In this power-packed episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs dives deep into how to identify and handle your anger triggers. If you've ever found yourself reacting impulsively in a heat of anger or struggling to keep your cool in stressful situations, this episode is for you! What You'll Learn: How to identify your personal anger triggers How to use an anger diary in recognising patterns and initiating change. Techniques for spotting your Early Warning Signs of Anger The power of Cognitive Reframing in altering your emotional reactions and promoting mental well-being. The imp ..read more

Can anger be expressed in a healthy way? In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs explores this question and shares the distinction between healthy and unhealthy expressions of anger. Drawing from over 30 years of experience teaching more than 15,000 men and women how to control their anger, Alastair acknowledges argues that while anger often leads to negative outcomes, it can serve positive purposes when expressed constructively. In this episode you will learn what constitutes healthy anger and the differences between healthy and unhealthy anger. Alastair also provides ..read more

Do you want to create a happy, healthy and passionate long-term relationship? In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs explores the significance of primary loving relationships for happiness and success in life. Alastair introduces his upcoming relationship coaching program, "Reignite My Relationship", which aims to help couples foster happier, more loving, and passionate relationships through effective communication, developing intimacy, shared goals and much more. The core of the episode delves into a lesson from the program, highlighting friendship as the paramount f ..read more

Have you and your partner separated due to anger issues? If so, this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast is for you. In this episode, host Alastair Duhs explores the challenge of rebuilding a relationship after separation caused by anger issues. While this is difficult, it can be done! In this episode, Alastair outlines a five-step process for individuals looking to reconcile and rebuild their relationships. These steps include dealing with one's anger issues, accepting responsibility for the impact of one's anger, reestablishing contact when appropriate, showing evidence of change and workin ..read more

Do you struggle to control your anger with your partner? If so, you are not alone. But it is vital that you learn to control your anger as soon as possible. In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs revisits strategies to master your anger in relationships. Anger is a natural human emotion and it's normal to feel angry from time to time. However, if your anger becomes too intense in your relationship, it will cause significant damage. And even worse, it can very easily result in the end of your relationship. Recognising the potential damage of uncontrolled anger to relat ..read more

In this episode, host Alastair Duhs provides advice on how to avoid escalating conflicts in relationships. Drawing on the work of relationship expert Dr. John Gottman, Alastair discusses the concept of relationship repair, or the ability to deescalate conflicts and resolve them harmlessly. You will learn how to recognise signs of escalating conflict, the importance of valuing the relationship over the conflict, and how to make repair attempts to deescalate conflict. Alastair offers practical examples of relationship repair attempts and emphasises the significance of accepting and acknowledging ..read more

In this episode of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs discusses the importance of not sweating the small stuff in life. Alastair describes how small issues often escalate into larger conflicts, and why this is. This episode will teach you to take a step back before responding to situations, question the long-term significance of any issue you are facing and practice gratitude. Alastair also shares his personal perspective on the value of focusing on the important aspects, and why he does not sweat the small stuff! Finally, Alastair shares how not sweating the small stuff and anger m ..read more

In this episode, host Alastair Duhs discusses four behaviors that quietly kill any relationship. You will learn what these behaviors are, real-life examples of these behaviors and the "antidotes" (or opposites) to these behaviors. If you want to create a calmer, happier and more loving relationship, this episode is for you. Alastair discusses the importance of managing anger in maintaining a happy, healthy and loving relationship. He also introduces his powerful online anger management coaching program called The Complete Anger Management System. For more information on this powerful program v ..read more

In episode 69 of the Anger Secrets podcast, host Alastair Duhs discusses the power of active listening to transform relationships. This episode will teach you: what active listening is why it is so important, and what the four key skills of active listening are. You will also discover how active listening can help you create calmer, healthier and more loving relationships. For further resources (and a FREE training) on how to control your anger visit: https://angersecrets.com/ Remember too that struggle with anger is a common issue, but one you need to address rather than hide. Time Stamps ..read more

In this episode of the Anger Secrets Podcast, host Alastair Duhs addresses an important question to ask while seeking to control your anger: ' Why do you want to control your anger? Alastair describes why knowing your motivation for change is crucial to successfully controlling your anger. Various responses to this question from clients, often complex and deeply personal, are shared, demonstrating the different reasons people seek to control their anger. Key motivations include everything from bettering relationships, setting positive examples, breaking the cycle of anger or abusive behaviors ..read more