This is a free preview of a paid episode. Thanks for all the amazing questions in this month’s mailbag. I’ve posted them below. You can watch the full video where I answer them all by subscribing on Lovesplaining. Patty How many times should we write back and forth on a dating app before the guy asks for a phone number? It seems like some of these guys want to be pen pals. Joya If you’re going through a big change like starting a new job, having a health procedure, etc. would it be wise to hold off on dating until you’re settled? Or does it depend and if so, is there a different way one shoul ..read more

You may be surprised by the answer. Discover how to navigate the complexities of dating in your sixties on this enlightening coaching call with Lovesplaining subscriber Susie. You’ll learn: How dating in your 60s is not that different than dating in your 30s How to identify if you’re behaving like an intern or if you are acting like the CEO of your love life. Actionable steps to break old patterns and pave the way for a fulfilling romantic future. Click here to join for Lovesplaining for free and listen to my response. ? Subscribe to Lovesplaining for free ? Take my quiz to find love now ..read more

This is a free preview of a paid episode. Click here to join for Lovesplaining for free and listen to our full conversation. On this video coaching call with Jill, a recent divorcee dating in her 60s, we discuss: The challenges of finding compatible partners amidst life transitions and geographical limitations. Learning from past experiences to find a partner with a similar lifestyle and values. How to leave the past behind and not let rejection or disrespect affect your confidence. https://youtu.be/31aY8KVSLSs ? Subscribe to Lovesplaining for free ? Take my quiz to find love now ? Apply to ..read more

This is a free preview of a paid episode. Click here to join for Lovesplaining for free and listen to our full conversation. On this video coaching call with Shari, we discuss how she can present herself as cute and sexy without attracting the wrong kind of attention from men. Together, we cover: The delicate balance of showcasing your sex appeal while avoiding potential misinterpretations. Why you shouldn’t worry about the unsolicited criticism of random men. How to write a profile that appeals on multiple levels, including playfulness, kindness, and sophistication. The power of the Love U c ..read more

This is a free preview of a paid episode. Click here to join for Lovesplaining for free and listen our conversation. On this video coaching call with Kathryn, we discuss how to balance relationship dynamics and personal development. We cover: Deciphering Relationship Signals: Kathryn shares her concerns about distinguishing between genuine red flags and opportunities for growth in her budding romance. Understanding Gender Identity: Delve into a thought-provoking discussion about its impact on relationships, as Kathryn grapples with her partner’s genderqueer identity and associated challenges ..read more

This is a free preview of a paid episode. On this coaching call with Hannah, we discuss how to balance giving a man the benefit of the doubt without being taken advantage of. We cover: Why you should pay attention to his escalation of efforts in the early stages of dating to determine if he’s interested in a relationship. How setting boundaries around intimacy can help reveal his intentions and weed out men who are not serious about commitment. https://youtu.be/Jn1mfxtfIn0 Click here to join for Lovesplaining and listen to the full conversation conversation. ? Subscribe to Lovesplaining for fr ..read more

This is a free preview of a paid episode. On this coaching call with Suzi, we discuss her dilemma of reconnecting with an old flame – who is separated, but not divorced. You’ll discover: The complexities of dating a separated man. The importance of assessing long-term compatibility early. Why you MUST pay attention to a man’s expressed intentions. https://youtu.be/daDSe4YT3mc Click here to join for Lovesplaining for free and listen to my response. ? Subscribe to Lovesplaining for free ? Take my quiz to find love now ? Apply to Love U ? Follow me on Instagram   ..read more

You may be surprised by the answer. Discover how to navigate the complexities of dating in your sixties on this enlightening coaching call with Lovesplaining subscriber Susie. You’ll learn: How dating in your 60s is not that different than dating in your 30s How to identify if you’re behaving like an intern or if you are acting like the CEO of your love life. Actionable steps to break old patterns and pave the way for a fulfilling romantic future. Click here to join for Lovesplaining for free and listen to my response. ? Subscribe to Lovesplaining for free ? Take my quiz to find love now ..read more

This is a free preview of a paid episode. On this video coaching call with Sarah, we discuss what men are looking for on the first date to lead to a second. Click here to join for Lovesplaining for free and listen to my response. ? Subscribe to Lovesplaining for free ? Take my quiz to find love now ? Apply to Love U ? Follow me on Instagram ..read more

Since it’s the last week of the year and many readers are on vacation, I’m not doing a full Lovesplaining with the 1500-word post and the different categories. Instead, I wrote about something I’ve been feeling recently. I hope it resonates with you. I look forward to returning to our regular programming next week. 17 years ago, I had a therapist tell me: “Evan, life is like a hunk of Swiss cheese – and all you do is look at the holes.” This penchant for criticism has proven to be my deepest weakness. Magnifying flaws in others kept me single for many years and undermined some of my closest re ..read more