The dating game is not for the shy and retiring types, especially not these days, and if you use online dating sites and apps, it is usually tricky to separate the wheat from the chaff.  Once you match with a potential partner, especially if you are searching for more than casual relations, becoming exclusive and getting more serious is another minefield to navigate with that being said, here is how to tell if your heart is ‘in it’ after several dates.  You Actually Want to Know More About Them  Everyone at some point in their lives has experienced at least one conversation wher ..read more

When you’re dating various guys on your way to finding the perfect man, dealing with each of these men will be different since different people have different personalities. Think of it as spinning a jackpot wheel. You’ll sometimes land on the jackpot, but there are times you’ll take the non-jackpot prizes. One of the types of men on the spinning wheel you’ll encounter is the emotionally unavailable man. These people tend to fear intimacy; that is why they “reject love” or serious relationships since they want to stay single. However, emotionally unavailable men can fall in love. What are the ..read more

You came to this post because you’re searching how to manifest your ex back. In fact when I was looking for new topics to write about on this blog I discovered that thousands of you are typing “manifest ex back” into Google. Some are even wondering how you can manifest your ex back in 24 hours. It seems to be a hot topic!  So what does it mean to “manifest” your ex back? Well, by manifesting people are usually referring to using the law of attraction to get your ex back. What is the law of attraction? Advocates of the law of attraction say your thoughts are energy and so if you put o ..read more

One of the things you’ll often hear people say when they’re obsessing over someone who doesn’t want a relationship with them is: But, we have so much in common! People often think that because they have the same hobbies or the same taste in music that this means the person is perfect for them. But having a lot in common actually doesn’t mean as much as you think. Say you both like the outdoors and you both like techno music. I’m sure there are actually tons of people that also like these two things. You may say well, we’re both also only children and neither of us likes cereal. But neither of ..read more

So you’ve met a guy you really like. It’s so rare for you to meet someone that ticks all your boxes and you’d love to have a relationship with him. The only issue is, he doesn’t want you back! Dang. This one sucks but it happens all the time and it goes both ways. It’s that age old phenomenon – the guys who actually like you, you’re not attracted to. Meanwhile when you finally find one you like, you discover that he doesn’t like you. Unfortunately dating is a bit of a minefield and it’s tough to find a scenario where the feelings are completely mutual. It’s a numbers game, so don’t lose hope ..read more

So you and your friend were besties. You did everything together. You took vacations together, went out for dinner together, planned nights out together and even spent the holidays together. Then all of a sudden your friend gets boyfriend and she ditches you to do everything with him. Suddenly the texts get less frequent, she takes ages to respond and she doesn’t have time for you anymore. When she does meet up, she brings him to the things you’ve planned together, making you feel like a third wheel. When your friend gets a boyfriend and you’re still single it can be tough, but it’s even tough ..read more

Been through a string of “almost” relationships? It often goes something like this; you meet a cute guy, he seems interested, you enjoy spending time together and hooking up. Then all of a sudden he starts pulling away, blowing hot and cold and then eventually when he’s confronted about it he says something like, “I’m not looking for anything serious right now”. You’re left thinking, “What happened? Why do guys never want a relationship with me?” There are multiple reasons why guys might not want a relationship with you, which we’ll go into detail here: You’re just not their “match”, personali ..read more

Love flowers but your boyfriend never buys them for you? This seems to be a common complaint among women. Perhaps your friend is always receiving flowers from her boyfriend or you’ve seen guys giving girls flowers in the movies. You start to think….”where are mine?” There are multiple reasons why a guy might not buy you flowers, which I’ll cover in the article. It’s important to remember though that not receiving flowers doesn’t mean that your relationship is doomed. Men often show their love in other ways and it’s important to look at your relationship as a whole, not based on one thing. Reas ..read more

If you’re going through a breakup, dealing with mixed signals or having a tough time in a relationship, you might find yourself wanting to talk to someone for advice. Unfortunately therapy can be expensive and often you’ll have to wait for an appointment and go into a doctor’s office. While the Covid pandemic has caused many psychologists to shift to telehealth, companies like Relationship Hero and Better Help offer purely remote services, available 24 hours a day. If you’re thinking of signing up to the platform and trying out their coaching, read on for my full Relationship Hero review: What ..read more

How many people have said something to you along the lines of “You have to be happy with yourself in order to have a relationship” or “you have to love yourself first before someone will love you”? These are phrase that are used a lot and yet, I find it kind of bothers me. If it bothers you too, that’s OK. Here’s why… You see, that simple phrase can make single people feel like life is somehow punishing them for not being this perfect, happy person. That unless they achieve this talent of being a bubbly, happy tigger-like character, they’re destined to be eternally single. That if they can’t a ..read more