What happens if you’ve been trying to find love for a while, but with no results? Should you “lower your standards” on looks? Should you date guys who are ugly? Well, one of our members in our facebook group decided to lower her standards on superficial things like looks, and she found that the men ended up treating her terribly badly. Here is what she said: There have been a few times where I lowered my standards on superficial things like looks with men who were interested in me. They seemed nice on the surface so I wanted to be open minded, get to know them to see if there was any potential ..read more

“My boyfriend said he wants space. I freaked out. He told me calmly that he needs some space and I didn’t know what to do. I tried to talk him through this, I begged him not to leave me because I’m afraid he will leave me for another woman”. The anxiety of a man needing space. It’s enough to make many women feel her stomach suddenly drop 1,000 miles through the floor. It can make you feel blinded by fear of the worst. Unfortunately and fortunately, this time of worry and stress is so important for the future of your relationship with this man. QUIZ TIME: Is your man serious about commit ..read more

Last updated 15 October, 2023. Becoming more feminine and soft can make you more attractive as a woman. Not only that, it allows you to feel more alive, and become more of who you are deep down inside. Embodied feminine energy is created from the inside out, and for a woman to be more feminine, she must prioritise what goes on within herself internally. In this article, I will first show you how to become more feminine in 4 simple steps. After that, I will answer some frequently asked questions. Want to discover how naturally feminine you are at your core? Find out for yourself with my quick a ..read more

There’s little in life that causes as much emotional and psychological pain as dealing with an envy attack – from an envious person. With the exception of other obviously devastating things, such as losing someone dear to you, being riddled with disease or being homeless, dealing with an envy attack can really hurt and catch you off guard. And if you think that sounds melodramatic, consider the fact that the envious are often the people who you consider to be friends. Or they’re the people who try to get closest to you, pretending to be friends. These are people who suck as much value out of y ..read more

Future faking is a slang term for when someone deliberately manipulates you by overpromising a grand future they cannot deliver on. The manipulator, (often a narcissist), will hook you emotionally and lure you into giving them what they want by faking what (and how much) they can offer you in the future. The term is usually used in dating, but future faking is common in all kinds of relationships. From bosses and employees to athletes and coaches, future fakers are not picky when it comes to which relational context they choose to use this tactic. The thing is, they are not picky about when to ..read more

How do you tell if a man is serious about you versus just playing you? This is one of the most crucial questions any woman can ask herself, because a lot of men can fake it until they get what they’re after…..sex. And then they drop off the radar. Some are more brazen than others. Some men will ghost you whilst others will do the slow fade; pretending to be nice until they can’t keep up the facade anymore. As a woman, you must remember: So many men are highly skilled at faking their desire for serious relationships that many women are still falling for the “act”. And this act is usually called ..read more

How is it possible that you can feel like someone is close to you, yet somehow still really far away? Enter the dreaded mixed signal. Nobody likes receiving them, yet so many of us give them. Navigating mixed signals from a guy is one of the most emotionally draining things you could do. Not only do you have to live in this thick fog of confusion, you also have to consider the possibility that there’s something bad he’s hiding from you. In the context of dating and relationships, mixed signals are when a guy gives you signs that he’s interested in you whilst simultaneously showing a lack of in ..read more

Ah, the slow fade. One of the most unnerving things a guy can do to you in this modern dating age. Perhaps you were dating a guy and everything seemed to be going well – so well you didn’t even notice he had gradually started contacting you less. Or maybe you did noice – but it was easy to just brush it off since he actually was still in contact with you – somewhat. And one day it dawns on you: He just doesn’t seem the same anymore. Something’s different. If you’ve ever been slow faded, you know how bad it feels. But what if you’re not entirely sure whether a guy is slow fading you? After all ..read more

There are several early signs of a controlling man that if you aren’t aware of, you may be vulnerable to. You don’t know what you don’t know, as they say. And there’s a lot you may not know if you haven’t been taught. Or if you haven’t had the experience of being with someone who is controlling. And whilst most guys out there in the dating pool are good, decent men with no desire to reduce the quality of your life, there’s a proportion of men who do have nefarious intent. So the goal of this article is to help you remove any blind spots around the signs of a controlling man, and to recognise t ..read more

When we ask why guys act distant when they like you, we have to know that there are many possible reasons why. However, these reasons fall into the following three categories: Because of their personal issues (attachment style, his fears, his life situation etc) Because of how you’re showing up; and Because they don’t actually like you as much as you think they do Now: There’s another, lesser known but important aspect to this issue of a guy acting distant when he likes you, and that is this: People infer their own meaning upon the word “like”. Which means we’re working with many possible “m ..read more