Have you ever dated a man who seemed like a great match on the surface, but something didn't feel right and questioned whether there was something wrong with you to think that way? Perhaps you're stuck in a job that makes you feel empty and you dread going to work each day, even though on the surface it looks successful with fantastic benefits?  Have you wondered, how it is that some people seem to be able to navigate these challenges in their dating lives, relationships and careers with ease, grace and confidence? These types of situations can leave you feeling confused and second-g ..read more

I had the pleasure of talking with Dr Duana Welch, Dating an Relationship Expert and Author of Love Factually - 10 Proven steps from I wish to I do and her more recent release Love Factually for Single Parents and those dating them. In this first of two conversations, Duana is sharing her insights, personal experience and solid advice about How Relationship minded men approach dating and commitment according to her own research. You can listen to the Audio Version here. What are some obvious and less obvious signs and behaviours that a woman should look out for to prepare herself when she’s da ..read more

I am often asked, "Where can I find quality Single Men".  It's one of the most asked questions by relationship minded single women I work with.  There are a few elements to the answer, which all link together to create more effortless ways to inspire connection from quality men.  Before identifying a few overlooked places to explore, it's important to be conscious of three keys to inspiring connection. Without these, regardless where you go, you're not likely to see, meet or be approached by quality men.  Three Keys To Meeting Quality Men   1.  There isn't O ..read more

Modern Dating can be challenging without the right preparation and a smart strategy but it doesn't have to be hard, or frustrating. It's very easy to blame outside circumstances and you have good reason to. Technology, modern “lazy”communication paired with a culture of instant gratification for many doesn't inspire genuine connection and attraction to blossom easily, which is why we have to be as smart in love as every other important area of our lives.   The truth is, you're more in control of the quality of your dating life than you might believe.   Understanding how your own b ..read more

In my recruitment career, I used to feel excited when I met that one impressive candidate with the “edge” who was a perfect match over a sea of boring, flaky or unmemorable ones.  They would meet the criteria for the job role, and more importantly, they had the attitude, character, and goals which were the perfect fit.  This counted more than academic credentials and depending on the role, even experience.  It's much the same in dating. You're "interviewing" many potential matches, to see if you're compatible and if there's a shared interest to discover more about each other, i ..read more

I know that as a strong independent women you have a full and happy life, and certainly aren’t desperate to be in a relationship. It’s an important part of your life though which will enhance your happiness. But at the moment there are some challenges You’re unsure about how to find a loving, supportive man, who understands you, and has a similar lifestyle and ambitions. You’re demotivated and exhausted with attracting unavailable, uninspiring, noncommittal men who are hot and cold, and disappear or no one at all. You’ve tried everything from being online to being matched by friends an ..read more

Whether you’ve yet to venture into the Online Dating world, or are online already, it is without a doubt a useful and successful connection tool helping millions of single men and women worldwide meet like-minded potential suitors they wouldn’t otherwise have the chance to cross paths with. Statistics show that the 50+ age group is the fastest growing online dating age group. Pew Research’s data tells us that those aged 45-to-54 are just as likely to date online as someone in their 20's. Additionally, in 2014, 9.1% of the online market included consumers ages 55-to-64 years old, and ..read more

Even though you're ready to open your heart and invite love into your life, it's completely natural that you may be feeling some resistance and fear deep down. Fear is part of our neurobiology. It lives in our amygdala, in the limbic system in our brain.   “When someone tells you, you can eliminate fear forever; your next question should be, when’s the lobotomy scheduled”- Rhonda Britton, Fearless living.   Unlike other emotions, it bypasses the sensory cortex on its way to the amygdala. It’s persistent, and doesn't like to be noticed, or caught because if your fear can be named, it ..read more

How soon into the relationship do you want to know if you’re financially compatible with your partner?   According to Marriage.com, financial conflicts is the second highest reason for breakups and divorce, after infidelity.  It’s the leading cause of stress in a relationship, which leads to "dishonest behaviour". One survey conducted by creditcards.com found that 7.2 million Americans are hiding money from their spouses, either by spending in secret or keeping a secret account.  It isn't just in the US, its an International symptom. Talking about money can create anxiety and ..read more

Are you struggling with low Self-Confidence in one or more areas of your life?  Perhaps you're confident in your career but not in your social or romantic life or vice versa. It could be you have some self-confidence, but it needs a boost so that you feel entirely energised, connected to the real you and to move forward towards your heart goals.   While we are all beautifully unique and individual, I noticed recurring themes emerge when I'm coaching my clients.  One of which is a lack of self-confidence, and it underpins why they are not trusting themselves to take bolder actio ..read more