Only having dick pics on your profile is like trying to sell a car online in a buyers market with only pictures of the dirty engine! No pictures of the condition of the body.  Chances are you are going to get no hits at all and passed on by for the sellers that put an effort into making their ad stand out in a positive way.  Most women are not going to give a rats ass about what your penis looks like if the person it is attached to is not their thing.  Gay men will probably praise it if that is what you are looking for however ..read more

Can Sex workers swing? Sure, who’s stopping them?   Can swingers perform sex work for a living? Yeah, why not.   But if you have an OF or a webpage in which you upload your so called “swinging” activities and adventures, to me you are sex worker/performer/porn star. Not a swinger.  And someone needs to tell you this.   Swinging is recreational sex with no transactions attached to it. You sell sexual content. Gigantic difference.   You would think that swinging and ethical non monogamy in general being brought to the mainstream by endless podcasts and YouTube channels w ..read more

Lots of the guys here like to talk about how much they like watching their wife get fucked by another man, either in a threesome or swapping, but they like to see it. These guys give two reasons; they like to see their wife enjoying herself, and they like to watch the action themselves...it gets them hot knowing some other guy is doing his wife.   Most of the other time it's the other way around for me. Sure, I like it that my wife is having a good time, we wouldn't do this otherwise, and it is hot watching her in action. For me though, it is way way hotter looking down and thinking, whoa ..read more

I hope that this post makes sense. And sorry if anyone made any similar post about this.    Like many of us, we were all swingers virgins before we took that leap into the lifestyle.    How many of you, have taken their swinging virginity ?   Do you consider it a badge of honour to help someone into the lifestyle. Or you don’t like being a teacher of sex too other, since it too much work and some people don’t like the criticism of the dos and don’t and some are afraid to give bad advice    I, myself got lucky. In no particular order 3 single guys ( my fu ..read more

Linda and I just got back from an all day and overnight with great friends. We just have to say that swinging with friends is simply the best ..read more

This is just a big THANK YOU to our members who are diligent in tagging messages as SPAM.   This immediately removes those messages from view and send them to your moderators for proper disposition.   The sooner they are hidden from view the better the list reads.     ..read more

Lubricants are a must, it goes without saying, but…..   Every woman is different for self lubricating before penetration.  Level of foreplay, excitement, point of time during her cycle, health, frequency, penis size, condom/toy use, age just to point out a few.  You can never have too much.  Also it should be a lubricant that has been proven safe to use and works for her, for her comfort and to heighten her moment.  Used with a condom it will help greatly to keep the condom on and not pulled off during active thrusting.  Also allows for a more comfortable wit ..read more

My wife had opened up and expressed her fantasy to have sex with a black man she has had a few experiences with a friend and they had some great sex together  so we said when this can happen we will got with it and let her do this,  that was last year so it took some time but she finally got her fantasy, when they got together stripped totally naked and she was sucking his cock I could see how excited she was for this,  he was a gentleman and pulled out a condom and put it on ( even though my wife likes it without)  they fucked for some good time  she them mounted him ..read more

I know this is a swinger board site not a porn board site. But I think the Answer here will be more honest than a porn board site. With all the documentary out there lately about the dark side of the entertainment industry such as former Disney/nickelodeon child stars to the dark side of the music industry to the comedy industry and everything else in between. As more former top tier stars both female and male are coming out and regrets their porn careers in this age of social media. Too many too named and given X reason why. Yes, Porn too has its dark side. I don’t deny that. Too many peopl ..read more

Sloppy seconds is a popular thread, but I would like to hear how women view sloppy seconds. Do you enjoy them and what is it that makes sloppy seconds different than the first man in ..read more