When I die...
I don't think anyone will care what I am wearing. They won't mind the messy hair or the dirty house. No one will think of me as a failure for not finishing the laundry. No one will see the kitchen filled with food, or the full tank of gas in the car, they won't pay attention to the bills that were paid. Or will they? Isn't that worry also part of the problem?
What will they say
New message for me!
I am getting out of -- this funk, this blah, this mood, & the last couple weeks of being down.
Today (and the rest of May)
BE awesome BE positive BE gorgeous
I can do this! I am deserving! I'm better than their opinion of me! I am strong! I am still moving forward, the last couple weeks were just slow progress.
It is been 4 months of positive changes in my life.
I have been drinking water! Only one soda pop yesterday and on Friday. Two each on Wednesday and Thursday. None so far today. These healthier habits are quickly taking hold. I didn't want to jinx it and say anything but I am really proud of myself.
My snacks have been cucumbers and clementines (and some ice cream.) I even passed up the Double Stuf Oreo cookies. It is so odd but I don't
Anxiety won last night.
Plans were set for a Saturday night weeks in advance. I procrastinated to find a sitter hoping to use it as an excuse to cancel. With a small boost of courage and confidence, I found someone to watch the boys. I had two days. Two days to finish my to-do list. Two days to wash dishes, take out the trash, straighten up the boys' room, and clear the middle room.
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Christmas has come and gone, all the presents have been unwrapped, returned, or exchanged. As the kids get older, it is harder for extended family to find the perfect present. So avoid the stress of finding that one special gift and instead support their dreams.
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Making the best of the holidays for your kids post-divorce
Divorce is difficult for your kids, and if it’s recent, getting through the holidays can be especially difficult for everyone involved. But, there are plenty of ways to make the season less painful and help all of you get through it peacefully.
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Next week is Thanksgiving, and besides eating turkey, that means shopping for many families. Black Friday deals are plentiful and some begin as early as 6pm on Thursday. Last year, Amazon offered a ton of great deals. My favorite item was the Instant Pot.
Not only did I get a great deal, I made money as an Amazon Affiliate. When you use one of the links I shared, a small
I saw that the Black Friday ad was released for Wal-Mart, I had to go look.
What is on your list this year?
These are some of the items I am hoping to grab next week.
Wal-Mart Black Friday 2017
We had a Halloween light like this and loved it. I think snowflakes would be pretty.
I love getting new pajamas for the kids. I always snag a few for each of the boys.
They have gotten
Today I really felt like being crafty.
I made a winter wreath, a yarn wrapped picture frame, and some subway art printables. Then I did one of those pour paintings. It is still drying so I will have to add a picture tomorrow. Crafting won't bring any real income, but it helps me feel productive which keeps depression and anxiety at bay.
I want to share my printables with you. Click on the
So... I am am back to being a SAHM again.
I loved being back in a classroom but the stress of coworkers, short staffing, and overtime hours was too much for us. I had considered quitting when the boys had issues at school. They didn't hate the before/after school care but it was too big of an adjustment to our life. Earlier bedtimes and morning alarms were overwhelming for all of us. My