Whether we’re talking about COVID or the recent police brutality incident, we see a lot of energy flowing. Just turn on to the news or look around you! But, at the same time, we also see people trying to move on with their lives and pretend that nothing’s really going on. The Evolved Masculine, as we continue to learn about, is not like that. We know that he is a man of principles and values that he stands for. So join my guest Sanyika “The Firestarter” Street and me, as we talk about how to engage in the midst of this moment.   Among many topics, we will get into:  Finding out the ..read more

Conspiracy theories are thriving right now on social media about the current crisis. Why is there a massive distrust with both the government and mainstream media? What are we really to believe? And where do we go from here? Join my guest Daniel Pinchbeck and me as we talk about how humanity can move forward in these trying times and understand these events on a deeper level. Among many topics, we will get into:    How both the government and traditional mainstream media have lost the trust of so many millions of Americans, and what we can do about it. Which parts of the conspiracie ..read more

What do the terms gender, biological sex, and sexual orientation really mean? Have you thought about the pronouns you use? Why should we be programmed to think in black and white when we know that’s not the case? Join my guest Terra Lyn Anderson and me as we talk about redefining sex and the subtleties and differences within. This is such a great learning experience, and I wish that you learn with me on this episode. We will talk about:   The establishment of connection simply through the use of appropriate pronouns. The understanding of the new generation with the use of non-binary voca ..read more

#061: Mastering the Erotic Blueprints What’s your Erotic Blueprint? Are you a Sensual? Energetic? Kinky? Sexual? or a Shapeshifter? And what does that even mean? Join my guest Master Erotic Blueprint Coach Ian Ferguson, and me as we talk about the nuances between these different ways of being sexually wired. These are like your personality types, but for your erotic being.  Among many topics, we will get into:   Ian’s start from a failed, sexually unsatisfying marriage to an ownership of all of his desires and his authentic expression. Figuring out what your turn-ons and your turn-o ..read more

#060: The Wildest Analogy for Finding Optimism in These Challenging Times  While you’ve likely been inundated with Corona Virus stories and opinion pieces. I promise that you’ve never heard it explained quite like this before! COVID-19 has seemingly changed our world practically overnight. Why did this happen? Why now? WTF is going on?!? And where are things going?  Among many topics, we will get into:   The string of crises that I experienced that brought my seven-year ‘Erotic Rockstar’ adventure to an end: a toxic relationship, a respiratory infection, an intestinal parasite ..read more

#059: COVID-19: Transformational Growth in the Time of Great Crisis   In 2005, I went to New Orleans and Mississippi to volunteer in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina. I learned many powerful lessons from my time down there:   Crisis brings out both the very worst and the very best in humankind. There were those taking advantage of the chaos for their own personal gain; and there were many more who were giving all they’ve got to be of support and service to total strangers.   Some people lost everything they had materially (in Mississippi, coastal homes were swept into the sea ..read more

#058: Being a Female Leader on the Internet in 2020 (What Most Men Don't See) with Ruby Fremon   Two of the core things that I try to do with this podcast (and my work generally) is to help men deepen their sense of empowerment/leadership and to gain deeper understanding and insight into women and their experiences.    In this episode we dive deep into both. Join me and my guest Ruby Fremon as we have real, raw talk about the challenges that she has faced being a visible female leader with a potent voice on the internet. We talk about the issues that she’s faced throughout her c ..read more

#057: Why Men Need Men   Join me and my guest Stefanos Sifandos as we talk about the power of men coming together in support of other men. Stefanos and I get real and you can witness realtime how he has learned to navigate his own life challenges. Among many topics, Stefanos and I explore:   Having the willingness to take accountability for the mistakes of your past The benefits of being vulnerable, confronting your weaknesses, and taking steps toward real change Understanding your value as a man What exactly is a men’s group anway? And the value of guidance in solving the issues th ..read more

#056: Modern Manhood with the author Cleo Stiller Destin and Cleo talk about how the #MeToo movement affects not just women but also men. Women are mostly the victims of sexual harassment and sexual assault. As they bravely come out to share how it affected their lives, how do men react and how should they react? Tune in to this episode as Cleo shares about her book, how some men opened up their feelings and realizations about #MeToo and more... - Cleo Stiller is a Peabody Award–nominated, Emmy Award–nominated, and Gracie Award–winning journalist, speaker and television host. Her acclaimed hea ..read more

#055: Seduction, Porn, Deida, Consent & More w/ Guest Michael Ellsberg   Among many other topics, Michael Ellsberg and I explore: --> The problems with the pickup movement, which was (unfortunately) the place a lot of men went for "guidance" on how to relate to women. --> The ups and downs of the "conscious sexuality" movement, which has also been a place many men have sought guidance--though is starting to feel dated to a lot of people.   --> How David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" (published 20 years ago) influenced the (mostly white) American personal developm ..read more