Struggling Couples: Please don’t SETTLE. If you are settling for a loveless marriage, or a sexless marriage, or a high-conflict dynamic etc…you really don’t have to. Most people settle because they just don’t know what’s possible OR they don’t know what else to do ..read more

So you found the right person, and you’re in it for the long haul. What do you do to ENSURE you keep it on the right track? How do you make sure to avoid sabotaging it, or acting out your past onto this relationship? What is a “normal” amount of problems in a healthy marriage? In this talk I interview my coaches Ned Vandiver and Kelly Clawson Vandiver about their own marriage and we identify the KEY elements you must have to achieve and sustain lasting, loving connection for life. You can watch my masterclass here: http://goo.gl/bgrP57 OR book a call here: www.monikahoyt.com/talk ..read more

Do you or your spouse shut down when things get hard? You may think you are doing less harm, or keeping the peace. But in fact you can’t ever get what you want in the marriage using withdrawal, because it destroys emotional connection and kills passion. In this talk today, my coaches Ned and Kelly Vandiver join me to discuss this losing approach. WHAT IS WITHDRAWAL? Together, we take a deep look at how this shows up, in obvious and subtle ways, how it damages your relationship, and what to do instead. If you’ve ever found yourself avoiding conversations, shutting down, or thought ab ..read more