Financial First Steps: Navigating the Finances & Expenses Immediately After Separation 20 November 2023 Back to main blog Navigating a separation is never easy, but the path becomes clearer and less daunting when you’re equipped with the right knowledge and support. A major concern that arises immediately after separation is managing finances, which if left unattended, can spiral and add more emotional distress to an already fragile situation. Today, we’ll guide you through the initial steps to safeguard your financial wellbeing post-separation, ensuring that you can rebuild and em ..read more

Paren The festive season is upon us, with the Chrissie decoration adorning the shopping centre and carols heralding the arrival of summer school holidays and Christmas. For parents navigating the post-separation world, this time can bring unique challenges along with the tinsel and lights. As a family law firm deeply invested in the wellbeing of you and your family as you move into your next chapter, we’re here to guide you through making this season one of summer fun, joy and new traditions.  Today’s blog is going to share with you our 5 tips to planning for the upcoming summer holida ..read more

SEPARATION JOURNEY How to get a financial and property settlement after separating from your spouse? October 30, 2023 Back to main blog Separation and divorce can be one of life’s most challenging transitions, a complex dance of emotional, legal, and financial threads that need untangling. While this period often brings uncertainty, navigating it doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. At the heart of every separation is the opportunity and freedom to design your next chapter. A significant step to plan how you move forward from your separation and divorce is understanding your avenues f ..read more

Starting Over After Separation: How to Embrace it? July 19, 2023 Back to main blog Life is an ever-changing journey, and sometimes it leads us to unexpected turns, including the challenging road of separation or divorce. If you find yourself at this crossroads, know that you are not alone. The end of a relationship is one of the most challenging things you can go through. You are thrust into a situation where every plan you had for the life you had and your future plans are thrown up in the air. So many people feel like they are supposed to “just get over it and move on”. But you know ..read more

CHILD SUPPORT The Benefits of a Parenting Plan vs. Parenting Consent Orders June 20, 2023 Back to main blog Separation can be an emotionally challenging time, especially when children are involved. As parents, we want to limit the impact of separation on our children as much as possible and we want to find ways to support their wellbeing and provide a stable and nurturing environment through this transition. This a tricky balance as there is a lot of uncertainty, a lot of big feelings (for everyone involved) and you’re also finding your way forward. That’s where a clear parenting fr ..read more

SELF CARE Rediscovering Yourself: A Guide to Setting New Goals and Thriving After Separation May 25, 2023 Back to main blog Going through a separation or divorce is one of the most significant life events you can encounter. It can be a period of uncertainty and confusion, where everything you once knew has been uprooted, and you’re left to navigate a new world on your own. It shakes you and the life plan you were working to completely off course. For some, the separation is a welcome relief from a place that feels uncomfortable, un-nourished and unfulfilled. For others, the separati ..read more

SEPARATION JOURNEY 5 Communication Tips for Effective Co-Parenting After Separation May 19, 2023 Back to main blog Going through separation and divorce is such a challenging time for parents. There are so many big changes to navigate, not to mention learning how to co-parent with your Ex. All of this while feeling uncertain about the future can be a lot to process. We understand that co-parenting can be difficult, especially when communication with your Ex may be strained or non-existent. But as challenging as it may be, you will have to find your way to working with your Ex to pare ..read more

PROPERTY How can mediation get you a quicker and less stressful resolution? May 5, 2023 Back to main blog Going through a separation can be an incredibly difficult and emotional time. There are many issues to sort through, including dividing assets, figuring out parenting arrangements for your kids, and deciding on child support. It’s natural to feel overwhelmed and unsure of where to turn for help. However, there is a powerful tool available to you that can help you navigate these issues in a constructive and mutually beneficial way: mediation. Mediation is a process that allows yo ..read more

SEPARTION JOURNEY, COMMUNICATION, SELF-CARE How to Tell Your Spouse You Want to Separate: 10 Tips for a Respectful Conversation April 14, 2023 Back to main blog Telling your spouse that you want a separation or divorce is never easy. It is one of the most challenging and painful conversations you may ever have, even if you both know that the relationship is at its end. How you navigate this conversation, and the early days of your separation can set the tone for the legal process that follows and how you and your spouse can co-parent as you move forward. Here are some tips to help y ..read more

Rebuild Your Life with Clarity and Direction: How to start the conversation about a property and financial settlement? April 6, 2023 Back to main blog When you’re faced with the prospect of divorce, the thought of working with a lawyer and discussing how to deal with the finances can seem daunting. But at Bespoke Family Lawyers, our divorce strategic planning session is focused on being an opportunity for you to be educated and informed about the legal process, understand your options and be in a position to map out a strategic plan to rebuild your life. By having a clear vision of you ..read more