It’s that time of year when the call of the wild beckons, and families around the world heed the call to the great outdoors. For mothers, however, what should be a relaxing escape often transforms into a logistical challenge, the opposite of a stress-free break, sometimes leading to feeling overwhelmed.  If you’re a mum gearing up for an outdoor family adventure, it’s okay to crave some personal unwinding amidst the chaos of mosquito bites and tent pitching. Making space for yourself is essential in parenting. Here are six invaluable tips for mums to unwind, kick back and enjoy nature wi ..read more

Experiencing a relationship separation can be an incredibly challenging and emotional time. Not only are you grappling with the personal impact, but you also find yourself needing to navigate the complex process of asset and property division – a task that can feel overwhelming. However, through the support of mediation, you can streamline this process and find clarity amidst the complexity. Understanding Property Division Property and assets may be divided between you and your partner through various methods: Private agreements (not legally binding) Using solicitors to negotiate ..read more

In the quest for a youthful glow without the downtime or risks associated with surgery, non-surgical face lifts have surged in popularity. You’re probably wondering, what’s the best option out there? There are so many treatments available, from laser therapies to cutting-edge ultrasound technology. Navigating the world of non-invasive rejuvenation can feel overwhelming. Fear not; as we delve into the realm of non-surgical face lifts. We’ll guide you through the top procedures that promise to lift, tighten, and refresh your skin with minimal fuss. Whether you’re looking to address fine lines, s ..read more

Don’t go to your travel agent to book your next trip because you can find the best holiday deals online. I speak from experience. The last time I went to a travel agent, I had to wait in a queue outside the shop so I could book an appointment to come back another time. As a result, I looked online and found some excellent holiday deal sites, which made booking easy and left me with money for my trip. On my first two bookings, I ran the special by a travel agent to check I wasn’t being ripped off and they were unable to compete with the prices. So I knew I had a great deal on my holiday, but wa ..read more

This article about apps to learn meditation was last updated in 2024. If someone mentioned meditation to me a few years ago I would have laughed and spat out my wine. I’m a mum! How on earth could I find time for peace and meditation? No, red wine was a far easier option. That was until I reached rock bottom, partly due to my lack of insight and possibly too much wine. I was at the point when I would try ANYTHING to feel better, and meditation was mentioned to me over and over again by everyone – my GP, my counsellor, my friends. So, I thought, “What harm can it do?” and I gave it a whirl. I a ..read more

What does “wealth” mean to you? What did it mean to you before your separation? And how has that changed since everything else changed? For some, a separation is a fresh start. They can plunge into their new life with a decent share of the asset pool, secure in their financial future. But for many – most, actually – the financial aspect of their new life is an intimidating basket of worries. Forget about building wealth. The first order of business is simply not making any mistakes or getting ripped off. And for yet another group of people, they’re starting all over again. They may not have ha ..read more

Note: This article was initially published in 2015. Given that the challenges for us mums remain the same, we thought it’d be fun to bring this idea into 2024 by updating it for you. ~ Beanstalk Mums Team The school holidays are upon us once more. Is it just me, or are the terms getting shorter? I’m sure the last term only started a few weeks ago. Of course, it’s a relief to have a break from the regimented school routine, but for working mums, especially working single mums, life goes up another gear as we struggle to juggle the inescapable vacation care/work scenario. There is no ..read more

Along with social media’s popularity arose issues that our children encounter every day. Those challenges include depression, bullying, and screen addiction. Poor mental health is one of the largest issues facing our society today, with one in seven young people aged 4-17 experiencing a mental health problem in any given year. (“Children and young people: statistics”)  As a single mother, I understand the importance of nurturing my child’s physical and emotional well-being in every possible way. One powerful tool that has significantly impacted my child’s health and happiness is gratitude ..read more

It is one thing to co-parent with a narcissistic ex. It is another thing to protect your children from his manipulations while trying your best to help them grow up with some semblance of a father. As women who have loved scornful, vindictive men, we certainly have one of the most challenging jobs known to humanity. It can be a roller coaster of a ride, requiring us to balance and calculate almost every move we make around the narcissist and to always, always be the better parent, no matter how unfair or cruel the situation might be. But there IS light. There IS hope. Follow these steps to hel ..read more

Going on holiday or travelling with your kids as a single parent can feel overwhelming. The cost, the logistics, and the practicalities. All too often, single mums put holidaying in the hard basket or make a promise to do it another time. Please don’t do that. Spending quality time with your kids away from home and taking them travelling is hugely important for you and them. Not only is travelling an incredible experience for kids but I have found it to have many other benefits. It opens their mind, boosts development, motivates problem-solving, and encourages empathy with others (particularly ..read more