some nsfw & generally uncomfortable topics, please lmk if not suitable for here! not sure how to articulate well, ig hoping to hear if anyone relates? dating straight I’m ok with people not accepting/being interested, but my ex was the opposite? to simplify, very ‘over-invested’ in the fact im trans. loved to tell others ’(when he said he was trans) I was WAY more interested’. would crudely joke with me/around friends about my body or trans life, often monologued on serious disgust/hate of men as a whole (and cis exes). I was stealth those days but she told just a couple people we knew mo ..read more

I don't know if anyone will actually care about this, but I'm super excited and happy. I just came out to my older brother and he took it really well and was super supportive. It gave me a lot of hope for when and if I come out to my parents soon. Anyways, have a wonderful day!!! submitted by /u/that_gay_gal [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

i’m stealth and my friends sit on my lap or grope me as a joke. if they feel a rough stp, they’re gonna think im constantly hard. i really need a squishy one? any ideas? submitted by /u/raisankid [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Sorry for spelling and grammar I'm 15 and vary emotional rn.my mom just got off the phone with a clinic in Mexico (whare I'm trying to get T from in 13 days) and said I could change my name legally to Mylo, and was told our insurance covers our travel.this will be my 3rd attempt to get on T I'm so excited and scared rn ,and for the future I already have a top surgery Referral from the last attempt to get on T. submitted by /u/dino_mylo9 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

WHY are so many trans dudes into petplay??? Particularly the puppy play subgenre of kink. If no one has studied this, they need to, and if they have, please send me a link. I am genuinely interested in the science. Because there has to be a link. There is no way it's all merely coincidental. this isn't shaming at all btw, I myself fall into this category lol. it's just silly to me that it's so common to find a transmasc fella in the community. submitted by /u/Feisty_Airport3572 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

How do you guys find finding people? whether mainstream apps, trans targeted dating apps/ sites, or just ‘traditionally.’ is it any harder for trans people than it is for cis people? I’ve never tried online dating cause i feel like it’s kind of pointless? I’m bi but for various reasons i’m only really looking for cis guys or trans women, but I know there are pretty much 0 trans women in my town, and very few guys willing to get it on with another guy, especially since i’m on T now so it’s harder for them to pretend I’m female (which i don’t mind, casual sex is casual sex yknow) Wondering if i ..read more

just to preface, i don’t have any mental illnesses or anything however i did for years struggle with sh and an ed, i never rly knew why bc it wasn’t consciously linked to my genders. i also was quite confident but very insecure n never felt like i fit in. but what terrified me for years is that i would wait to get on t and then realise that’s not the fix and that it’s something else. but i was wrong, bc i literally am fixed. like it’s not even conscious but i’ve realised i’m 10x more outgoing and confident, i’ve even found it much easier to sing infront of people (i’m studying a music degree ..read more

I went ahead and bought one of these packers after not getting a natural bulge from my TransTape packer I had a year ago. I got a size small (the TransTape packer was an equivalent of a medium and there was only one size). I am 5’5” and roughly 130 pounds. My build is skinny with clothes on, but hidden fat under it. The TransTape packer was about 5.5” or 6”, too big and unnatural looking. The Mr. Limpy, on the other hand, is 4” and packs perfectly. Looks pretty natural, especially with a MyPack strap that keeps it in place. It’s also not too heavy or noticeable on my body. This is my first on ..read more

I’ve been stealth for the past 8 years, since I was around 10. The only people who know i’m trans are my parents and my doctors. I’m graduating high school this year and I am genuinely tired. I’m tired of constantly having to put off doing things (camping, parties, vacations) with my friends because it’s so hard to hide myself. I’m also extremely tired of having NO real friends. Every single human being i have been friends with all turns out to hate trans people. The things they say are horrible, especially for my mental health having to hear the things they say and i just have to sit there a ..read more

My mum knows I'm trans and isn't okay with it I recently got a boyfriend and he's also trans so I didn't tell her so she wouldn't kick him out now the last two year has been great everything has been amazing we went out on so many dates and everything was so comfortable until my mother found out about him through and online account idk what I should say to her , he's the only child in his family my perents know this his mum is also homophobic so if my mum ever messaged his mum, his mum would throw him under the bus I'm so scared I don't wanna ruin the relationship I have with him because of m ..read more