First date red flags: 4 signs to watch out for
Christian Connection Blog
by Katherine Baldwin
6d ago
I’ve identified four first date red flags to pay attention to but before I share them, it’s important to say that knowing the warning signs is only half the battle. The other half is being willing to heed them, rather than overlook them or drive right past them. I can think of many occasions when I spotted a red flag but ignored it or excused it with an apparently rational explanation. Why? Because I really wanted the date or relationship to work out, above all else and at any cost. I was dating with a deep craving for love, affection and connection. I had left my powers of discernment at hom ..read more
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5 important things Easter teaches us about love
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by Hannah Grace
2w ago
“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.” John 3:16. This is a verse we often remember at Easter. Sacrifice Love is sacrificial. We need to learn to love like Christ. Love is not selfish, in fact in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 we learn that: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protec ..read more
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“Be encouraged and keep going!” – Christian Connection couples share their stories
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by Christian Connection
1M ago
Here are some of the stories recently shared with Christian Connection from people who found love through the site or app. What stories have most encouraged you? Charlie and Ruth Following on from their comment above, Charlie and Ruth explained how their individual dating journeys eventually led them to each other, and how they were both proactive and patient along the way. “Some people say the right person will come along just when you don’t expect it, as if nobody has to lift a finger. It’s not true and we thank God for sites like Christian Connection that provide an opportunity to do somet ..read more
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The pre-dating checklist: 4 simple questions to help you to enjoy dating and do it well
Christian Connection Blog
by Katherine Baldwin
1M ago
Here’s a four question, pre-dating checklist to work through before your next date. Have you built healthy foundations? For me, this is the most important question of all. If we have healthy foundations of self-love, self-care, self-esteem and self-worth and if we have a reasonable understanding of our relationship fears and patterns – the things that make us behave as we do in romantic situations – then we can create a virtuous circle. We can enjoy dating and stay hopeful about our romantic future, even if we don’t want to see the individual again. We can come away from a date thinking, “Tha ..read more
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Different communication styles? 5 important things that can help you connect
Christian Connection Blog
by Hannah Grace
1M ago
One of my biggest fears when dating was silence. Conversations that can dry up and fizzle into nothing. I still am nervous around awkward silences with some people and when dating I wanted to find someone I could really talk with. Communication is more than just talking though, it’s understanding the other person and learning how they communicate and educating yourself on the different styles, as much as learning their love languages. How one person hears, communicates, gets their voice across and feels valued is very different from how another person does the same thing. My husband and I are ..read more
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7 fun and simple first date ideas that aren’t meeting for coffee
Christian Connection Blog
by Christian Connection
1M ago
Because there’s a chance you’re both nervous, keep it relaxed, easy and low key. Planning for a short first date is smart. You can always leave some flexibility in your schedule so you can extend if things are going well. If you can’t, don’t worry – a second date may well be on the cards! But first, let’s focus on some simple first date ideas that can get things started. Try a different drink! Hot chocolate, tea, smoothies, bubble tea, milkshake – the beverage world is your oyster! Rather than suggest the standard table for two in a chain coffee shop, have a think about something more adventu ..read more
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How to date authentically
Christian Connection Blog
by Katherine Baldwin
2M ago
If you can relate to these fears, here are some suggestions to support you to date authentically. Choose a meeting place that you’re comfortable with Your date begins long before you head out the door or jump on a video call and it’s important to show up authentically right from the start. When you’re arranging how, when and where to meet, suggest a time, place and activity that suits you and try to catch yourself if you’re about to agree to something that doesn’t feel right. For example, if your date proposes meeting for evening drinks and you don’t drink and would prefer an afternoon walk ..read more
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5 reasons why Valentine’s Day is for everyone on Christian Connection
Christian Connection Blog
by Christian Connection
2M ago
Ready to make the most of Valentine’s Day this year? Step up your style! When it comes to online dating, your profile is the first impression you’ll make, so make sure you’re looking good. Take some time to reread what you’ve written about yourself and update where necessary. Maybe you’ve started a new hobby, been inspired by a sermon, or read a book you’d love to talk about. Mention it in your profile and you might catch someone’s eye. Remember to keep your profile positive, both about yourself and the person you’re looking for. If you’re not sure where to start, ask a friend how they’d desc ..read more
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Dating disappointment: 4 practical things to do when a date isn’t everything you’d hoped
Christian Connection Blog
by Hannah Grace
2M ago
There are always two sides of the story – for all I know, the dates above might have wanted to see my face, might have really thought hard for something ‘different’ for a date having exhausted the other usual options, or maybe they were really going through something personally and just needed to talk to someone and have counsel. We never know the circumstances that surround bad dates (unless they do go further!) but how can we manage our expectations and pick ourselves back up afterwards to re-enter the dating scene? Here are four things that could help with dating disappointment. Be realist ..read more
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“I had a sneaking suspicion my feelings were growing deeper” – Matt & Vicky, our Christian Connection story
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by Christian Connection
2M ago
Here’s the rest of their meeting story. Can you remember the joining process and your first impressions? The free trial at the time gave an opportunity to get a feel for the site before committing to a subscription. What were the most important things to include in your profile? Matt: The most important things for me was including the type of person you are looking for and which values you want to share with a future partner. An honest account of where you are in your faith, as well as current photos! Vicky: Full paragraphs of information and a selection of recent photos. So many profiles jus ..read more
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