My Best Self 101 Blog
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This website is dedicated to the science and personal application of the "greatest hits" of positive psychology and mindfulness practices. You'll learn how to apply research-based principles to enhance the strengths and virtues that promote human thriving and nurture your love for life. It's the integration of timeless wisdom and modern empirical inquiry; the best of the East..
My Best Self 101 Blog
1w ago
All over the world, there are opportunities to engage with others closely through work opportunities, volunteer efforts, friendships, relationships, and schooling. Imagine finding yourself living your day-to-day life with someone you know, but don’t know well. For many, this occurs when roommates are assigned, missionaries go out “two by two,” or a new neighbor moves in next door and starts hosting block parties. But what emerges from these events? Do friendships form? What is it that causes friendships to form between two strangers?   ..read more
My Best Self 101 Blog
3M ago
By Jordan Evans
Change is not a threat, it’s an opportunity. Survival is not the goal, transformation is
— Seth Godin
Being a freshman in college opens up many new opportunities and experiences. You are finally on your own, and now are considered a full fledged member of the adult world, even if you don't feel like one. However, in many cases this transition into independence can seem more like a monstrous moth hatching when instead you were hoping for a beautiful butterfly. Research has shown that, “6% and 12% of transition-age youth, defined as young adults ages 16-25, struggle ..read more
My Best Self 101 Blog
3M ago
By Leini Jenkins
The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper.
— W.B. Yeats
Is there a time that made you stop and take in what was happening due to feeling a sense of vastness, wonder, or a loss for words? I had one of those moments when I was seven years old. The Winter Olympics were happening, and my family was very invested in watching the various events. One evening, we watched the women’s figure skating event. Michelle Kwan, one of the top figure skaters for the U.S., was getting ready to do her skating routine. I remember that once she started, I ..read more
My Best Self 101 Blog
3M ago
By Jaymison Johnson
Forgive others, not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace.
— Jonathan Huie
What is Forgiveness?
Most people around the world are raised on the notion that they should always forgive others. However, what does this truly mean? As a child I felt like I generally understood the concept of forgiveness. I would “not hold grudges” or “stay upset for too long” when it seemed like someone upset me, but I feel like I never had a severe experience of when I felt like it was difficult to forgive someone who I felt really wronged me until a coupl ..read more
My Best Self 101 Blog
4M ago
By Rebekah Wittwer Schnepf
and that visibility which makes us most vulnerable is that which also is the source of our greatest strength.
— Audre Lorde
I’ll get real with you. I’m not who I wish everyone thought I was. Confident, strong, unfazed by life’s difficulties, and courageous even, in spite of challenges! Positive in droves to the point where if I could wear the color yellow without it drowning out my light skin, I could sell it to painters and animation studios! And last but not least, cheerful and optimistic despite my life’s circumstances, always grateful and service with a s ..read more
My Best Self 101 Blog
4M ago
By Andrew Smith
Courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway.
— John Wayne
The word courage is often associated with heroes. Knights in shining armor, men strong enough to break down walls, or daring first responders are just a few of the many examples that would come to my mind when I was young. To me though, no one was braver than a cowboy. I often dreamed of saddling up and racing through open plains, running down stampedes, and chasing outlaws. When I got into my teenage years, I had the opportunity to work as a cowboy where I saw firsthand how terrifying a stampede can ..read more
My Best Self 101 Blog
5M ago
By Bella Brinkerhoff
Breath is the bridge which connects life to consciousness, which unites your body to your thoughts. Whenever your mind becomes scattered, use your breath as the means to take hold of your mind again.
— Nhat Hanh
Life can be tough, and at times, it can feel like too much to handle without healthy coping strategies. One of my personal go-to methods is simply pausing to take a breath. A deep, slow inhale and a long, heavy exhale always helps me take a step back and reconnect with my body. Breathing is invaluable for improving our well-being, especially when combined with pr ..read more
My Best Self 101 Blog
5M ago
By Mikaela Ahlstrom
There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship
— Thomas Aquinas
On a busy Friday morning at the L'Enfant Plaza in Washinton D.C., a young man dressed in a T-shirt and jeans took out a violin and began to play. For the next 45 minutes, the sounds of Bach, Schubert, Ponce, and Massenet could be heard echoing between the halls of the building. Out of the more than one thousand people who passed by, twenty-seven dropped a few dollars into his violin case, and only seven paused to listen to the music.
Unbeknownst to the crowd, that man ..read more
My Best Self 101 Blog
5M ago
By Bella Smith
Yoga is not just repetation of few postures - it is more about the exploration and discovery of the subtle energies of life.
— Amit Ray
Recently in my yoga class, I've noticed numerous conceptual similarities between the practice of yoga and mindfulness meditation. As the teacher guides us through the session, it resembles the structured mindfulness meditations that I’ve grown to love. At the start of each class, she prompts us to introspect and decide on a focus for the day. Throughout the session, she directs our attention to our breath, synchronizing our inhales and e ..read more
My Best Self 101 Blog
6M ago
By Will MacDonald
Tough times never last, but tough people do
— Robert H. Schuller
As with most college students, I have kept myself very busy throughout my whole college career. After all four years… I. AM. TIRED! It is harder than before to focus on my future goals, much less school work. I find myself overly stressed and easily tired out after finishing just a couple of assignments. It is difficult to relax with all the work on my mind and yet I can’t stop procrastinating. I get so easily sucked into my phone and other distractions that it’s a struggle to even start my work. Some may call ..read more