Many of my older singles see the arrival of Easter as a time to come out of hibernation, dust themselves down, and think about making a conscious effort to make the first steps, or in some cases, if they have been dating unsuccessfully, better steps in looking for a companion. Personally, I love Easter because it means we see the weather changing to the lovely spring mornings and a stretch in the evenings. Mainly, the misery of the long, cold winter days after the festivities of Christmas are behind us, and it feels like there is so much more to look forward to. Also, Easter is the busiest tim ..read more

Here are three essential tips to up your dating game. If you take the time to really think about the tips individually - put them into practice then you will start to see that you are attracting the right people and giving yourself a better chance of getting to date 2 and event date number 3............. Click on this link to see my video: https://youtu.be/KyQCNt7H9Do www.select-connections.com ..read more

In the digital age, finding love online has become a leading light of hope for singles of all ages. However, a concerning trend has emerged, particularly affecting older singles. Out today, 2023 statistics have shed light on an alarming reality: individuals aged 55 to 64 in the UK are increasingly falling prey to online romance scams, with losses averaging £7,000 per victim. As a dating mentor dedicated to guiding singles in their 50s, 60s, and 70s, I feel compelled to address this issue, offering insights and practical advice to navigate the online dating world safely and positively. Un ..read more

Time & Location 28 Jan 2024, 19:00 – 20:00 zoom About the event Tired of the same old dating routines and ready for a real change?  Join me, Jacqui Baker, the UK's Leading Dating Specialist for Singles Over 50, and transform your approach to dating and new relationships later in life.  With years of experience as a matchmaker and dating mentor, I've navigated every mature dating dilemma imaginable. My Approach: Expect a no-nonsense, results-driven session.  Before you sign up, let's be clear: if you're not ready for my straightforward guidance on dating, this might not be fo ..read more

Here we are again - another New Year is upon us and many of us find ourselves reflecting on the past and dreaming of the future. If you're reading this blog and you're single in your 50s, 60s, or 70s, it's natural to experience a mix of emotions—nostalgia, hope, and maybe even a touch of loneliness. However, it's important to remember that every new year brings a fresh start, and 2024 could be the year you find love and companionship. I understand that this advice may sound clichéd and that you may have heard it all before. However, I assure you that if you follow my guidance, your mindset to ..read more

As we look ahead to 2024, I want to extend a heartfelt message to each of you who are navigating the journey of single life, particularly those of you in your 50s, 60s, and beyond. I understand that this path can sometimes feel lonely or daunting, but I am here to reassure you that it's also filled with incredible opportunities for growth, fun, and yes, even new companion. While we approach another year-end, it's hard not to notice how time seems to speed up as we get older. I've certainly felt this acceleration since reaching my late 50s, and as I look ahead to 2024 when I'll be celebrating ..read more

Well, here we are, 3rd December 2023 – HOW ON EARTH DID WE GET HERE AND WHERE DID THE TIME GO?? I think as I get older the years go quicker. Does anyone else feel the same? Many of you reading this blog will be in your 50s, early & late 60s – 70s and beyond, thinking I am a young person in an old person’s body. We now realise that we should have been more interested in older people when we were younger. Anyway, I have gone off track…….my speciality is not staying on topic! ‍♀️ Loneliness during the Christmas Season is a silent struggle that many older individuals face, impacting their well ..read more

Last year I wrote a blog about my journey to where I am today. I didn't write it because I felt like it, but because many of you on my network kept asking me and I felt it only fair to divulge details of where I am, how I got here, and why I do what I do. For those of you who may have still been part of a couple at that time or were not ready to move forward for various reasons, I've taken a moment to revisit and update my journey. This reflection aims to offer insight into the motivations behind my choices and the passion that drives me to do what I do. Whether you're currently navigating the ..read more

We find ourselves in mid-November 2023, it's astonishing how quickly time has passed. We're circling back to another season of obligatory festive cheer. Once the John Lewis Christmas advert hits, we're plunged into a six-week barrage of Christmas-themed ads, store playlists filled with seasonal tunes, sweets and presents everywhere, and much more. For some, this time is joyous, but for others, it's not so great. Perhaps in previous years, you celebrated with children, family, or a partner, basking in the warmth that the season brings. But circumstances change, and some now face the prospect o ..read more

What an incredible adventure we had yesterday! Mother nature looked kindly on us and gave us a rain-free afternoon. ☀️ I'm thrilled to share the highlights of an unforgettable afternoon. We kicked off our Exclusive Mature Singles Outdoor Scavenger Hunt with a Twist by forming teams over coffee, tea, and pastries. Fuelled up and ready to go - it was time to hit the streets of London! The journey began at the historic Shoe Lane - just off Fleet Street, with three teams setting off at 5-minute intervals to avoid any clashes along the way. The afternoon was brimming with intriguing and challenging ..read more