The month of love....or so they call it was an interesting one, starting with a little chill, therapy, time with the children and a bit of jet setting from LA to Germany. I ended the month of January in Disney Land Paris and stepped into the new month with a cute blonde pixie that you all either love or hated it! Therapy, so how has that been for me? If you happen to be a Patreon member, you would know how much I have been raving about therapy. My last session with my therapist was on the 1st February, and I officially decided that I would hold back on therapy sessions just to see how I ..read more

I always say it is so special to be born in the month of January and be a newborn new year baby literally. There is something so endearing about having a new birthday right at the beginning of the year. I am a target and goal setter and I am also a visionary so creating mood boards,  writing down plans ahead and of course my new life ahead of me following a major life update. The start of the year and having a milestone birthday during this period is such a blessing that I could work towards my progresses month by month, for the rest of the month.  This year as I turned 35 years ol ..read more

Not me finding my logins for my blog 2 minutes to the midnight of the 29th July literally 3 exact years SINCE MY LAST POST! Nothing is by coincidence they say, and 3, is a special number for me not only because I am 33 years old now, but I have always found discoveries with that magical number. Today and only today, after all of these years, I am revisiting this little place online that I had forgotten about. I am working on an important submission, which made me revisit today and I could not find my logins for the entire day, and I was completely blind sighted at the fact that my last post ..read more

Well hellurrr everyone! I kind of thought I should blog a bit more. My last piece on the blog got a little traction and I’m not only gassed about it because it was fully unexpected, but I thought... whett... a bish has a lot too say! So here we are again, Sunday evening. The family and I had a lovely get away to the coast for the weekend, a new week is about to begin and I have some time to share a lil sum sum on to my blog today! I tell you what, although I have so much to share on this subject, I’m kindaaaa shy! So I would try and keep it classy and cute because, I’m not about to spill s ..read more

It's Tuesday. I feel quite accomplished as I have ticked a lot of things off of my to do list. I had a great night sleep, as baby slept throughout the entire night, he is getting so much better with night sleeps. Over the past few weeks, I have been at a full go go GO, with EVERYTHING, and I am currently at a zone where I am revved up for creating content, producing videos, images and more for my faithful followers online. I was awaken at 8.30am by a phone call, positive call, so yup, I wasn't too mad! But believe me sis, 8.30am is actually a lye in for me! Anyway, I have a normal ritual in ..read more

So apparently, there is a difference between Style and Fashion? I kind of agree! Style is certainly a personal taste where as fashion tends to be 'what's trending or in'. I try to do a bit of both but mainly leaning towards 'Style'. As a Plus Sized Influencer, I am constantly on the hunt to find clothing items I like and love to share with my followers... and the truth is, I have no set of rules in particular for most content I put out there. If its nice, I'll cop it, I'll style it and I would make it look good for my taste and preference. Style is what you make it, and we all have our ow ..read more

It can take 6 months for you to learn a new skill that can change your life, 6 months to build a business, 6 months to settle in a new chapter of your life. But for me, it has been 6 months since I gave birth to my beautiful baby boy, an answered prayer and a testimony of my patience... and 6 months since I have updated this blog lol! Sorry about that! Baby Anijaye (AJ) was born 2nd November at 6lbs 3oz, and whilst this blog is late to join the party about his updates, my YouTube channels have kept most of you up to date about his birth and monthly updates. Since his birth, life has changed ..read more

Well, its all OVER! A full 39 weeks of carrying life and birthing our beautiful baby boy. If you have not already, do catch up with my birth vlog here: We all hear of the usual complaints that come from women who are pregnant.. sore back, frequently using the loo, food cravings, but I thought I would put together a list of 10 of my honest pregnancy truths. First of all, can we admire this shoot? I had absolutely no inspiration behind this theme, but the fact that I was feeling a little ugly and felt I had lost all sex appeal and wanted to look and feel sexy again- whilst pregnant. Perhaps du ..read more

 It's priceless moments like this that you can never forget. I am not sure if an event like a baby shower is even important for most people to be OTT about, but for me... I took this baby shower as a celebration for all of my children. Both living and dead. When I was pregnant with Emmanuel over 8 years ago at the age of 21, I planned to have a baby shower of course. My best friend and I wanted to do a blue and white theme, prepare games and all of the works... the same with the twin pregnancy. My sister went as far as preparing and sending out the invitations, it was meant to be a fun y ..read more

2017 has surely been an eventful year, not just for myself but for the entire world. It is so interesting that even with all of the controversies, tragedies and disappointments our world is facing, there is still room in ones life for a blessing. A blessing big or small, size does not even matter, is something that can change your life. It definitely can add to you in a way that you will be transformed. So, I am expecting... Something so special, and this is beautiful as it is Gods timing. My previous pregnancy in 2014 resulted in the fatal and tragic loss of my twin angels, a boy and a gi ..read more