I met this girl that's just incredible, I'm talking immediate crush like I haven't felt since middle school. We had a few flirty moments so I feel like she can suspect that I'm into her. Until now I thought the feeling was maybe mutual but today I was talking with her and her female friend and my crush was hyping up this friend (in a jokey, banter sort of way) like she's the bees knees, great girl that I have a lot in common with. Is she actually trying to set me up with her friend, subtly telling me I'm barking up the wrong tree or is there a secret third option I don't know about? submitte ..read more

If you want to move the conversation off of whatever app you matched on - cool. But don't give out your real phone number. There are a number of sites that are free and you can find someone's address, full name, other family members - with just a phone number There's plenty of apps that will give you a free phone number that just uses your existing phone data to function. You can call, text and have a voicemail for this new number - all free. I highly recommend doing this! submitted by /u/According_Coyote1078 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I have been seeing this guy for around a year, dating maybe a couple months or so. I got out of a long term relationship right before with someone I was dating for 5 years. I wanted to take it slower. I texted him everyday all day and we would call multiple times a day. I would hangout with him multiple times a week, maybe sleepover once or twice a week After seeing him for a couple months, My sister (who is engaged) and her sister in law (single) wanted to go to Miami. I agreed to going with them and texted him every single minute of that trip. I liked him so I was not interested in anyone e ..read more

I (20F) having been seeing this guy (21M) for about two months now. We hang out at least once a week, sometimes just for a sleepover, sometimes we grab food and actually hang out. He’s really nice, almost everything I’m looking for in a guy, but we haven’t communicated about our intentions at all. We have sex without using condoms even though we haven’t had the exclusivity talk- but I know for certain he’s not seeing anyone else. I know he likes me and likes to spend time with me, but I genuinely cannot tell where his head is at beyond that. I don’t need him to be my boyfriend right now, we h ..read more

Male, gay prn, might I add. Anyways, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. I’ve just recently found an open prn browser involving two men. When I confronted him, he said “oh sht, I meant to delete that.” After a bit of denial, he finally came clean. He said he watches it to learn new moves and compare himself to the other men. I don’t know why he needs to learn new moves from two men, rather than a man and a woman. He said he wasn’t gay or bisexual, and he’s not watching out of enjoyment. In fact, he says he hardly gets an erection. I’m unsure what to do here. Should I let it go ..read more

I am 25 and live abroad. I am wanting to date for a long term relationship and since I left Germany I never really dated german girls. I always have a feeling that I don’t understand what they want or need, I have no idea but it seems to be quite hard for me to date. I have never really had a relationship and was mostly focused on my career. I am a commercial pilot. Everything seems to be going very well in my life except dating and I even think I’m not even that ugly. I have been living in many places but really want to settle down a little and feeling the need for someone to share time toge ..read more

I just had one relationship that did not work and bunch of useless dating through tinder that didn’t lead no where. Now here I’m 37 years old but people might think im maximum 30 years old. I don't know, but I have a feeling that this year, especially as I think about how old I am now, I might be too old to find a woman between 25-30 years old. Is it just me worrying about this, or is it reality? submitted by /u/AdPrimary4289 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

So for the time being I think I need to put my pursuit of finding a partner to the side. I’m not really sure why I have such issues finding someone, but it’s just the way it is and if I continue to focus on it my mental health will just plummet. I am tall, have a full head of hair and have been told I’m handsome by women in the past. I used to get a lot of likes/matches but haven’t gotten anything recently. I would have women send me a first message on Hinge and still lose interest right away, an no I’m not being weird with my responses. I’ve had relationships before from Hinge and I am not d ..read more

This has happened to me a few times over the past few years but someone wanting to have sex when I have to get up early for work the next morning and getting offended is a big turnoff and possibly a huge red flag as it means overstepping boundaries and control. Like what part of I have work or I am super tired do these people not understand? Like it's not an insult to them nor do I care that they want to have sex, it's literally just a bad time for it. For example, about 2 years ago, I had a girl follow me to my apartment despite telling her I couldn't stay out late, because I had work and an ..read more

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