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How The Power Of A Question Can Transform Your Life

How The Power Of A Question Can Transform Your Life. What’s The Difference Between The Why And How Questions?….

You may or may not know that questions are very powerful and have the ability to keep us stuck in our misery or free us towards our perfect life…

What do want?…

Stuck in poor health, stuck in unhealthy relationships, stuck in financial lack, stuck in a career or a life you don’t want?….

Or…

Freedom in outstanding health, freedom in deep and meaningful relationships, freedom in financial abundance, freedom in a career and life you love…

Now.. odds are, that you’re already enjoying 1, 2 or 3 of these areas of your life and that’s a wonderful thing…

We love to celebrate and enjoy our wins as much as possible…

If your like most people there is that one or two areas of your life that’s a real mystery to you…

It doesn’t matter how hard you try, how hard you work on it, you can never seem to get on top of it and master it….

You know what I mean, don’t you?….

It’s like you’ve been programmed to get the same results that you keep getting and don’t want…

Years ago, for me, it was my health…

110 kilos, high blood sugar, low energy, high cholesterol, aches and pain in my body, you name it, I had it….

I was a walking disaster ready to explode….

I want to share one thought with you today that could turn the tide for YOU very quickly without having to further investigate your childhood programs that also could need some tweaking….

Try this first…

When your working on your challenge ask the HOW question in a positive way and not the WHY question in a negative way…

How The Power Of A Question Can Transform Your Life

WHY….Negative…..

– Why Am I so fat? Because I’m lazy…
– Why Can’t I exercise? Because I’m too busy…
– Why Do I eat junk food? Because I love it…

This type of questioning will give you answers to questions you don’t want…

They lead you nowhere and keep you stuck…

Now flipping it to a HOW, positive question gives us a whole different focus….

HOW…Positive….

– How Can I get fitter and healthier? Start to move more and eat less…
– How can I exercise daily? Walk to work….
– How can I eat more healthy food? Bring a salad to work from home…

Now we are focusing our mind to look for positive things to do which will definitely help us to get unstuck….

This is a very power way of changing the questions we ask ourselves to direct us exactly where we want to go in life….

Test it out, see and experience the results for yourself…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

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The 3 Most Dangerous Words In The English Language To Your Success.

The 3 Most Dangerous Words In The English Language To Your Success. We already know that our words are very powerful and they either motivate us or stop us dead in our tracks…

Words only cover 7% of our communication and its a very important 7%, so we need to be conscious of the words we are using and how they impact us and our results…

Did you know that there are 3 words that are extremely dangerous to say?…

3 words that will stop us dead in our tracks and cause our mind to shut down and all communication and learning to stop….

These 3 words will set up a resistance to information that could be the key to us overcoming a challenge, finding that perfect solution and achieving those results we have been searching for so long…

We need to eliminate these 3 words from our vocabulary because they are a humongous road block to achieving our goals and happiness in our life….

So what are those 3 words that are so poisonous to our success in life?…

“I KNOW THAT!”

When we say these words our mind shuts down, stops listening and puts up a wall to further communication on the subject….

When I’m talking with potential clients to see if we are a good fit to work together, I hear them say, “I KNOW THAT”….

listen up….

The only time we really know something is when we are applying it in our life and we are getting results….

We may know it intellectually, great, I know it in my head, I’m successful in my head….

If I’m not getting results in reality, I don’t have all the information yet, I don’t know it yet…

Many of us say, I KNOW THAT, yet we still have the problem….

Stop it, Stop it, stop it NOW…

Delete those words from your vocabulary…

Understand this….

We can make many distinctions on a subject and get further information and understanding, and it’s in those small distinctions where all your answers are, all your solutions, to all your current challenges…

Comment below and share how these 3 words have impacted your life….

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Habits Are So Easy To Maintain And Keep Them Going For A Life Time

Habits Are So Easy To Maintain And Keep Them Going For A Life Time. We are creatures of habits, that’s right, we are a whole bunch of habits that are so easy to maintain and run without even thinking about it…

Our life is the result of all our habits, what an empowering concept…

I can remember years ago when I had the habit of not exercising…

It was so easy not to exercise as I was too busy, too tired, it was too early, it was too late…

My habit of not excising was so easy most of the time I just didn’t think about it at all, one week, one month, one year would pass and it was so easy not to exercise…

It was the same with my habit of eating and drinking everything I wanted…

This habit was so easy when it came to eating hamburgers, French fries, pies, drinking wine, beer and spirits…

It was such an easy habit to maintain and I did maintain it for a long time and my body reflected the results of this habit…

Habits are so easy to maintain…

Now the question is, are you running habits that support the life you want or are they habits that are creating a life you don’t want?

Now, My habit of exercise is 6 days a week.

I just do exercise without even thinking about it. It’s so easy, I just get up and do it, no need to think, I just automatically do it daily, it’s a habit…

It’s the same with my eating habits, I just eat more life enriching foods, drink lots of water, I don’t need to think about it, I just do it, it’s a habit…

When our good habits out weigh our bad habits, our life takes on a whole new positive look and feel…

We want our habits working for us, not against us…

Talk to me, message me, for your own personal habit REPROGRAM NOW and get it together…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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How Can I Use More Of My Subconscious Mind To Improve My Life?

How Can I Use More Of My Subconscious Mind To Improve My Life? I just got of the phone after speaking to Salguod, who was telling me about her sales program that’s going to help me attract more leads and close more sales….

It was a very interesting conversation and I definitely learned a few things and it activated my mind to some real possibilities to move forward…

Towards the end of the call Salguod asked me a very good question…

What can I do to use more of my Subconscious Mind?…

Can you give me a specific example of something you would like to achieve, I asked….

I have a financial goal to earn 10K per month….

Wonderful, are you currently doing a visualization process, no, came the reply….

Listen up, this is what you can do….

– Get comfortable sitting tall in a chair with your eyes closed…

– Take 10 long deep breathes to quieten you conscious mind and relax your body…

– In your minds eye, visualize, yourself making the 10K every month, see yourself working, talking to clients, see your sales rising as you serve your clients….

– See, feel, hear, taste and smell, using all your 5 senses to get emotional, making it real in your mind as if it’s already happened, see it as already happened….

– Do this process 2-3 times a day, 5 minutes each time….

– Then for the rest of the day take massive action serving your clients until your hit your 10K per month….

That’s one way to engage your Subconscious Mind to assist you in improving your life…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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How To Make Every Relationship You Have A Win Win Relationship.

How To Make Every Relationship You Have A Win Win Relationship. How would you like to have all your relationships deep and meaningful from your soul mate to your friends, work colleagues, customers and suppliers?….

It’s very possible and achievable with this simple yet very effective technique…

We all know what a bank account is, don’t we…

Yes, we most definitely do, and we know exactly how it works….

A place we deposit our money and withdraw our money when we need it…

We all have the same account with every person we meet yet we call it a different name, we call it a RELATIONSHIP BANK ACCOUNT….

With every person we meet we are either making a deposit or a withdrawal, I’m either building it up or emptying it out….

My relationship bank account is abundant when I make deposits like:

– Say hello…
– Compliment someone…
– Smile and acknowledge people…
– Help someone…
– Serve someone…
– Praise people…
– High five someone…
– Give your energy to another person…
– Give your undivided attention…
– Respond to another person quickly…

These are all deposits we can make into all our different relationship bank accounts on a daily basis….

We are bankrupt in our relationships when we make withdrawals like:

– Ignore people…
– Don’t acknowledge people’s effort…
– Fight and argue with people…
– Not respecting another’s opinion…
– Sending someone a disrespectful look…
– Not responding to another’s message….
– Disrespecting someone’s time…
– Making people wrong…

How are your relationship bank accounts going, are they deep, meaningful, enjoyable, abundant or are they shallow, meaningless, painful and bankrupt?….

Are you making more deposits or withdrawals?…

You will know by the results you are currently achieving….

Making more deposits than withdrawals is always a great
strategy…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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How Do You Talk To Yourself And Treat Yourself Love Yourself

How Do You Talk To Yourself And Treat Yourself Love Yourself. We spend a lot of time talking to ourselves and having conversations in our head…

Now, you may or may not be aware of these conversation going on inside your head, I can assure you they are happening…

It’s one of the ways we communicate to ourselves….

Have you ever seen someone who was actually talking to themselves out loud, and we think they are mad, well, not much more than the rest of us who are having the same conversation in our head…

I believe most people are aware of this internal dialogue going on most of the time, yes or yes?…

Listen up…..

What’s the tone of this dialogue, what’s the theme of this dialogue, what’s the story your repeating over and over again?….

Are you tough on yourself, are you beating yourself up, are you making yourself wrong, are you pulling yourself down, are you hating yourself?….

Or….

Are you kind to yourself, are you gentle to yourself, are you accepting of yourself, are you building yourself up, are you saying kind words to yourself, are you loving yourself?….

Depending on how you treat yourself in your internal world others will treat you the same in your external world….

When we can love ourselves, accept ourselves and be kind to ourselves and our cup is full, then we have plenty of the same for those around us…

If we treat our friends the same way we treat ourselves we wouldn’t have any friends, so we must stop treating ourselves that way….

Here’s the deal…

Become aware of your internal talk and how you treat yourself…

If it’s positive and uplifting, continue, step up and make it even better…

If it’s less then positive and uplifting, start now to change the way you talk to yourself, change the way you treat yourself…

Making this shift will create a whole new feeling and experience in your internal world and more positive results will appear in your external world…

Happy creating…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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What Type Of Coaching Do You Do And Who Do You Work With – Elevator Pitch

What Type Of Coaching Do You Do And Who Do You Work With  Elevator Pitch. When you meet someone for the first time at a networking event or in your day to day activities, how do you introduce yourself?…

How do you encapsulate in a few words or small paragraph to let the person in front of you know what you do or how you help people?….

Our careers can be somewhat complex and not always easy to express in a short succinct way unless we take the time to think about it and include major elements of what we do….

For example when people ask me, hey Paul, what do you do for a living?…

I could easy say, I’m a coach and trainer….

These days people are becoming more familiar with coaching yet its still a bit of a mystery as to exactly what a coach does….

A coach does many things and to sum it up is a small paragraph can be challenging…

I’ve been thinking about it lately and I’m working on my latest elevator pitch of what I do, here is what I have so far…

What Type Of Coaching Do You Do And Who Do You Work With  Elevator Pitch.

I’m a behavioral communications coach, I work with top C level managers, CEO, CFO, COO etc, and teach them the art of self communication, how you talk to yourself, so they are self driven and empowered, then we also work on their external communication skills to ensure immediate, positive results and the empowerment of their own team and those they work with…

That’s the helicopter view, the, in a nutshell glimpse, of what I do as a coach….

How about you?…

Do you have an elevator pitch of what you do and who you serve so it’s easy for people to see immediately what you do when you first meet them?…

Make it your mission to come up with your own elevator pitch today and please share it with us…

Have a great day…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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How To Confidently Move In Your Body.

How To Confidently Move In Your Body. When I was younger, not too many years ago, I didn’t know how to operate, drive my body…

My spirit wasn’t fully connected to my body and you could see it a mile away if you were looking at me moving around…

– Poor posture…
– Eyes all over the place…
– Slow walking / timid….
– Using weak words…
– Energy levels low….

These were just a few of the symptoms of my body mind disconnect….

The body can reflect our inner state at any moment of the day and reveal what’s going on, on the inside…

DR Wayne, I remember, always use to say, we are a spiritual being having a physical experience…

One of the things I share in my training’s and coaching sessions is about how to connect to our physical body so we are able to move through the day, move through life and maximize our results….

Awareness of how I’m moving NOW is the first step…

In many cases we only need to change our posture a fraction of an inch and it will make the world of difference in how I feel, how people perceive me and the results I achieve…

A few small shifts with a huge upside….

Our body just needs a few pointers and then practice, practice, practice and before you know it your walking and talking taller and feeling fantastic…

There is a cybernetic loop between our physical body and our mind…

What that means is that our body can affect our mind by how we use our body and vice versa…

Once you sharpen that body mind connection and polish it, you will feel better, look better and increase your positive results…

Our body is constantly sending a message to the world…

What message are you sending?…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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How Can My Life Change If I Don’t Change?

How Can My Life Change If I Don’t Change? Within each and everyone one of us is a part of our being that is designed to learn, grow and develop…

Its this spiritual part, this immaterial part of us that we must attend too, for our lives to change…

When I change my life changes…

Everything I have now is based on who I am and what I’m doing…

While I remain that person and continue to do the same things I will continue to get the same results in my life…

Yes or yes?…

That’s right…

It’s that law of cause and effect…

What do you want different in your life?

I asked that question to a man yesterday and he went quiet and couldn’t tell me what he wanted…

I then asked him, do you know what you don’t want?…

His reply was, how long have you got….

It’s good to know what we don’t want and even better to know what we do want…

OK, what do you want?….

I want a higher position in my company that pays more money….

Great….

To get that new position I need to be a different person to perform that function…

I need to change, grow, learn some new skills, take on more responsibilities and as I change that new position will be more suitable to me…

How can I be a great communicator if I don’t BECOME a great communicator?…

How can I be a great lover if I don’t BECOME a great lover?…

How can I have the new position if I don’t BECOME the person for that new position?…

I have to BECOME before I can have….

BECOME the person you need to be to have the things you want…

That requires us to learn, grow and change…

Keep Educating Yourself is the KEY…

Happy learning…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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Customer Service Requires Focus And Energy.

Customer Service Requires Focus And Energy. Have you ever heard the saying, “where the focus goes the energy flows?”…

I’m not sure who coined the saying, yet, I hear a few people refer to it, including myself, actually, I use it a lot…

It’s somewhat self explanatory, whatever we focus on, our energy will go towards that focus and expand it…

When we have a conversation with someone, we focus on them, looking at them, listening to them and responding to them…

That’s how people feel heard and validated, that’s how we build rapport in all our relationships..

Have you ever been talking with another person and you could see they were distracted, not listening, not interested, not even looking at you most of the time…

How does that make you feel?…

That’s right….

It’s not nice…

Yesterday I ducked into a convenience store to pick up some lozenges and I felt like I was invisible to the girl serving me behind the counter…

That’s right….

She was having a conversation with her colleague and served me, while continuing the conversation with her colleague…

She didn’t look at me once, handed me the lozenges while still talking and looking at her colleague….

Even though I was in a convenience store I felt like I was an inconvenience to her…

Listen up…

If you have staff or you want to sharpen your own communication skills so you can WOW your customers with some very simple and effective communication techniques and have them for life you need to join us for our 1 day skills workshop…

Communication With Clarity & Impact…

Learn these skills and you will have friends and customers who will love you for life…

Register Here Communication With Clarity & Impact…

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Love

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