So Be It
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Brian Donato is from Mt. Laurel NJ, graduated from the University of Maryland. He has always been and still am an introverted, low-key, and grounded person. Consciously or unconsciously he has stayed to himself pretty much & kept some thoughts inwards, but with this blog that he will change a bit & to that he will just say SO BE IT.
So Be It
5M ago
There’s that famous quote – “Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree.” But what does that really mean? Like most great quotes, the meaning is simultaneously and paradoxically …
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10M ago
None of us know exactly what will happen to us each day. Nobody is owed an explanation for why things happen, whether that’s a health issue, another person’s behavior, evil events, unclear circumstances, etc. Many people resist this “not knowing” …
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11M ago
All emotions are true and valid. But that doesn’t mean all emotions are brewed from rational perspective on reality. And all emotions should be accepted. But that doesn’t mean accepted indefinitely. These key statements are understand by few and lived …
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So Be It
11M ago
Most fears are silly, unproductive, and foolish to have. But there’s a few types of fear that can be useful when embraced correctly. For these fears, it’s important to not suppress them but instead recognize them & let them ignite …
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1y ago
Like most things in life, if you defeat the GREATEST of something – then your confidence for all “things” below that is sky high and becomes much greater than any previous fears you had. For example, if a boxer defeats …
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So Be It
1y ago
Many people are tricked. Tricked by other people, media, information, their own mental processes, even their own experiences. Awareness of this is critical so one isn’t holding onto fears that are really just False Evidence Appearing Real. Because things could …
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So Be It
1y ago
So many adults lack the ability to say “Yes” when they want to, and say “No” when they want to too. Not always, but sometimes this is due to their parents and environment not empowering them to say “No” in …
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1y ago
There’s a positive “wanting more” mentality and a negative “wanting more” mentality. The negative one is always wanting more in life because you feel you “lack” something, or you need some external validation or thing to fulfill you. This one …
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So Be It
1y ago
Many of the world’s issues, particularly poor mental health, would be corrected greatly if people took the same understanding approach most take towards babies and transferred that to adults. Meaning this – Most don’t get agitated when a baby throws …
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So Be It
1y ago
Every person has heard the phrase “mind over matter”, but how many people actually align their actions/decisions in life with that statement? Not a whole lot. If you look around, many people prioritize buying “things” over experiences, prioritize their possessions …
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