On today’s regular version of the show … What do you do when your husband goes straight for the genitalia in foreplay? A caller asking for more information about the State of the Union conversations you can have with your spouse. On the Xtended version … What if? Conflict and how this all creates a […] The post State of the Union #413 appeared first on Sexy Marriage ..read more

When things happen in married life, whether bad or good, a common reaction is to blame (or give credit) someone else. While they may have been a contibuting factor to the result of a situation, when we fail to acknowledge our own role in life’s circumstances, we damage our own growth and chance for lasting […] The post Ultimatums in Married Life appeared first on Sexy Marriage ..read more

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband wanting more than just functional/duty sex with his wife. A caller wondering about more information about masturbation and is it a sin. On the Xtended version … Expectations. We all have them. Where do they come from and what do we do […] The post Masturbation and Expectations #412 appeared first on Sexy Marriage ..read more

On today’s regular version of the show … A couple of voicemails from members of the Sexy Marriage Nation asking for help in the conversations that take place in their marriage. An additional voicemail to add to the Oral Sex shows we’ve had lately. On the Xtended version … What are the elements necessary for […] The post Talking #411 appeared first on Sexy Marriage ..read more

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … The full conversation with Winifred Reilly, the author of It Takes One To Tango. On the Xtended version … A conversation about the sexual styles couples […] The post It Takes One To Tango #410 appeared first on Sexy Marriage ..read more

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … Two follow up emails from episode #407. One sharing their surprise that Schnarch’s work was not mentioned in the episode 2 weeks ago and another from […] The post Tastes and Not Going to Happen #409 appeared first on Sexy Marriage ..read more

The scene is a couple driving in the car on the way to dinner: Silence for several minutes. “What’s wrong?” “Nothing.” A few more minutes of silence passed, “I know something is wrong. What’s going on?” “Nothing! Jeez, what am I doing?” “That’s just it! You’re not doing or saying anything, and now you’re biting […] The post Helping When Help Isn’t Really Wanted appeared first on Sexy Marriage ..read more

Registration for the Sexy Marriage Getaway 2019 is open! WE ARE ALMOST FULL!!! Click here to join us June 20-23, 2019 On today’s regular version of the show … The full conversation with Eva Mendes LMHC, NCC about her work with neurodiverse marriages – meaning when one member of the relationship is on the Autism […] The post Spectrum Relationships and Giving vs Giving In #408 appeared first on Sexy Marriage ..read more

In today’s world there are many resources that will help your marriage. I’m biased but Simple Marriage and Sexy Marriage Radio are among the best. But there are also so must-see TED talks worth your time. In no particular order: Yann Dall’Aglio’s “Love — you’re doing it wrong.” Dall’Aglio, a French philosopher and author says love is the desire of being desired. But in a world that often favors the self over others, how can people find the tenderness and connection they crave? It may be easier than you think: “For a couple who is no longer sustained, supported by the constraints of tradition ..read more