
ManTalks Podcast
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The ManTalks podcast features conversations between one of the leading mens work facilitators and philosopher, Connor Beaton, and world class guests with expertise in mindset, life purpose, psychology, relational communication, sexual intimacy, business and spirituality.
ManTalks Podcast
1d ago
Talking points: mythology, masculinity, trauma
Myth isn't just old story. It's also a powerful way to frame the workings of the world, the mind, and everything in between. The story of Perseus is just one example of this, with insights on boyhood vs manhood, facing risk, and much more. Dig in.
(00:00:00) - Intro and the first lesson of the Perseus’ story
(00:06:09) - The second lesson
(00:09:36) - Lessons behind Perseus and Medusa
(00:16:09) - How the role of a mother and the initiation into manhood interact
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ManTalks Podcast
2d ago
Talking points: masculinity, culture, gratitude, anger, poetry
I don’t typically get starstruck or awed in interviews, even though I’ve talked to many incredible people. But David? Well, he’s had an immense impact on my life, and so much of my work and way of thinking lives inspired by him. He joined me in Seattle and shared so much wisdom, beauty, and of course, poetry. Dig into this one.
(00:00:00) - What is the “conversational nature of reality”, why the unknown is so uncomfortable, and the fear of “descent”
(00:18:44) - How the need for control kills off meaning and purpose, and how real ..read more
ManTalks Podcast
1w ago
Talking points: psychology, the shadow, attachment theory
Now there's a mouthful of psych words! All jokes aside, a Jungian perspective on attachment theory is a powerful combo. This week, I'm laying out a simple definition for the shadow and anxious attachment, and a straightforward way to begin the work yourself right away. Listen in.
(00:00:00) - A quick primer on anxious attachment and the shadow
(00:05:17) - The first thing you need to figure out, and some common causes of anxious attachment
(00:09:01) - Here’s where you begin exploring
(00:12:40) - What can happen in relationship as you ..read more
ManTalks Podcast
1w ago
Talking points: culture, masculinity
Broad-brushing things doesn't help us progress. Broad-brushing people is even worse. Young men are facing what feels to them a hostile landscape, and it's causing some serious issues. Listen in.
(00:00:00) - The abusive relationship analogy
(00:05:36) - Porn DOES contribute
(00:08:16) - The new narrative
(00:11:03) - Is there a more positive vision for men and masculinity? And a message to guys who are struggling ..read more
ManTalks Podcast
2w ago
Talking points: mindset, attraction, relationships
I was surprised at the sheer volume of basic advice there is out there on being a more attractive man. This week, we're going to go a little beyond "hit the gym" and "smoke less". How do you build your attractiveness from the inside out AND stay authentically you? Listen in.
(00:00:00) - Be untameable—somewhat
(00:09:50) - Develop emotional sovereignty
(00:12:11) - Develop direction and discipline
(00:14:14) - Have some non-negotiables. Please.
(00:17:39) - Be unapologetically you. Note: this requires serious work on figuring out who you actu ..read more
ManTalks Podcast
2w ago
Talking points: masculinity, culture, race
It's always a highlight of my life speaking with Jason. This man and his tireless work shaping comprehensive, authentic men is nothing short of inspiring. Deeply grateful to have sat down with him to dig into the nuances of his new book (out Jan 28!), the manosphere, Black America, and what modern men miss out on. Listen. To. This.
(00:00:00) - How Jason’s environment shaped his perception of manhood, and the challenges of hypermasculinity
(00:11:02) - Jason’s take on the idea that men need to build value because they don’t have any inherently
(00:17 ..read more
ManTalks Podcast
3w ago
Talking points: psychology
You've probably seen this idea floating around social media for a while, and it's a solid framework for healing. But what does it actually mean, how does it work, and is it worthwhile if you're a man? This week, let's talk about what inner child work entails.
(00:00:00) - “What’s hidden in the father is revealed in the son”, and what inner child work actually means
(00:10:10) - The main benefits of this kind of work, and where to start
(00:17:35) - Two useful journaling exercises, and how to “father yourself”
(00:24:23) - Next steps
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ManTalks Podcast
3w ago
Talking points: relationships, infidelity, betrayal
The damage from infidelity in a relationship can be complex, traumatic, and last far longer than you might think. What's more, there aren't a lot of men-specific resources out there. Fortunately Adam is changing that. If you or someone you know has experienced infidelity, strongly encourage you to share this one.
(00:00:00) - Why Adam wrote his book, and the stigmas men experience when they’re cheated on
(00:05:13) - How important is it that all parties see the part they may have played, and what NOT to do
(00:15:35) - What leads a woman to ..read more
ManTalks Podcast
1M ago
Talking points: attachment, relationships
We all have parts of us that are hard to handle. But if you're in a relationship with someone who's got an avoidant attachment style, there's ONE behavior that's tougher than the rest. Here's what it is, and how to handle it.
(00:00:00) - Intro, and “the flip”
(00:03:55) - The real challenge dealing with an avoidant partner
(00:05:52) - So what do you do?
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ManTalks Podcast
1M ago
Talking points: masculinity, culture
Honored to have connected with the Barefoot Dutchman himself this week. In case you hadn't heard, Anton Nootenboom recently finished walking over 3100 miles—barefoot—from LA to NYC to support men's mental health. Yes. Barefoot. We dig into the why, the how, and Anton's core philosophies. Listen in, team.
(00:00:00) - Intro, and what the mental and emotional strain was like
(00:15:39) - Why Anton wanted to raise awareness for men’s mental health
(00:22:04) - What are men struggling with the most these days, and what needs to change
(00:37:48) - The struggle ..read more