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Most People Spend More Time Working On Their Job And Not On Themselves.

Most People Spend More Time Working On Their Job And Not On Themselves. I love to read, watch and listen to motivational books, videos and audios to help raise my energy levels and feel inspired…

I mentioned that to someone in passing once and they told me it doesn’t work, looking at all that motivational stuff…

Oh really, I said, please tell me more?…

I did it a few times and after a few hours or a day I was back to where I started…

Wow, that’s interesting, keep talking…

Well, I would watch a motivational video, get inspired, then after a while I would lose my inspiration….

It’s that right, now I’m curious…

Did this happen every time you watched anything motivational, or just some times?

Oh no, it happened every time, sometimes I stayed more positive longer than others…

It just doesn’t work for me…

OK I see, I’ve got it….

Do you mind if I ask you a personal question?…

Sure, fire away….

Do you shower and wash most days?

He looks at me, I see his eyes rolling around in all directions in his head, pulls a strange looking face and says, yes of cause…

Most days, every day?…

Yes, most definitely everyday, especially in this climate….

Why everyday?….

Because everyday I keep getting dirty and need to stay clean and fresh…

Understand this…

Our Mind is exactly the same, it needs to stay clean and fresh everyday as well…

Our Mind needs to be washed with daily positive books, video’s, audios, workshops, training, study, people, groups and others activities that will keep it positive and clean….

How often do you shower your mind?…

If we spent more time showering our mind our life would take on a whole new look…

When was the last time your mind took a shower?…

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Love

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How To Control That Inner Critic Inside your head?

How To Control That Inner Critic Inside Your Head? For many years I battled with my weight and I would be on all sorts of diets…

It was a real battle to stop eating all the things that I liked, mainly food that had a combination off sugar, fat and salt…

These are the 3 magic ingredients that make food task so nice and keep you coming back for more and keep you expanding when you you eat too much of them…

That Inner voice, that inner Critic can make the situation better or worst…

We need to drown out that inner voice that attempts to lead us down the wrong path, the path we want to avoid…

I was walking through the airport and I heard the voice say, “why don’t you have a bag of peanut MM’s?”….

No, shut up, I don’t want them, I would reply…

“come on, you deserve it, your on holidays, just one packet”…

No, go away, I’m in a diet, get out of here….

“start your diet tomorrow, one packet won’t hurt”…

Maybe just one small pack won’t hurt?…

“yes, now that you got the MM’s you may as well buy the bag of crisps too”…

I got the reputation around home, especially with mum, that my diet would always be starting tomorrow…

Until I took a stand and told that inner voice to shut up and go away…

I had to take a stand for my health and this inner voice just wasn’t helping…

Do you need to take a stand for something in your life?

Is there one area of your life where you need to STEP UP, take a stand and stop listening to that inner Critic, that inner voice that’s stopping you from revealing your true self?…

Make a decision, take a stand now, stay focused on your goal and don’t listen to that inner voice that’s beating a drum to a different tune…

Eventually you will tame that inner Critic to work for you and not against you…

You need to step up and take control of it otherwise it will run you all around the place and get you frustrated and dizzy leading you away from your goals…

We are all in control of our mind and thinking, therefore our results…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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How Our Life Is Been Run By Our Childhood Programs

How Our Life Is Been Run By Our Childhood Programs. When we were born we came into this world with a no programs of how to do life…

For the first 7 years of our life we developed our programs of how to do life….

We learned how to….

– How to do relationships…
– How to do health….
– How to do money…
– How to do business…
– How to show up in the world…
– How to do energy…
– How to hold our body…
– How to feed our mind…
– How & what to focus our mind….

This was our foundation period, introduction if you like, of how to do life, for the rest of our life…

Now…

You just may be thinking, who gave us these programs, these different ways of living our life?…

Great question and I’m thinking your already onto it and realized it was our…

– Parents…
– Caregivers…
– Family….
– Teachers….
– Culture….
– Society…
– Government…
– Religion…

Now, its a wonderful thing that we get programmed how to do life by all these different people and organizations…

It’s a great start to our life, and we thank them for that…

Now the challenge with this programming is that the people who installed them in us just may not have been the best authority on the subject on every program….

When we leave home and go into the world we are running some programs that can be creating problems in the different areas of our life…

Dad and mom were no good at managing money and I now have their program how to not handle money and that’s exactly what I do…

Its the same with all other areas of our life….

Our job is to keep the programs that serve us and UNLEARN the programs that don’t work for us, and INSTALL another program that will give us the results we want…

We will not get lasting results in our life until we change OUR PROGRAMS…

Change your programs, change your life….

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Love

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You Need To Get Wet To Learn How To Swim.

You Need To Get Wet To Learn How To Swim. I heard Dr Wayne Dyer say these words a few years back and they always stuck to my mind….

Actually, many of the things I say and talk about come from thought leaders like Dr Wayne…

They have so much knowledge and wisdom to share…

The rest I extract from universal consciousness which is a shared knowledge base accessible when we are in state…

So, what does he mean when he says “you need to get wet to learn how to swim”?…

I delivered a 2 hour talk this evening in Hoi An and I really drove the point home how we get results in life by taking a physical action…

We could read all the books about swimming, study all the theory, talk to experts about how to swim, watch some videos about how to swim…

If we never jump in the pool, get wet and start swimming, we will never learn…

Theory is great, theory is necessary, however, without the practice, without getting wet in our craft, we will never reach even close to been a master in what we do…

When you get wet, when you start practicing, when you take physical action, that’s when you create your own theory, based on your experience and facts…

Before you pick up another book, watch a video, or talk to an expert, go and get WET, BIG TIME…

When you do that watch the MAGIC that you will create in your life that will draw you closer to your dreams and goals quicker than you can say “Jack Rabbit”…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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How Our Human Nature Is At War With Our Human Spirit.

How Our Human Nature Is At War With Our Human Spirit. Many of us have an internal battle going on inside of us between our human nature and our human spirit…

They both have different dreams and goals and depending on which one you feed the most will flourish and grow in your life…

Our human natures goal is to survive, do as least as possible, relax and enjoy itself….

It just wants to know its alive and do as least as possible for maximum pleasure…

It likes to coffee with friends, sit around all day, relax beside the pool, watch lots of TV, eat junk food, surf social media sites mindlessly and many more unproductive activities…

Now…. Our Human Spirit wants to grow, learn and develop….

It just want to learn, Understand, grow, expand and develop…

It loves discipline, workshops, training courses, reading books, taking physical action, getting positive results, receiving feedback, any activities that will help it to grow…

One, just wants to survive while the other wants to grow….

Which one are you feeding the most, which one is getting bigger in your life?…

Where are you spending most of your time and what results are you getting?….

Our job is to feed the one we want to grow and develop in our life and starve the one we want to disappear from our life….

Which one are you feeding, which one are you growing?…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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Developing One Of Your Strengths To Shine To Success

Developing One Of Your Strengths To Shine To Success. Many people have a number of different strengths and abilities and like to turn their hand to most of them and even the things they are not that good at doing, they still want to attempt to work on it….

It reminds me of a talk Dr Wayne Dyer gave many years ago, God rest his soul, about developing your strengths…

Dr Wayne was a lecturer., spiritual writer, metaphysical teacher and much more….

He made it very clear to his wife that he was not a handyman around the house, he didn’t like that work and he just couldn’t do it…

I’m very good a philosophising, lecturing, writing books and educating people….

That’s where he spend all his time, doing those things he loved and was outstanding at doing and the more he did them the better he became and the more people he was able to influence and the more he became a world leader and authority on this subject….

What’s that ONE thing that you are naturally good at, love to do day and night and never get tired of doing?

Yes, I know your good at many things, just pick one that you can become a world leader and authority on and push everything else aside and just focus on that one thing….

It took me years to learn the principal of focused attention on one thing…

All paths that are available in life will lead us to our destination, give us our learning lessons, have us grow and discover ourselves if we accept the challenges and work with them so why not do what we naturally like and develop ourselves around that and become a master and serve others….

Become a master at one chosen field and while doing so the universe will open up and pave the way for a magnificent, wonderful life…

It’s not so much about what we do, it’s more about how we do it…

Get cracking and have a whole bunch of fun doing it….

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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How Our Emotions Are Revealed In Our Emails And Text Messages.

How Our Emotions Are Revealed In Our Emails And Text Messages. I received an email just the other day and as soon as I laid eyes on it, I could immediately feel the emotions of the person who wrote it…

The words used in the email were pleasant, nothing wrong with them…

The tone of the overall email sent a different message and I could feel that the author of the email was less then happy and motivated…

It’s a mixture of what is said, how it’s said, as well as what is not said that transmits someone’s emotion in the written word…

The physical, mental, emotional and spiritual state we are in at the time of writing will be transmitted no matter how hard we try to sugar coat it…

Our state is transmitted in the written word…

My coach showed me a way how to be congruent in state and the written word at the same time and convey the message you want to deliver and I’m going to suggest that this is the very first thing you do before you punch out your next email or text…

1 – change your state, the way you feel, before you sit down to send your message. If you received an email you didn’t like and it pushed your buttons, don’t respond in that state…

2- get out of your chair, move your body, breathe, take a few minutes settle down. Now decide the outcome of your communication and get your body and mind into that state or feeling. You may choose a state of Love, understanding, patience, happy to hear from you, how can I serve this person etc….

3 – now, in your new state prepare your written message and your words will be so much sweeter and the energetic undertone of your message will go straight to their Subconscious Mind and you will have a friend and customer for life…

When people are upset or angry, Its never about us, its all about them, so stop taking it personally, and ask how can I step up and serve this person who is hurting?…

Happy communicating in the written word…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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How Do I Stop Thinking About The Problem So I Can Feel Better.

How Do I Stop Thinking About The Problem So I Can Feel Better. Andy was fired from his job after 5 years of service and it came as a real surprise to him…

For a few days he was in another world, now when I say another world I’m specifically referring to the internal world of thought….

You know how you see people sometimes and they are deep in thought and their not aware of what’s happening around them…

It’s like their mind, spirit has checked out of their body…

We have saying for this, “the lights are on but no one is home”…

It’s during these times when we check out of our body and are deep in thought that we become clumsy and have small accidents like dropping things, loosing things, falling over, even cutting ourselves while in the kitchen…

We disconnect from our body and go on a journey in our mind, who knows where, focusing on the problem…

Where the focus goes the energy Flows..

To create a solution and move quickly as possible into greener pastures we need to unite body, mind and spirit to be more effective and keep ourselves safe…

The best way I know how to do that is GET PHYSICAL, that’s right, get back into your body, go for a walk, get into nature, observe your surroundings and stay present, where you can allow your conscious mind to focus on the present moment and keep you safe…

Depending on your challenge you may need to do extra physical movement for a period of time as you trust the process of your Subconscious Mind to come up with the solution…

When you take control of your mind, get back into your body and unite physical, mental and spiritual your are more powerful to keep safe and ride things out to a workable solution…

It’s one practice that has worked for me and I know you too will achieve similar results when you apply it…

Where the focus goes the energy Flows…

Get back into your body, get back into life…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Love

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Everyone Has Potential To Change And We Can Change.

Everyone has potential to change and we can change.When we look back in history whether it’s in business, politics, sport or in the personal life of an individual, people have risen to great heights and have realized amazing achievements…

People like Bill Gates, Warren buffet, Mahatma Gandhi, Michael Jordan, Michael Phelps, Mother Theresa, just to name a few have performed some amazing feats and achievements during their life time, that’s right, isn’t it…

They were not always like that….

They didn’t just walk into their bedroom one night and walk out the next morning and perform amazing things….

They spent hours, days, weeks, months, years, decade and in some cases half a century before they performed great things and were recognized for their contribution and achievement….

A lifetime of daily work behind closed doors for many years changing themselves and changing history in the process…

We can do the same once we DECIDE what to DO and don’t give up until we die or we achieve it, depending on which one comes first….

Manage your expectation, don’t believe everything you read on social media and the internet, dismantle that mindset of overnight success, its very rare if it does exist…

Don’t expect an ounce of recognition or success until your 5 to 10 years down the track, keep focused on learning and growing and as you do that, so to will your business and craft grow and develop, matching your personal development…

Remember, we have to be before we can have…

Yes we can change and yes it takes time and yes the harder and longer I work on myself the quicker I will change…

Yes, its hard, its tough and no one wants to go through it, if it was easy everyone would be doing it…

Substantial change is governed by the laws of nature not by the laws of instant noodles, so get that idea out of your head and be patient…

Daily, regular, consistent action steps is the quickest way to substantial, lasting positive change…

Remember to join me on Face Book or Subscribe to my YouTube Channel where most of the action happens…

Good luck…

Love

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Fired One Of My Clients, I Made The Decision And Fired One Of My Clients.

Fired One Of My Clients, I Made The Decision And Fired One Of My Clients. Customer acquisition can be very costly and time consuming and many businesses have a full time sales a marketing department working solely on this activity…

We very rarely hear of someone firing one of their clients…

Ron was telling me just a few days ago how he has fired clients before and he would do it again in a heartbeat…

Ron owns and runs an international manufacturing business and most of his clients are from Europe…

Ron’s clients come to visit his office and factory in Thailand to view samples of the different product…

Ron has a high moral standard like most people and doesn’t have much tolerance for people who chose a different path to the point that he will not do business with them…

I remember hearing years ago and I’m not exactly sure where I heard it, that, our business is an extension of who we are….

We breathe life into our business, if I’m working, my business is working…

If I violate the principles of life, the laws of nature, our inner moral code, it is directly reflected in me all that I do and touch…

Sometimes In business, before a major deal is consummated the partners will go have a round of golf and have a closer look at the way they play because how you play will be exactly the way you do business…

“How we do anything is how we do everything”….

Surround yourself in your personal life and business life with those who share the same values and beliefs and watch your business flourish and your daily positive experience increase….

We are conditioned by our environment so surround yourself with people that will support who you are and who you wish to remain…

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