Hello! I desperately want buttondowns that actually fit- I have some that kind of fit, but my hips are too wide for men’s and my arms are way too fat for women’s. I think the classic advice is to buy shirts that fit your largest part and get them tailored, but the tailoring would have to be really intense, basically like making a whole new shirt. What I’d most like to find is a brick and mortar real-life store where I can try things on in person. I’m lucky and live near a major metro area, and we have most stores. I would also be willing to try to get custom shirts made if nothing else will w ..read more

Lately I've been finding myself relating more and more to the idea of being stone, and I'm just wondering what led other people to figure it out for themselves submitted by /u/maybeableto [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

i (17F) started using the term "butch" because i identify as being masculine and i just generally see myself fitting the term. sadly i don't have a lot of masculine clothing and i live in an unsupportive home. what can i do to make myself masculine presenting other than clothing? submitted by /u/TripodFish17 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

what do you guys think i should do with my hair? pictures are what we're currently working with (I know selfies are only allowed on sundays but it's relevant to the question and it's probably still sunday somewhere) (no buzzcuts. I have a WEIRDLY shaped head) submitted by /u/squipward [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

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OMG I just finished reading this. Took me a while because it's heavy going in parts - by which I mean that some of the stuff is so close to personal experience that it hurts to read it (for example having bricks thrown through the windows of a house I shared with two dyke friends so regularly, we stopped bothering to look what was happening; my mate having her flat cap pulled off her head by a bloke who pissed in it and threw it back at her; being beaten up by a gang of late teen boys who knocked on my door in broad daylight). So well written, in parts so raw, in others, so tender. Huge thank ..read more

Hi there names Juno I use any pronouns For the past 5ish years I've identified myself as a trans man, before that I experimented with different nonbinary labels and everything under the sun. I've also been identifying as bi for some time but have recently thought about it and I only really have an attraction to fictional men and the idea of dating men is kinda gross to me lol. I've also been straying from being strictly male for the last two years and don't view myself as one. In short, I'm kind of unlabeled gender wise but def not a male. I'm still fine being referred to as one and I don't r ..read more