hi reddit, i need help deciding whether on not i am bisexual. As a young teen, at like 13-14 i called myself bisexual and kissed girls and 'dated' them. It all felt friendly and i felt no sexual desire or anything like that but i wasnt disgusted by it. It was just meh. Now, i am 19 and have called myself straight for 5 years because I cant picture myself dating a girl, having sex with a girl, doing bits with a girl or anything like that. But, the idea of kissing a girl isnt disgusting to me. While it has no appeal, it doesnt gross me out. My long term boyfriend told me that means i am bisexua ..read more

What’s up with people who wanna be there for you and talk to you privately but around other people they keep their distance and avoid being close to you? Could this be internalized homophobia? Or even just plain homophobia? It’s like they don’t want to be seen or associated with the gay person. I don’t get it and I’m not interested in the weirdness. Don’t switch up. If you’re confident in yourself and your sexuality (whether straight or bi or gay) you don’t act like that. submitted by /u/Ok-Locksmith-594 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Had a dream last night where I hooked up with a guy and later with a woman. Woke up and was like „Yep, still bi!“ So I was wondering do you sometimes have bi dreams? Like where you really feel that you’re attracted to more than one gender? Lots of bi-love for you ??? submitted by /u/lexa_fox [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

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26F in a long term committed relationship. Hate that I’m a stereotype but it’s how I feel sometimes. Is it normal to feel like this? I don’t necessarily want to date any one else but sometimes I get the urge and reminisce since there’s certain things I can’t do with a man. submitted by /u/Traditional-Spell179 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

My two best friends met each other today and got along really well! We’ll call them X and Y lol X and I have always had a very flirtatious relationship. Y knows this and is (secretly) rooting for us to get together. In fact Y wanted to meet X because “they’re so important to me” But it was so much fun to have little flirtatious moments with X. Like feeding her ice cream. Which is silly but, gave me the best butterflies. Or X and I fighting over who was paying the bill. Y told the cashier “I’m having a great day these two beautiful women are treating me” lol Y has said to me before, “when you ..read more

I’m a girl and I’ve always thought I was bi with a high preference for girls. I’ve only dated one girl who was my first relationship (a few months when I was 17) but I don’t know why the following relationships were all with guys. Through all those relationships I always thought in the back of my head « would i be better off with a girl? ». I broke with some men because of this reason, but still continued to date men I fell for afterwards (I guess because it’s easier to find men that like you and it’s more difficult to know a girl is queer, I just jumped from relationship to relationship). An ..read more

So all of my current my boyfriend's exes are bottoms and when I met him he strictly told me he doesn't wanna top which really confused me as to how his previous relationship worked when they're both bottoms but who knows right sex really doesn't matter when youre Inlove but you still have needs so he casually told me that sometimes he does top his exes but he doesn't like it. Fast forward to present day he's my boyfriend now and every single time I always top but I'm a versa and it's been months since I bottomed and I kinda missed it so I asked him if I could just sit on him he doesn't have t ..read more

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