Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast  In this episode, we explore the following questions;  Do you worry a lot?  Are you constantly on the lookout for danger? Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as our free subscription to access tools and insights to help you in your journey of transforming yourself and your relationships ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youniqueyetconnected.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get inspired and engage with us on Facebook and Instagram @youniqueyetconnected    Thank you to @ThatGuyProductions for recording via ..read more

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast  When we try to fill a void for someone else even with our best intentions we will fail. This is because by default, we make assumptions that the other person’s needs are the same as ours.  Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as our free subscription to access tools and insights to help you in your journey of transforming yourself and your relationships ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.youniqueyetconnected.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get inspired and engage with us on Facebook and Instagram @youniqueyetconnected&nb ..read more

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast    The codependent behaviours in this epsiode are;  1. Apologizing or accepting blame to avoid conflict?  Do you apologize to your partner when you have done nothing wrong? Do you check in with the other person and ask for permissions even about a daily task? Do you apologize when someone loses his temper with you in an attempt to calm down the situation? Are you always trying to keep everything peaceful?  2. Being who someone else want to be.  Do you have to give up a part of you or create ..read more

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast  “Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on in their lives, they wouldn’t have the time to sit around and talk about you. What’s important to me is not others’ opinions of me, but what’s important to me is my opinion of myself.” ― C. JoyBell C.  Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as free subscription to access tools and insights to help you in your journey of transforming yo ..read more

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast. According to Nagy, "being in a relationship is the essence of Self, as Self can exist only because of the other. Someone has to see, hear, and feel us, thus confirming our existence.This fact makes us fundamentally dependent on the other. Thus, in reciprocity, in the exact same way, the other is dependent on us” Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as free subscription to access tools and insights to help you in your journey of transforming yourself and relationships ⁠⁠⁠www.youniqueyet ..read more

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast With every development stage, we go through a so-called identity crisis and come out with a newly developed ego strength. This crisis is very important and necessary and pushes us to grow. When the crisis has been successfully dealt with, we come out of it stronger and wiser than what we were before the crisis hit us. This strong ego might sound like a bad thing because we have been made to feel that it’s unhealthy when our ego is strong. But actually the stronger our ego is, the more our healthy independence is developed ..read more

Transform your life and connections with Younique Yet Connected Podcast “When two people meet and fall in love, there's a sudden rush of magic. Magic is just naturally present then. We tend to feed on that gratuitous magic without striving to make any more. One day we wake up and find that the magic is gone. We hustle to get it back, but by then it's usually too late, we've used it up. What we have to do is work like hell at making additional magic right from the start. It's hard work, but if we can remember to do it, we greatly improve our chances of making love stay.” Tom Robbins, Stil ..read more

Transform your life and connections with us.  There are 3 needs; the need to belong, the need for equal give and take and the need to be safe in society. These needs sometimes work together, but most of the time they compete with each other. In this episode we explore how guilt and innocence feel in the 3 different cases of needs. Check out our website for the courses that resonate with you as well as free subscription to access tools and insights to help you in your journey of transforming yourself and relationships www.youniqueyetconnected.com Get inspired and engage with us on Facebo ..read more

In this episode we explore the innate motivation that compels us to fulfill the need to belong or the need for equal give and take or the need to be safe in society. The fulfilment of these needs creates an internal pressure in us and these pressures influence our behaviour. Which means that these needs are our motivators in making choices. This also means that, none of the choices that we make are fully and completely free choice. We choose according to the different motivators in our lives. The need to fulfill our needs drive our choices.  Music by Kiirya Beats ..read more

When we look at guilt or innocence they have more to do with being safe than with actual evil or good deeds. Taking on responsibilities. Trying to balance scales. Inclusion or exclusion. They all have to do with guilt and innocence. All life and system altering decisions and events have to do with the perceived guilt or innocence. Thank you For Listening Nolitha & Kinga Music provided by Kiirya Beats. Instrumental: "Africa" by Kiirya Beats Channel: http://bit.ly/2NuMylJ Guilt & Innocence; Consciousness & Their Place in The System Part 1 ..read more