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Launch a Search-And-Destroy Mission: Where Do Fleas Hide?   

One of the primary reasons why eradicating a stubborn flea population is so tricky is because these tiny parasites know how to hide. Instead of all hiding in one location, fleas prefer to dwell in several areas. This is why pet parents who rely on flea medication for dogs and do nothing to kill the fleas hiding in their homes, witness limited success. To eliminate the flea population it’s important to adopt a multi-pronged approach. Treat the pet using flea meds and use yard and home treatment sprays to attack the areas where fleas hide. This prompts the question, where do fleas hide? Following are few areas you need to cover when looking for fleas to kill.

Litter Boxes and Other Sandy Spots:  Flea larvae that develop into adult fleas are often found in sandy areas. Litter boxes for cats are ideal habitats for fleas. They not only get a warm sandy spot but they are also able to latch on to the cat when it bends downward to do its business. Apart from litter boxes, backyard sandboxes are also common habitats for fleas.

Grassy Areas:  Fleas are often found on tall leaves of grass. Using the vantage points, fleas simply jump on to the host bodies undetected when a dog or cat brushes by the leaves. This means if you have a lot of grassy area in your backyard, it’s time to trim them and apply some yard spray for fleas.

Carpets and Sofa Crevices: Much like a pet’s fur a high-pile or a shaggy carpet offers the perfect dwelling ground for fleas. Area rugs and foot mats are also susceptible to infestation. Thankfully, there are more than few ways to get rid of fleas from carpets, area rugs, and mats. Apart from using carpet sprays and powders you can use a vacuum cleaner to suck out the fleas hidden deep within the fibers. If your entire floor is carpeted and you are facing a serious infestation, it’s time to call the professionals. Most loving pet parents allow their pets on the bed and on the living room sofa. Fleas use this as an opportunity to infest sofas and beds. Thankfully, most carpet sprays and powders for fleas can be used kill off the fleas present in sofa and bed crevices.

Tile Cracks:  Any cracks and corners that are hidden from view are susceptible to flea infestations. Adult fleas, larvae, eggs, and pupae are often found in the cracks between two floor tiles. Vacuuming hardwood and tiled floors is an easy way of getting rid of them.

On the Pet’s Body: While you take care of fleas present in your home, don’t forget to attack their headquarters, that’s your pet’s body. Use pet-friendly flea shampoos to quickly kill the fleas on your pet. Spot-on treatments for fleas and ticks are also potent flea killers. Apart from getting rid of the existing fleas, these flea meds help in preventing future infestations.

Pet Bedding and Sleeping Areas: If your pet has fleas, then you can say with certainty that the pet’s bed is one of the major dwelling grounds of these bloodsucking parasites. You should also check the areas were your pet loves to lie down and take a nap.

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If you have just got a new pet, you will of course want to make sure that you are doing everything you can to look after it as well as possible. As it happens, most people will inevitably overlook one or two things when they are trying to do this, especially if it is a new pet and it’s their first time having one, or first time having a pet of that particular kind at least. No matter how much or how little experience you have, however, you can make sure that you get it just right by thinking long and hard about it beforehand, and ensuring that you are well set up to be able to look after your pet as well as possible. In this article, we are going to look at some of the essentials to prepare for in order to make sure you can do this as well as possible.

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Food

It goes without saying that you will need to feed your pet, but it goes far beyond just that. You need to find out what specific food is best for not only the type of pet you have, but the breed or mind as well, along with whether there are any different diet options for different weights too. If you are carrying out this kind of research beforehand then you will be able to stock up on all the right stuff in time for your new pet’s arrival, so you don’t have to worry about rushing around to find the right stuff after the fact. In this way, you will be able to ensure that you are looking after their health from the very first day. See https://www.thespruce.com/choosing-a-dog-food-1118452 for how to choose the right food.

Toys

Most pets will want or need some kind of toy or another in order to enjoy themselves, and what kind depends on the type of pet you have. If you take a look at www.dogsbynina.com you will see that there are probably more kinds of pet toys available than you might have thought, and it’s worth playing around and seeing whether you can find a few options for your new pet to try and enjoy. The more options you provide, the more likely it is that they will be able to fully enjoy themselves in their new home, so this is something you really want to think about long and hard in the early days. The right toys can really make a world of difference.

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Exercise

For some pets, such as dogs, you need to make sure that they are getting a regular and high amount of exercise. If you fail to do this, it can lead to many health problems and even mental issues such as depression. Instead, try to ensure that you are taking your dog out for walks every day, and that you give them as much time as possible to run around in the garden as well. For something like a cat, you need to do less yourself, but still need to allow them to run around outside whenever they please.

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While your dog may not yelp in pain because it stood on a piece of Lego or constantly whack it’s funny bone on the bedroom door twice a day, there are plenty of ways an accident can strike your beloved pooch. It’s part and parcel of being a dog. It’s part and parcel of life. That’s why you need to know what to do should a worst-case-scenario happen – it’s what could make all the difference and turn that “uh oh” scenario into a “phew”.

The problem is, not many puppy parents are prepared for a sudden crisis. Okay, that was us being quite kind. Most dog owners don’t have a clue of basic first aid and that can mean all rational decisions go out the window at the one time you really, really need to keep a level head.

That’s why we have pulled together a quick list of common emergencies your dog could face at some point in their gorgeous little lives, and what you can do to keep that smile on their face.

  1. Burns Are Horrible

If you’ve brushed a recently boiled kettle before then you’ll know just how much being burned sucks, and we know what happened. So just imagine how much it must hurt for a dog to get caught out by an open flame or, worse yet, a chemical. It’s why you need to provide care as soon as you can. First things first, you need to create a muzzle. We know that sounds horrible, but it’s a) for your safety and b) to stop your dog getting all licky with the wound and making it worse. After this, you need to flush the wound with water before wrapping it in a cold compress. You know, ice cubes in a towel. That sort of thing.

  1. Toxins Are Terrible

If a chemical says it is harmful to humans then you can be sure it is going to make a dog’s life miserable. We’re talking household cleaning products, pesticides, poisons, and anything else like this. If your dog has come in contact with some sort of toxin, you need to use water or a sterile flush to get rid of it ASAP. If, however, your pup has consumed a toxin, you need to phone your vet or some Animal Poison Control Centre and tell them everything you can about the toxin in question. Depending on the toxin in question, you may need to do something you have never done before: make your dog vomit. This won’t be anyone’s definition of fun, but it could be a lifesaver. Either way, you should always take your dog to a vet if they have consumed some sort of toxin. Always, always.

  1. Eye Injuries Are Awful

There is no easy way of saying this: eye injuries are horrendous, but the worst part is they can be experienced in numerous ways. It could be a physical injury sustained from an attack from a nasty dog, it could be they got caught in a bramble bush, or even a chemical got into their eyes. Whatever it is, a qualified vet needs to treat eye injuries. Of course, there are some things you can do as you speed toward your vet’s office, such as applying a cold compress or using an eye wash solution to flush any toxins away if it was an exposure to chemicals that caused the issue. Sterilized salines are great for this. If, however, you don’t have access to this, try using clean distilled water.

  1. Insect Stings Are Nasty

It can be so easy to dismiss insect stings as little more than nothing. You might even say, “well, you shouldn’t have been sticking your nose into that wasp’s nest should you?” But even though you’re right about the wasp nest, you need to take insect stings super-seriously. Sure, a single sting or bite from a wasp or ant won’t cause too much problem to most dogs. But some dogs can be super-sensitive to this kind of experience and even have an allergic reaction. If this is the case with your lovely pooch, you need to get to your vet as quick as your car-slash-legs will carry you because stings can only get worse with time. In the meantime, you need to clean the wound, remove any visible stingers that might have been left behind and reduce the pain with either water of a cold compress. If you see swelling start to appear, you might even want to give your doggy some Benadryl to reduce it. However, only do this if your vet says it is okay as this is one of the medications that can bring on a sudden bout of drowsiness. If the swelling happens on their face or neck, you might find they start to have problems trying to breathe. That’s when you need to help them keep their airways open as you get to the vet for some medication that is going to zap that swelling in the snap of your fingers.

  1. Choking Is The Worst

Dogs are some of the most curious animals in the entire kingdom and they love to explore with their mouths, which is why they chew everything that looks even the slightest bit yummy. The issue is choking. If you put stuff in your mouth that isn’t meant to be chewed on, you’re going to choke on something sooner or later. They might be coughing, they might be pawing at their mouth, their lips might have gone a blueish color – they are all signs your dog is struggling to breathe and all reason you need to get your first-aid on right this second. First things first, check your dog’s mouth to see if anything is visible. If it is, pull it out with anything you can; pinched fingers, pliers, anything. If this doesn’t work, you need to do CPR and hope the sudden burst of air will dislodge it.

Being a dog owner is the best, but it ain’t without its hairy moments.

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North America is a big and beautiful place, with enough natural scenery to keep even the most avid outdoor lover busy for years on end. Yet while the built-up areas of the continent only make up around 1% of the total surface area, for many people in, it is in those built up zones where the true magic of North America resides. If you’re looking for a place to see what life is really like over there, taking a look at the largest cities is a good start. Below, we take a look at some of the continents four biggest metropolitan areas.

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New York City

Is there a city on earth more iconic than New York? We don’t think so. North America’s largest city, this is the birthplace of so many movements, art, and just about everything else that the west celebrates. Drop yourself into Manhattan, and you’ll be able to walk through history, the present, and the future. In short, this is just about the best place to soak up the best of mankind. You’ll find every type of person and ways of being in the five boroughs. A must visit for everyone who loves exploring.

Mexico City

There’s nowhere quite like Mexico City. The country’s capital, and North America’s most populated city, it is a treasure trove of color, sounds, history, and all-out life. Book yourself into the Courtyard Mexico City Airport, and you’ll be perfectly situated to explore all that this magnificent city has to offer. It’s an old city, so as you wander the streets you’ll find buildings and monuments that date back to the 13th century and up to the present day. But Mexico City is so much more than just its cultural highlights; it’s a place to sit back, watch the passersby, and enjoy the good life.

Los Angeles

You can stroll through New York and Mexico City, but Los Angeles? Nope, you’re going to need a car, because, here, everyone drives! While people think they have an understanding of the city thanks to the glamor of Hollywood, this is only partially true – the city is so much more than just opportunities to spot the rich and famous (though do this too!). You can also explore institutions such as the Natural History Museum and the Getty Center, or just take a stroll through beautiful Santa Monica.

Washington DC

DC is a large city in two senses. It’s geographically large, but also home to the largest seat of power in the world, the White House! This city is for the America history buffs; many of the events that have shaped the modern world were born in the hallways of the city’s most famous political buildings. While most of the attractions are connected with politics, be sure to check out the National Air and Space Museum, which is fascinating whether you’re a NASA nerd or not.

With so many great cities on offer, it’s no wonder North America remains so culturally and politically significant. Check them all, and you’ll have a deep understanding of what makes this part of the world tick.

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We all need to take some time out of our busy lives and schedules to think about the future. Everyone is encouraged to live in the here and now, and while there is an element of truth to that, you also need to think about your future. I think we can all agree that time can move really quickly. So how do you get a handle on the future? What can you do to make a difference? I thought I would share with you some of the ways you can do it.

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Make good investments

Investments sound like a scary prospect, but actually you can make wise decision with a little research and trial and error. There is always going to be an element of risk to investing in things like stocks, but they can prove to be very lucrative in the future if the stock prices rise and you sell at the right time. If you want to start on this journey, why not look to some of the big names like the Netflix stock price as a point of interest to begin with. You can invest big, or you can invest on a smaller scale, but often once you get going you will learn to spot the good investments and the potential over the more riskier ones.

Start saving

The next thing to think about would be to have a savings plan. Many people struggle with savings, as they feel they have more to save for on the short term like vacations than they do with the long term. But a small amount that you won’t miss each month can help you to start savings on a bigger scale. It could equate to a take out per month, one take away coffee per week, anything that you can scale and won’t miss. It can certainly really help you to start building up your future without it really affecting your current lifestyle.

Have a plan

The best thing about your future is that you need to think about having some form of plan for it. You probably won’t be able to predict where you will be in life, but you can certainly pinpoint the things you would like to do. People tend to focus their retirement on things like travel, where you can really try and enjoy some of the experiences this world has to offer. A little time invested on creating a bucket list could be a great way to move these dreams forward and give you something to aim for with your future.

Get on the property ladder

Finally, the last thing you can do towards your future is to consider getting on the property ladder. It is a great form of investment for you as property values tend to increase over time. The sooner you do it, the sooner you can move forward with investments and hopefully increase the profit in terms of your property value. It is one of the best ways to create a nest egg for your future.

I hope these tips help you consider your future.

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At times it feels like the ABCs of life. You get a job, get married and have kids. The rest is history; or is it? Well not everyone is ready to fall into this routine just yet. Although many people do consider having a family at a young age, work and careers often get in the way. It’s only right that you try to aim for your goals in the professional sense before you head off to be a parent full-time. However, if only life were that smooth, but luckily we’re not machines that can be turned on or off. Life is complicated, and you can run into issues all the time of any kind. Some things you just cannot avoid altogether which means you have to prepare. If you’re not ready to be a parent here are some things you can do in the meantime.

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Read up baby health care

Okay, so you’re not planning on having a baby just yet, that’s fine. What you can do in your spare time is to read up on how newborn babies are kept healthy. Lots of parents actually are quite right to feel like they’re lost in the woods while embodying the spirit of a headless chicken. Don’t be one of those people. When it comes to vaccines, jabs and other preventive measures, you have a whole wealth of information online. Take a peek at governmentally approved websites that are regional and at state level healthcare providers. Even just typing into Google News search terms like ‘baby health’ and ‘baby illness symptoms’ will give you a list of potential articles to read up on.

Taking measures

Living a hectic life of a young professional opens you up to a world of new possibilities. During your early years of hard work, innovation, climbing the career ladder and taking on new and weighted responsibilities also comes with meeting new people. Suddenly you find yourself in a romantic and serious relationship, but you’re both still focussed on career goals. One day an unfortunate event happens in that you find out, despite your safe sex adherence you’re pregnant. Not wanting to be a mother just yet, there are people who can help you through a tough and emotionally sensitive time. Companies like Family Planning Associates Medical Group offer different abortion procedures and methods. The staff will look after you and take the time to actually listen to you. Every case is different, and your health and wellbeing are going to be a high priority.

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Get used to it

Putting off making your own family can soon begin to weigh on you. Self-doubt is horrible in the best of circumstances, but when it comes to feeling worthy of being a parent, it can be debilitating. Do not allow these feelings to overcome you. If and when you can offer to babysit for your friends and family. This will keep you in tune with babies and being a good mother. Listen to their calls and cries, and get used to how they react to different things like changing diapers and feeding time.

Chasing your career is important to who you are. Life has more to offer than a family even though that side of life is incredibly important. There’s no use in going cold turkey then, so keep in touch with some form of parenting up until you’re finally ready.

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If you’ve been feeling rather down lately, whether that be from a bad breakup or a nightmare boss, it’s only normal that you should treat yourself to something. But rather than a box of chocolates and a bottle of wine (although these work too!), why not change it up a little. The box with soon be empty, and so will that bottle, so maybe you should find something that lasts a little longer…

A pet. Pets are awesome, and anyone that doesn’t already own one is missing out big time. Here are all the reasons why.

Laughter

Pets do so many different things that make us laugh. Whether it be when a dog chases his own tail round in circles, or when a cat makes perfect eye contact with you, only to knock off everything that is on the table. And we love them for it! They say that laughter is the best medicine, and this really is true. It decreases the stress hormones and instead, increases our immune cells which help us to fight off infections and illnesses. It also triggers that wonderful chemical called endorphins that make us feel oh so good.

Support     

If you struggle with a form of mental illness, then having a pet can really help that. Take a dog for example; they are able to give you a support that sometimes other humans can’t offer, and that is why a doctor can now prescribe you with an emotional support dog certificate so that you can have your very own companion to make the daily struggles easier. They provide you with a friend that’s there to give you cuddles and affection, and they will even encourage you to get out of the house, because they need to be walked. It’s your job to take on that responsibility, which breaks you out of a negative routine and shows you how beautiful the world can be.

Company

At times, you may feel as though you’re alone, and yet you’re not ready to invite all of your friends over either – this is where a pet comes in. They give you that sense of presence that you may be lacking. You can play with them, pet them, and feel all that love headed in your direction. And they don’t even ask for anything in return. It is said that dogs can love a person unconditionally, regardless of what kind of job they have, how much money they make, what colour their skin is, or how many followers they have on Instagram. These creatures are the ones with the purest of intentions, so if you’re looking to share your company with someone – get a pet.

And there you have it. You have the most popular reasons laid out in front with you, so have a think about what it is you want, and always do your research first. Different breeds have different traits, so be sure to familiarise yourself with these so you know they are the one for you, that fits easily into your life.

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The style of parenting varies from one person to another. There are those parents who will tell you that babies should not be allowed to cry while others will tell you it is healthy for the baby to cry.  When it comes to letting babies cry, opinions differ a lot. Some will say you are spoiling the child and others will say not picking a crying a child is a way of letting him know it is not always he will get what he wants. If you are a mother looking for answers to this question, here is what research has to say about this.

Cuddled kids grow with less anxiety

Recently released research has discovered that kids who were cuddled developed into well-controlled grownups with good mental fitness and less nervousness.

Crying ruins the development of kids

According to research, it is not possible to spoil newborns with cuddles. Not picking up the child when he is crying might ruin his development. The earlier you start picking your child when he is weeping, the better it is for his development. Studies say that kids expect a lot of holding, rocking and touching during their initial months. Whatever you do at this stage impacts the way the brain will grow. Studies have also established that, together with hugging, positive babyhood full of quality time and a lot of affection resulted in adults who are healthy with excellent surviving skills. Also, studies recommend that affection and love to upset, crying child is developmentally vital since it sets the foundation for a strong bond.

Keeps kids calm

In the early months of children, all the systems of in a child’s body are setting how they will be working. Picking him is a way to soothe the baby. If you allow the infant to cry so much, the systems will be put under stress. While this is all about research, we can experience it in our everyday lives, adults who are not loved or feel abandoned are likely to be stressed and find it difficult to self-calm.

Babies below six months have this time to grow that special bond with the family. Therefore, these are moments any parent or caregiver needs to offer more attention to the baby as they might be crying seeking help. When you pick the baby, you respond to his needs.

Bottom line

If you have a little one and have been ignoring her while she cries, you have been making a huge mistake. Babies who were hugged in their early months become healthier empathetic and less depressed adults. Holding the baby or picking him when he is crying does not mean spoiling him. Babies cannot speak, and their only way of communication is by weeping. It feels good for the baby to- know that he is exceptional to the family and holds the highest place in each of the family members. While it is healthy to soothe a crying child, it is even better if you know the crying patterns of your child.

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Remember the day when phones didn’t have cameras? Or even texting? Yes, the most recent generation thinks we are crazy for reminiscing those days but they were are simpler time. My generation were the ones that started the obnoxious bathroom selfie trend with your basic digital camera. Drove me nuts seeing those flashes in mirrors. But I did carry my camera around to capture moments with friends. I got my first camera when I graduated high school to take with me on my exchange program to Japan. It was a Kodak. I felt so cool because it had a screen to review images. Oh yea, it was awesome. But in the past decade (plus) the digital camera for every day use has made leaps and bounds from where it was.

They not only have the ability to shoot more photos but you get a better quality photo. One of  the things I still enjoy about these is their size. Light weight and easy to pack in a purse, pocket or in your luggage. Unless you are trying to take artistic photos or create a special effect, these are great for the individual just trying to capture memories.

If you are looking for one for your child and don’t want to spend a lot then this would be a great choice.

Mr. Hound has this one. It has been great for us. He takes it with him on vacations and it has produced great photos when he needs an image to sell a product online.

If you are looking for a high quality shot with the convenience of a small camera, then this may be just the one for you. With the ability to send the images to your phone or put them online immediately, you will fall in love quickly. A higher price tag but definitely a higher quality.

If you are in need of some extra memory, this is a great deal on a 32 gb memory card. Normally I see them for over $20 at the store. I will be stocking up on these.

With so many great moments to capture, how will you get them?

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Do you enjoy scrolling Instagram accounts where every shot it perfectly posed? Where it looks like they had Annie Leibovitz or Alfred Eisenstaedt directing them? Not going to lie, I do enjoy those accounts myself. But after I got my camera, it got me thinking. Why are we so attracted to things that aren’t the every day norm? Why are we so attracted to the man that holding an arm full of puppies? Why are we so attracted to the woman who is posed in $120 jeans with the perfect sun beam? Honestly, that is something I will never truly be able to understand.

I have never been the type of woman to really make over myself. I spent most of middle school with my hair in a pony and rocking Billabong and Roxy. I was more into being comfortable than I was taking the extra time to appreciate my features. When I met Mr. Hound at 16, I put in a smidge more effort in order to impress him. Which now seems like such a waste. Now that I am about 7 months away from 30, I have found myself taking the time to make myself up. Even if I just have to run errands, I am applying things to my face and making even my messy bun attractive. At night I can be found applying an eye cream to prevent crows feet.

Honestly though, there are days where I wish I knew how to do my makeup like it was done professionally or that my hair wasn’t insanely thick so that I’d have the patience to curl it more. I wish these things because I have noticed that when I do my hair and apply my makeup, I walk with such confidence. My demeanor is morphed into that of a woman that knows what she wants and how to get it. I no longer feel ashamed of my flaws.

The other day, I was going through my file of “Need to Organize” photos. Yes, every photographer knows this folder and how scary it can become. I found this photo of my cousin. She had just had a baby a few hours prior to this photo. She looked amazing. Her hair wasn’t wild, her skin wasn’t flushed, she was glowing. She had asked that no photos of her be posted online but didn’t mind if the new baby was posted. I understood as a woman and a mom but thought, she is crazy. She looks fantastic. If I had looked that good after labor, I would have been calling everyone to take my photo with my new child. Society as a whole has been damaged. We have been scarred by the words of someone we don’t know saying something harsh about another human being that shares a similar trait to us. We began to criticize our own features and scold ourselves for having them.

I shot some photos of a family and not to sound vain but they turned out amazing. The family was so wonderful to work with and followed direction wonderfully. When I sent them the photos, the mom said she hated all of the ones of herself. She asked me to touch things up on her. Pointing out things that no one else would notice. I kept trying to reassure her that she looked fantastic and should be proud of herself. It broke my heart to see her upset over these images. I retouched the areas she asked and sent them back. She still wasn’t happy. It wasn’t my work, it was she wasn’t confident in her beauty.

When I am editing photos, I zoom in on them. I see things others may not want me to see. But here is the thing folks, we are all going to get older. We are all going to age. Yes, some do it as gracefully as a flower. Others, get results much sooner than hoped. It is learning to appreciate who you are. Appreciate what you have. Appreciate where you come from.

Big secret about me and something I honestly hate about myself; I have DNA that makes me fuzzy. Yes, fuzzy. I have super thick hair, Eugene Levy eyebrows, see-through blonde hair on my body and dark hair on my legs from my knees down (don’t ask me why, I’m not complaining because it could be dark on the rest of my legs and arms).  As I have gotten older, I have learned that it comes from family. I mean, I honestly would have preferred to inherit an Italian Riviera home but this is what I got. It is who I am. I am the gal that wears glasses, still gets the random blemish, has stretch marks from pregnancy, morning breath that could kill a moose, love handles and is still as clumsy as I was in middle school basketball.

If we are not able to appreciate what we see in a photo without extreme editing, then how are we going to appreciate what we see in the mirror each morning? Now don’t forget that I did admit to loving those perfect Instagram accounts but that doesn’t mean I want them flooding my feed. What I appreciate is when someone is honest about themselves and shows that they are vulnerable. I was reading this one caption and she said, ” I spent hours getting ready for this photo. This photo took a matter of minutes to take. The things we do for our personal business.” First thought was, Geeze woman! If I don’t have to shower and dry my hair then I can be ready in 15 minutes. Then I thought, good for you for actually posting something that showed how silly we can be at times.

Look at a tree. A tree starts from something so small and grows into something majestic. It is constantly changing yet we do not look at the tree and tell it that it is ugly or malformed. We do not tell it to keep it’s leaves. When it changes, we smile and say how beautiful it looks. We see the changes each season and bask in them. I would hope that you remember to see the changes in yourself as something majestic and own them with pride.

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