My date in Lexington was amazing, to say the least. because I actually had 4 dates set up. I had one set up before I got to Kentucky, and I set up the other 3 all on Friday. As usual, I went into this trip with no expectations, so I was excited but also skeptical on if all the dates would show up. Well, this is how it went… Date #1 – Kyle After doing a bourbon tasting I received a message from Kyle. He was 33 years old good looking guy with a cute face and a great body. I was hungry and we immediately made plans to meet. Well, technically I invited myself to join him for tacos. As ..read more

So I went to New Orleans, Louisiana with my friend, Lydia, for Madi Gras. I thought this would be perfect timing to cross another date off my list and my sister had someone in mind. I decided to let her write a little something… Why Did She Trust Me in Picking Her Date? Diamond and I have always bonded and been close because we like the same kind of guys but Diamond is more open-minded with any guy. I think Diamond deserves a hard-working, respectful, smart, kind-hearted, family-oriented and open-minded guy. The guy also needs to treat you like the queen and goddess that you are. It’s n ..read more

I decided to fly standby for my Chicago trip. Standby flights can be very unpredictable. Going there I got on the first flight, headed back to Atlanta was a different story. I ended up spending the night at the Ohare airport and didn’t get back till Monday morning. There was an upside because I had a little mini-date at the airport.  Waiting at the airport for hours as a solo traveler can get a bit lonely sometimes. So while I was waiting for hours on end I wrote a post on Whisper. Whisper is an app I use sometimes. It’s like Twitter, but anonymous. You write posts and people can reply by ..read more

While I was on a great date with Javier I made plans for the following day. I had plans to go on a date with another guy. So far my experience in Oklahoma was going really well so I was excited to see what the rest of the weekend held. Saturday morning I finalized my plans with my date – Nick. I got dressed excited to have some fun at RiverSport Adventures. I called my Lyft and texted Nick I was on the way. On the way there I constantly refreshed my dating app waiting for a response back. As I pulled up to my destination I noticed my date unmatched and stood me up. I was upset as I walk ..read more

So far on this 50 Dates in 50 States journey, I’ve been to Colorado, Texas, and Lousiana and the dates/trips never went as hoped for. I met great people and have great memories, but never went as expected. I booked a random flight to Oklahoma City, Oklahoma a couple of months ago. It was one of the cheapest flights I found on weekend.com, and I had no expectation of how this trip would go. Luckily it was my best trip so far! I went into Oklahoma with no expectations but I had a plan. Recently I decided I wouldn’t include my blog in my dating bios and if I couldn’t find a date I would find ..read more

So my guilty pleasure is definitely the reality TV show The Bachelor/Bachelorette. While it may not be complete reality and little unconventional it has work for some couples. While this show does not have a 100% success rate, I believe there are a few dating lessons you can learn from the show. 1. DATE MULTIPLE PEOPLE  If you’re single you are a free agent and are allowed to date as many people as you would like. On the show one guy/girl dates 32 people publicly. While it builds a lot of competition between the contestants and gives the bachelor plenty of options. The difference is ever ..read more

Texas – Part 1 I went to Houston, Texas for my second state of this journey. Last time, in Colorado I had a guy and date set up months in advance. Everything didn’t go as planned when I went to, so I went to Texas with no plan at all. Ehhh probably wasn’t my best idea. I mean I had some sort of plan. All I knew was what restaurants I wanted to go to because, a girl has got to eat. I went into the weekend having a few guys that were interested in going on a date with me. Unfortunately I had to keep saying Thank U, Next as Ariana Grande would say. The Clever Guy A few weeks before my ..read more

In this online dating world ghosting is a common thing you come across of whether you’ve been ghosting or have been the one ghosted. You can spend a lot time with someone and start liking them and they completely disappear. I’ve felt the feelings for ghosting from both sides and it sucks. So what should you do if you have been ghosted? DO NOT keep texting for days Being ghosted comes out of know where, you don’t usuallt expect it. A million scenarios will run through your head… maybe they got in an accident, maybe they lost there phone. Sorry to break it to you but there’s a 90% ch ..read more

What if you knew the person you’re dating right now is the person you’re going to marry? What if you knew the person you’re dating was going to break up with you next week. What if you knew your relationship wasn’t really over with your ex? Would life be a lot easier if you knew how long your relationship would last? Well.. I met someone I messaged Alex on Hinge, responding to what he had on his Bucket List. I thought his answers were funny so I was eager to know more. We sent a few messages back and forth. Just when I was thought nothing would come of it, he asked me out to lunch ..read more

If you follow me on Instagram you know I’ve been going on a date every Tuesday. I’ve been pretty successful and getting these dates and I want other people to get a chance to start meeting people offline as soon as possible. Dating is work and here are the steps to successfully get more dates 1. Wait Wait a few days before swiping (this way you’ll get your matches All at once. I schedule my taco the dates mainly on Bumble. I try not to swipe till Monday.  I’ll get notifications that people have swiped right on me so you so I know I’ll have people to match with as soon as possible ..read more