her. Of course, this trick only works if she doesn’t hate the swaddle.
2. Schedule a Bedtime Routine
Creating a bedtime routine and ritual helps the baby get into the sleeping mood, and would not require that you hold her before she can sleep. When any of such activities start to roll in, she will start to associate it with sleep.
At first, their tears will flow when you let go of the holding, but don’t be too strict with the schedule. Another thing is not to overdo it.
You need to determine what activities to schedule based on how busy and free you are. Whatever activities you set, you need to repeat them every night. As you schedule, both parents should always participate in the routine.
Here is an example that you could use; bathe her, turn off the lights, sing a lullaby and then place her in her crib.
3. Put the Baby to Sleep While Still Awake
However contradictory as it may seem, it is one that works most of the time. After following the schedule that you have developed and then swaddling the baby, you need to lay the baby in the crib while still awake.
This technique helps the baby to sleep independently without any impetus. The key is to put her to bed when awake, but tired. Doing this over and over again will yield the desired results and make the baby sleep without being held.
4. Provide a Soother
A series of research shows that having a pacifier in the baby’s mouth helps in soothing the baby to sleep on her own. A binky provides something to suckle on instead of the breast. Most of the time when she is about to sleep, the baby just sucks for fun. There is a benefit they get.
The use of pacifiers requires a lot of caution. You should introduce it after breastfeeding has been established (prevents nipple confusion) and wean the baby off it as soon as possible. Other than a pacifier, stroking a comfy small blanket can also be self-soothing.
These fluffy and stuffed animal or soft pillows should be removed as soon as the baby has fallen asleep. In this way, you will be reducing the risks of choking and strangulation.
5. Balance Between Day Time and Night Time Play and Naps
Well, this is contradictory and a contentious one. First of all, as much as you need to have lots of play time with your baby during the day, she also needs to have her naps in between. Sleeping is a big part of your baby’s development, and you need not deny her that.
Again, having enough playing tires the baby. This will make her fall asleep within a short time without being held. On the other hand, there are those of you who work during the day and would want to maximize evenings playing with the baby.
Night time playing keeps kids awake as she is excited by your company and does not fall asleep with ease. So, find the right balance so that you get enough playtime with your baby, give adequate naps during the day, and the baby will be “tired” enough to easily fall asleep.
A baby won’t sleep unless held if she has been accustomed to such sleeping behavior by you. It normally becomes an issue when you also have to run errands around the house, or you need to get some sleep at night. At night when the baby wakes up, you also have to hold her before sleeping again.
Fortunately for such a loving parent as you, there are ways in which you can get her to sleep without being entirely around. It might take some time, but the results will be definitely there to show.
At 3 months, your baby is more grown up and is more aware of her surroundings than she probably was a couple of months ago. At this age, you should know that it is more important than ever to play with your baby. And it is not just any type of play.
Your baby needs to play games that are fun, interesting, and educational. These games should provide a bonding experience for the two of you. By this time, I am sure you have settled your baby into a schedule that would make your life much easier. And in there, you have to factor in playtime.
This is because at this time your baby has become more capable of handling things with her hands and batting stuff with the feet. If you are looking for what activities to do with a 3-month-old during their playtime, then these will surely help you.
There are a couple of things 3-month-olds find amusing, and walking in circles is one of them. To get the game going, hold your baby and walk in circles. While at it, give the baby a chance to explore her surrounding by holding her face forward.
Walk at different speeds, make the circle bigger or smaller with each round, change the walking style and direction, you could also sing as you walk and dance along to the tunes too.
2. Batting at Objects
At 3 months, most babies have usually learned to coordinate their hands, feet, and eyes. You are therefore able to play some kicking games while the baby is lying on her back. Attach lightweight and colored baby activity balls on a string above the baby.
As the baby lies on the floor, encourage her to kick at the baby activity balls. This activity helps the baby to develop good motor skills as her muscles are given a workout.
3. The Rock and Rolling Game
Do you want your baby girl to get her rolling game a notch higher quickly? Then play this game with her. As the two of you are seated on the floor, hold her on your laps, and then sway her from side to side as gently as possible.
For more fun, twist from side to side and rock forth and back while paying attention to how the baby reacts to all the movements. If she likes it, continue the activity. The two of you can also sit in either a rocking chair or one that spins, and enjoy those silly moments as you spin together.
4. Holding onto Toys
As your baby starts to unfurl her fingers, it is best for the two of you to engage in activities that encourage her to unfold the fingers, hold onto an object and then drop it. You can start by helping her to sit up, and then hold a small soft toy like a baby softball toy to her face.
Then, use the toy to touch the palms of her unfurled hands. See how she reacts, and if she is fine, let her hold onto the toy and wrap her fingers around it. Retract your hands and take note of how long she can hold onto the toy.
Do the same for the other hand. After a while, change the size and textures of the playing object.
5. Singing and Talking
Here is an activity that always comes naturally. I don’t know why, but at some point, I always just find myself belting out a tune as I take care of my young ones. And what about talking, I think most moms do this all the time too.
You can also acquire some musical toys that can help you when you are tired of singing and talking but you still want to play with the baby.
To make more meaning of the activity, you can strategically schedule this activity when the baby is trying out a new head position. Make it more fun for her by hiding away your face and let her look down for you in her new sitting position.
6. Propping Up the Feet
Your baby has spent the larger parts of the last two months just lying on her back without knowing about some of her body parts. And her feet are some of these body parts that we are talking about. By propping up her feet using a towel as she lies on the floor, she gets a good look at them.
Make the view more interesting by ensuring that she puts on some colored socks. The exquisite sight normally rattles babies a lot. Besides the towel, you can use a nursing pillow or use your body.
First of all, kids and balloons don’t get along so well, albeit for the first few minutes when the baby-balloon struggle makes for a very interesting play time. Instead of using latex balloons, use Mylar balloons.
Some of you might want to tie the balloons on your baby’s feet, but I strongly cannot encourage that. This is what you should do; tie the balloons on a doorknob or a piece of furniture nearby. Then place the baby near it with her feet pointing towards the balloons and watch her kick it. A keen eye for her is mandatory.
8. Look At Each Other In Mirrors
Having a look at her face in the mirror is a very thrilling activity for babies. At first, she may not realize who she is looking at, but after a while, she will figure it out. You will then notice her starting to smile and wave back at her reflection in the mirror.
The mirror has to be unbreakable for starters and can be placed on the sides of the crib or the changing table. Once in a while, let her see your face too and make those funny facial expressions and watch her mimic you.
9. Its Tummy Time
Tummy time is an essential sensory activity that needs to be incorporated into your little one’s play routine. It helps develop various muscles in your babies, such as arms, trunk, neck, and shoulders.
After being on her back for a while, it is good to change positions so that she learns to crawl, roll, sit up and pull herself up.
10. Peek a Boo
Playing this activity helps the baby know that people and objects are still in existence, even when not in sight. It is one of the cognitive milestones that are essential for your dear one’s development. In this activity, you cover your face and let the baby think for a minute that you are not around.
After a while, open up your face and excitedly say “Peek-a-Boo.” Your excitement is the key to making this whole activity more fun. You can as well use a scarf instead of your hands to hide your face.
11. Its Outdoor Time
Staying all day indoors does you and the baby no good. To freshen up playtime a little bit, you need to take the baby out for a fresh breath of air. While out, you can bring a lot of her favorite toys, and let her play either on her back or tummy.
While lying on her tummy, she can have a feel of the grass and the growth around her, and when on her back, you two can talk about the sky and what she sees up there.
The activities that you can do with a 3-month-old are actually endless. You just have to find something that is comfortable for your baby and is alright with you. I hope this comprehensive article has provided you with some playtime inspiration on top of what you already had in mind for you dear one.