“Isn’t that your daughter?” You stare at your friend’s text message with the accompanying YouTube link a little shellshocked. Wait… what? That uncomfortable feeling of impending dread is washing over you as you click on the link. You almost forget to breathe as the video starts playing and you see your 10-year old parading around for all the world to see. “Stunned” doesn’t even do it justice… Obviously, your emotions may be tempered by the degree of what you’re observing in a situation like this. Is your child brandishing skimpy clothing and a bright selection of your personal makeup? Or are ..read more

Imagine you would be required to switch living arrangements every month or week, or perhaps even twice a week? At first, it may seem like an adventure, as if you were going on one sleepover after another. Eventually, though, you may become weary of it. What would it take for you to feel comfortable with the constant moving? What would you need to have a feeling of security? That’s exactly what you should ask yourself about your children if they have to transition between your and your ex-spouse’s home after a divorce. From Mom to Dad and Back Again Consistently transitioning between two homes ..read more