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One of the easiest ways you can win your ex boyfriend back is by simply using your cell phone and tapping a bunch of buttons.
Sound absurd? Well, it isn’t… I’ve coached thousands of women around the world to effectively “Text Their Exes Back”… even if they initially thought that it was impossible to ever rekindle any sort of romance with their ex boyfriend.
And today, I’m about to give you some tips on how you can force your boyfriend to come running back to you (and no, he’ll definitely have absolutely no choice in the matter).
This is the first text you can send to get started (but don’t send these text messages yet. At the end of the article, I’ll tell you exactly when to send these texts, because when you send these messages is just as important as what you send).
Text #1 – The “I’m Ok” Text Message:
— “Hey _____, I just want to let you know that I’m 100% cool with the breakup and I thought that it was a good idea. Hope we can still be friends. Talk soon.” —
This text message is great because it conveys all the right messages. For one, you’re letting him know that you were 100% okay with the breakup (you need to make him think this right now). By saying this, you’re pretty much saying to him that you don’t really need him… and this will subconsciously drive him insane. By posing as “just a friend” right now, you start planting my patented ‘Seduction Seeds’ that will eventually cause him to start thinking about you in a sexual way again… and win him back for good. More on this in a bit.
Text #2 – The “No Communication” Text.
— “You’re right. It’s best that we don’t talk right now, but I would like to be friends eventually.” —
This one is a little advanced and you need to know exactly when to send this text… but again, you’re communicating to him that you don’t really need to talk to him. In essence, you’re saying that you don’t really need him to play any role in your life anymore. By doing this, you’ll send the message that you do want to “move on”… and you’ll begin tricking him into thinking that he actually lost you!
Text #3 – The “Jealousy” Text.
— “I think it was a great idea that we decided to start dating other people. I do just want to be friends right now!” —
By saying this, you’re telling him that you’re actually dating other people right now… which will in turn make him jealous. This is a good thing. By saying this, you’re sub-communicating to him that you’re actually wanted by other guys. Remember, men are attracted to women that are wanted by other guys, so by saying that you’re dating around already, you’re pretty much saying that “it’s your loss, mister!”
Remember, you can’t just simply send these texts to him and expect good results… you need to have a plan of attack, and send these messages right when he’s most likely to take them seriously… only then will he begin to feel attraction for you and induce a “fear of loss” within him.
In the free presentation below, I’ll show you exactly what you can do to make your ex boyfriend want you again. No matter what your situation is — or how badly you’ve messed up since the two of you broke up — I’ll be able to give you a number of useful tips that you can apply immediately.
But you better hurry up because this video won’t be online forever… demand has been overwhelming and there’s no way I’ll be able to afford hosting it online for much longer.
Trip Wire:“A hidden trigger that sets off a series of explosive events.” Deep within the heart of every man is an intense longing to be someone’s hero. This longing has ancient origins. You see,the cause of this longing is written into the very fabric of his DNA. And there it lies, dormant… until one day, the right trigger unleashes its power. I’d like to show you how to become that trigger, and how to awaken the full force your man’s bonding instinct. But first, a story. It’s the story of human connection. (Or you can see how this works now by skipping to the online video by clicking here.)
Before we can care deeply about someone, we must know something about their life story. Because stories evoke empathy.Stories allow us to picture ourselves in someone else’s shoes.
Stories form the foundation of all human connection. They create the sensation of one shared life experience.
It’s strange, but true, that we can even find ourselves rooting for thieves and criminals so long as we see their story unfold. Movies like Ocean’s Eleven and The Italian Job illustrate this well. In the movie, Ocean’s Eleven, actors George Clooney, Brad Pitt, and Matt Damon make for a cast of likeable thieves. But beyond their good looks, we get pulled into the story. We discover what’s driving Danny Ocean’s motivation to rob a casino. A casino that just happens to be owned by his ex-wife’s new lover. We can empathize with Danny Ocean’s pain. And by the end of the movie we are actually rooting for him to get away with it. To steal the money and disappear into the sunset with his ex-wife, Tess, by his side. Perhaps stranger still is the way we respond to fiction in the first place. A skilled novelist can have me on the edge of my seat, rooting for a person who doesn’t even exist in real life. Literary critics may scoff, but I actually liked the twilight series by Stephanie Meyer. I think my hand was actually trembling from adrenaline as the Volturi began to march across the field, intent on destroying Isabella’s daughter. But wait, that’s all make-believe. So how could it cause a physical reaction in my body? The answer, of course, is the power of story.
Since ancient times, stories have been the primary means by which humans communicated important information. Because of that, our minds are literally wired for story.
Stories influence our emotions. They are at the heart of communication. Allowing us to feel connected to each other. When I reach the end of my life, I know which people I will want by my side. It will be those who have witnessed my life story. The friendly, pretty nurse may be a wonderful person. But if she is a stranger to me, it doesn’t matter what positive attributes she has. I will still feel alone. Because she does not know my story, and I do not know hers. Knowing this instinctively, she will expend great effort to quickly summon my friends and family. The people who know my story. To trigger a man’s deepest feelings of attraction, you need to become a special part of his story. You do that by revealing your needs, and allowing him to help you meet them. Why? Because it triggers his hero instinct. Here’s the formula for triggering a man’s hero instinct: Story + Need = Activated Hero Instinct. A man’s hero instinct compels him to seek a relationship that lets him take on the role of a provider.That’s why guys fall for a woman who knows how to trigger this attraction tripwire. It sets off a series of reactions in his emotional world. It makes him happy in a way that’s hard for women to understand. Because they do not share his deeply rooted instinct to become someone’s hero. Many women are vaguely aware of a man’s desire to see himself as a provider. They understand, for example, why he may become depressed and pull away from others during a period of unemployment. But these same women fail to recognize the power of the opposite effect…
Make a man feel like your hero, and you unleash his desire to commit to something more. He can’t help it.He just starts to see you differently.
It’s as if your relationship unlocks a version of himself he has always longed for. It feels right in a way he can’t put into words. It unleashes his protective instincts, the noble aspects of his masculinity, and most importantly, his deepest feelings of love and attraction. If that sounds good to you, click here to learn more about this relationship enhancement tool. It’s something you can learn once, but then use for the rest of your life.
Trigger his hero instinct
You already have needs and desires. Why not learn how to translate those desires into requests that trigger his hero instinct? Then relax into the warmth and passion he is only capable of showing to a woman who has triggered his hero instinct. A woman who knows exactly how to become the central character in his emotional world. Ready to put this idea to use? Great! Because there is an online video to show you a set of triggers you can use to get explosive results with this one simple technique. Click here now to see for yourself. After watching this video, many women are surprised to learn a man can actually feel more deeply in love when he feels more deeply needed. That seems strange, doesn’t it? And yet that is the reality for men. Many of us have a tendency to buy gifts of the sort we would like to receive ourselves. It can be like that with love. We try to love our partner the way we want to be loved. So you make him feel special. Yet he seems unaffected by that. You speak your own native love language to him. Apparently, he speaks another. But I’m here to tell you about one incredible, universal method you can use to grab his attention by triggering his hero instinct. Click here now to discover an unfair advantage that works with all men, in every phase of life. Help him finally see you as the one.
So you met a man and everything was going great between the two of you. Or so you thought.
Then, quick as lightning, he was out the door.
When it comes to relationships, women and men have unique perspectives. From first date etiquette to when to sleep with their partner, the outlooks are diverse.
However, when a man pulls away from the woman he’s seeing it’s usually for a specific reason.
Here are three HUGE mistakes women make that push men away.
If there’s one thing that’ll send any man running it’s a clingy woman. Sure, it’s nice to be affectionate and show him that he’s on your mind, but when you make him your be and end all, he’ll start to feel smothered. When this happens he’ll try to regain his independence by pulling away.
What’s worse is when you make it known that you’re falling for him, too quickly. Since men are looking for fun in the beginning of a relationship, letting him know that you’re already planning your future together will scare him away. Instead of showing your emotions too soon, it’s crucial that you remain calm, cool and collected.
Remember, if a man senses that a woman wants more from him and the relationship than he’s prepared to give, he will pull away.
Studies have shown that 97% of women are unhappy with their bodies at least once a day.
However, when it comes to relationships showing your insecurities is never a good idea. Sure, it’s nice to be comfortable enough to talk about your gym routine or the healthy eating kick you’re on with your man, but if you’re asking him “Do these jeans make me look fat” or nagging anytime an attractive woman talks to him, then you’re digging your own relationship grave.
The problem is that once your insecurities start to show there’s no going back. Instead of pushing him away with your self-doubts show him your happy-go-lucky side and he’ll be hooked.
A good tip to follow is to pretend that every date with your man is a first because there’s no way you’d let him see this side of you then. For more ideas on how to boost your self confidence click here and watch this free video presentation from relationship expert Amy North.
They’re unhappy without him
Just because you’re happy when you’re with him it doesn’t mean that he isn’t catching on to your negativity when he’s not in the room. In fact, if he knows that he’s your sole source of happiness then it’s likely to push him away.
The problem here is this type of situation makes him feel pressured to keep you content, and that’s a huge responsibility for anyone! Instead of relying on him to keep you smiling, make the most of your life. Do the things that you love. When you do, you’ll not only be making yourself happier, but it’ll improve the overall quality of your relationship too.
If your marriage is ‘on the rocks’ and you’re worried that your spouse is thinking about asking for a divorce, then this article is for you. I’ll explain a few signs to look for that indicate your husband is thinking about divorce, and I’ll tell you how to stop it and how to begin repairing your marriage.
So, let’s dive into the first sign to look for…
Sign #1 – Arguing Over Anything & Everything.
Yes, it’s no secret that an increase in the frequency and intensity of arguments with your partner are a clear indication that all is not well with your marriage. Now, don’t panic here just because you and your spouse are fighting a few times a week… every married couple will disagree and have conflicts from time to time, and it’s actually a healthy thing to argue now and then as long as they lead to resolutions or don’t leave lingering hard feelings.
When those arguments become daily occurrences, and tend to arise over almost anything, then that’s when things get a bit more dicey. For example, if you arriving 5 minutes late for a dinner date turns into a massive screaming match and results in both of you going to bed angry for the third time in a week, then that’s a problem. These kinds of arguments, if they happen frequently and tend to blow small grievances or disagreements way out of proportion, can indicate that your marriage is headed in the wrong direction.
Most of the time, couples who argue too often but have otherwise healthy marriages can repair this problem relatively easily. In simple terms, if you and your spouse fight too much or argue often over small issues, you need to learn how to prevent the useless arguments and have more important disagreements in a more civilized and constructive manner.
Now, another and potentially more serious indication of an unhealthy marriage is when one or both of you stops trying to resolve conflict at all. Which leads me to the next point….
Sign #2 – No Longer Willing To Resolve Conflict or Find Solutions.
If your partner seems to no longer care about the outcome of a fight, or if they seem to feel as though trying to find a solution to your problems is pointless or hopeless, then that can be a clear indication of deeper troubles. When this kind of despair sets in, your partner may withdraw further and feel as though there will never be a way for the two of you to live together in peace. That’s obviously not a good thing, and it’s something that you need to work on if this has become a problem in your marriage.
Sign #3 – Lack of Emotional Connection and Withdrawal of Affection.
If your husband has become distant and stopped showing affection towards you, that can also be a strong indication that they’re mentally checking out of the marriage. Often associated with this is an overall lack of emotional connection and a lack of willingness to discuss or show feelings and emotions.
In my experience, this is one of the most obvious signs that a marriage is headed in the wrong direction. Usually, though, it’s more a symptom than a root problem, and resolving the core issues of your marriage can usually help re-build the emotional connection and lead your spouse to begin showing affection again.
If you’re seeing this symptom as well as some of the others on this list, start taking action to stop the degradation of your marriage.
Sex can be symptom of other problems in your marriage — if you’re always fighting and there’s no emotional connection, the sex is going to disappear as well.
But it can also be a problem of its own and lead to a marriage crisis, whether it’s caused by fading attraction or a low sex drive.
Either way, a sexless marriage is almost always a marriage on the fast track to divorce, so if your spouse seems uninterested in sex or makes excuses, that’s a clear indication of problems.
Sign #5 – Your spouse is absent more often or seems pre-occupied.
If your partner is staying out late more often, and showing less interest in family and spending time together, that may be an indication that they are either unhappy with the situation at home. It may also be that they’re preparing mentally for life apart, building a social life or possibly even dating. Hopefully that’s not the case, and don’t prematurely accuse your spouse of this just because they’re home less often, but it is a possibility.
Simply put, if you’re spending less time with your husband than you have in the past or if he seems distant and pre-occupied when you are spending time together, that can be a clear sign of a spouse mentally struggling with the decision to end a marriage.
Next Steps: Where to go from here…
First, let’s make one thing clear: just because your partner is exhibiting a couple of the behaviours that I just talked about doesn’t mean that they’re definitely planning to file for divorce. It may simply be that these are indicators of trouble ahead in your marriage. But if you’ve seen several of these indicators in your spouse recently, and you’re feeling that things aren’t on track with your marriage, I encourage you to act to turn things around now before matters get any worse.
The best place to start is by watching this free video by marriage guru Brad Browning… he explains where you’ve been going wrong and what you need to do to make your husband fall back in love with you.
Can relationships actually be worked-on? Relationships are very fragile and sensitive and beyond a point no amount of “working on it” could actually work on the ground.
Relationships are about being happy, comfortable and secure. Once these above three main ingredients are available in a relationship, only then can it move the next level. Hence all the talk about dating games and other such tricks would remain only superficial unless the basics are addressed. This being said, the couples need to build on the intimacies and trust levels which they have been able to establish.
So we are sharing some tips which could perhaps move your date to the next higher levels after the basic requirements are in place.
Ask Some Basic Questions
There are some time tested questions which both the partners should ask each other. This is often considered to be an important start to dating games. This will help even strangers to know each other better and perhaps establish a connection. Questions cover almost every aspect of each other’s life and could be connected with their upbringing, their educational levels, and their accomplishments so far, their worst and best memories amongst others. It could also touch some intimate aspects of sex which certainly has an important role to play in any relationship.
Give Importance To Sex
It would be naïve to expect a relationship to flourish beyond a certain point unless there is an acceptance that sex has a role to play. Therefore after the first few meets when the ice has been broken, it is important that both the man and the woman sit down and start talking serious about sex. It could be in the form of a questionnaire and this should be done in a spirit of give and take. Though such a questionnaire may not be necessary, it could help when you do not know what exactly to ask because sex has different aspects to it. Such frank exchange of opinions and thoughts will certainly help a lot. It will ensure that the intimacy levels stay increased quite a bit. It is one of the most wonderful dating games that can be done discreetly without causing too much of discomfiture.
Try To Get Physical
Yes, intimacy is built by physical touch and this is an obvious part of any relationship between man and woman. However, going physical has to be done carefully and it should not be rushed through. It must come naturally. When we look at some proven dating tips and games, it is quite obvious that touch and physical intimacy has a big role to play in strengthening bonds of relationships. It all could start with holding of hands and then move to the next level.
Hugging and getting to feel each other’s warm breath could also be a great way forward in moving your dating experience to the next higher level.
Eyes Can Talk A Lot
Finally gazing into each other’s eyes is also something that could bring a lot of meaning and intimacy to relationships. Eyes can talk a lot without talking anything. This is a common approach which can be used when it comes to perfecting dating games.
When it comes to getting a man to commit, it’s important to know where to start.
Since you can’t force a relationship, it’s key that he feels a desire to be with you. In other words, he needs to believe that his life is greater with you in it.
That said, you can’t push or pressure him to be with you. If you do, he’ll only pull away.
To kickstart a commitment with your man, try these tips on for size.
As much as guys like to be in control, they don’t want to have to call the shots for you, too. Instead of counting on him to decide on your dinner plans or weigh in on your outfit options, do it yourself!
Men find indecisiveness draining, so if you want to keep him coming back for more it’s crucial that you learn how to be independent and have options of your own.
Do the little things.
As manly as he may seem, he still likes to be taken care of. To show you guy that life’s better with you in it be the one who goes the extra mile to make him smile.
While it’s one thing to tell him that you appreciate him, as the old saying goes, “actions speak louder than words.” Something as simple as surprising him with a nice home-cooked meal or a case of his favourite beer can do wonders for your relationship. For more ideas on how to make him commit click here and watch my video.
Keep living your own life.
It’s tough not to get swept up in romance, but if you want to make you guy commit to you it’s important that you have a life without him.
Sure, it may be great spending all of your free time with him, but if you push your life to the side for him he’ll see how easily he has you.
On the other hand, if you make him work for your time by keeping busy with friends, family and other hobbies he’ll not only want to see you more, but he’ll even miss you when you’re not around.
Be willing to try new things.
Whether it’s a foreign cuisine or a kinky sex position, being open and willing to try new things with your man is important, especially when it comes to getting him to commit.
Since most men are adventurous at heart, keeping your relationship exciting and new will prevent him from feeling bored or looking elsewhere for love.
Be his rock.
When a man knows he can rely on you he’ll feel a connection to you like no other. Thus, if you want him to commit to a relationship, you need to be the one he can count on.
To show him this it’s important that you’re a woman of your word. Meaning, if you say you’re going to do something, do it. When he knows he can depend on you to follow through he’ll feel secure with you.
It’s also important that you have an open ear, and be the person he can talk to about anything and everything. When he does share his hopes and dreams with you encourage him to chase them. Never tell him that something is out of his reach, but rather be his biggest fan.
For more tips on how to make your man commit to you click the link below and watch my video:
No matter how dire your situation is with your ex girlfriend, there is a way to get her back!
If you’re reading this and you want your ex girlfriend back, then absorb the information on this page very carefully, because in it, I’ll share with you some secrets that will give you some secrets that most men will never know about women.
Don’t get jealous
Jealousy reeks of insecurity and this is just the number one killer of attraction. If you are the jealous kind of person, then fight the urge to show this emotion around your ex girlfriend.
Give her space
Yes, this seems a little hard and counter intuitive, but leaving her alone is one of the best ways of actually getting her back into your life. Though, you have to do it in a very specific way. Simply not talking to her won’t do it. You have to talk to her subconscious and make it seem like you really and truly don’t want to talk to her right now.
If you’re rattled that your ex girlfriend dumped you, then trust me, there’s nothing you can do or say right now that will make her love you again. The more you force the issue with her, the less likely she’s going to want to get back together with you. Winning your ex-girlfriend back is going to have to start with you. That means you need to stop pining and get your life back on track. Start working out more, like picking up some good hobbies that you like, or hanging out with friends. Do whatever you need to do to “get over her” and you’ll be well on your way to getting her back into your arms and in your bed.
Start dating other women
This is my secret weapon. By dating other women, you’re killing two birds with one stone. First, dating other women is one of the best ways to get over your ex girlfriend. And second, if your ex ever found out that you’re dating other women, then she’ll start beginning to get jealous and want you again. Once this happens, you’ll be ready to pounce and take her back (without her even realize that you’re using these tactics on her!).
Begin to seduce her (properly!)
Once you’ve accomplished steps 1-4, only then can you start making her fall in love with you again by sending her my patented psychological techniques that I’ll tell you about in a minute. By using some of my techniques, she’ll be crying by your side, asking herself why she ever broke up with you. She’ll be begging you to come back to her.
Sound too good to be true? Well, it isn’t. I’ve seen this happen thousands of times. And it doesn’t matter if you broke up with your girlfriend last week or last year.
In the free informational video below, I’ll share with you some mind-bending secrets that will surely get your ex girlfriend to start wanting to talk to you and hang out with you. And, if you follow the instructions properly, she’ll be calling you incessantly wanting you to go out with her.
There is no doubt that being single has its many advantages.
Some of the possible rewards of being single include that you are able to appreciate the solitude quiet moments, pursue your own interests/hobbies and learn how to revel in your own company. However, even with the numerous benefits associated with being single, sometimes it can be frustrating.
In such an instance, you may need to experience life with someone and hopefully build a worthwhile and long-lasting relationship. Finding and building a healthy and romantic relationship is better said than done. But, it is still possible to find and cultivate such a relationship.
A healthy relationship is based on good communication, honesty, support, mutual respect, trust and a sense of fondness among others. Of course,you have to find a way to overcome your obstacles to building a strong relationship. That is whether it is a confidence issue or you do not know how to create a long-lasting relationship.
Dating vs. Relationship
These are two different words that are usually confusing and therefore it is important that you have a sense of their different meanings. Are you dating or in a relationship? By you being in a relationship, it means that you are connected to each other by way of mutual commitment. It is important though to recognize the fact that sometimes the difference between dating and relationship is not always black and white.
There are various possible signs that can help you know if you are in a relationship. For example, you tend to show your real and raw behavior because you are confident that your partner will still be able to hang around. Moreover, integrating your love into your social life indicates that you are no longer dating but you are in a relationship.
There is no doubt that at present technology has greatly changed the process of dating. The use of technology has been necessitated by the need to make the process of finding love and dating as less frustrating and painless as possible. With online dating, you can search and find romance from the comfort of the home unlike with traditional dating. Online dating has changed the way in which courtship works.
Being connected and being together has been made easier. While this is advantageous, it could also be the reason behind people nowadays getting in and out of relationships readily. Additionally, if you want to know anything about your girlfriend or boyfriend, information is readily available online especially on social media platforms like Facebook. Because of that, you do not have to ask him/her or find information from his/her friends or family.
Online dating has also made it possible to meet and interact with people from different parts of the world. With traditional dating, searching for a partner was majorly limited to within your area. If you are to find a partner in another area that would involve travel expenses that are always discouraging. In a way, you can say that online dating and the associated technology have made possible long-distance relationships.
Here are 5 things you must pay attention to:
1.Build a connection
Strive to build a connection that is genuine. The dating game is usually nerve-wracking. It is normal to worry about various things including whether or not you will be liked by your date. To forge a great connection, you have to find a way to overcome your self-consciousness and nerves if you feel socially backward or shy. It is advised that you pay attention, be genuine, be curious, do not use your smartphone and avoid focusing on your internal thoughts.
For example, in the case of not using your smartphone, that is important as it allows you to know more about a person through nonverbal communication including expressions and subtle gestures. It is also important to make an effort to listen to what the other person has to say. Little things extracted from the conversation between you and your partner help in building a strong relationship. Remember things like the stories you have been told and the preferences of your partner.
While matchmaking events, singles events, and online dating can be enjoyed by some people, to other people they feel like the high-pressure interviews for a job. The process of finding a lasting love does not have to have the same experience of finding the right career path. Do not just jump from one dating site to another or from one singles event to another. Consider your time of searching for a partner as an opportunity to participate in new and exciting events and expand social circle. By putting yourself in environments that are new and pursuing enjoyable activities, you are able to easily meet a person having values and interests that are similar to yours. You can volunteer for a political campaign/a favorite charity or sign up for art/cooking/dance classes.
3.Handle rejection gracefully
If you are in the business of looking for love, at some point you have to be open to the possibility of being rejected and know how to deal with rejection. Rejection is part of the normal process of dating and relationship. Therefore, you should not worry about it. Rejection handling is often less intimidating if you are honest not only with yourself but also with others and also you stay positive. For you to handle rejection gracefully, you have to avoid taking the rejection personally, learn from the experience and acknowledge your feelings, do not suppress them.
4.Be on the lookout for red flags
Every normal human being should desire a relationship that lasts, is healthy and is full of love. It is possible to identify a relationship that will not last and to identify that you have pay attention to how your partner makes you to feel and also trust your instincts. Reconsider the relationship when you strongly feel undervalued, ashamed or insecure. Major relationship red flags to be on the lookout for include;
·No desire to spend quality time together
·When nonverbal communication is virtually non-existent
·The relationship is drug and alcohol dependent
·The relationship is fuelled exclusively by good sex
5.Nurture new connection
For both of you to be able to take it to the next level after casual dating, both of you have to try their best to nurture the new connection. Building a healthy and long-lasting relationship is a journey. To nurture the relationship, you have to spend time together with your partner doing things that you both love. Furthermore, you also have to communicate with each other openly and be able to resolve any conflict without relying on degradation and humiliation.
Do you have a big heart?
I mean, are you good at loving people?
If so, your ex would be crazy not to let you back into his life. Here’s why.
They say the meaning of life is to find your gift. And the purpose of your life is to give it away.
But in order to give away your gift, someone must receive it.
So who should you give it to?
I think you already know the answer. But we’ll come back to that in just a sec. Because, first I need to make a prediction.
I predict you already have a mental image of one man in your thoughts right now. As you read these words, you can picture his face.
But thinking of him brings up mixed emotions. Because you know how good you could be together. You know how much potential this relationship could have.
Yet there’s pain there too. And that pain comes from the fact that something is blocking you from giving away the greatest gift a person could ever receive. Your love.
(By the way, If you’d like to skip ahead to see my laser-targeted advice about getting your ex to talk to you again, check out my Relationship Rewrite Method here).
You see, I specialize in helping women like you. As a relationship coach, my favorite kind of client is a woman with a gift for loving deeply.
A person who just needs a little boost to overcome the obstacle that stands between her and the romantic bliss she deserves. I mean, let’s face it…
When you’ve shared a special connection with someone, it’s hard to let it go.
Especially when you know there’s still a lot of potential if he would just open his heart again!
You could build a beautiful life together.
If that’s something you want, then it’s worth fighting for.
But here’s a question for you…
If you’re so good at loving people, why not just settle for some other guy? Why not pour your love into a guy who adores you, but triggers none of your own instincts for affection?
What if it’s the pudgy guy with poor social skills and body odor? What if he appreciates your love more than anyone you’ve ever met? Should the two of you elope?
Of course not. And here’s why.
He will prevent you from giving away the most precious gift you possess. True love. Deep affection, admiration, desire.
Mutual desire. That’s the golden ticket. And that’s also why it’s not a good idea to hide your feelings for your ex.
Too many of my clients want to hold their cards close to their chest. “I’ll only reveal my true feelings if he goes first.”
I get so tired of hearing that. Because it means I have to find a way for her to send an encrypted message that says, “I will only become the woman you need if you first prove I am the woman you want.”
Do you see why that doesn’t work?
Playing hard to get has its place, but not with your ex. If you want to win back your guy’s heart, there’s something else you should know…
Showing you still like him isn’t enough.
There are plenty of other women who will show they like him. And they don’t have to overcome the wall he’s built up because of your history together.
They don’t have to overcome his “been there, done that,” attitude about seeing where things could go with you.
The fact is, those are obstacles you must overcome. But the good news is, you can succeed with the right approach.
You just need to get past the barriers that are currently keeping the two of you apart. And for that, I have a solution.
It’s called the Relationship Rewrite Method, and its power comes from one simple fact…
Emotions run the show.
No matter how stubborn he is, and no matter how “logical,” his decisions are, he’s human. Which means emotions drive his decision-making more than anything else. Emotions begin to steer his actions before decisions even enter the equation. Because emotions determine what he wants in the first place.
Here’s the secret to getting back with your ex. Forget about convincing him to give things another try. Focus instead on changing the way he feels.
If you like the idea, but you’re not sure where to start, I invite you to take a shortcut.
I’ve watched what works and what doesn’t for many years. And I’ve assembled those insights into a series of steps anyone can use.
If you’re the kind of person who likes to learn the hard way, I understand and I wish you the best of luck. But if you’d rather not reinvent the wheel, I have a short video that describes more about it. Discover the Relationship Rewrite Method here. It could be the beginning of a new chapter with your ex, just waiting for you to turn the page.
Oh, wait. You’re still waiting to learn the one thing that proves you’re meant to be together?
Well the answer is simple, really.
You see, I’ve noticed something about people. Something about the way the human mind works.
Expending energy goes against our instincts. That’s why it’s hard to get yourself off the couch to go for a jog.
Yet something happened in your mind when you read the title of this article. I didn’t name any guy in particular. Yet it was your ex who came to mind. The guy who pulled away. The guy with emotional walls to keep you out.
And despite all the obstacles you have to overcome, your emotions still draw you toward that man. That tells me something no match-making personality test ever could.
It tells me your heart has already chosen. Now we’re just waiting for destiny to catch up.
PS: to give destiny a nudge, check out what I have for you here.
More than just smiles, emotions in general are contagious. This means that if you’re the pessimistic or self-pitying type, those feelings are going to affect your date, too.
Even more importantly, men are attracted to happy, outgoing women. Just like you wouldn’t want to date someone who was always down, nor do men. That’s why it’s so important to be positive and try to find the good in everyday situations.
Once your man realizes that you’re the one to keep him smiling he’ll become hopelessly devoted to you.
Be hard to get
Now this one has been disputed over the years, but believe me, it works.
Since men are hunters at heart, making him work for your love and attention will keep him chasing you. When this happens, he’ll become addicted to you.
To do so, it’s important that you’re not “too available.” This means that you don’t drop what you’re doing to see him, and you set certain standards for yourself when it comes to making plans with him.
For instance, if he calls and asks if you want to go for dinner that night, tell him that you’re busy and suggest rescheduling for a day or two later. Even if you have no plans for that night, keeping him on his toes to see you will get him hooked.
It’s also important that you’re not always the one to initiate contact with him. If you’re doing all the texting, messaging, phoning, etc., it’ll take away from his pursuit for you. Instead let him be the one to woo you.
For more tips on how to make him chase you, watch this video: