Why You Can’t Fake Confidence With Women Long-Term by Nick Notas Let’s face it – you want to be seen as a more attractive man. You want people to think you’re confident, smart, and funny. You don’t want to come across as insecure, inept, and boring…or even worse, creepy. So you probably spend a lot of time finding ways to show off your attractive qualities to new women. You try to play it cool to not seem overeager when answering text messages. You memorize witty questions that you think women would love to answer. You don’t show too much interest too soon so women will chase you. So why ..read more

9 Ways To Attract Women And Arouse Their Emotions by Nick Notas The opposite of love is not hate. It’s apathy. So the worst outcome you can have on a date is for a woman to feel…nothing. Yet many guys do everything in their power to not rock the boat. They try to never offend a woman, say anything too forward, or show too much of their weird, quirky side.  Many men, in their effort to avoid offense, inadvertently hide their most interesting traits – their quirks, humor, and desires. Basically, they cut off all the best sides of their personality. You do this when you don’t ask any pe ..read more

How To Support Your Partner In Difficult Times by Nick Notas A client’s girlfriend recently had a problem at work. Her co-worker said something in front of other employees that embarrassed her. She didn’t know how to respond in the moment and was left hurt and upset. So she came to her boyfriend, my client, for support. In turn, he came to me because he knew this was a delicate situation. He said, “I don’t want to mess this up, man.” He knew that moments like these are absolutely critical to a relationship. If you support your partner well, you deepen your trust and closeness. If you supp ..read more

5 Sex Tips To Satisfy Her Like Never Before by Nick Notas My dad and I used to go to the movies a lot when I was a kid. Once when I was 12, he took me to see the classic wholesome family film… American Pie.  For those who aren’t familiar with the movie, it’s basically a bunch of nerdy high school seniors that decide to make a pact to lose their virginity before heading off to college.  Great father and son bonding experience, right? In the film, one of the guys seeks out this legendary book called the Sex Bible. It’s this tomb of sex tips that gets passed around the school over ..read more

4 Reasons Your Dates Don’t Turn Intimate by Nick Notas Every guy knows they shouldn’t act like “just friends” with women they’re romantically interested in. They’ve been told to avoid the dreaded friend zone for the last decade. They understand they have to flirt with women to ignite attraction. They get that they can’t just hang out with a girl for months and hope she’ll magically feel chemistry. Yet despite their best efforts…why do so many men still struggle to create intimate connections? Every week, men come to me claiming that they’ve tried everything. Yet somehow, things haven’t pr ..read more

7 Ways Men Waste Their Time In Dating by Nick Notas You know how some entrepreneurs turn their garage startups into empires, while others can’t get past the “idea” phase? The secret sauce is time management. Dating is no different. You can either be the guy who’s refining his approach, cutting through the noise, and scoring meaningful connections. Or, you can be the guy who’s endlessly spinning his wheels on dead-end tactics that keep him lonely. If you’re finding dating to be more draining than fulfilling, it’s a clear sign you’re not spending your energy wisely. But before you say, “Scr ..read more

How To Ask For A Girl’s Number (And Actually Get A Date) by Nick Notas How many times have you let an incredible woman slip away? When you meet someone you like, you have to go for her number if you ever hope to see her again. But even then, I hate to break it to you… That number doesn’t mean much by itself. Yes, it sets up the possibility of a future connection, but plenty of women hand out their info without any intention of actually going on a date. In fact, some won’t even respond when you first text them. So today, I want to teach you how to ask for a girl’s number in a way that genu ..read more

How To Position Yourself When Approaching Women by Nick Notas Today, I want to talk about the best positions…to approach a woman (sorry to your dirty minds). Many guys worry about intimidating women or creeping them out when they introduce themselves. So they keep their distance, start conversations from afar, or display non-committal body language. They make comments completely over their shoulder with their feet pointed away. Guys think this will help women feel more relaxed around them – but it actually does the exact opposite! It makes the interaction WAY more awkward.  When you ..read more

Have you ever wondered why most people don’t reach the success they want? Whether it be in dating, career, finances, etc. …They end up settling, and rationalizing why it’s okay. Very few people truly hit their stride, achieve, and maintain high levels of success in dating and other areas. So, what sets these people apart? They abide by a certain set of “harsh truths”. You see, society sugarcoats things. Most people are soft and can’t handle harsh truths, so they don’t often get talked about. But the real ones know that you must face these harsh truths head on, especially if you want to get th ..read more

Preparing for sex with a new partner can feel like preparing for war. Honestly, there are few moments in life when men feel that same intense feeling of dread. I’ve seen men getting ready for a date with a woman with their hands shaking and ready to puke like they’re about to storm the beaches of Normandy. They even go through the same processes… They psyche themselves up to embrace their courage. They try to strategize the tactics they’ll need to be their most effective in battle. And then they consider an escape plan for when things go wrong. But that will never make you eager to jump in be ..read more