In this episode Jussi Light LMFT and Bryson Greaves Ph.d return to discuss How Family of Origin Dynamics can Translate into High Conflict Relationship Later in Life. This episode is a in-depth discussion the talks about how early beliefs can distort present time experiences that can lead to being reactive and taking things personally as well as creating the transference or projection of those early experiences on to the other co-parent. Often these behaviors are talked about in the context of Personality Disorders like Narcissism or Borderline and in less intrusive labels like Attachment Style ..read more

In this episode Brook and his co-host for this week Michelle Mitchell discuss the common state that happens when people enter into and realize the complexity of a High Conflict Divorce or Custody Case with someone with a personality disorder such as Narcissism or Borderline personality disorder. This is not unusual and working one's way through the confusion and darkness does in fact have a way out. Enjoy this episode and contemplate where you are and how you relate to this discussion. You Can contact and follow Michelle at these links :http://www.coachmichelle.club/ instagram is CoachMichelle ..read more

In this episode of the High Conflict Co-Parenting Podcast Brook and Tony discuss the difference between Capacity and Competency and that building of the container ( Capacity) has to happen first and then from there Competency can build.  Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.” https://www.highconflict.net/booklet  Join our mailing list: Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time https://www.highconflict.net/emails For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconflict.net website to register ..read more

In this episode Brook speaks with Attorney Kelli Avallone about the in's and out's, Features and Down sides of teaching for "Hidden Assets". Finding Assets can be difficult and deciding to do so should be a "Return On Investment" inquiry. Enjoy!!!! You can reach Kelli at kelli@atty-avallone.com Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.” https://www.highconflict.net/booklet  Join our mailing list: Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time https://www.highconflict.net/emails For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconfh ..read more

In this episode Brook speaks with guest Forest Bronzon from Digital Detox. Forest is the CEO of Digital Detox whose goal and purpose is to educate parents, schools and children in the differing ways to use the digital environment in a healthy and connected manner. During divorce and high conflict custody battles it is often hard to navigate boundaries regarding electronics  and rules are often different and opposite in each house. Forest discuss some of the ways to help children and parents navigate the ever evolving landscape of the digital world. Digital Detox offers many resources to h ..read more

In This Episode Brook and Tony discuss the unique stress that Tweens and Teen face in dealing with High Conflict Co-Parenting situations and how parenting styles can either mitigate the stress or exacerbate it. Giving the children room for expression and choice in direction for their lives and holding space and patience for their process is essential. Enjoy!! Get our Free High Conflict Diversion Program Booklet: “When Co-Parenting Doesn’t Work.” https://www.highconflict.net/booklet  Join our mailing list: Disengage and Thrive: One Email at a Time https://www.highconflict.net/emails For cl ..read more

In this episode Brook has special guest David Forrestall CEO of SecurIT360 to talk about how to best secure you and you children from the ability of your Ex or for that matter anyone else from being able to track/cyberstalk. Mr. Forrestall give practical and useable information on securing you devices, social media, cloud based storage and applications. Also in the notes below he has provided links to a video he produced with the Cyber help line that will help guide you through many of the processes. Thanks for your continued listenership. You are the reason we continue to provide you with the ..read more

 In this Episode Brook interviews Dr. Craig Malkin, author of the internationally acclaimed, Rethinking Narcissism is a clinical psychologist and Lecturer for Harvard Medical School with over 30 years of experience helping individuals, couples, and families.  This interview goes into the creation of the Narcissistic personality and separates out the healthy and unhealthy parts of narcissism. Another must listen to multiple times. You can access Dr. Malkin's website: http://www.drcraigmalkin.com/ Youtube channel: http://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9X9sdn_4JtZxqIoGA9Xnkg Get our Free Hig ..read more

In this episodeDive into the captivating world of human interaction with Dr. Deb Dupree on her guest appearance on “The High Conflict Co-Parenting” Podcast.  Join Dr. Deb and Brook Olsen as they explore the intricate workings of our brains in conflict situations, unraveling the neuroscience of conflict to shed light on 10 common triggers for fear-based, emotional reactions and the barriers that hinder effective communication. Through expert analysis and engaging storytelling, listeners gain a deeper understanding of why and how conflicts arise and why it can feel like others aren't truly ..read more

In this episode Brook has guest Shelly Boismenu MFT as his guest. Brook and Shelly discuss how the period of time during high conflict divorce and custody struggles, is one of the most fertile times for transformation and new ways of thinking. Looking toward what you want to create rather than the pain of the past and what has you stuck. By working with someone that understands both the phycology and court system it becomes easier to navigate the road blocks one sets for themselves and chart a course to a more stable future.  Shelly Boismenu has been a private practice mental health thera ..read more