Narc Wise
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Narc Wise is about helping you inoculate yourself from abusive narcissists, and heal your wounds by growing healthy self-love. Reclaim your freedom & joy and start your recovery journey now!
Narc Wise
1y ago
8 minute read
Ever wondered why the narcissist chose you? Course, you have. It is a question most survivors wrestle with at some point. It is a natural part of sense making & trying to understand what you have endured.
At the outset of healing, because of the effects of narcissistic abuse, we tend to frame the question as a negative reflection of ourselves: “How did I end up with someone like this? What’s wrong with me? I thought I was a strong/intelligent person, but maybe they chose me because I’m actually a pushover/stupid?” etc…
My central purpose in this piece is to flip this way of t ..read more
Narc Wise
1y ago
By Unzila Tariq 5 minute read
Trigger warning: this piece contains references to self-harm.
Life with my narcissistic boyfriend
“Receive my video call right now and show me what you’re wearing and who you’re with.” I read his text message.
I began shaking and quickly did what he asked because I didn’t want to create any more conflict. I didn’t want any more headaches. I just wanted to peacefully enjoy a night out with my friends, but he couldn’t handle it. My narcissistic boyfriend couldn’t handle the thought of me being happy without him.
When he was assured that I was with my girlfriends and ..read more